There’s adds all over the place over here. Covid is not a reason to alter a parenting plan. If you do it you can be held in contempt. I don’t care what an 11 year old is dictating.
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This virus is here to stay and we all have to adapt. Ask your daughter does she want to live like this and never see her dad? We see no end in sight so realistically life needs to go on. Are they supposed to never tell her what they do and hide everything because it might upset her? She also needs to think how her dad feels never seeing her.
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You need to talk to the father. You need to encourage her to see her dad. Possibly did you say anything negative about dad or his family. Perhaps she feels insecure due to the birth of your baby. Either way, encourage to see her dad. That’s wrong on every level.
Let her do what is comfortable !! Maybe there is more to the story that she doesn’t want to go back!!
It’s not cool that there guilting her and bribing her
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Let him be mad if she doesn’t feel safe don’t make her go
He can come see her at her house
First find out who all is hanging out at dad’s house, it may not be about covid and she may be trying to tell you something deep, you and dad really need to listen to your daughter. If it is just covid then the 2 of you need to make her feel safe at each home, that is your responsibility as parents. But you need to find the root of the problem.