What to do with a boyfriend who is "too busy" to see me?

It sounds like a great time to clear your dance card.

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If his penis is injured,why you sweating him??

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Give that time to his friends :yum:

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Dump him, definitely not the type of guy you want to continue a relationship.

Dump him. I hate to say it but heā€™s more than likely cheating. Or youā€™re the girl on the side that heā€™s hiding from someone else.

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Always ask yourself, how he made you feel is it worth working it out or do you deserve better. If he rarely ever makes time for you, then you 100% deserve better, you deserve to be with someone who loves you so much that they make time for you at every given opportunityā€¦even if itā€™s only for an hour due to you both working and getting a coffee!

Heā€™s not your boyfriend. Heā€™s someoneā€™s husband. Youā€™re the side chick.

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Well then find something else to do. Dont sweat the small things in life. Go have fun with your friends and dont think about him

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Run!!! Donā€™t look back

Get rid of said boyfriend :white_check_mark:

Heā€™s out having fun, so you go have fun. Life is too short to wait around on a has-been, maybe, boyfriend.

Iā€™m just gonna put it out there. Obviously heā€™s into things that normal women canā€™t give. So girlā€¦. :running_woman:. He could be the next Ted Bundy!

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Kick him to the curb. You deserve better!

Yikes. Leave him. Heā€™s just playing games.

Dump that piece of crap!!!

Get another boyfriend

Time for you to get busy

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Heā€™s spending time with another woman now itā€™s up to u of u want the heartache to drag along. I wouldnā€™t put yourself through it unless u like itā€¦

This happened to me I put up w it for about a month and i found someone who actually wanted to spend time w me, left him and been with the other one for over 2 years and we are engaged :slightly_smiling_face:

Sooooā€¦how did the damage occur ? If that happened with you then fair enough but if not ā€¦ id wonder where else he had been playing games .
Perhaps hes having erectile problems and doesnā€™t want to say
Or perhaps hes a cheating tw*t thats sticking it somewhere else
Talk to himā€¦then pack your bags if he wont give you answers

Just be too busy for him. Move on. When he eventually comes by, Iā€™d ask him what heā€™s doing there. And tell him sorry, itā€™s over, youā€™re not wasting your time on someone who has no time for you. Move on sister

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I just woke up and as in reading this I swear I read
ā€œPrevious relationshipā€
I had to go back and read it said injury.

Yeah I bet he got an injury.

Do nothing. He has told you where you rate in his life. As long as you are willing to be a third or fourth consideration you will be.

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He ainā€™t your boyfriend dear, heā€™s just a friend time to find a real boyfriend who know how to act as one!

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He had better run if he does not want my Shinogi-Zukuri katana to make his corpus cavernous disappear completely!:joy:

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What is that ? Corpus thing?

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Be too busy and move on.

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move on , you deserve better

I would find someone who likes to be with you

Be too busy for him :woman_shrugging:t2:. find someone else. He clearly donā€™t care about you.

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Sounds like you single wym what should you do?? Yā€™all :woman_facepalming:t4:

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Find a man without ā€œinjuriesā€ who isnt too busy

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He is not into you, he doesnā€™t care about you, move on, ignore him. I promise there is someone better for you :heartpulse:

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You donā€™t have to spend every second together. Go find yourself something to do with the girls for the weekend and see him Tuesday!

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If your on here questioning you already know its time to go

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Heā€™s not yr boyfriend gurl

U getting playedā€¦let him go

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Iā€™m so confused. Did he injure his penis at the strip club? Is that why youā€™re worried about him going? As far as not spending time with you, voice your dismay or walk.

Do both of you a favor and dump him

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Move on heā€™s just telling you that

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Then be too busy for him. Why should you wait your time

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Stop waiting around on him and find some hobbies of your own, he is entitled to some time alone

Find someone who makes YOU their priority

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He is giving you a message that you are not important to him.

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He doesnā€™t want to be with you dump him move on find yourself someone better

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Heā€™s not your boyfriend heā€™s someone elseā€™s

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Heā€™s to busyā€¦be too busy to see him when he has time for you

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Make yourself unavailable to him!! So simple!

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Thatā€™s not a boyfriend

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Honey heā€™s not your bf.

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Ummm this canā€™t be for real. He doesnā€™t make time for you ? and hurt his penis doing activities at an adult entertainment club? Grab what dignity youā€™re have left and close the door. Idk what youā€™re asking all of us for. Heā€™s already SHOWN you he doesnā€™t respect you. And you staying with him shows him he doesnā€™t have to because you arenā€™t respecting yourself. Please please leave him find yourself love yourself and eventually the right one will come along. Donā€™t stay with this person you will get hurt or end up with a lifelong disease because he goes to these type events. :pensive:

Heā€™s not your boyfriend then

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All I registered from this is injured ā€œcorpus canervousā€ and had to google it. :joy:

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Let him go he has a change of mind

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Find some one and pray about and dump his ass

A man who wants you, will take make time for you. Even if itā€™s too hang out just for a bit.

Say good riddance to bad rubbish. Donā€™t let yourself be used.

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Do so does never like so!
You be more busy.

Well if heā€™s doing that donā€™t want your time thir other fish is the sea the right one is out thir proud of you for stay with him as long that you have you are a good lady

If he isnā€™t making time for you heā€™s sending you a message that you are not understanding. Move on.

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He has already moved on honey

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kick him to the curb!! now!!

Gone like a freight train Bye Bye donā€™t let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

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Cut him off. Stop contacting him and see how often he contacts you.

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If youā€™re not a priority get anew boyfriend. He should be too busy doing things with you to do them.

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Itā€™s because heā€™s seeing someone else

Time for him to go to the curve

Heā€™s not your boyfriend. Heā€™s just a fk boy who is apparently fking anyone but you. Leave him alone.

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Thank you, NEXT! I wouldnā€™t waste my time with him!

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Girl get a new boyfriend! If he really liked/loved you he would make you a priority. Sounds like he doesnā€™t care and only wants you on his terms. Not cool.

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Time to toss that little boy out of your life! Find someone else who can get it up up uppppā€¦ sounds like heā€™s paying for women from me just reading this. Good luck!!

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Nobody wants to know exactly how going to an adult entertainment place caused this previous damage??? I do???

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Why is this even a question itā€™s not like ur married. say bye boo. donā€™t have time 4 me I donā€™t have time 2 entertain u when itā€™s convient. Plenty of fish in the sea that will treat u the way u deserve 2 be treated. :woman_shrugging:

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You need to move on from this relationship and seek counseling on how to be an independent woman so you donā€™t have to ask this question ever again.

:joy: well it seems like the answer is super obvious! Youā€™re boyfriend is a POS. Time to move on :woman_shrugging:

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Sounds like he needs to be your ex boyfriend :woman_facepalming:t3::woman_shrugging:

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Dump him, heā€™s not making you his priority and giving you his time and attention

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It may sound harsh but move on he has

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Iā€™m all consumed in the dick tissue injury :face_with_raised_eyebrow:

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Thatā€™s not a relationship thatā€™s a ā€œsituationā€ ship. He sees you when his ā€œsituationā€ allows. Move along girl he isnā€™t for you and you already know it.

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Leave him. A man will make time for you.

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Seriously dump him itā€™s not worth it

Girl you ainā€™t got a boyfriend you have a fool! Heā€™s just trying to play you, if they really care they would make time for you. Sounds like youā€™re his ā€œpart timeā€ while he goes out and does whatever he wants. Go do better and find you a real man!!

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Noooo, by Felipeā€¦ I donā€™t even know you and I know you deserve better

Get so busy with YOUR life that it doesnā€™t matter if he is to busy for you. To the curb with the smuck.

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Go out with your girlfriends and allow yourself the opportunity to meet a real man!!

Iā€™d ditch him

1st of he couldnā€™t make it to labour day ( why the fk now its his child being born into the world )

2nd he would rather be at strip club then be with his lass

Iv been in your shoes
I ditched my ex 5 yrs ago

Cos he would rather Gamble nd get Pissed
Nd never even showed up to the hospital to see his daughter be born

It took him 5 days to be even bothered to see his daughter nd when he did show up he was pissed he turned up at 9pm my daughter never seen her daddy since she was 9 mnths old when he walked out her life nd never been seen since

do you mean stressful for Axle of the grandparents?

Leave darling
Itā€™s going to be rough and tough
But you will be OK

So what exactly are you getting out of the ā€œrelationshipā€?? Sure doesnā€™t sound like much. Just move on, doesnā€™t sound like you will be losing too much.

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The sad thing is that you even had to ask that question ā€¦ #KnowYourWorth #DontSettle

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A man who doesnā€™t make you a priority isnā€™t in love with you. He is keeping you as a placeholder or side chick. Lifeā€™s too short for that. Kick him to the curb, stat!

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So he canā€™t perform and he canā€™t see you?!?! Find a new something cause that isnā€™t a man

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Get a new boyfriend cause hes makinā€™ time with somebody! :wink:

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Thatā€™s a booty callā€¦not a boyfriend

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He is telling you in so many words he doesnā€™t want you let it go and keep moving

Become too busy for him and never look back. Youll be better off.

Tell him youā€™re too busy for the rest of your life. Flick him honey you can do way better and will be way more happy. Stand tall hold your head up high and move on. Good luck.

And he is still your boyfriend??? Donā€™t even think he will never change!!! You have learned a hard lesson early!!! NOW RUN!!!

Are you sure you. need him

:joy: get a new boyfriend girl. Nobody gave time for ghost boyfriends.