Was I in the wrong to eat take out in front of my bonus kids?

I personally wouldn’t eat take out in front of anyone, adults or children, without offering them some as well🤷‍♀️ it’s just how I was raised. Even when I was pregnant I was that way. If they didn’t want it then I’d cook them something else. But I’d offer first

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You literally said there wasn’t enough for you, or I’m sure you would have eaten that as well. He’s being a bit dramatic.

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Kinda weird…it’s not like they didn’t have Anything to eat.

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All you need to do is make sure they are fed and taken care of and that’s what you did. It’s not like you made them top ramen, you made them a nice home cooked meal. When they’re adults, they can have that luxury or choosing eating at home or take out. There’s no reason for him to be that livid over something so stupidly small. Tell him to get off of his period and if he doesn’t like it, he can make them their meals or order them take out. I personally would be so pleased and thankful to come home and find out that you made my kids such a wonderful meal.

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Should of waited until they went to bed :rofl:

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They were fed with a good meal. I wouldn’t want to stand all over again to make another meal for urself either. U did nothing wrong.

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The only time I would eat take out is if they had take out to. It doesn’t matter from where they got it, at least they got food and what they wanted like I did.

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I mean. Personally I would have gotten them a sweet treat from there if they promised to eat really good. Or a some fries or something. Idk that’s just me because I would feel bad. But honestly you are pregnant and I don’t really see anything wrong with it.

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It’s rude to do that in front of them

You made sure they were fed before yourself. You selflessly put them before you, even though you’re pregnant. You still have to eat. He’s being unreasonable because you still have to eat.

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Well if my kids have already ate or hubby wants something diff than what was for supper occasionally I always buy the kids a milkshake or something just seems fair. I’m not bashing you I understand. I think he was more upset that the kids didn’t get “something”

Personally I wouldn’t eat take out in front of any child In my care without getting them any

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You’re pregnant. You made dinner for his kids and you had to eat too. I mean if you had money coming out of your ears then sure but he’s being dramatic.

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I do this with my own kids. If there isn’t enough food for me, I’ll find something else to eat or order something. They don’t get upset and neither does my husband. They ate good food so it shouldn’t be a big deal.

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They ate
You aren’t wrong

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I would rather my children eat a homemade meal over take out… he needs to relax. You paid for your food. Unless he was the one to leave money and said get them something to eat then sure. But I’d be telling him then next time you feed them and I’ll take care of myself… he should be thankful you’re helping in taking care of them and feeding them

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Yes you should have bought something for everyone

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nope you werent in the wrong one little bit i would do the same ole thing…

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You fed the kids and ate what you wanted. You’re an adult. You can eat what you want to eat. Plus you’re pregnant. You aren’t wrong.

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Takeout is probably something children would prefer to home cooking! Yes you were wrong, if you didnt have enough then Everyone should have had takeout.

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What are Bonus kids?

Not wrong at all I do this on occasion my kids are good with whatever and especially being pregnant you deserve to have what you are craving. I’m sure there have been times when they got special treats too. I think it’s safe to assume hes jealous because you didn’t get him anything

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You should have gotten for everyone…

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You fed them they ate then no you shouldn’t feel bad for feeding you and your baby. Pregnancy cravings are the real deal and they drive you crazy if you don’t fulfill them

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You fed them before you ate… He has no reason to be mad.

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There wasn’t enough there for you to eat… You did absolutely nothing wrong :heart:

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Not at all, shit I do that to my kids when I don’t wanna pay a grip of money lol.

You fed the kids. What’s his deal?!
Because you’re eating food from out the house and they’re not?
You’re pregnant!
Plus there’s no parenting rule that says they have to eat what you did.

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Well he didn’t know the whole story or what???

No, but did you ask if they wanted something? If not then i say yoyr wrong because they might have wanted something kids love take out.

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Girl your husband needs a reality check! Not only did you cook restaurant grade food for his kids, you also waited to feed yourself! You are a grown woman, pregnant at that, and you my dear can eat whatever you like!!

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Would you like the same thing done to you?

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Wow u people saying she was wrong are just wrong in the head wow

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I wouldn’t have done that- just rude IMO but to each their own. :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Gotten something for everyone or nothing at all. Yes hell yes you are wrong.

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Erika Stump Giuliani my daughter hates pasta with any sauce. So yes this would have been a horrible meal for her. No way would I order food for myself then make them food and think that perfectly fine. No it’s not or the food I cooked would have been great for all of us. Order take out for all or none.

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I don’t agree. Personally it feels like a slight to me no matter how you roll it. You fed them something different then you ate. Fast food is usually considered “high value” to kids. So it’s possible in their eyes, you fed them something “low value” (healthy food that’s not as appealing), and fed yourself “higher value.” And it sounds like your partner feels the same way.

I understand your situation, but we all would have eaten together and if still hungry then we would have gotten something off of the value menu.

Nope lol, cause dammit I do the same in front of my own kids . Does he want you to eat a normal meal then still buy you the take out anyways because of course you have to satisfy the Cravings hahaha

You’re not wrong. Your pregnant and for nine months you can do and eat whatever you want.

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You fed them, and there wasn’t enough for you, not to mention being pregnant. My husband used to bring me home Subway when I was pregnant because that’s what I was craving. I still cooked dinner for everyone else, but I often couldn’t stomach what they wanted to eat. He should be more understanding. You’re not the asshole here.

Nope you feed them and feed them good

If you can’t afford for everybody then you don’t buy you don’t eat stuff in front of children and not offer to them your manners are horrible I have never heard of an adult doing such a thing no wonder your husband was mad he had every right to be what you did was horrible and you should be ashamed of yourself you acted like a small child instead of the adult I hate to see how your child’s going to turn out being treated and watching how rude you are to other people’s children wow

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Mehhhhhhhhhh as long as all the kids got what you cooked and only you & baby ate take out that’s OK. You made sure the kids ate 1st. That’s your job. You did your part. Don’t sweat it.

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No you’re not in the wrong. If you gave them cereal and ordered food- then maybe lol

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I don’t see the issue. They were fed first and therefore didn’t need the added food. What was she supposed to do? Starve? Besides ordering delivery for a bunch of kids gets expensive esp when unnecessary :woman_shrugging:

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No you’re not wrong. He made a big deal out of nothing. It’s not like children went without . You made sure they were fed FIRST & then you ate. you deserve to eat too. All these folks saying you’re wrong are delusional

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What did you order ?? Chicken or pizza ?? Doesn’t set right with me either…

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Yes tf Sophia Poulos

I don’t see a problem with that. They are well then you can have what you want. I’m sure he would have had more of an issue if you’d done it the other way around.

Soooo he would rather his kids eat fast food🤣 What a damn joke. Glad my mom and dad taught me I don’t always get to eat drink or do as others do, especially them because they earned that right being adults and all… That’s what’s wrong with the world now so many ENTITLED lil spoiled BRATS get told no go shoot their parents or shoot up schools etc most of you should be ashamed of your parenting or should I say the lack there of!