What can I do for a picky 4 year old?

Never force your child to eat something they do not like . Do not make them go to bed hungry.

Check and see if there is a food allergy. I have an HFI daughter she can’t eat fructose it’s in lots of foods, she was very picky when I finally found out I felt horrible because making her eat fructose is like feeding her poison.

I try and put something i know they like and something new. I keep adding the new even if they never touch it and eventually they usually touch it and eat it. Don’t pressure and let them see you eating it. For example I love cottage cheese so I always put it on my sons plate. Probably did 100xs before he finally got curious and tried it and eats it to this day. Also plan meals and snacks at same time each day and that helps too.

We have a 3 bite rule. Just to decide if you like it. If you don’t, you can have a peanut butter sandwich/another sandwich of your choosing.

My daughter is 6
 The worst of the pickiness. Feed them what they want at this age

 How can you send your little child to bed hungry like that? Pick your battles
 Imagine someone force feeding you food you don’t like


With our Grandson we use to use toothpicks to grab corn, beans, Strings beans n kinda added broccoli n cauliflower cooked n cheese.

Never force but always include it on the plate
after a while they will try if you don’t make a big deal of it
worked for both my kiddos

Went to bed hungry? You can not be serious. Don’t fight over food. Would you like someone to force you to eat something you don’t like? Don’t fuss over the little stuff. You are setting yourself up for an unneeded battle. Shame shame

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My husband eats like a 4 year old! Literally 10 items, cheese pizza, chicken nuggets, motz sticks, cheese and crackers, kraft mac and cheese, hot dogs, cereal, spaghetti and pb&j.

Find out what he likes to eat. Just like my daughter she is also picky eater and i take her with me to do groceries and i ask her what she likes to eat just let me know
 and she likes hot pockets, lasaña, cheese pizzas, pancakes, sausages
 and now she eats that and i don’t force her to eat what i cook for our meal times.just options :blush:

it’s called picking your battles and hiding things in what he does eat!!!

Offer one new thing at meal time, with the request it is tried first. Other than that dont force it, it backfires horribly :sob::heart:

When he is hungry he will eat. Having a choice really is a luxury. First world problems! I have lightened up though. My oldest doesn’t like fish. She can make herself a piece of chicken on the nights we have fish but she is eating the sides. My standing rule is they have to try it. I found at first my son didn’t want to eat things because of how they looked. :laughing:But argue with my children hell no. Lol :laughing:

Take everything with sugar in it out of his diet!

He is 4 years old. He wont be picky forever. Shame on you.

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It will take 7 times for a child to try something to decide if they really like it. It does take time. Keep offering, even if it’s only a taste.

Just curious to know when your babies don’t eat why let them go to bed hungry ?? Let them eat something small or at least a snack !!

I always tried to make one dish that they would eat , example mac & cheese as a side , or fries. Chicken breast with a few nuggets on the side .

You eat what’s on the table or you Dont eat. A 4 year old can go three days healthily with out eating. Trust me they will eat.

Two choices at my house. Eat it or starve

Pick your battles. Don’t make a huge deal out of it. He picks up on your stress, so if you keep cool, it will pass.

You are doing the right thing. If it isn’t something like liver and onions or some really weird ass food. But if it is peas or broccoli, make them try it


My 7 and almost 6 yr old are soooo picky :confounded:

I cam up with different identifiers. Brocoli was trees
 try to make up magic words or pretend theings they are interested in


Also I have been known to puree carrots and veggies and add to Spaghetti just to get some veggies down them
they never knew it

Nope I have a kid that will starve himself. He’s 13 now and would end up in the hospital if I did that.

Pick your battles and food is not one if he’s healthy :100:

Try hiding vegetables in things. Puree some vegetables and hide it in spaghetti sauce/mac and cheese and things like that.

Keep offering him knew foods. He’ll eventually will grow out of it.

Don’t make him go to bed hungry. If he doesn’t like it, he doesn’t like it. Don’t punish him for his taste buds

Would you like to be forced to eat a dish you can not stand??? Think about it

I have 3 kids, my youngest being 18, 2 of them are really picky & I still make them separate meals if they don’t eat the main meal. I’m a sucker for pleasing my children :heart_eyes:

Kids will eat when they are hungry,

That’s my rule as well. :woman_shrugging: if I cook it you eat it. That’s that.

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My pickies always had the peanut butter alternative

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To each their own but just imagine you being forced to eat something you absolutely do not like. Please don’t send the baby to bed hungry. His taste buds will change. Let the baby snack on fruit. My daughter just started eating meat at 6. I promise you he will not be a picky eater forever but sending him to bed hungry will ensure he doesn’t grow or sleep properly.

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Most likely it’s a phase. I had a kid that wouldnt eat anything unless it had cheesy pasta. Another only ate chicken. Just keep offering new food and if he genuinely doesnt like something then dont make him eat it. Taste buds change every 7 years anyway (my child who was obsessed with cheesy pasta now hates it with a passion). Maybe make something he likes to eat. Like if he wants chicken nuggets a lot then give him a few along with something else. I’m an adult and even I’ll be picky like that. 95% of the time I only eat chicken and mashed potatoes. As long as he’s still getting the needed nutrients I wouldnt worry. I’ve had several different doctors and nutritionists tell me dont look at what a kid eats day to day. Look at the end of the week. One day he night be picky and barely get any vitamins and the next day he might actually eat better and get 2 day’s worth.

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Mine didnt start exploring diff foods til they was around 8

My 3 year old is super picky but I will not force her to eat if she isn’t interested. I will never punish either. Pick your battles!

They eat what’s on the table or go hungry. That’s the way we grew up. No way cooking different no a child or no one.

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I dont eat stuff i dont like and will not force my kids. They are not me, theyre their own person and deserve that choice. I didnt cook separate meals for them, didnt have to. My 18 yr old daughter grew up eating anything you gave her and liked it. She still eats that way. My son, however, is 14 and his favorites is chicken, chicken sandwiches, waffles, cereal, chips, breads, and noodles. Hes not starving by any means. He refuses anything with cheese, no pizza, etc. I dont push it, because he dont eat candy, chocolate, cake or ice cream

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When my kids were little, I would make them try as many bites as how old they were. I told them that I was not a short order cook. I made it into a game. After they had eaten those bites I let them eat what they wanted. I also tried to have at least one thing on the table that they would eat. Now that they are grown, they get excited about trying new things.

Our two youngest were really picky. Our rule was always one bite. As long as they tried a bite of everything they didn’t have to eat the rest. We always had 2-3 ‘sides’ which helped because there was always at least 1 fruit or veggie they didn’t mind eating. I also used the food processor to hide a lot of veggies in their food to make sure they had a healthy variety. Now my kids will eat just about anything.

Firm believer a hungry kid will eat what is served (within reason
 I.E. not liver and onions :wink: ). Especially if dessert is on the line. At my house if you don’t eat what you are given, and everyone else does, then no dessert and it is on the menu for breakfast.

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My daughter went thru phases of eating one thing. Thats what she would want and wouldn’t eat anything else. I fixed it for her. She has outgrown it and her pallet has grown.

I have 4 boys
and all of them went and are still going through that phase. For my sanity (and per our pediatrician), don’t force a kid to eat. It sets an unhealthy standard with food relationship. Just present it, repeatedly. And trust me, one day, they magically like it. And most of the time, it’s because they tried it at a friend’s house :roll_eyes:
Their is plenty of 2nd choice backup food to feed them that don’t require you to cook.

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Make him food he likes. Keep sending him to bed hungry, it won’t be good for his health. I won’t eat things I hate either.

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My youngest for the longest time would not eat meat. I ended up asking his regular doctor what to do for protein intake. Greek yogurt and tofu was suggested along with string cheese. He’s always liked over easy eggs. Never tried tofu but string cheese, over easy eggs and greek yogurt became huge in his diet. Now he’s 8. He eats meats but needs ketchup for them all, including fish. He does not like rice and noodles are still a toss up. Keep trying to incorporate regular meal items, just make sure to get the proper nutrition. If anything like mine try to find an alternate. I’m make spaghetti with garlic toast? How about eggs and garlic toast? Try ground turkey or ground chicken. Try meats with ketchup if it’s a meat thing. Is it a texture thing? Mine is not huge on noodles and will not do rice or potatoes. Que in to try to pinpoint and adjust as necessary to ensure their nutrition. Don’t give up. I’m pretty sure we were all picky at some point and were told eat what’s for supper or go to bed hungry. If nothing else, grilled cheese or eggs and toast it is. Something to keep their belly full with a glass of milk, even if it is toast. Might not be the best option but I always try to keep yogurt of some sort, cheese slices, or string cheese on hand. He likes peanut butter so maybe a pb&j or peanut butter toast. I do believe protein is key to staying full longer and helping muscle develop as should. My youngest also likes steamed broccoli more than boiled or raw. I know many kids are great with veggies if they have ranch. Que in, you’re doing great. I understand how you’re feeling as how I’ve done the same repeatedly.

I have a very picky eater too
 He’s lactose intolerant so we’ve always had to be careful if what he eats. My mom actually found the key to get him to try new things
 She gets him to help her cook. My “chicken nuggets or pasta” kid now enjoys (mild) curry, stew and soup and is trying new things all the time. We have a herb garden and he is allowed to help with which herbs we use too. Its taken a few months of effort but he’s now eating what we do most nights.

So my daughter is a very picky eater it’s so bad she does food therapy for it. I was told to give her a plate of food she likes but add one new food to the dish so every week pick one new thing you want him to try and just stick it on the plate he may not touch it or even look at it the first time but he eventually will explore it by touching and then maybe he will explore it by trying it. But what I’ve found with my daughter is that she will eventually eat it and might like it but if I wait too long to give it to her again it’s like reintroducing it all over again which gets extremely frustrating but to her this is a new thing. Even though it isn’t. So I’d offer the new foods as often as possible once he’s tried and enjoys them. Also I’ve notice that if I just leave a tray of food on the table she will pick at it. So I’ll leave a plate of a bunch of things I know she loves like ritz crackers cheese cubes red peppers apple slice watermelon pretzels but then I’ll throw in some things she won’t try like cucumber raspberries turkey slices hummus etc and she eventually starts picking at it. Also with fruits and veggies kids love dipping sauce. So I give my daughter a small amount off ranch with her broccoli or carrots or some cream cheese dip for her pears and kiwis because she isn’t to fond of those things but it makes it fun for her.

At four years old they need to eat, they are to young to be going without food. Try to get them to try new things on occasion, but don’t push it. If it’s forced too much they won’t try it at all. Sometimes you have to be tricky with kids. When making spaghetti finely blend up some veggies to add to the sauce. Sometimes you have to get creative or tricky. Make broccoli look like a tree forest for example. But most important don’t push it just be patient. If you want to get them to try something new maybe offer to get them something they like if they take a bite. With kids they tend to grow out of some of their pickyness and will try new things. Also don’t make meal time a dreaded time of fighting and complaining. Its better to give them something they will eat and make it a fun experience so they might be more open to try something new. Punishing the for not trying something really isn’t beneficial and won’t really help.

When I was growing up we dindnt have much food we had to eat what we dindnt like.Or nothing at all I told myself when i had kids i wouldnt make them eat what they dindnt like i went through it .The doctor said about my kids how would you feel trying to make you eat something you dindnt like.I told her i did when I was growing up I didn’t like it.So if I had the food I would make my kids something different

Whatever he will eat. Then slowly introduce different foods. Their taste buds change.

Have him cook with you. They will isually eat what they cook.

I wouldn’t force foods, just encourage. Don’t make separate meals or they will never eat normally. They will eat if they are hungry.

So feed him what he likes
shy are you sending a child to bed hungry when you know hes a picky child.
Give him options.

Poor eating habits begin when the child begins to eat. Kind of hard to reverse what you’ve done once the child is a toddler. Almost everyone I know starts their children off on fruit. At our house we had rice and beans quite often as a meal. We had yogurt cheese whole grains and things of that. I made their baby food by scratch and so they never really got much of a taste of the jarred stuff. Never really served them fast food or fried foods high in saturated fat. I guess they were never really picky eaters because everything that ordinary children wouldn’t find appealing was second nature in our home. I suppose it is what it is. I think for the most part, parents create picky eaters.

Could there be a medical reason behind it? I have a picky eater. Send her to bed hungry and you’ll be up in the middle of the night changing bedding because she puked from lack of food. She has GI issues and she has Sensory issues. She just can’t eat certain foods no matter how much of an asshole you choose to be. For the record, she loves most veggies, including steamed fresh broccoli. But there are several foods she cannot eat. Definitely rule out any medical issues and allergies/intolerances first.

My mother made me peanut butter and jelly sandwich when she made something I wouldn’t eat. I did the same for my daughter or I rolled up deli ham and cheese on a plate. It made dinner a lot less stressful and these were quickly fixed.

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Just feed him what he likes so he doesn’t go to bed hungry and have him taste new foods every once in a while . My daughter was like that til about 5 or 6 . She’s still picky but she eats more than she used to .

It’s all about exposure. When feeding him always make sure there is one safe food on the plate. Something you know he will eat and the rest new things. He may not even pay attention to the new things at first and will complain he doesn’t like it. Stand firm and just calmly say “this is on the menu tonight and this is all we have” don’t force him to eat it or get mad because an unpleasant experience at the table can set the tone for all new foods he encounters or doesn’t like. If you just keep exposing him, eventually he will learn to probably touch it or play with it which is a big step too! It’s a tough road but stick to it and he will start eating. Follow solid starts on IG. They have helped me so much!!!

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These commemts are crazy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying eat what was made for dinner or be hungry. No one’s starving anyone. They DO eat when they’re hungry. Oh that’s right
 “Not MY kid”. Yes, even yours. :joy::joy::joy:

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My oldest and youngest are both autistic and eating can be challenging. Especially with new food’s. What worked/works for us even though it’s exhausting at times. I’ll make a vegetable or meat that I want them to try. I will also have food they prefer. I make them try at least 2 bites of them new food before they can have their other plate. We have found many new likes but also food they don’t like. The first week trying this was rough. But now it’s routine and has opened up a more even diet.

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I have a 9 year old that’s a picky eater
 always has been. Probably always will be. I make her have atleast 2 bites of what were having. And if she truly does not like it than she chooses something else usually something quick and easy. Sometimes she will finish what I gave her sometimes she has something else (not really a big deal)everybodys different and likes different things. But I dont agree with sending them to bed without anything. I mean that’s what my parents did. You ate your meal or you went hungry
 I just couldnt. I dont think with holding food should be a punishment and I’m pretty sure that is considered child abuse. Also IMO you could find some type of compromise that works for your family instead of making your child go hungry. I hated being forced to eat something I didnt like or having to go to bed hungry. And It didnt work for my parents. I just went hungry until they cooked something I liked than I’d eat

It’s kind of hard to offer advice here without knowing your child.

First, could there be sensory issues? Aside from eating struggles
does your child seek or avoid any other sensory inputs?
Clothing/fabric? Lights? Sounds? Do they do a lot of rolling? If so your child could have a sensory processing disorder and I would definitely speak to thier doctor!

If no other sensory issues exist (and even if they do
I’ve used this for my autistic 7 year old and spd 3 year old)

  1. Make them what you make. Try deconstructing it and adding a dip like ranch or ketchup (my oldest will eat anything if it had ranch).
  2. They must sit at the table with you. When you are finished eat if they haven’t eaten offer a healthy alternative. It must be healthy. Veggie. Fruit. Nuts. Ect.
    Do not under any circumstances offer or give junk food in place of a meal unless directed to by doctor or therapist.

Edit. A couple other things.
-let your 4 year old help cook. I let my spd 3 year old help with making mashed potatoes the other day. And he actually tried and ate them.
-during breakfast and lunch be creative. Offer small (like a couple teaspoons) of 5-6 different things.
-use trickery during breakfast/lunch. My 7 year old has “doritos” that are actually made from cauliflower. They’ll eat cauliflower when its mixed into rice
or zucchini when its spiralized and mixed into spaghetti.

My 11 year old was like this. The old school method of forcing and laying down the law made it worse. I broke down and decided to leave it alone, 100% stop making it an issue.

After a while ( probably around 6 months) of zero pressure he’d start showing interest in unfamiliar food, asking what something was that I had or someone else had, and I’d answer without offering it to him to eat. I’d offer a different sensory introduction ; for example he’d ask what that floppy green thing was , I’d tell him “asparagus, it is floppy isn’t it ? Would you like to touch it? “ and he would half the time. If it was something he thought smelled different , I’d offer him a piece to smell . With no pressure on having to put it in his mouth.

This little boy would actually vomit if forced and was very texture oriented with clothes, with food, everything. So letting him explore with his little sensory steps toward more food in his world was the way to go. Eventually he’d ask to try it, I’d say yes, sometimes he’d like it and sometimes he wouldn’t.

He could not stand the smell of fish , never wanted it, and that was okay. This summer he went fishing with me and I caught a rainbow to keep, he wanted to watch the preparation and then when it was cooked , he asked to try it. He actually loved it! No pressure, no heap of unknown food on his plate, just little by little he explored .

He particularly liked when it was someone ‘ cool’ like a grandparent or friend of mine that had the new food . So setting up opportunities for him to see all different people eating all different things was immensely helpful.

Just this week we went to dinner and my spouse had crab. He still needs to touch things first, like touch the shell, then he asked to try the crab itself. Which he decided wasn’t his favourite, the fish from the river was better.

A lot of things from the past are great, antique furniture and recipes for two. The forcing food mentality almost put my son in the hospital, it fractured our relationship, he lost trust in me. It didn’t help in the slightest, for my family it’s something I’m happy to leave in the past. I’d rather have a relationship with him where he can trust me and feel comfortable to explore in his way. He wasn’t challenging me, he was setting boundaries to protect himself when he felt nervous and afraid.

If I could do it over again, I’d have played in the pudding with him and used the carrots as swords; I’d rather be in his bubble and have a kiddo willing to try things because he felt safe in that moment to push past his sensory issues and texture issues. I’m not his friend, but I certainly don’t want to be his enemy just to win some sort of control face off that wasn’t even happening from his side.

Even if it was a real authority challenge, I’d rather lose that battle then break his trust and faith that I am here to protect him and guide him. You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink , isn’t that how the saying goes?

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He’s only 4 years old you should not be sending a baby to bed hungry you could have made him a peanut butter and jelly sandwich and at least gave him nap before you put them to bed all kids are picky until they find foods that they like if you’re worried about it see his doctor and talk to the doctor and maybe even go ahead and let the doctor know that you’re putting your child to bed hungry as a form of punishment which is not right he’s only four

We’ve just started something new that seems to be going well. I have four and they are picky. When we make dinner we make sure there is at least one safe food on the table we know they will eat and the rest is what we want. Everyone gets to pick from the food offered at the table and how much they want. The rules are you have to eat what you put on your plate. It’s going well. Because we have given the kids some control the food battles have significantly decreased, they leave the table with full bellies, and have gotten much more likely to try new foods on their own. I highly recommend.

My 2yo has to to try a bite of everything and if he decides he doesn’t like it, that’s fine. I wouldn’t want to be forced to eat something that I do not like. If he doesn’t want what is for dinner then he gets a Pb&j or cereal.

All im going to say is to be careful with forcing. We encourage. Forcing can lead to food aversion which are really difficult to overcome

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Oh yeah bc sending your child to bed hungry is smart :roll_eyes:

Even as adults, we have preferences of what we like and dislike when it comes to food. The whole idea behind “you must clear your plate” and “eat or go hungry” are the reasons why so many adults have overeating issues. If my kid eats only chicken nuggets, then guess what, that’s what he’ll get. I’m not going to force my kid to eat something he doesn’t want to

I have an 8 year old who is a picky eater
 we just let him be. He enjoys junk food and barely likes home cooked food. So I try and cook burgers and hot dogs for him at home so that he can have a full meal. Can’t let him go to bed hungry, that’s out of question totally.

Let him help you prepare the food
he will eat it cause he will be proud that he helped !

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I have t read any comments, so here is my advice. Start small
licking a spinach leaf, then a small bite, then a whole leaf. Stay away from textured foods if they aren’t preferred (right away) things like mashed foods, oatmeal, etc. IGNORE THE TANTRUMS, and IMMEDIATELY praise the wanted behaviors! It will take time, but it WILL work!!! I promise :blush:

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My kids have to taste it first
 If they don’t want to eat what we cooked we don’t make a big deal about it but we offer fruit
 And a cup of milk
 No junk otherwise they would never eat anything else


Do not make a kids try 20 things make 5 basic meals that are good for him that he will eat make ahead of time there is kid menu and aldult do not try to change this or he will push. Back

My 5 yr old is such a picky eater! We dont force her to eat what she doesn’t like. She still eats meals and plenty healthy so really that’s all that matters.

Several things! fresh vegetables are better than cooked. find a few he likes - and yes, the one bite rule is good. I got my son interested in planting a garden and then we watched the food grow and now he really likes several vegetables. When they are proud of themselves for growing it’s amazing what they will eat. Same with cooking. Let them experiment with you in the kitchen and they will eat their own concoctions!

My son is the same way. He will be 9 in February. I tried the “eat what we eat” but most of the time I end up making him a bowl of cereal if he doesn’t like what we’re eating. His doctor said when it if hes ready he will try new things. We found out at a very young age that he has a sensory disorder though so hopefully you little one is just picky right now. Good luck. :grin:

Momma missing 1 meal won’t hurt. My son who is disabled was and still is a picky eater, its all about textures for him we just keep trying thats all you can do.

My advice is find what works for you and your child I have one picky eater with her I learned quickly if I tried to make her try something she would throw up as she has gotten older she will try things but is still picky my other has always eaten just about anything. Pick your battles

I have learned that you shouldn’t force a child to eat what you want them to all the time. This can lead to eating disorders in the future, but also, many kids grow out of being so picky. My son-now 25-loved hot dogs, hated fruits & veggies (even pop tarts because they had “fruit”). As he grew older, he grew out of it. Kids go through these phases. All you can do is do your best to feed him a balanced meal that he will eat. You can also ask him to take 2 or 3 bites of a new food, that might help, but when you force a kid to eat something, it won’t make him like it. Hell, I’m an adult, I won’t eat what I don’t like, I won’t do that to my kid.

I have 3 beautiful healthy kids ages 32,28 and 18 not a picky eater in the bunch because of the three strike method i knew what they liked and I made a lot of things they didn’t each meal had a dish of what each liked and a couple of what they didn’t cooked in various ways they would ask what it was as they got older but didn’t tell them what it was but they had to try 1 bite I watched for the gag reflex and the faces if anything happened they simply spit it out and I tried again at a different meal 3 strikes and they didn’t have to eat it again. As long as there was one dish of something they liked they never went hungry. You don’t have to force just simply ask them to try it before they say they don’t like it and watch for the true tell tell signs nobody knows your baby more then you make their first plate with little bites and ask them to try it all watch then let them make their next you’ll be surprised at what they’ll eat.

My oldest son hasn’t eaten any meat except nuggets from McDonald’s since he was 3. He is addicted to raw veggies and fruits. He’s now 23 and 6ft tall. I just made sure he had options at home that he liked and the rest of us ate what we wanted.

I make my kids try everything. Not just a put it in your mouth and spit it out try, a legit chew it up for a minute try. If they don’t like it then, they’re welcome to spot it out. However; if they don’t eat what we’re eating, their choices are limited. My kids grow into and out of some meals but now I don’t even have to make them try. They beg to try everything because they’ve been pleasantly surprised. Even better now, they can cook their 2ndary if not (both boys, 5 & 10 can cook only 10 can use the stove by himself). I ate a lot of liver n onions, TONS of hot dogs and spaghetti, and my go to
masked potato’s. I hated the way my mom overcooked meat so I would give to the animals or I had 4 sisters I could pawn it off on. Some nights I didn’t eat at all, my parents were a go to bed without dinner people too. It didn’t kill me but I was a strong kid. We were poor too so snacking was out the door. I was super skinny too. My parents never thought anything of it, just that it was cute that you could see my ribs. . Try broadening your meals. Maybe ask your kids for ideas or let them help (careful, that backfired sometimes. If 5 sees something go in he does t like he will hard pass lol).

My kids ped always said they will eat when they are hungry. If they are too skinny, feed them what they like. At school I ask my picky eaters to smell it, then we progress to giving it a kiss, then touching it with their tongue, eventually they try a bite. It can take weeks. Lol Usually they are pretty proud of themselves with each step, and we make a huge deal about it.

My son is picky, and ive lost many battles trying to get him to eat what we are eating, us eating around his preferences, etc.
just feed him what he will eat. You can worry about him eating what you guys eat later. Dont let him go to bed hungry thats not right. Even if its his favorite fruits and veggies and a piece of toast.
Feed the poor kid what he will eat

My son’s therapist actually said that was bad for Children
my son will only eat meat, noodles, pizza 
no veg’s, no potatoes
she said just put everything on his plate and let him eat what he wants
if u know he won’t eat what your making give him a plate and if he doesn’t eat it give him a bowl of cereal or something he will eat
if u try and force him to eat he will never try new things


Never force your kids to eat food they don’t want to and never let them go to bed hungry. If he wants mAC and cheese everyday or chicken nuggets just let him eat it. Eventually he will ask for something different and you will be shocked. Every parent goes thru this but never ever force them or make them go to bed hungry.

My doctor said don’t force food on picky eaters they will come around .so feed him what he likes.dont make him go to bed hungry that’s so wrong.let him come around he will try new things if you try to force feed him or not give him any other foods he will never change his food habits.encourage him to try new stuff not force him.trust me I have the picky eater in my house and he has came around on his own .

That is not picky eater. That is a self restricted eater. Find an occupational therapist or speech therapist who specializes in feeding therapy.

don’t let your child go to bed hungry. Why don’t you just prepare things your child does like? My 3 year old is extremely picky and we try to get her to try new things and sometimes she will and as she gets older her tastes will expand but for now I’d rather see her eat the things she does like as opposed to sending her to bed hungry.

My daughter is seven and if she doesn’t like what I have made then I tell her she can go make herself a healthy dinner
 normally she makes herself a sandwich with carrots apple slices yogurt and baby bell cheese

As long as he eats SOMETHING, Let him be picky. They grow out of it. NEVER send your child to bed hungry. If its cereal for supper, fine. As long as hes eating. My grandaughter only ate a few things. So thats what we fed her. Now shes 5 and eats well.

“No thank you” bites. My 5 year 9ld granddaughter is picky. With no thank you bites, she has come to realize, she likes more food than she realized.

My grandaughter only ate pasta another only ate chicken nuggets. It has something to do with touch/texture. But you need to give him something no one should go to bed hungry. I’ve been there

As long as there something hes comfortable eating give him it doesn’t matter if its everyday
he will eat variety when hes older hes still 4 for crying out loud
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Our rule was two bites. And tell them first bite your mouth and brain will freak out it’s a texture flavor it’s weird. Second bite your brain will actually be calmer and most times they will eat it

For one, a 4 year old should NOT be going to bed hungry!!! It is NOT an option!!! Make his meal “fun food”. Make it into shapes on his plate. For example - cut steak into a dino shape, green beans into a smiley face, etc. I had to do it with 2 of my kids and it worked. If he doesn’t eat it, make him a pbj, but never EVER send him to bed hungry!!!