Every human has a right to know who they really are. Even a child of a serial killer has the God given right to know their real dna family history and or other living relatives. If the child needs a kidney or any other organ he/she should be able to look for a family member that could help if needed. The way you tell the child is what will help make or break him or her.
Leave sleep dog alone why hurt your son when both grow men are ok with it
Your son would want the truth
No DNA it’s not about blood 
it’s about the man raising your child he IS the Father and the DAD don’t rock the boat
Man! So many people are so quick to be dishonest… 
Let sleeping dogs lie
His real dad stepped up and has raised him. Give him and your son respect by burying this past. Your deadbeat boyfriend doesn’t care. Don’t stir the hornets nest.
Tell him the truth. When he’s this young he might not fully understand but will get used to the idea so it’s not a shock to him when he’s older and understands all the other ramifications
Girl dont even open those call of worms
Wait tell he’s older and let him make the decision, if your now husband Loves him and cares for him he IS Your Sons Dad!!! The other loser Cant claim him, but want Nothing to do with him!!!
Your husband is your son’s daddy. The other his sperm donor (maybe) why tear your son’s world upside down for a maybe
Why open a can of worms to hurt your child
At this point? Keep your mouth shut. You are only opening a can of worms that doesn’t need to be open.
You and your son needs closure
Take a DNA to give both of you peace of mind
slackness. sex brings children use your brains
I mean I’d personally get the test out of curiosity,but at this age it could cause behavioral issues only due to the fact he’s confused that his dad(your husband) is not really his biological dad but this other dude who wants nothing to do with him is it might make him feel unwanted even if he obviously is very much wanted by you to,maybe wait a few years till he’s old enough to even understand how it could even happen! I’d say 11-12 honestly
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Id tell him… Once he’s a little older and can completely understand the story and what each man does and doesnt do or where their hearts are. He’s happy… Only knows one dad. Id keep it that way for now… The feeling of rejection by his biological father can really hurt. My son is 7 and hasn’t heard from his dad in over 3 years… for the most part he doesn’t mention it, but at times he breaks down and says he misses him, wants to talk to him… It’s hard… it is hard to explain/or not explain that their father chooses to not be a part of their life!! I would wait personally
Instead of “assuming” that the other man is the father, get a dna & find out who’s the “actual” father. And if the other man is in fact the father, then sit down with your son & tell him the truth before he finds out from someone else.
Personally I think you should tell him, just so he knows. He’ll find out in the long run and there could be some resentment.
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