My child will always come first !
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She’s Not your friend!
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You are NOT WRONG!!! I suspect she blew up at you because she wanted to make herself look good to her own friend. Your obligation and duty is to your own family first. It’s not like you can just go to the store and get resupplied with the shortages ongoing as they are. This is not someone you need to feel obligated to; she is not your friend. If she were really your friend, she would have seen you need the formula for your own babies and certainly not asked.
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Not out of line. She was out of line.
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Maybe if it was your BFF’s baby that works be different,. But your baby sisters, boyfriends, cousin can find their own. And to want it for free is ridiculous! Not everyone can afford to buy their own, why would she expect it for free. Find a new friend.
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You only need to look out for your child
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She went in your pantry? That’s rude from the get go! You have to provide for your child. I think your minus one ‘friend’.
I’d get rid of that “friend.”
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She’s not your real friend.
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Omg she is no friend. Wow. I would not associate with her any longer. Way to stand up for you and your child. Of course you did what was right. Wow hugs so sorry she treated you like that.
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You need new ‘friends’ raise your standards and don’t accept people talking to you like that ever
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Your friend sounds like a sociopath
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Survival of the fittest. It’s not even HER child?!?! That’s hella weird she reacted that way honestly I’d tell her to get bent.
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Keep it for your son, she is not a friend. She is just a leech looking for a hand out.
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Really unfair not a friend
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That’s your babies food. What does she think? Your house is a food bank? Nah. Find another friend. She isn’t worth your energy.
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Not wrong, I’d tell her to fuck off and slam the door in her face why the fuck is she going through your cupboard anyway
You aren’t wrong in anyway shape or form. Period.
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She doesn’t sound like a very good friend
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1st…. That heffa ain’t your friend
2nd…. That heffa would have exited my home on the tip of my boot
3rd…. my son would still have 3 cans of formula
And 4th…. I’d sleep really sound after cutting that negative Nelly loose! It’s not your job to take care of a friend of a friend’s child! BYE!
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Wow … No… That is good your family and yourself got for your son… If you had 11 cans yeah share, but 3 . Hell no… not a way I’d give it when I can’t even find more for my own child
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no… your baby comes first… you’re not responsible for other people’s baby’s…
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Not wrong at all and that person is not a friend
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FYI She is not your friend
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She is NOT your friend. You take care of YOUR child FIRST! You did your sacrifice to find ways to feed your baby. Your baby should not starve.
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It’s wrong for another person, knowing you have a baby to feed yourself, to demand or guilt you into giving away the formula. It’s getting used not sitting in a cabinet to gather dust.
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Would said friends friend do the same for you? I very much doubt it… your little cub comes first everytime 
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My friends don’t go through my stuff… not even my family.
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Uhh weird because if she could find them in stores she’d have to pay. I’m all for helping others in these times but we have to take care of home first. Your friend sounds weird
And then when you said OK she didn’t wanna pay for it…is she joking?! that shits not cheap. And as everyone else says your baby comes first, obv No one wants a baby to starve. Sounds like she’s worried about this other child eating more than yours
That woman is not your friend get rid of her.
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You have to worry about YOUR baby first, before absolutely any one elses. If you had 11 cans still, then I can see you parting with one, but 3? No. Babies go through formula very frequently. If anyone ever spoke to me like that, they’d be leaving missing a few teeth. Tell that ‘friend’ to never come back. Disgusting behavior. It’s not your fault you were more fortunate in the moment than someone else. Besides, it’s on the other baby’s mother to guarantee her baby won’t go hungry. Not you.
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Drop her fast 
she is no friend 
nothing is FREE!!! If she ask Why? tell her you don’t need friends like that 
who doesn’t have any RESPECT 
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$45 a can! Jesus.
She was definitely out of line.
I think the fact that it costs so much and she expected it free is what would bother me the most.
For…her friend’s…daughter’s…baby? Girl bye!! You don’t even know those people. Your baby’s needs come first. You didn’t have to give her anything!!
PS-Shes Not your friend.
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You are absolutely NOT in the wrong.You shouldnt be expected to give away your childs formula.wtf does she think she is.
And also this supposed friend would never step foot in my house again.After she talked to you that way shed be done.
That’s not a friend sorry she made you feel this way
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Nah. She can have the can for $45 plus $10 bitch fee.
Mmmm… no!!! I wouldn’t share it for free… now with that attitude she can exit her way and hopefully that door know don’t hit her where the sun don’t shine at… sorry not sorry
That person is not your friend. She sounds terrible. You were not wrong, she was.
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Who yelling at me in my own house? I was not even entertaining that talk because said individual would have had to get to stepping. Right out my MFing house.
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She’s not your friend. Cut ties, move on and don’t look back.
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No And don’t let her talk to you that way ! it’s your home and baby formula She is not a real friend and I’d move on and not speak to her again .
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No ! You weren’t wrong. You were looking out for your son. That person who was yelling at you was NO FRIEND of yours. I wouldn’t give it a second thought. She sounds like she is not right in the head.
If her friend who just had the baby had only 3 cans of formula during a nationwide shortage, do you think she’d give you any? Definitely not! What a selfish friend you have. Of course you’re going to look after your baby first! 
Just like they both would.
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I’d a true friend she wouldn’t have put you in that situation! It’s for her friends baby. If it was for her baby then maybe but no you were right and it is expensive of course you should ask for $. But keep for your baby!
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I would of told that trick to get out my house, disrespectfully.
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Don’t tell anyone about your stash… you and your baby need that safety net!!! That’s no way for any friend to act… she’s not your ppl!
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Not in the wrong, why should you be out a whole can and $45? And not being able to find more on top of that.
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Wtf. She would of Been dragged out of the house by her hair. How dare her even speak to u. SMH. Yeah nooo freakin way. She is no friend. Take care of your baby 1st
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Omg fuck her she doesnt need to be ur friend
That’s ur babys food
Ur pantry isnt a heb
Don’t feel guilty bc it’s your child’s food. She should be embarrassed
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you are not incorrect …stand your ground
Like hell I’d be giving that away. That’s not your problem
The fact she made you feel like this!!! No friend IMO
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That’s a shitty friend right there… And if she thinks you’re that horrible of a person do her a favor and drop her…, that’s ridiculous and rude to treats friend that way 
PM me what kind you are looking for and town your in. If I find any I will get it to you somehow. Take care of your little one. Don’t dwell on this life is to short!
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She sounds like a horrible person tbh, she was extremely rude to you in YOUR home.
Shame on her! You see where you stand on her friend list… your friend values her other friend more. You need to take care of your baby. And you offered. You arn’t grocery store. She was knocking you when she is to cheap to pay for the food. Nope. Not a friend!
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In this situation it’s every mama for herself unless you have some to spare. Totally understand where you’re coming from.
Veronica Gomez since you are doing the laughing emoji, we can assume you would give your child’s formula away
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She would’ve been asked to leave and never come back. Don’t yell at me in my own house🤷♀️ And while I understand all babies need to eat, my babies come first. If I found what they need, I’m keeping it for them. Call me selfish if you want, but my priority is MY baby. I can help others find theirs and let them know where it’s at, or help with an extra can for them here and there, but when it boils down to it….mine come first to me. As it does with most moms……
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That person is not your friend. I’d disengage as soon as possible.
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You need to make sure you can provide for your baby. She is not a friend.
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Nope not wrong. It wasn’t even for her either. Also how you know she was even telling the truth about this friend that you don’t even know even exists? For all you know she could’ve just said that hoping you would give it to her then her selling it online for a quick buck like lots of people have done sadly. You need to look out for you and your children plus family not nobody else in this world. If this so called friend has a problem with it tell her that the friendship is over and you do not want anything to do with her no more and to never contact you again. And I personally would probably hide the cans incase she tries getting into your place to steal one too
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Don’t feel bad. You got to look out for your own baby at this point.
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I’d kick her tf out my house and my life. That is not a friend!
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You are not wrong she’s wrong acting like that
She should be embarrassed… sorry but I’m gonna feed my baby… Ain’t gonna make me feel bad for looking after MY BABY. Foh with that.
Girl! Hell no! You’re not being selfish at all! I hope you kept those cans for your baby. DON’T EVER let your son go without so another can have. Don’t feel bad! She should be ashamed of herself. It wasn’t even for her kid but for a friend. You don’t even know those people. If I were you I would cut that so called friend off!
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She is wrong. Nothing is free. That isn’t a friend honey
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I guess now you what kind of a person she is. She is not your friend!!! Do not let her I. Your house anymore.
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She probably wanted to sell it…soooo don’t feel bad.
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She sounds like an abuser
Absolutely not ok. Your friend is a bitch.
That’s not a friend. Your baby needs to eat too and 3 cans don’t last long at all. Also, it’s great if families can afford to give away free formula. But it is expensive and not everyone can do that.
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Totally not wrong. U do U and your kids chick. If the other mother needs formula she can get it like everyone else that manages to.
She was out of line. And to expect it for free was really ridiculous. Not every baby uses the same brand either. Seems like she wanted to impress someone at your expense.
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She’s no friend at all!
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You are not wrong. It’s not even your friends baby! I could understand if you had a stock pile, but 3 cans will only last a 6 month old maybe 2 weeks if not less. I would have told her to leave with attitude & cut contact with her.
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that’s not a friend. Absolutely you are not wrong. A true need they would have graciously agreed to pay
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You have every right to keep it for your baby and to charge for it if you decided to give one to her friend.
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So she thinks this other child is more important than yours or seems to act like it…
Feed your baby momma and don’t feel guilty. The situation is awful for everyone but you shouldn’t feel guilty…
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That lady should no longer be your friend. Who acts like that?!? Cut ties with her and don’t feel bad
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I’d keep my babys food and never let her back in my house
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She is not a Friend!!!
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Cut her off that is a bridge to burn for sure
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No that’s for your baby. No friend would do that to you… cut her off
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You’re not wrong. The family you build/make is always your priority. Always.
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Nope not wrong at all. Your child comes first. Now if you are hoarding, that is another story but that doesn’t seem to be the case here
You’re not wrong or being selfish. The formula shortage is horrible and I feel for anyone with a baby on formula, but you’re absolutely correct. You need to think of your child and his needs. What’s worse is that after she guilted you into agreeing to give up one can of your last 3, she believed it should be given for free.
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Sounds like you need to drop this friend
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Cut her off from ur life !! U should have friends that are supportive of ur choices. She should of accepted ur answer of no without any questions. She sounds like a very disrespectful and rude person.
If you need if for your child then you have every right to refuse and keep it for you’re child. You’re not wrong.
That’s not a friend! Plus, it’s ballsy to even ask when you only had 3. If she’s so concerned for her friend, let her do her own research and leave your limited supply alone!!
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Firstly it’s not for her baby, it’s for her friends baby… what a bitch!! I hope you didn’t give it to her!! And I never go into my friends pantry…
Oh hell NO!!! And she ain’t no friend!!!
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That’s not a friend. You don’t need that in your life
She’s not a friend at all. Your baby is important to you. You and your family has been looking for it. You spent your hard earned money to buy what you had. I wouldn’t talk to or be around her anymore
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Your not wrong and u did offer as long as they paid u back for it. Money doesn’t grow on trees.
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