He finally got caught im sure he have done before it…do the something to him fair game bb…
Out the door, keep the ring!!
Are you really asking? Just dump him already
If you have to ask fb you already know the answer. Go with your gut.
He would be instantly gone
What you put up with you end up with.
Please, go get tested… he got caught this time.
You already know the truth
You’ve already answered your own question 
Your gut never lies. You felt something was wrong, stay with that feeling. More than likely he’s not going to be honest about it. If he was honest enough to talk to you, you wouldn’t even be in this situation. A man who loves you shouldn’t ever make you wonder or question your relationship. You will never trust him again… Trust me on that. I went through a similar situation recently. He would have to do an insane amount of work to get your trust back and most people don’t care enough to put in that work. In my opinion hun, just walk away now before he ends up destroying you.
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Get out now gods trying to tell you something you betta listen
When you feel the need to go through someone’s phone, don’t degrade yourself and just leave… Speaking from experience 
Simple. Call of the engagement and cut ties. 
I’d be saying BYE FELICIA! period.
The answer is obvious.
Put on your running shoes!
WAS THE EMAIL OPENED?! if so, there’s your answer!
Oh hell no. Id have chucked him. X
Get out while you can.
He’s cheating. Put him in the bin.
Tell him to man up and explain
Don’t ignore the huge red flag !! 
Did you check his maps timeline??
Youre gonna get an STD if you stick with that.
Next!! Get rid of him.
Kick him to the kerb girl…
Your not going to make it. Leave
Pack your bags and leave
Uh leave. Your not married. Don’t get sucked in.
I think just one half hpur
The real question is, why the hell are you still with him? Why are you asking what you should do when you obviously already know. Leave him. Cheaters will always be cheaters.
Tell him to kick rocks
Okay but how long has the emails been happening. Guys usually don’t deactivate subscriptions so it could be from years ago. Was it in the spam? If so ignore it fr. Yeah he could be cheating but he actually answered his phone. Meaning either he was really driving around, or he got lucky with timing. Ask first, remember all guys aren’t the ex that hurt you in the past or your best friends guy who’s doing her wrong. Some are honest we just go through so much were blind and immediately assume it’s a lie. How long was he gone for after you spoke to him? Obviously you don’t know how long before you woke he wasn’t there. See ALL these woman so quick to agree he is cheating with what few details they know? Yeah… It’s cause us females are damaged af and once we assume we believe. Talk to him.
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Tell him to kick fucken rocks u deserve better
I’d leave. Fuck that, burn it down and move on to someone who deserves you.
Only to common those hookups are putting prostitutes out business,get rid
Sorry to hear this. Trust your instincts Beautiful. As painful as it is.
My ex was getting so many emails from so many different websites like your Fiancé I confronted him and he told me it was just spam fast forward a few years and we are divorced and since we have broken up I found out he had been on tinder for 4 years before we broke up.
Trust your gut
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He wasn’t driving around. He’s cheating
You wouldn’t be asking if you didn’t already know the answer. LEAVE.
First I would consider whether the emails are spam, I certainly have a lot of questionable sex related stuff in my inbox, sometimes even spam comes through to my general inbox! Second I would consider whether it really is out of the blue to be out at that time, it’s totally plausible that someone would want to drive and think about life, could just not want to wake you. However, in context it does all seem too suspicious to me, and I would making him leave. The reason most women are unhappy with cheating men is because they ignored their first gut instincts, so trust what it’s telling you. You do need to evaluate actual evidence though. I still have an active POF account that I’ve not actually been on for 4 years, but I do still get emails saying I’ve been sent a message or a heart etc.
Dump his ass before its too late They dont change
I’d bring it up and be like so who you fucking
Kick him to the curve he is dirty
First off, I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way! I’ve been there, too. Secondly, no one, and I mean no one can tell you what to do. Third, this is not your fault!
It’s a terrible feeling, but when it comes down to it, no one knows how you feel, or what your relationship is like. This will take a great deal of soul searching on your part. I say if it were me, I’d want answers. However if you confront your partner and you’re aggressive, or upset, he may not open up to you. He may not ever open up, to be honest. When I went through this my mother said to trust my gut. Is he worth working it out? Is it worth hanging on? Do you feel like you can work through this? The two of you need to talk about this. Be honest about how you feel.
I wish you the best. Big hugs.
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I’d give him one chance to be up front and honest about it and for him to address any issues he has within your relationship. One chance to lay it all out on the table no matter how much it hurts and then look at what’s there and if you can sort through it together and make it out stronger.
If he lies, dismisses you, omits things or refuses to participate I would pack my stuff (or his) and leave because you fir sure deserve better than that and it takes 2 to commit to working on a relationship. If one refuses it will never change or get better.
Good luck honey, remember your worth <3
This online sex shit is the dark world as far as I’m concerned look Into it I did and it is disgusting don’t allow this man to bring home all the different sexaual diseases that are out there to you. You don’t deserve that. God gave us women intuition and we need to always trust it. Time will heal your pain and God has someone out there far better for you.
Like most of the other ladies are saying, go with your gut! My fiance would leave me at restaurants, because he needed to help a friend out but I wasn’t allowed to go with him. Come to find out he cheated on me, lied about it I already knew, I would get messages from strippers saying my fiance’s a man whore and all the stuff but he would deny it. Just go with your gut instinct a female’s instinct is always right
I’d send him packing real quick…nothing worse than a cheater. It’s usually never just an isolated screw up…it will happen again. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this.
Emails and phone numbers get sold by companies and corporations all the time, but of your gut is telling you he is cheating than ur probably correct. Also why would you be in a relationship with someone u can’t trust. Also depends on what is going on with his/her life situation.
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Sneaking out in the middle of the night is bad enough , driving around my bum does he think you are stupid fess up maaaaate you have been sprung well and truly
I hammered a board across the door so he couldn’t get in. He broke arm trying. Then I divorced him. Marriage lasted 4 days short of a year. Don’t waste your time
Pretend to let it slide then Krazy glue his pens to his testicles and those to the inside of each thigh while he’s sleeping. Then say, “Toodaloo”.
1-what a stupid thing to do, in this Covid period
2- if he had sex, did he use a condom?
2- kick him out, will break your heart anyway
id leave his nasty ass who knows what kind std he could be out getting id make him and id myself go get tested and then id be telling him he can either leave or your going to be finding somewere else to live i wouldnt just give him slap on the rist id make him prove to u that he not cheating and what not if u stay well he just gunna think ur easy and keep doing him
dump him. If he is cheating on you now (which he obviously does) he will even more once you are married. He doesn’t deserve you
Dump his ass, to to the shelter and get you a dog that’s 3-5 years old. Plenty of spunk left but over the puppy b.s. It’ll cuddle better than his cheating ass.
Ditch him NOW!! You are better than some asshole that cheats on you. There are better men that will treat you right.
have some dignity and self respect. you know what the deal is…you said it yourself “i went thru his stuff and there were emails from a one-night stand site” - its pretty much clear as day. oh god. some of these questions that get asked…kick his scrubby and obviously FILTHY ass to the curb b4 he brings you home some herpes wrapped in kisses or even worse, AIDS:nauseated_face:
If he’s cheating now, he’ll cheat later. Dump him and save yourself the continued heart ache.
Pack his shit and place it in the curb!
That shit won’t end when you marry that ass hole!
If you feel like your being cheated on. Trust me. Your being cheated on.
Now its up to you what you want to do.
He is either cheating or a serial killer. Either way, RUN! 
Definitely rethink getting married.
He’s obviously cheating. I’d dump his a$$.
Dump his ass he just cheated on you honey
If it looks, walks and talks like a duck… Quack quack mf🤣 LEAVE HIM.
Obviously, he is a cheater.
Honey, if I was able, I would leave ASAP.
Cut your losses, and kick his ass out! He’s only going to get sneakier from here on out. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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Well,try being 8 mths pregnant begging ur boyfriend to come to bed but he is too busy smiling and texting someone at 3 am…then lies and says its his boss so u ask to see his phone he flips out and calls u crazy controlling bitch and then u pack his shit and put him out. Only to get told that its all ur fault and u r insecure. He has a history of lying when caught doin shady shit
Ditch his cheating arse!
Leave him you deserve better
Kick him to the curve
I wouldn’t even care to know, or deal with such human. 
buh-buy not worth the stress:v:t3:
why waste your life away when you could live it 
Kick him to the curb, he is full of bs
Jm not going to tell you what you should and shouldn’t do. But I’m going to tell you my story, and maybe you can learn from my experience.
I was engaged to someone who I had been dating for 8 years. I thought everything was fine between us. One night while I was at work, I got a message request on Facebook from someone I didn’t know with no mutual friends. This message only contained a screenshot. It was a Craigslist post from my fiance, looking to meet up with girls AND guys. I knew it was him for several reasons. The post contained his age, height and weight, describing what he looked like, and the location he had worked at. I had a panic attack at work and broke down, went into the stockroom to call my best friend. Now, she suggests I make a fake account and set up a meeting with him, to see if it IS actually him. But I could not go home that night and sleep in the same bed as him, knowing this could be real. So later that night, before we sat down to watch our shows, I confronted him about it. He claimed it wasn’t him and my stupid ass believed him, giving him the benefit of the doubt and no other evidence as I couldn’t believe he would do something like this. A few weeks go by, and I think everything is fine. He goes to work one night and leaves himself logged in to his email on our shared computer. I had an unsettling feeling and decided to skim though his emails. This is when I found over 300 emails of conversations that he had been having with different men and women on meeting up for sex, that spanned over the last 8 months. To say I was furious was an understatement. We split up almost immediately and he ended up moving to his mom’s in NC. It devastated me that the man I had loved for 8 years betrayed me like that, but I made out better because it it. I’m now engaged to his ex-best friend and we have 2 year old daughter together. I couldn’t be happier and am grateful that this random person sent me that screenshot, or I never would have known.
Please dont settle for a man like this. You will find someone who loves and appreciates you, and be better for it.
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Girl you being played. RUN 
Go on the Maury show
One night follow him.
Beat his ass for wasting your time
You deserve better dear
You need FB to advise you on this…
Kick his ass to the crub
LEAVE HIM.
They will not change . I finally just left after 17 years. Fuck. That. Shit.
Good rule of thumb…
Once a CHEATER
ALWAYS A CHEATER
Get out now before you get something that medicine can not cure 
Was he emailing those websites back? I know my email I get emails from those websites in my junk folder but I have never gone on those websites it’s just from me putting my email in various websites for competitions and stuff… u know if you want to find out what he’s doing, on android phones u can download apps called keystroke or keylogging one looks like a calculator app when you download it… and it shows everything that he had typed on his phone. Just an idea if you want to get to the bottom of things
send a video of you fucking somebody to him and say there we are even 
Get rid of him now. It will just get worse
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Talk to him straight!about it
Check his Google timeline
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He’s definitely cheating, I’m sorry
Don’t say nothing, but good bye
You GET THE FUCK OUT! That’s what you do! How nasty! Bringing home the bacon and deseases.
I’m with Tara Renner
Leave.
P E R I O D.
Aaaand he’s GONE. BYE BYE 
Trust has been broken- there’s nothing left.
Thank god you aren’t married!! Find someone else
My ex was going on backpage and meeting hookers on side of highway at places. After 6 yrs together and 20 yrs off and on in our youth… I got tired lf lies. He was addicted to porn and said I was too pure for his dirty… Another time said wanted us to not just be a sexual relationship cause thags all he’s ever had. Id known him since 14 and he was my first. He would refuse me for months and months at a time. 7 months was longest. But he took good carw of me in all other ways in life. Eventually i was tired of busting him lying and sleeping with literal whores. Didnt want to touch him then. He refused to go to a therapist and was text book addicted to porn. Now in a healthy relationship for 4 yrs… And actually wanted.
Dump him in a heartbeat