The boyfriend worries me. Sounds like he just wants to control her and use her for the money
Stick it out Dad don’t back down
Have the boy investigated. He has a mental control on her. Get her away from this guy, danger written all over. Have her friends been supportive or left her with him?
Why did you guys tell her that she has the money?
Your spouse is 100% correct. Keep doing what is only right because you know that after she gets her hands on that money her boyfriend will take it all and toss her to the streets once all that money is gone. She needs to learn a lesson but will only learn after she finds herself hitting rock bottom. Seems that her boyfriend cant do no wrong in her world.
I would call the police. She is a minor and her boyfriend is and adult. Don’t just Dangle that info over call police and file report.
Husband is right, don’t give in to her.
Stick with her dads rule sounds like some of that money may have to be returnd
Not your fight, you have to back up your husband
Social security will not allow the money to be saved for future use. Any monies not spent must be returned to social security at the end of each year.
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She’s not an adult yet at 17?! I personally would force her to come back home and get back in school with the help of the authorities if necessary. She’s a Teenager not even 18. She should be in therapy - she sounds codependent and her boyfriend abusive. Next thing she’ll be pregnant. She’s ruining her life.
If you withdraw the money, you think you have drama now, wait until your husband finds out you did this and bang! You just blew up your marriage. Its his daughter, let her take you to court
Does anybody think that it’s wrong to keep this kids money that the government provides on behalf of her dead mother? Like the money is to support her. I’m not sure how the Social Security Administration would feel about this. Probably if she contacted them they’d appoint a new payee or possibly even cut her off. It used to be a school requirement for juvenile beneficiaries.
the boy is going to use her
as an ATM,nothing else
Don’t give her the money till she grows up. It will be gone in a week if you do.
No way,a drop out can wait as punishment. Let her take it to court money like that I thought ended anyway when they quit school . Mine did anyway.
Stay out of it…if your name was on it with your husband, that would be different.
Once she turns 18 and isn’t in school she’ll lose SS anyway won’t she?
If it’s CPP she won’t get it past 18 if not in school anyway so there is that. If it’s US I can’t say.
You don’t have the right to do it unfortunately that’s what it boils down to
Let her take ul to court n leave the $$$ n the bank until she turns 18! She might appreciate u more n the long run!
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If u give in she will never stick to anything she needs to realise if u don’t play ur part in the game then rules change n u not get wat u want. Giving in only will give u short bit piece n end drama for short time then will come back at u n will no if u keep pressure on the parents will cave n give u wat u want. Tuff luv is only way
Does she really have the money to take you to court?
I would do whatever you need to do legally.
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No no no. Sadly, that money will be used for the wrong purpose. Tell her to get a job
Let her father handle it. You will regret it if you dont. There should be no drama for you that way
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Great hubby/great dad! Let him take charge… she may come around with this kind of tough love…
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Absolutely not. He and her will piss it all away within 6 months.
Let her dad do his thing. Stand by him while he does it
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Let her father handle her. I’ll also say Kudos to dad good job.
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Follow your husband’s lead. He is a good parent!
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She needs to learn respect. If she can’t abide by the rules she must live by the consequences.
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Support your Husband and show him the respect he deserves.
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Hope she will end her relationship with this controlling guy! Lord have mercy on her and bring her back to safely 
I say let her Dad handle things concerning her and money. Father knows best.
Listen to your Husband, he knows what he’s doing. Plus, it’s a good lesson for her to learn about rules and RESPECT!!
I bet the boyfriend wants the money more than her. Don’t give her the money, she’ll thank y’all later
Let your husband handle it. Stay out of situation.
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1 do not let her bully you
#2 stick by husband…let him set the rules and make the daughter abide by them
She needs to learn a lesson. I am siding with your husband on this one.
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Your husband is right on this.
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As much as it hurts, I agree with your husband. Let her learn it the hard way, that’s how people grow.
Listen to your hubby.If he give her money her boyfriend will probably spend it on god knows what.Your husband sounds like a smart man.
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Stick to your guns. She’ll thank you later
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That boyfriend does not love her. He loves the money he thinks he is going to get because of her
She will give the money to her boyfriend! Tough for her!.
Listen to the hubby
Let her earn her keep and trust
She will give her money to her boyfriend if she gets her hands on it
She will have to learn the hard way and this will be a lesson to her
Tough love
I’d be more concerned about this boyfriend of hers.
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Listen to your husband he’s right if you give it to her the boyfriend will brake her fast xo
Your husband is right. Support him.
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Don’t do it. It’s a lesson she needs to learn and be responsible- let him deal with it
Tough love is hard.You got this. I stand with you,be strong.
Her dad is doing the right thing
Some day she thank him.
I say let your husband take care of this issue ! I say he is doing the right thing .
Side with your husband. He is looking out for her best interest. She needs to learn the hard way
Listen to your husband. If she wants to take you to c ourt then so be it.
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Let him parent his child. He’s not hurting her by following through on what he told her.
Stay out of it. Let her dad do his bidings. She will come around.
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Been there done that, Let your husband hold his ground. Good luck girl!!
Good job dad…id raise the age to 21 before I gave her a $
Listen to your husband. If need be put a restraining order on her and her boyfriend. Sounds like she has to learn things the hard way.
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Listen to your husband she is to young to make those kind of decisions
You. Give. Them. That. Money. And. They. Blow. It. Which. Thats. What. They. Will. Do. And. He. Leaves. Her. After. Her. Life. Is. Runed. And. She. Ask. To. Come. Back. Home. Broke. What. Then. Or. Mabie. A. Loaf. In. The. Oven. God. Forbid. But. It. Can. Happen. To. You. And. Your. Husband. Your. Husband. Is. Rt
No. Don’t go against your husband.
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Screw that …she just a selfish entitled woke indivildual who is owed nothing…Woke people need to “Wake Up”…Jeez!
Put it in a trust fund and she can’t have it until she’s 21
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I’d stand with your husband.
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She cannot have it till she is 21 AND MORE SENSIBLE!!!
I agree with your husband.
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Let your husband take the lead on this one
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Your the parent. Not her. Good Luck.
Hope and pray she doesn’t get pregnant and let dad handle this money problem.
Cut off the financial support the boys using her to support him
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Her Dad is in Control, 
very sad !
Listen to the dad! Her boyfriend may be in it for the money.
Good job Dad she needs to grow up me .take but over half in a trusted until she is 25.
He is correct, tough love. Support his decision.
Do what your husband said
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Stand by your man. If he gives in to her her boyfriend going to drain her dry.
Put the money in a trust for her, until she’s 25. The boyfriend probably won’t stick around that long
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Not post this private personal family issue on FB! Sad people need validation!
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Her boyfriend only wants her money. Stick by your man
Stand by your man!! Stick to his word with Tough love 
Once she gets that money, you won’t see her till it’s GONE!!!
Very short period of time.
BF is manipulating her!!!
Stay away of the drama, she’s not your daughter and don’t confront your husband, he knows what he’s doing.
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Do not give in! Hold your ground and Well done to the both of you!
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Support your husband, don’t let her cause problems between you & your husband.
Report her run away ,not in school ! Staying with boy and where !! She don’t call the SHOTS
Stick to your guns. Its a test and she needs to learn her boundaries
She wants to be a woman let her go make her own money. That’s not hers
I think he’s doing the right thing he’s being a good parent
Let her take you to court. Her dad is correct
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Husband’s right make her responsible.
Husband is right. Period!
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No do what her father said snd sounds like boyfriend just wants the money
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Stay strong. She’s got a couple of months and then it’s hers. She’ll earn it and lose it the hard way. 
Stand firm
She’ll thank you later, I promise!!
I say back your husband up. He right
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Worried for this girl, hope she comes home soon.
Let dad Handel, he knows what he’s doing, Stand with him.