No, you are not wrong. No friend there.
Wtf no. Especially the entitlement of what is in your pantry.
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Your friend is in the wrong, not you
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You’re not in the wrong. Period.
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You have every right to keep it for your child. You’re not obligated to give anything to anyone.
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She…is…NOT… your friend.
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Nope, and that’s not a friend.
She’s no real friend
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You aren’t in the wrong. That’s no friend if she’s going to treat you this way.
My answer is different, I would share so the child didn’t go without. As long as my child had food we would share and I would search for more!
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You need a new friend
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Did she take it to sell it? Sounds like she could be that kind of person since she didn’t want to pay for it.
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Hell no! She’s probably gonna sell it and if she actually wanted it she would have paid you! Especially by saying those words wow! Nah dumb her 
to the curve. Don’t have people like that around your babies.
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I would have told that girl to hoop it and theirs a shortage and if she can’t get that then run along. Cause unless you a mama you won’t understand
She is not your friend 
Anyone trying to take from your baby is not your friend. Id of tossed her out like a hot potato…
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You need anew friend
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No your not wrong you cant help others if your not in the position.
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Get you some new friends
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Your job as a mother is first and foremost is to provide for your child you brought him into this world you are responsible for him I’m sorry for what is going on in the world and I really wish it were different but if it comes down to your child or someone else’s child you have to pick your own as heartless is that sounds you should have kept your formula and told that woman to leave your baby depends on you for everything and not only is formula expensive it’s almost non-existent on the shelves right now
That is not your friend preparation is what has kept your child fed not selfishness
Don’t think much of your "friend ". Dump her, she obviously thinks a friend of a friend’s whatever is more important than your child. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Did your duty as a mother. Your children should always come first!
No , she was wrong for assuming you should give it away! And why was she in your pantry snooping?
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You have a baby to worry about… The other baby is NOT your responsibility to feed… your baby IS… Screw her… Is she gonna go around guilting other Mothers out of their last few cans of formula, for FREE at that, for YOU when you go through the last few cans you have because she’s the reason you have one less? I would cut that “friend” loose so fast & never look back… It’s got to be so scary having a formula fed baby right now… and I can’t even imagine how infuriating it has to be to hear all those “this wouldn’t be a problem if you breast fed!” a$$-holes… Don’t listen to ANYONE… Do whatever you have to do for you and your baby… 
She is in your house, bitching because her friend’s daughter’s baby right?? Did I get that right?? Her friend’s daughter’s baby need formula. And she wants it for free??
Oh hell no. She has no right to sit there and bitch like that and call you names and everything because her friend’s daughter’s baby needs formula
No you were not wrong!
No you are not wrong. I would have told her to leave.
Mk so here’s my thing, I woulda said yes 1 can wether it be free or paid but as soon as she got the attitude I woulda charged double and block her out… I would never talk to my friends like that no matter how pissed I am
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MISSED THE PART WHEN Your “friend” yelled at you!
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Nope. Not wrong at all.
Errm NO MA’AM. YOU ARE MAKING SURE A BABY DOESN’T STARVE _YOUR OWN BABY 
I wouldn’t expect anyone to just give me formula. Not during a shortage or otherwise.
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Tell that friend to kick fucking rocks if the other child is truly starving maybe ask for her name and talk to her directly!
Your friend needs to learn shits not free! If the mother doesn’t have money that’s something the 2 of you can talk about but seems this “friend” wasn’t being a friend she was trying to take advantage!
Not a friend. Hope you kept it 
A plane full of formula came from Germany a few days ago. Probably on the way to shops throughout the country.
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need to get new friends
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That’s not a friend.
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Not wrong at all. That “friend” definitely overstepped.
So I need to ask…. why do you have friends like this??? No friend should talk to you like that. I no you’re not wrong. All we can do is offer prayer…
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No you were not wrong !!! She guilted you to give up the formula but didn’t want to pay you for it!
She is not your friend
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You need a new friend. That woman is ridiculous
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Hell no!!! Your own baby comes first before any other persons baby. I wouldn’t have given it to her. Not your problem especially since ur going through the same issues. And 10 cans of formula never lasted a month for me either maybe a week in a half!!!
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No, you’re not wrong. You just need new friends.
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I’d have told her to get out of my house and not come back
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Wait it wasnt for her.I would give it to my friend. Your right you gave it to her to get paid for it shes not your friend bs.Wow so I guess friendship over lol.
No, your friend is out of line.
If she’s worried about that other baby she needs to hit the pavement and go look for the formula herself, instead of try to take it from your child. What the heck she doing looking through your cabinets anyway? Sounds like you need to reevaluate your friendship with her. That wouldn’t fly in my house.
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Absolutely not your so right! She is being a bitch and you should cut ties with that one !
That’s not a friend I would have kicked her out of my home with nothing
The other lady will find a way, this is YOUR child you will be using it for him. The response you got from this girl was not very nice. You did the right thing, hard as it was.
You are not in the wrong here !!
Um excuse me, you are NOT responsible nor should be guilt tripped into providing for your friends friends daughters baby.
I feel like there’s more to this story idk
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No you are not wrong. And yes it was wrong for tour friends to act that way. But lets remember were all stressed right now. Life has been hard since the start of Covid.
What a shitty friend she is!
She isn’t your friend. No you aren’t selfish
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Your son is your main priority. You did the right thing
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Nope you’re not wrong. I could understand if you had more cans but even then you’re not obligated to give. Only 3 can left is nothing because babies go through them fast. And it wasn’t even for her. The fact that she asked you to give up your child’s food and was rude about it…that’s not a friend.
Get outta my house with that stink attitude. I wouldn’t let another baby starve either but my baby comes first.
I’m second hand embarrassed for her to even ask you for that formula.
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Drop her. She is not your friend.
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That is NO friend of yours. You let her guilt you into giving away your baby food. Drop her like a hot
potato.
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We are coming into very hard times. You will have to put your family first, regardless of what anyone says. The holding hands kumbaya bullshit does not extend to desperate times. In times like these you must put your own children first and do NOT feel bad about it.
Shes a horrible friend for treating and talking to you the way she did and not taking your own situation into consideration. If she’s so concerned about her other friends child then she should be out trying to find some for her in a store not another mother’s pantry that needs it for her own child
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Your baby is 6 months old…old enough to go on regular milk…if this other baby is younger…it needs the formula more than yours…sorry…JMO
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No you’re not selfish. You don’t have much and you are sure when you’ll get more. Since it was for a friend of a friend, for all you know, that girl is hoarding or may sell it. You had to do what you had to do!
$45 a can how much do you get. We really pay a lot less then that.
Nope you’re not in the wrong. You paid for that food for your son. He needs that food. Call me selfish but yes my child comes before yours. 
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Her friends daughters baby? Hell no you don’t even know these people!! I could see if it was your close friend that needed help but no. You are not wrong at all.
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Family come’s first & for so called friend is not a friend that I would want
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I don’t blame her for asking but it’s ridiculous for her to over react like that and to not expect to pay is insane. Formula is expensive
That she would even ask you for it is ridiculous. A friend would never put you in a position like that & def wouldn’t talk to you that way
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No sweetie you are not wrong but to avoid the problem I wish you would have said that they are already 
promised to someone else js but a true friend shouldn’t put you in a tough situation like that again js
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You were guilt tripped into letting her get one and then she wanted it for free, no you weren’t being selfish you were generous to even offer one for sale! So she was worried about her other friends daughter but not your son having formula. She wouldn’t be my friend anymore!
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That person is not a true friend. They would never be invited into my home again.
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You’re not in the wrong. I have a two month old (as of Monday) and yes. I’ve stockpiled. Why? Because I live in a beach tourist town that doesn’t really “cater” to the super youngs’ needs, so when I find a can or two, yes, I grab it/them. My child is going through a 12.4[ish] can every three DAYS… I don’t have the luxury of running a mile up the road to grab another… at best, the nearest Walmart is 30 miles away.
PS. Your “friend” is trash.
Slap her like shes chris rock and you’re will smith
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She is not a friend. Drop her.
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Your friend is an arsehole… simple.
F that person! Take care of your babies first!
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Your son will always be your first priority. It’s okay to say no. Also that person is a shit friend for trying to guilt trip you into giving it for free. Drop her, you don’t need that energy. It’s not your fault that you prepared ahead of time.
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what. it wasn’t even for her own kid? honestly? she doesn’t sound like much of a friend if that’s how she treats and talks to you. if she were your friend, she would have understood that you can’t share your babies only food with other people with not knowing if you’ll be able to find more… would this lady’s friend give you her babies food? I’m going to go out on a limb and say probably not. besides that, your “friend” never should have put you on the spot like that to begin with. it’s kind of rude, in my opinion… especially considering her response of “if you wanna bitch” and then saying she she get if for free like tf? if it were me, she wouldn’t have for the formula and she would have got a swift kick out the front door for thinking she was going to talk to me like that in my own house. you weren’t wrong in the slightest.
That person wouldn’t be around me ever again. That’s a sh!tty friend!
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She is way out of line and acting like a bit**, she is not acting like a real friend and I would hv told her to leave and not get a hold of me until she apologizes.
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She is a witch not you ,
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Sounds like she is not much of an friend
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She is NOT your friend…I personally would be done with her.
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You gotta look out for your own before anyone else. Sounds like she was hoping to make money off from it. She was projecting.
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Your son comes first. And it can’t be free. Your not a food bank.
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Definitely nta. Also not your problem. Cut that “friend” off. Smh.
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Tell her to go fluff herself
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Nah. You’re not wrong. At all.
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She isn’t your friend- listen to what she told you - really - that was the last cans for your baby - she doesn’t care about your baby as much as her “ other” friend. Plus not paying you for it - what does she think you are made of money - you mean nothing to her - why does she come over - when all she is doing is causing drama - besides she needs to keep her nose out of your cupboards.
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first off what right did she have plundering in your pantry? Second place asking you to give up what you yourself need for your own baby is wrong on her part, asking you to not get paid for it, if you let her have it, is wrong on her part. Say goodbye to this person she is not a friend
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You don’t need any ody to tell you your wrong…take care of yours first,nobody else will and she sounds like a POS friend honestly
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You did nothing wrong. Especially with how scarce formula is right now. I would have been the same in that situation.
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She is doing this and it’s not for her? No. She has no right to say anything or cal you names
How is this a serious question
Friend or not your baby is first you payed for it its yours.
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Get better friends! Real friends don’t manipulate us to take our resources.
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She is being really pushy, and times are hard. She is not being a good friend for treating you that way or putting you in that position.
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Keep your food stash secret. Starvation is coming.
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You are right to keep yours! She sounds bad. Distance yourself from her.