Was I wrong to message my ex son-in-law to let him know that my grandson uses the F-Bomb when he returns from a three day stay at his house? I’ve tried to have my daughter to tell her ex about this but she keeps “forgetting”. She didn’t speak to me for a week. I didn’t accuse him of being abusive, I was just letting him know. My husband and close friends of ours say I didn’t do anything wrong. Plus my mom. We all have the same goal, loving this toddler and raising him. On a side note, I quit my job to babysit for free and so does my mother and stepdad.