Stick to what he said
mmm if she’s 18 now yeah end the drama.
too many against this young girl who dont rely know anything about the true situation. I say set a met between dad and daughter…trh to figure out a mutual solution for the good of this young girl. show her how to work through things…will be if great value in her life and less stress on all
I would back my husband
Dad lay down the rules and hes sticking by them:+1:
Stick to your husband
Just what you said! Not worth the drama!
Stand w / your husband
Don’t give it to her!
No don’t draw it out, stick with your husband, get information about it from Social Security. Hopefully she wakes up about her boyfriend.
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Listen to to your husband when it all comes down to it hes her parent an your just step stay in your place no disrespect
Do what your husband wants to do and let it in the bank
It’s not her it’s the free loading boyfriend. Stand ur ground
Your husband is correct on this issue. Do not cave in, it’s drama now but this decision is crucial for her future. The boyfriend is apparently pulling the strings. He’s in it for the payoff and will rob her blind.
She’s too young to understand what is going on.
Her education is extremely important for her future. She will thank you later for watching out for her best interest.
I actually believe that 18 is too young to be given the money.
My opinion…
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Harden your heart and stay strong NOW. If she wins this one, there will be bigger badder battles over anything she can conjure up.
Id let the dad do what he feels is right … Besides what hes doing is not wrong she can have her money when shes 18 by that time she might be happier having that money saved up … If its any consolation shes almost 18 
Stick to your guns. She is probably into drugs snd the boyfriend is not good. No telling what would happy to her if she and her abusive boyfriend have a huge influx of cash. File a restraining order to shut them down until she grows up or gets help.
Please don’t shut the door on her because if she knows you guys turn your back she will try and make it on her own. There are loads of 17 that think they know, keep telling her you love her even if you text her if she grumps back at you dont take it personally just love her cos she dies need you
do what your husband sdaid he would do peroid…
No school, no money. That’s real life.
Stand with husband…don’t trust boyfriend
Support your husband. He is right in his decision. She can only bring drama into your life if you let her. Stop allowing it.
Dad’s right. This will drop her like a hot potato if he doesn’t get his hands on her money, let that happen and save your baby girl.
Sounds like the boy got her into dope
Keep iy til she is 18 be firm
Hes going to use her money up. She’ll end up being beaten by him. He sounds that way or break in and kill you. I’d get a restraining order on both of them
Go to court she needs to learn how life works and that not everyone will give her what she wants the moment she wants it and that throwing a fit gets you what you want hell no make her see what will happen. She’s not to have the card til 18 then she waits til 18 and take hubby’s name off the account before you do so he can’t be held liable for her ignorance later
No she’s probably doing drugs with the boyfriend no money
Let her father handle it.
File to get age changed to 21. Follow husband.
Nope! Don’t do it…let hubby handle it…
The boy wants the cash
If she is not attending school, your husband has to let Social Security know, otherwise the money acquired after she quit needs to be paid back. Stand together with your husband. Maybe the loser boyfriend will be gone before November and your daughter will come to her senses.
The law is on her side if she complained to the right ppl they would send the check straight to her and your out the pic! I was on ss fir the same reason as a kid! The money is to support her needs medical housing food clothes. The law doesn’t care what daddy thinks!
Trust dad and just be supportive. She won’t get much from family court especially with her turning 18 soon. I am not even sure you should allow her to have what is in savings even after she is 18. She will need it when she try’s to get away from the idiot she is dating. Just getting her to see that is going to be the challenge.
This boyfriend has brainwashed her. Be careful. 17 is not legal and she could be considered a runaway . Be careful of them.
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Nope…i would make her wait til she is 21 and more mature…once she gets ahold of it…it will be gone in no time then come begging for more…no.way at 18 will she be mature…wait til she’s 21 or so
Stuck with your husband. He knows what he’s doing. If she harasses you block her. Keep good records in case you DO go to family court. Stay strong! Sending prayers FOR PEACE and strength for you! 
Stay on your husbands side he is right
Stick to what you told her you doing right hopefully she get tired of this dumbass
Let your husband deal with her and have his back.
Leave it alone let him deal with it
Leave it in the bank. Don’t go against your husband.
take him for a ride in my boot
Listen to your husband.
Install cameras and alarms to keep a eye on your home.
Stand strong only 2 months till November….
Follow the husband’s lead.
Do not give it to her!!!
Stay strong. Tough love
Do it the hubby’s way
Follow your husband rules
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Stick with your hubby.
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Stick to the plan. And it’s HIS KID
Stick to your original plan.
Dnt give in she sounds like a bully it’s in your name not hers
Don’t give into her wack that asshole of a so called boyfriend and please don’t give into THEM be STRONG and may God bless and good luck you won’t be sorry trust me you wil. Forsure if you do may Hod bless you
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DO NOTHING !!! The Ball is Not In Your Court. They Are Using Fear Tactics !!! Your Husband ,HER FATHER ,is Doing The Right Thing !! The Boyfriend ,is just That A “BOY”!!! He Will Go Through every Penny the Girl Gets. She Will Probably Arrive Back to Your All’s Home Pregnant & in Need Of Cash !! Call the Police If There is Fighting or Violence of Any kind. !!! GOD Takes Care of Everything !!!
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Must stand your ground til 18
Don’t, I would take it to court.
I say stick to your guns on this one.
Speaking from my own experience. I became a troubled teen and came from a very well off family, who had started a bank account for me the day I was born. Any amount of money I recieved for gifts, chores and working all went into a account as well as my parents adding money for 18 years. This account was for me to use for my extra money while going through college. I chose not to go to school and got myself kicked out of my family home at 18. I badgered my parents for my money and even had the cops involved until they finally gave I’m not wanting to deal with the drama. The account had a large amount of money in it and I decided to get me and a few of my friends a apartment and that’s when I was introduced to drugs. A large bank account supplied my habit and my friends till I became a full out drug attic and it sent my life in a major downward spiral. I’m 42 now been clean for 17 years and have 2 beautiful children and 4 step children. I will never blame my parents for giving me that money because I chose what to do with it, but if we could go back I wished they would of stuck to there guns and never gave me that money!!
back your husband. she needs life to kick her in the butt.
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Follow your husband’s lead on this.
Follow what husband says.
stick with your Hubby
Let her take you to court. You will win
Withdraw the money and you and your husband go on a dream vacation. Fuck the lil bitch the boyfriend will rip her off anyway