I wouldnt be emailing id be going in and taking the police with me a email might not be read for days & by then he could have done it to others.
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Forget a letter, call the police!
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Take her to the police!
I havenāt read other comments but I wouldnāt be writing an email to the principal, Iād be at the police station
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Fuck a email ID be at that school demanding answers
Go to the police. The school will not proactively take her side
Police should be involved.
You should be pressing charges because sexual assault is a crime. I stg some of you ask the dumbest questions.
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Police & press charges
I would contact the school and immedialtly file a police report . This boy is of age to know whats right and whats wrong
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Where I am from sexually assaulting my daughter would give me life in prison with a smile on my face!!
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Confronting his parents and the school in.person
I would be at the school then the police wouldnāt bother e mailing
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Schools havent been doing anything til people get tik tok and other social media involved. If u dont they push it under the rug. Call them out they actually try cuz spot lights on them
You should call the police and press charges. Better stop the behavior now, not just ācheckā himā¦.
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File a police report and press charges and then file a civil suit against the school. It is the schoolās responsibility to keep our kids safe and act swiftly in these situations. I would have called not mailed to the principal. It is important that your daughter sees you are there like a mama Grizzly protecting her fiercely.
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If this happened to my child, Iād have contacted the police, and I would have personally been up to that school in a heartbeat. Writing a letter and waiting isnāt good enough when he could be doing this to someone else child .
Iām very so to hear that it happened to you daughter. I hope everything gets figured out.
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Push for something to happen!
I had a boy freshman year I was in front of filing cabinet and he grabbed my breasts ā¦ to get him off and for me to get away from him I had to push him ā¦ we both got in trouble both suspended and both had to go speak to someone at juvi ā¦ they lady I talked to was like wtf r u doing here ā¦ I didnāt have a mother who fought for my behalf she just let things go
Mind u I wasnāt going to say anything ā¦ another teacher was told abt what happened found me in the hall and told me that I either report it or he will ā¦ so I did ā¦ but I didnāt think Iād be suspended and I donāt think he did either bc he was super apologetic when I went back to school
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Iād break the handsā¦or anything else that touched my kid. But I guess Iām built different 
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POLICE. Then the school has to act otherwise they look bad
I would be AT the school with the POLICE pressing charges!!!
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Itās 2022, skip the hand-written.
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Call the Police and file a report to formally investigate.
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Go to the School and speak with the highest in charge to ensure her continued safety.
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File a report with the School board pending the results of the investigation.
You got this Mamaās 
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I wouldāve called police n went to the school. I pray that u get to the bottom of this situation n justice she needs. This is so sad! Sorry this happened to her. Depends on where u live I think schools out for spring break so I hope u can get the matter taken care of as soon as possible.
Wrote a letter? Iād be marching in the right away and make a police report! Wtf.
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same happened to me and thatās how it started and only got worse. Please alert police. I wish I would have told my parents at the time it occurred but was too scared. Better to be safe than sorry.
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Itās the same as if you were touched at work or on the streets, go to the police. Young man needs a lesson in consent.
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File a police report.
Should have called the cops immediately! Then went to the school! Hell if was me Iād of called and told the cops to meet me at the school because shits about to go down!
I would contact police, parents, school board, everyone I could until it was properly handled but also taught my daughter how to throw a mean right hook and she knows I will always have her back when it comes to defending herself
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You wrote a letter why not go to the school if it happened there or call the police. I would have started with calling the school if thats where it happened. If not there than I would call police writting a letter gets you nowhere
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Wtf you writing a letter forā¦ Get off your BUTT call the cops and have them meet you at school. If this is TRUE be a MOM and stand up for your daughter appropriatelyā¦ School meeting with cops and also the other kids family involved.
Call the school or go to the school, donāt wait on an email for one thing.
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Call the police. Itās not ok in any way, size, shape or form. Detention wonāt fix this. Go to the authorities.
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Last thing I would do is write a letter. First thing would of been to call the cops.
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Please go to your childās school and demand a meeting. Please file a police report as well.
Iām glad you are reaching out for help. Hugs to you and your daughter
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A letter, nope go to that school first thing report it and tell them actions need to be taken. Also talk to the schools police officer.
File a police report.
Make a police report so you have a paper trail starting now about his behavior. Get her into a therapist that works with assault victims.
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Report to police. Report it do it now.
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Iād call the policeā¦ and go in and make sure the situation is dealt with. Never mail when itās something so serious.
Police for sure. Make a big enough stink and maybe itāll save other girls from experiencing the same and snap that young man into the reality of consequences so he doesnāt fucking touch another lady without permission.
You go sit in that office and demand to speak to the principal. My daughter was inappropriately touched by a teacher. We did send an email because we found out after school hours but we were in that front office when they opened up.
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You wrote a letter? WHAT??? Call the principal, the police and make a report.
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This happened with my daughter in our case school didnt do anything and the police werenāt interstead in doing their jobs. They all kept Revictimizing my daughter Suggesting she wanted or provoked the unwanted touch. The hall cameras happened to not be āworkingā in the hall it happened in. Complete failure from all authority involved. It was bad! We switched schools.
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First and foremost. Make sure she knows she has every right to defend herself by any means necessary (she should knock the shit out of the kid)
Second, forget the letterā¦ go directly to the school with an officer.
Call the police sexual assault is serious
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Report. Document. Get ready to fight, because the schools love to cover up things like this.
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File a police report and go into the school. This isnāt something to be taken lightly.
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Report to the police, or the schools officer if they have one.
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AN EMAIL WONT DO ANYTHING ,GO TO THE SCHOOL AND BE MAD AF ABOUT IT!!! ITS YOUR DAUGHTER WE ARE TALKING ABOUT! And DONT FORGET FILE A POLICE REPORT AGAINST THAT KID.
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Please, come straight to a random effing FB group to ask advice BEFORE doing what you KNOW needs done. Jesus H. I truly hope you have more common sense than you are showing here, but with the way the world is anymore, I seriously doubt it.
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You call police and file a report.
You should speak to the principal directly, not just write a letter. Half the time Nothing is done until you make a stink about it
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An email??? You need to file report and handle this IN PERSON. How do you expect the the principal to take it seriously, if you canāt even go in person? What if the mail went to spam? This needs to be more important than an email
If there is a resource officer(police) on premises, go thru them and make a report and contact the school board to make sure a report is made and charges pressed.
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An email? Seriously?? You better go right up in person!
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Sorry but the school wonāt do sh I t. You need to call the police.
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GO TO THE SCHOOL!!! Donāt leave until it is addressed, your daughter needs to KNOW that you will FIGHT for her!!!
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Get info on who it was. File police reportā¦pay parents a visit ā¦police report will get things much further
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Go to the police NOW
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It most definitely depends on what the actual situation was. My husband gave his then girlfriend, at 16 years old, a few hickeys and her guardians decided to full on press assault charges on him. These charges did not come up until he turned 18 when we were already together. You need to be careful about potentially ruining someoneās life. I feel things like this are thrown around so loosely these days- please do not get me wrong- I would never say just let it go but you need to be certain of the situation and the potential consequences for both parties. If you decide to pursue this follow all the way through with it! In my husbands case the guardians pressed charges then never follows through with any court hearings at all- thankfully charges were dropped but in the state of Texas ādomestic assaultā can not be removed from your record. It really affected him from getting some really good jobs for a long time.
This is police report business. DO IT NOW.
You wrote a letterā¦wtf
CHARGE HIM AND GET YOUR DAUGHTER INTO THERAPY N.O.W!!!
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Go to the school and the police!!! Make a damn scene thatās your daughter protect her every way possible, if heās not corrected itāll be someoneās elseās daughter. Stop the behavior before it continues
CALL THE POLICE! Follow thru! He will do it again
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REALLY? I started reading this and right of the bat i saw a red flagā¦ "You wrote " you fu:#ing kidding me?
I would of been sitting at the school next morning in person face to face me my daughter principal waiting on the boy n his parents to get to the bottom of the problemā¦ A letter really? Dont ack like your to worried
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Youā¦ wroteā¦ themā¦???
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If nothing happens go to.School Board
/Governors and next stop is legal advice.
Call the cops thatās sexual assault
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Honestly Iād just show up at the school.
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Call the police!!! Sexual assault!!!
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Schools donāt really do anything. They actually do their best to neutralize the situation and push it under the rug. If you want anything done you will have to file a report with the police department.
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Please go to school. No one has the right to put their hands on no one especially like that. Request the boys parents also be called in. If no satisfaction head to the school board. Also make a police report immediately.
First of all you shouldāve went to the police!
Second of all you shouldāve went straight to the school and talked to the principal. A letter will do nothing!
And last if her school is like my kids school, NOTHING will be done.
Good luck!
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Sexual assault warrants a call to the police, not an email to the principal.
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Iād call the police! You need to teach your daughter that is 0 tolerance. No exceptions.
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I wouldāve left the school out of it and gone to his parents. Would also need the full story.
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As someone whoās experienced this, if sheās comfortable make a report with the police ASAP, if you wait the school and cops will both likely brush it under the rug saying they canāt do anything because itās too late and thereās no proof. Itās sad but thatās what tends to happen. Itās why my abusers never faced consequences and haunts me to this day.
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Police report. It way not go far but it. Will get attention
Good for notifying the school in writing. Do a follow up call
Remember daughter may get harassed if too much attention is out on this
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I give you credit cause Iād have handled it by showing up on homeboys front porch and wrecked him on his own property. Iād have gone to jail that night. Iām getting him AND his momma for not raising her kid to respect women. Kid or not, he knows better and it wonāt be my fucking daughter. Shoulda thought twice before picking her.
I was in FIRST GRADE the first time a boy harassed me and made me uncomfortable and if thereās anything I remember the most itās the feeling in that moment and the even worse feeling of feeling like no one cared and nothing was really done about it. Let my first grader come home the same way I didā¦ that little boy and his parents would have been sorry.
Hi there! I was assaulted by a boy at school and such and yes please inform the school!
Go to the school!!
Go to school and raise hell. File a police report. Donāt let that pos boy get away without punishment.
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Call the police department!!
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First thing should of been police called. I have 3 girls if one of my girls come home telling me what you are saying Iām not going set down and write a letter and wait for school to respond back. What is wrong with parents
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Call the cops and file a report
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Have you heard what will happen to you if you donāt report this to police you can get charges also because you know about it now we all do
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Get in touch with the police
They will investigate and refer you to child advocate they will the. Refer you to therapy thats available
This happened to my grand dtr and the boy goes to her school
Also request an escort for your dtr so she doesnāt have to pass hom in the halls alone
The school wonāt do this unless you request it and if theyāre on the same bus request a different bus
Rumors flew all over the school it was horrible
The staff was not supportive
This is sexual assault dont let this get swept under the rug
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It does not matter what environment it happens in; you call the police, and you report this assault to authorities.
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Get in touch with the damn parents! The school will do nothing! Then call the police and file charges on him. Your daughter will now be scarred for life. Do not let this boy get away with this!!!
I would have been knocking at his door to talk to his parents. I would have went to the police station m made a report. Id go in person n talk to the Principal, teacher, and whoever heard my loud, mean voice! Id also go to the school district n raise hell. Dont just send an email n sit back please!
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Call the cops and file charges
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Call the police and file charges. Why is this even a question?
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Call the police make a report
call the school demand it be addressed
call the parents and demand it be addressed
Start teaching your daughter self defense. No one will be able to protect her better than herself. Give her the skills and the confidence to be able to say NO and back that up with a swift, decisive, and disabling self defense.
There are lots of resources. Karate classes, lots of police stations will have resources for self defense or even teach classes on it specifically for women, reach out to womenās groups they also may have resources as well. Get her into counseling, even if itās just one time, to make sure she has the support and coping skills. Not only for the trauma itself but also for the aftermath. This will impact her, one way or another, for the rest of her life.
She was a victim this time. Your response will either prepare her to be a victim again or you can give her the tools to do everything in her power to make sure it doesnāt ever happen again.
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Yeah I wouldnāt have written a email, I wouldāve gone to the school personally, your daughter needs to see that you have her back and that you support her, writing an email and waiting for a response isnāt doing so, I went through that in 6th grade, I went straight to the vice principalās office, turns out it wasnāt just me, they ligned up all the girls and spoke to them one by one and then spoke to the boys, this is not something that should be brushed off as normal, I honestly donāt remember the punishment they gave him, but he sure as h*ll never came near me again
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A police report should have been filed. Heād old enough to know better and that kind of behavior will only get worse as he ages.
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Notify the school, and then go to the police.
File a police report, hire a lawyer, and get a restraining order. The school will not take it seriously. Inform them obviously but they wonāt do anything. You need to protect your daughter because nobody else will
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I would be so upset and went straight to the school. I wouldnāt let them do anything else but focus on the situation. And make sure my daughter knows how to defend herself too. I know itās not always easy but find ways to teach her self defense. Whether itās putting her in a class or YouTubing self defense moves and practicing at home.
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Screw the mail part, show up at Principalās office with police.
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My daughter went through this in middle school. I immediately went to the school. She wasnāt the only 1 to complain. I went to the school board police and they pressed charges. There was a court date set, but I was unable to attend because of a huge family emergency. adding, if their happened at school, local PD will tell you to contact the school police qnd they should have the name of the officer assigned. In my situation no one had updated the list for months and I had to keep calling
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Call the police to make a report
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