No I think ur friend is selfish girl I breast feed my youngest she’s 2 to 4 months and she was on formula for about two months and then cows milk maybe water down some cows milk if ur child can handle it may help or even goats milks
If you still had 11 cans I would’ve said giving one can in my opinion would be a good thing to do but when you’re down to the last three cans and the shortage still nowhere near ending it gives you time to be able to find some I wouldn’t have stressed over that so I would say no you’re not wrong and keeping it
That is not a friend!
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Sad that anyone has to search for formula in the first place. 
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You are not wrong, she is. And as far as you know she’ll make money off of it and your baby will do without.
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wow your milk expensive ,but no you are nor in the wrong at all,and to not pay for it as well geeez ,hope the shortage is soon sorted it must be awful having to worry about that xx
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You’re not wrong and she is NOT YOUR FRIEND.
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No offense but yur friend is wrong. You should give your child’s milk away to here friend??? She can’t be serious. If it was her child, then maybe. But when your down, her or your friend wouldn’t be the one helping you. Think about that
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Your first priority is to your children…not someone friends
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I don’t care if you had 30 cans, they’re YOURS. She can go figure it out like you had to with your resources. I hope you didn’t give her a thing or even allow her to pay. Your “friend” is trash
She is not a friend!! Your son comes first. I can see if you had over 20, 30 cans of it. Drop her as a so called friend. She can go to her own family and ask for help. Your kids come first
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No your not wrong. You a responsible for your baby, everyone with a baby should be looking for alternative formula.
You will too.
Back in the 60’s and 70’s all we had was canned milk, if you were not breast feeding.
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She is NOT your friend. I have twins. There’s no way I’d hand over their food to anyone ever.
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Your so-called friend is way out of line
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Mama you need new friends 
you were absolutely not in the wrong
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Your baby comes first. I understand other moms are hurting but you can’t risk your baby starving too.
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I’m in Canada so I have no idea the struggle you ladies are going through. But if I was you I would’ve said no and told her to get the fuck out of my house. I would be just as anxious if not more if I was in the situation you were in. You need to feed your baby just as much as she does. Everyone is struggling. Just because you have 3 left doesn’t mean that you child would go through less formula. Formula is gone really fast. Babies drink a lot. Tell her to go on the baby formula of her brand website and they might be able order a couple off the website. Hopefully you guys have relief of this anxiety soon. Manifesting that it gets resolved
That’s not a friend. You were not wrong at all.
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She is a terrible friend
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You should’ve told her to get tf out of your house when she started acting awful
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Your not wrong and she’s not much of a friend either
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You are grown you know the answer yo this without asking. Why do grown ass people ask questions like this?
Your so called friend is the one being selfish.
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You are right!!! She is NOT your friend. She should have never put you in that position in the first place!!! Don’t feel bad. You did nothing wrong!!! Let your so called friend go and move on!!!
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No she’s wrong you do not need to talk to her again
Wouldn’t be my friend anymore.
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Your baby comes first.
Not wrong!! During the pandemic do you think I would have shared my toilet paper? Maybe a roll but you can wipe your butt with anything!! You did good.
You are not selfish. Not at all
That’s not a friend at all , that’s terrible
Wow, what an awful friend. I’d be ending that relationship.
She’s not your friend
Your first priority is your son. Screw that so called friend.
Your friend should be the one going out and getting the formula since she’s so concerned for her other friend! Nothings free in this world!
I wouldn’t have given her a thing and escorted her out of my home for speaking to me in such a manner.
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Fuck no. Shes a Friggen nuts to even ask you at all. You should tell her to leave your home and never return. Uggh I would have smacked her upside the head. Knock some sense into that stupud lady
You are not wrong. She should have been grateful that you would sell her one. $45.00 wow
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Wtf lol her friends daughters baby 
lol I know a guy, who knows a guy, who’s baby knows a guy lmao 
hellll no I woulda laughed in her face
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What “friend”!!! You do you!! I would of lost my shit!
no, you’re not selfish at all. for her friends daughters baby? and you have it for your son? Shame on her for making you feel like that.
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Absolutely not. Especially expecting it free! Not much of a friend to treat you like that.
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Your friend was not being a good friend to you at all, you and your family went out and found for yours, there is formula out there, you just have to constantly be on the hunt…she asked you to give not only your time but your money too and most are struggling these days 
Your baby comes first! She isn’t a true friend then.
What if that formula was gifted to you, because you were close to having none, and that’s all you had? It’s not your responsibility to supply other children food, when you’re trying to feed your own. And for your “friend” to give you hell about it? They’re not your friend. Wtf was she doing in your pantry, inspecting your groceries anyway? Drop her like a bad habit.
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That’s not a friend. You did the right thing.
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Smh u mean ex friend…
She was wrong for asking, why was she in your pantry?
Wow! Some friend!! You’re not wrong at all unless you keep this person as a friend.
It was wrong of your “friend” to put you in that position to begin with… And you gotta do what you have to to take care of you and yours so don’t let anyone make you feel bad about saying no…
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And u don’t no this other person…she is just a friend of a friend… u have nothing to feel guilty about my dear…u need food for ur baby…she is no friend of yours to treat u this way…don’t feel bad…u did nothing wrong xoxo
A “friend” yelling at me in my house demanding free crap? How’s she feel so bold? Don’t talk to that person anymore. Idk how it got to the point that someone is doing all that under your roof, but that’s unstable behavior and I wouldn’t be partaking in that sort of drama. Like you said, you have to think about your kids. Stay away from that person.
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No sweetheart- your job is to provide for your child. Anyone doesn’t understand it’s their problem
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Wow I feel like your friend had a lot of nerve asking you that. Taking food literally out of your baby’s mouth to give to a friend of a friend?? Oh hell no. Your baby comes first and you should not apologize for that. I wouldn’t have even offered to sell them to her.
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That is NOT a friend!! You are NOT wrong, you did the right thing!
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Nope, cut that friend out
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Your “friend” was out of line. I’d walk away from that b word and not look back!
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ou are not selfish or wrong in any way. It is YOUR responsibility to feed YOUR child, as it is her friends daughters responsibility to feed HER child. She is not your friend. If she was, she would understand that you need that for your baby. I know formula shortages are a thing right now, but that doesn’t not excuse her shitty attitude coming at you because you won’t give her something for a baby you aren’t even responsible for.
Cut all ties with your so called friend.
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F that b*!! Not a friend
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“Friend”
Are you sure there was another baby it did she want it so she could sell if for increased profit herself 
First of all she shouldn’t have been snooping. Second of all you have to take care of your baby first. I wouldn’t speak to her again. You’re better off. I promise
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That’s your friends, friends problem, not yours. Honestly, that’s not even a real friend if that’s how she’s going to talk to you knowing you’re running low yourself
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No you’re not wrong or selfish
Get new friends ur not in the wrong at all x
Bitch? Ok time to cut off contact…She isnt your friend
Bro your kid comes first.
No you’re not wrong for that!
She is not your friend. At all.
you are NOT wrong, And that so called friend, is not a friend
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Evrr think she might want to sell it?
The baby’s mom needs to figure out a way to get a can of formula to feed her baby. That’s not your responsibility. Your child is. And your home girl needs to be slapped for the way she talked to you. And why’s she diggin all up in your pantry , she doesn’t live there. Girllllll…… miss me with the bullshit. U need to disconnect from that friendship, friends should never put you in that sorta situation knowing you are too struggling. You deserve better friends mama!!! 
Her wanting it for free is selfish. You don’t even know the person who supposedly has the baby… for all you know she could be trying to get it to sell and price gouge!
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You are not in the wrong at all.
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you’re not wrong. she’s fucking awful. byeeeeee
That friend can go. And I hate to be like this but my kids come first. Always. Don’t feel bad . She should feel like an idiot for even asking knowing what’s going on, and then wanting it for free? She must have good drugs. Don’t feel bad, but be happy you got one less useless friend on your hands.
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I’d of said, “No, you can’t have it since YOU want to bitch!”
Her Friend daughter baby ? It would be different if it was her baby or if you even knew the person but you don’t .I think her request was selfish and refusing to pay is even more selfish .time to put that friendship on the back burner for a while… besides you always have to put your baby first and make sure he has enough
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No!! This shortage is very scary and awful but it’s not your job to supply formula to anyone else. It was rude of her to ask frankly. I am more than happy to help friends find formula, etc. but nobody would expect me to just hand over my stash if we still were using it.
That ain’t no friend! Those cans are for your baby! 
It wasn’t for her baby so dont feel bad and free is not an option. Dont feel bad.
no u have a baby! and she don’t sound like real friend
You need new friends.
Your friend is the terrible person! Shaming you for providing for your baby? Then expecting you to give it away for free? Get rid of those types of friends!
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You said your friend. That’s no friend. A real friend would help you find and fill your pantry with whatever formula you need. Shm, shame on her.
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You are absolutely right to not give her it. You need it for your baby and her attitude stinks,I think you should find new friends,terrible to bitch at you in your own house:heart:
No you are fine. She is the one with the problem.
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Why do you have people like that coming around your house? You are not wrong for holding on to something that provides for your family.
Why isn’t she just as concerned for your baby? She’s so wrong.
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I’d drop that “friend”
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First of all why was she in your cabinets
She NOT your friend tell her to beg off someone else n why was she in your pantry
It’s not your responsibility to feed her friends baby…
SHE is the selfish one. It’s not even for her child but her friends child? I’m guessing you are not friends or associated with her “friend” that needs the formula. I’d cut her off as she does not seem like a good friend at all
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That’s def not a friend and not even for her own child!
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drop her as a friend. she’s not a friend.
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I would’ve slapped the attitude out her mouth for calling me a bitch for putting my child’s ability to eat before a random stranger simply because she says I should. That is not a friend. That is an associate. She cares more about her other friend having food to feed their child than you being able to feed yours. Kick her out of your life and move one. You don’t need someone so nasty in your life.
You are doing right by your child.
My mama you were not wrong . You’re friend should not longer be your friend nor be allowed near you or your house.
Three cans is not a lot and there was no reason for that at all. You aren’t hoarding it and with shortages you never know when you can get more. I’ve been searching for my friends and I can’t find anything and it’s upsetting, I can’t imagine how they feel. I’m praying I can breastfeed when my baby comes next month or I’m not sure what to do
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That is not a friend
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No Way!!! You have to protect yours. She’s a witch who needs grow up. I bet she doesn’t have kids. I also have a 6 month old and the struggle to find formula is real and scary.