What to do with a boyfriend who is "too busy" to see me?

My boyfriend is going out to the adult entertainment club and he has already had permanent damage to his corpus cavernous from previous injuries , he also told me he was too busy to see me on labor day weekend
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. What to do with a boyfriend who is "too busy" to see me?

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You mean ex boyfriend?

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Find a new boyfriend !

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Iā€™m confused as to what previous injuries have to do with him being a shitty bfā€¦

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Watch " heā€™s not that into u"

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  1. You could talk to him about it
  2. You could show him the door
  3. You could put up with it.

It really comes down to what YOU want to do with a boy thatā€™s to busy for you

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I would just get rid if the whole damn boyfriend.

Were these injuries caused from the club?? And what is he busy doing on labor day?? I need more info.

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If a guy is really into you, he will stop at nothing to be with you. He is using you Hun.

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No one is ever to busy for someone they truly love, care for and wanna be with. Get a new boyfriend.

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Maybe she is boaring

Get a new boyfriend O.o

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What is he doing to have damaged his penis?

Maybe heā€™s trying to see if it still works properly after the injury :joy::skull:

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Kick him to the curb, heā€™s not worth the heartache.

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Find a man and dump the boy

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Hey Siri Whatā€™s corpus cavernous - Chile, no maā€™am what boyfriend he getting serviced hardT at that strip ooops adult entertainment club :sneezing_face::woozy_face::woman_facepalming:t5:

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Lol everyone giving ā€œleave himā€ advice with only 1 poorly written sentence with absolutely no info :joy::joy:

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I donā€™t think Iā€™m really understanding this. How do you get hurt there? Itā€™s meant for slammingā€¦this sounds a little suspect.

Never going to work. Get rid of him now.

I have way to many questions to even be able to give any helpful advice on this onešŸ˜©

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Corpus cavernous- either of two masses of erectile tissue forming the bulk of the penis and the clitoris. :unamused:

Why are you still calling him your boyfriend?

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Dump him, Find some one who will make time for you once in a while over the weekend. Life is too short to waste it on him.

Soā€¦did the pervious damage to hisā€¦partsā€¦come from.the last time he went to an adult entertainment club? Like strip club?

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Dont make me have to google his injury before I give advice! Maybe find a way to go see him it seems like it may be painful whatever the heck it is.

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What?

Youā€™re upset because heā€™s going to the strip club and too busy to see you?
But also needed to mention he has some sort of damage to what??
Iā€™m so confused

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Donā€™t play with busted merch. Return it!! :rofl::rofl:

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Yeah you need to move on to better things. If a guy is interested in you its easy to tell, if heā€™s not itā€™s also easy to tell. Like this situation for example shows he doesnā€™t take you seriously

Iā€™m back after a quick trip to google. Girl! How did he get injured? Maybe he needs a guys night at the bar instead. Offer Netflix and chill. With literal chilling.

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Know your worth! That man is obvious trash.

What does this even say :joy::joy::joy:

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He consider considers himself single. If he loved you he would make time.

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In other words, his penis is broken.
People make time to those they want. When people show you who they are, believe them and believe them every single time. Heā€™s showing you. In terms of words and actions. Also his penis is broken, you said permanently. I donā€™t know how many more signs you need.

A doctorate degree with no damn sense when it comes to a relationship :woman_facepalming:t2:

I would wonder if he is seeing off his summer fling

I always say if he wanted 2 he would

We need more context.

Is he going by himself.

Was it planned with buddies?

Was this planned in advance?

I could see you being upset if you guys planned something together this weekend and then he ditched you to go do something else. Or if itā€™s a continuance of him not wanting to make plans with you. Soo idk of this is a situation where youā€™re just throwing a fit because you didnā€™t get your way with him this time or if itā€™s you have a legit reason to be upset due to reoccurring behaviors. Like I said. We need more context

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I wouldnā€™t be letting him anywhere near me with his ā€œCorpus Cavernousā€ anymore if I was you :thinking:

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I didnt read any further than the first sentence. If heā€™s too busy to see you, then you be too busy living your life and finding someone who actually wants to spend time with you.

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Heā€™s not a boyfriend heā€™s a has been! Move on down the road!!! Thereā€™s better places to be.

Well after reading this post and the comments at least 5 timesā€¦have a margarita and go to bed

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Your first problem is heā€™s going to adult clubs

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Reading this made my brain hurt :rofl:

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If Iā€™m reading this right, his penis was broken the last time he went to a strip club?
Boy bye :v:t3:

Girl grab a couple if drinks and fish

He doesnā€™t love you enough obvi. You deserve better than that

I give him props for telling you the truth. Heā€™s too busy to see you. That means you arenā€™t his priority.

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Put a space between boy and friend and move on :woman_shrugging:t5: doesnā€™t seem like he wants to be fully committed to you

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Go with him - at the very least you might spot a guy without broken bits.

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Then go to a club or a bar! If he doesnt wanna spend time with you, you can go spend time with someone else or your friends. Dont wait for him to give you attention. Ignore him. Dont give him your attention. Dont even get mad or upset. Stay calm and enjoy your life.

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I hear bumble is a great app.

What did I just read ??? And wtff is corpus cavernous

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Take the hint youā€™re not that important to him, go find someone who thinks otherwise x you deserve better

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I feel like women assign the title of boyfriend too liberally. Respect yourself and be choosie. When you mess up as seen above ā€¦ move on. Donā€™t even call him just block that number and pray he forgets you exist!

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If he wanted to he would.
Donā€™t waste your time lol

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This post gave me a headache due to the fact I had to google what corpus whatever is.

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So his penis is broken!?

Yikes lol wouldnā€™t worry about him cheating :joy:

Wellā€¦be too busy for himā€¦for the rest of your life. You deserve more than a guy with a broken peckerā€¦:person_shrugging:

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You deserve better treatment. Anyone does for that matter. Run before itā€™s too late.

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Move on and find someone who gives you the attention you deserve.

His shit is damaged and he doesnā€™t make you a priority?? Bye Felicia

Heā€™s giving you the easy way out. Take it & find a man that will pay attention to you & you can be sexual with. Leave broke d;ck at the strip club!!!

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Idk perfect relationships donā€™t really exist. Least nothing resembling that without equal effort, mutual respect, emotional maturity, respecting personal space, jobs, etc. I mean there are times people just wanna be left alone after work tho.

Although it sounds like his job has him pretty busy in a lot of different waysā€¦maybe he doesnā€™t have room for all the stuff I just mentioned. Just throwing it out there.

Sorry thatā€™s not a boyfriend

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There are so many things in just a few sentences :woozy_face:

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Dump him ā€¦like yesterday!!!

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Ewww no. Just no. Tell him goodbye then block him. Donā€™t even let him respond just let him know itā€™s over & youā€™re done then bam heā€™s blocked

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Tough one
Maybe he is too busy. Maybe he is ashamed of his issue and canā€™t perform like you want him to. Maybe you are to clingy and he needs a break. Maybe find out why he is too busy. And you are sure that he has that issue and isnā€™t just telling you that and is making it with another. And or is getting ready to distance himself for a break up. So many things could be happening.

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Why you messinā€™ with a broke dā€“k? ā€¦ that treats you bad.

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Itā€™s corpus cavernosum and it comes from an injury to an erect penis. If you donā€™t know what that means I donā€™t know what to tell you.Your just as dumb as the girl who was jumping on his penis or the one he tried to force it into to obtain that injury.

Get rid of the whole boy :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

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HEā€™S FOR THE STREETS! let that :mango: go

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Throw the whole man away!

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Boy bye. Move on. You donā€™t need that.

trick question?

you break up with this boyfriend, thatā€™s what you do. his :corn: is broken anyways.

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Iā€™m sorry. Is his dick broken or nah? Lol

Done done done. He shouldnā€™t be hanging out at those ā€œclubsā€ anyway.

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Wtf how is this a ā€œboyfriendā€ to anyone? Throw that child out.

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Omg I never laughed so hard in my life. The things people post.

BRBā€¦gotta Google corpus cavernousšŸ„“

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Newsflashā€¦heā€™s not your boyfriend

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I am convinced this question was asked by an alien that is pretending to be a human so it ā€œblendsā€ in and us humans donā€™t catch onā€¦ Because there is no way this is a real life human thought process because this is pretty out there. :rofl:

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All these girls saying dump him :joy:. Heā€™s already dumped you. Something about you obviously wasnā€™t good enough

A man makes time for a woman he wants to be withā€¦THAT IS ALL :woman_shrugging:t2::woman_shrugging:t2:

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If he found the time to go to a strip club he had time to see you. So to answer your question you do nothing other than stop calling him your boyfriend and move on.

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If he wanted to he would

Leave him n do bettee

He doesnā€™t sound like much of a boyfriend!

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Actions speak louder than words.
If he has time for one thing, he has time for the other- only sad difference is which one he prioritises

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I would never let him have another second thought of mine! I would be with a real man on Labor Day or any other holiday! I hope by Monday you have found your friends (female or male) to spend time with! Happy Labor Day!

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And you still call him your boyfriend? Honey I think exboyfriend is the correct verbage youā€™re looking for

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A man will make time for his women 100%

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That a huge NOPE. Buh bye

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You already know the answer to your question, if he wanted to be with you then when would make every effort to see you and spend time with you, heā€™s took the cowards way out of ending the relationship by not telling you

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Be to busy for him. From now on.

You spelled ā€œex boyfriendā€ wrong.

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yes hes busy else where ive seen this thats what they do move on