My Sons girlfriend is Spanish they have been together since 18. It was long ago when he told me this and he was shocked to be told this. I hope someone who is Spanish and lived there can correct this if he was told wrong. He was told the legal age of girls there was 13. I do not know if that also meant they could leave home at that age. Being in England and being she is under age for her to be under your roof for your son and your safety I think you should contact someone in authority. You cannot reach out to her Mum or Dad but you have tried with her oldest Sister and no response. The girl seems scared but will not say why. Do the parents even know she is staying with you and your Son what have they been told. Any parent would want to know where their child was. I would hate your kindness to backfire at some point and the authorises come down on you or your Son. Maybe the child protection line could advise or Social Services or her School would know where to head with this. They would talk with her parents and to her. Seems strange they do not understand English but are living working here You are only getting one side of the story not the whole picture. Please contact the authorities when you have the full picture and you know no trouble will be heading to your door and your happy for her to be under your roof then do it that way be her legal guardian. Something is not right please protect your Son and yourself legally. You have a minor in your home.
If you dont let her stay at your house she’ll go back home.
Call CPS, she’s their kid not yours. They can’t just shirk their responsibility.
She wasn’t kick out maybe the mom not agreed on her age having a boy friend or maybe she having a domingo 7 yup i would kick her out.
Never met a Hispanic 13-yr-old allowed to have a boyfriend. I’m betting this is THE problem. You need to bring that girl back home and abide by her parents’ rules/wishes.
Stop making her problem your. She your son’s 13 year old girl friend are you serious!!!@
If they go to the same school maybe arrange a meeting with the head teacher, he or she will know what to do from there
Report this… I found a runaway once an I talked little fellow into going to the police station… She was so hungry…
Phone social services. She’s a minor.
Being under the age of consent as to where she wants to live (some states it’s 14) you can get into legal trouble. Report it and let them handle this, she may be a runaway and sounds like the parents are illegals if they don’t speak any english. Sorry but its the law to report the child to the right authorities, you have no rights to raise her, you can apply to foster but being as she has a bf in the home I’m guessing that won’t fly with them.
A true Hispanic family will not allow her to have a boyfriend 100%. I’m sure that’s the issue but it’s also odd the sister would not respond though. Also it’s simple to translate a short letter online and maybe even ask someone you know who can speak Spanish to write it for you and ask if everything is okay? If she is welcome there?
So, she came over for a play date and refused to leave? Sounds to me like you let her stay and now she doesnt want to leave. Time for you to realize your son is THIRTEEN and shouldnt even have unlimited game time let alone unlimited girlfriend time. Send her home and treat your son his age
I think the whole family know what is going on they are forcing their daughter on ur son next thing u know he’ll be marrying her after she gets her visa I’m scared she’ll brake the poor clueless stupid in love son of urs
You start wrong you end wrong.Your sons girlfriend at 13 ? Error.
Next if the sister can speak English why is she not saying anything. Probably they don’t like her and they are dumping her on you.The fact that they know she likes your son is evern better. The same way you saying he is her boyfriend they are saying the same. .
You can ask someone you know who speaks spanish to talk and interpret for you.
You can take the matter to the school counselor.
Whatever you do be mindful that it is possible for you to get in trouble one way or the other. She is a minor.
Not your circus not your monkeys and why is ur son dating a 13 yr old??? Thats the question you need to contend with. Stop being a friend and be a parent… before youre a grandparent
Wow, you got alot of criticism here. Call the police, or go in and talk to the police. They have officers that are bilingual, and go talk to the parents. They may not be reporting her because they are illegal and are afraid. Or, they are shitty people, and don’t give a F. My children were great at finding lost souls who needed mothering. I never turned a child away. It cost us alot, lol, food wise, but no one went hungry. I appreciate you trying to help her, but you need to get some answers too. Good luck!!
It’s CPS’s problem. It’s child endangerment to kick your child out before 18 so call social services and call it a day. These kids are 13 they shouldn’t have any relationship besides being friends.
How old is your son?
Mom, you are making a grave mistake… get cps involved or the police before you become the mother of your son’s and the 13 year old’s baby
Bye a translator. Yes investment . But maybe worth it in this situation. Nothing would be second hand.
I would find another place or get school involved. You don’t want your son being in a situation we’re she gets pregnant. Just a thought.
This needs to be reported. Its really nice that u have given her a place to stay for now but allowing her to stay there can potentially b a legal liability for u. U need to contact the authorities and get advice on what to do. Depending on where u r depends on what ur rights r in this situation. It is a heartbreaking situation and i wish u all the best
Call CPS. Letting her stay with you, you will be a grandparent soon. She is 13 years old. She is her parent’s and CPS issue
Umm call the cops!! At 13 they can not kick that child out!! How old is the son!??
Call children services & get that child out your house
Yes it’s unfortunate what she’s going through but you are liable
This is a kid, a 13yr old kid that shouldn’t be considered as nobody’s girlfriend
What the hell is wrong with you?
How old is your son?
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He could be charged with being a statutory rapist, his name on the paedophile list for life,
You decide if that’s OK
Call the authorities
Can you go over and talk to them using a translator app?
She need to take that butt back home !!! I’m Mexican and I know what’s up … they are tying to probably tell her to leave if that’s what she wants and she is probably trying to make your son take her in as he’s woman already nope I wouldn’t do it …
Take her some where thats gonna end Up very bad
Truthfully, it is. If they report her a run away, you could get in trouble. I would take her home and try to talk to the parents.
Can you find someone who lives close or who speaks spanish to translate?
Ummm. No. She is 13. She needs to be home. Tell them you will have no other choice but to call authorities.
Contact the police- get them involved- that family could turn this around on you, and you’d be facing charges (harboring a runaway)
she’s trying to move into your house LOL
Call the non emergency line and talk to an officer about this. Maybe they can send someone that speaks Spanish to the house to talk to you and her parents together.
I would take her home. She is 13 you can’t just kick your kid out that’s under age. I would try to talk to the parents at there house.
Call 911 to send a cop who speaks spanish to go with you
That’s abetting a minor who will be with your son. Do you want to be an early grandmother and then charged??? Send her child ass back home or call CPS!
Can’t you call a social worker ?
Call police and CPS. There’s a reason she’s terrified to go home.
Shes 13. They probably told her " leave then if thats what you want " she wants to live with her boyfriend. Find someone who speaks spanish and english and go over there and talk to those parents. What if they report her missing or a runaway and you have her? That wouldnt be good.
DSS or Police she’s a child
IMO this is why children at this age do not need to play boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s too much drama and the kids should be focusing on other things.
If you can’t get thru to the parents or sister, you need to contact the authorities
Contact the cops and CPS
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You need to call CPS. They can’t just kick out a 13 year old child and you can’t take care of a child that you don’t have the legal right to.
Get rid of her or raise your sons baby. Those are your options.
Need to report to child services and law enforcement
Shes not yours …respect that …I would get dss involved def dont send her back home…shes probably being set up by her parents to cross the border or do something illegal …no telling what them parents are doing to her… nowadays making them do illegal things and putting their lives at Danger… 13 year old girl just don’t come to you like that in fear of her own parents …come on… I think you could possibly hold her life in your hands definitely call the police DSS get them involved
Call cps. Your 13 year old should not be in this much drama already
I’d say call CPS but would be sad if that got them deported or something. iPhone has an app called iTranslate that does voice translation , maybe something like that?
First its against tge law to kick a minor out. Second there is more to 5the story
The laws vary from state to state. And they may be afraid to come get her depending on their documentation status. There are several non-profits that assist the Hispanic community including translation and family counseling. Check Google for your city.
There may be a huge cultural barrier you’re not taking into account. When my adopted brother was about 12-13 his brother (who he lived with because his parents didn’t want him) put him out. There’s a real secret in the culture, they won’t speak badly of their family so you might never know but I would absolutely not get CPS involved, if she doesn’t have a reason she might very well get one if you bring the government into it. Provide her sanctuary if you can, if not let her know and see if you can bring her to a friends house.
Call CPS. I know you want to help, but something is going on at home.
Something is going on that she’s not telling you.
Call the cops and let them deal with it. You don’t want to be harboring a runaway.
That’s awful. Her parents should be ashamed, she is a child! If she’s terrified and doesn’t want to go home maybe you can find somewhere safe for her. Maybe a relative or friend of yours can take her in temporarily. Be kind. Help her out. Your son and his girlfriend will thank you.
I would talk to her first. If there is a language barrier I wonder if she she lying to her parents about where she is going. And then lying to you about why she is there so she can have a sleepover with her boyfriend. Or talk to your son and tell him your plan if you don’t find out what’s really going on. Calling CPS if this is just a teenage shenanigan can cause kore damage than it’s worth. They may not realize what they are doing
Sounds like she just doesn’t want to be at her home and wants to be at your home with your son! I smell TROUBLE. That can blow up in your face real quick if she’s reported as a runaway, you could be charged. If she’s reported as kidnapped, you can be charged. If anything happens, you could be held responsible. Worse? She could become pregnant at 13! That makes your son a father! Please, I know you’re trying to help this girl, but getting her to go home where she belongs is best! Maybe contact the school counselor?
Yikes they can definitely not live together. You taking her in could get you in trouble legally.
You will have a bigger problem if you keep her around. She is a minor. Get the right authorities involved
Is that not illegal? Wouldn’t that be considered child abandonment
Like others have said. CPS is a great resource. No harm reaching out and they can help you sort out the situation and language barrier
Don’t keep her you guna end up with a grandbaby… You guna be taken care of… She obviously too grow for her parents to handle 13 yrs old I don’t think I was leaving moms till 16 and now I’m 34 I’m like damn I was young you sure I did that… Don’t take strays!! And then that’s a case for you and your son I know in Texas you are harboring a minor and if she ends up pregnant parents could press charges of rape
I ran away from home because it was unbearable. I had a very controlling b-word sister and my parents were about to split and my dad blames me. He was also an alcoholic. I thank God that my best friend’s sister took me in until I could sort things out with my family.
Ahah I was kicked out at 14. In a relationship for two years already. My bfs mom put two and two together with little signs like me taking showers there after school. Then she drew the line when she caught me stealing a can of green beans (to eat in my homemade tent for dinner) and for the first time in my life I had a stable home and my own bedroom from then on. Talk to the child. See what her opinion is or if she has a relative to stay with
First how old is your son-13 is young to be a gf. Call a professional of some sort. If something happens to this child or they try to say you kidnapped her or something!! Your aren’t her parent.
My parents started kicking me out at 11 lol not fun! Unfortunately you are going to have to call cps and the police, you can get in HUGE trouble for “harboring a run away/minor” it sucks all around but that’s better than you and your family getting in big trouble…
Contact the right authority if she still refuses to go home. That smells trouble and your son is too young to face that. She is not your responsibility.
You have to call child services and report it to the local police otherwise you will be end up in trouble
Call the police or CPS She should not be at your home! She’s a minor and parents need to step up, take responsibility and sort it out.
There is something that she did that made her parents mad. And most of the arguments between a Hispanic parent and a 13yr old it’s because they want to act and do things like an adult. She won’t get “kicked out” just because. And like other ladies said, she didn’t want to follow her parents rules. So she found it easy to just go to your house. So, tell your son that she can’t be staying there and send her back home, otherwise you will call the cops.
I would report it to CPS as soon as possible, but also provide a safe place for her until CPS arrives. I wouldn’t kick out a 13 year old that has nowhere to go.
My husband’s family took me in when i was 17, 12 years ago. All i said was “i dont want to go home” my dad didn’t want me home, my mom was on drugs living in a crackhead motel. I was mature for my age. They were kind to let me stay with them. I helped around the house and grew to call my husbands parents mom and dad (i still do) his brothers and sisters are my siblings now. We have been together 12 years. I dont think i would have found my soulmate if they hadnt let me stay. We werent even dating when i moved in. I would wait for the sister to answer to make sure the parents know and really sit down with the girlfriend. What does she want out of life, her goals and how will she get there if living under your roof. It might be best she stay, if you are willing to have her. Thats up to you and your husband. God bless her, i know she’s just a child trying to figure it all out just like I was.
I would start off by going to the school counselor/principal. I would not let her spend the night with my 13 year old. Do you want to be a grandma!?
No one wants her homeless but I wouldn’t have her in my home with her “boyfriend” either. Nor would I risk getting charged with harbouring a runaway etc.
Find another parent who can translate. Go speak with them, if they did kick her out, maybe you can get a written plan to allow you to keep her at your house.
I mean this daughter must speak English and Spanish take her home and make her translate you talking to her parents.
Take her home. Shes 13! She doesnt get a choice unless shes in danger! If you think she might be in danger then reach out to the police, cps, or even the school counselor. Shes cant be kicked out at 13. That’s illegal. Either she needs help, or she’s trying to just be closer to her bf. Regardless, you cant just “keep her.” Having a bf and gf both young teens under the same roof is a BAD idea.
At 13 years old this girl is a huge liability. If anything happens you will be in deep trouble. She is a child Call the law and have them investigate what’s going on at home.
Before getting cps or police involved find someone who can interpret, to find out what is really going on. Then if needed contact proper authorities. Im sure there are others besides the sister to interpret. If they open investigations could cause more harm than help. You never know what the situation is.
I’d have to call cps. To much liability with a minor, espiccaly one that young And I’m sorry I’m not letting a boyfriend or girlfriend move In.
Completely inappropriate.
Maybe one of your relatives could give her, or him, a place to sleep until things are sorted out.
Perhaps her parents don’t have papers?
Oof all these people slut shaming a 13 year old girl.
Your best option is to reach out to social services, and get her help.
Id find a third party to translate and find out the truth before involving authorities. If she has other family around hopefully she can stay with them otherwise Id have rules in place.
Why do u keep telling your son she needs to go home?! Its not his responsibility to make her leave…ITS YOURS! And honestly I would skip calling CPS and just go right to calling the police next time she shows up and won’t go home. They can take her home and figure out what’s going on. But u really need to put ur foot down and not let her in! Honestly I can’t believe ur letting ur son of that age have a girlfriend come over like that but to each their own!! This girl sounds no good so you really need to do something before she gets u in trouble!!
Have you lost your mind even considering letting a girl that young stay at your house???
I once had a friend when I wa in school who told my mum she had been kicked out. Turns out she had run away and her father was worried sick.
U can’t just let her be there without a discussion with her parents even if via the sister… who isn’t responding…There has something goin on that she not saying, she’s terrified? Why? But u need to tell her it’s not right for her to just come there, he is too young to have a sleep over gf 
and since u dint know what’s goin on u can’t have a minor at ur house not knowing what is really going on
Ok big thing there. she ‘said’ her parents kicked her out. What if she is just a normal teenager who hates her parents rules and decided your house is better. So the parents know she is safe with you, and is letting her be a rebel until she figures out that you also have rules, likely the same ones they have and she will go back. We were all teenagers once, did none of you ever hate your parents, or their rules?
Social services. Protect your son…
She needs to go home. Have her translate for you with her parents. Most likely her parents didn’t kick her out and she’s just being a dramatic 13 year old.
Ready for a grand child?
Call the school. They should have a translater. Save cps for a last ditch effort. She is a huge liability, do not let her stay there.
Umm if they are sexually active it’s illegal and you could get in trouble. You need to talk to the police. It doesn’t have to be all dramatic. Just call them and explain to them the situation. You don’t have to tell them your name or where you live. You can just ask for advice of what to do. Also someone mentioned harboring a run away, statutory rape, and contributing to the delinquency of a minor, and possible child molestation charges since she is under the age of 16 depending on the age of your son.
I’d have to contact the police. That’s way to young for a child to refuse to go home.
Siri can translate. And you could just go there and use google translate to talk.