It’s cute he even botherd a d remembered at all and effectively he prob have you up all night long. X
May e he planned something band is playing a prank.
Celebrate every day.
At least he said it. He could have completely forgotten.
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Oh goodness, I would not care
Better early then late? 
Maybe he did it deliberately and has something special planned for tomorrow 
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At least he tried to remember lol
It’s just a day. He remembered, jus got the day mixed up. I wouldn’t care, at all.
Please! Be thankful that he was close, and remembered at all
Get over it. He tried!
Don’t be a petty betty… He was close… Smh…
If this is the worst he has done in the time you’ve known one another: Get over it! Geeee…
Hey at least he remembered!!!
If he forgot it all together I would say I’d be upset but just getting it wrong by a day is not too bad, he tried at least
Chose your battles dear.
You do nothing! At least he remembered.
Simple. DONT EVEN FREAKING ACKNOWLEDGE his next birthday! Pretend it don’t exist:fearful:
that’s it
Not a big deal. I’d make him take me out for both:blush:.
While I would be unimpressed, I think it’s an honest mistake
He remembered! And he’s the first one to wish you a happy birthday so you’re better prepared tomorrow and can BE GRATEFUL! 
reaching 30 is a privilege denied to many 
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This really puts problems into perspective for me
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Be great full he remembered it was remotely close to it smh
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At least he thought about you. Give him a break. Men are bad at these things
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honestly, I’d be glad about earlier than late…
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My hubby would forget his own birthday. Much less remember mine. I adapted to it pretty quickly and would remind him coming up to the date. Almost 7 years together now and he finally remembers. I understand you’re disappointed and upset, but please tell him.
He was close. Been with my husband 48 yrs and my daughter still reminds him.
At least he was a day early and not a day late
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. What would you do if your boyfriend wished you a happy birthday on the wrong day?
Just make a joke of it and say ‘cheers babe but it’s tomorrow’.
Also 30 is no age at all to feel bad about. Life is what you make of it, regardless of age
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He’s thinking of you and he’s only one day out. I would’ve thanked him giggled amd said its tomorrow and gave him a hug. I was with my ex for nearly 9 years and he always forgot mine completely i would’ve preferred this lol. Enjoy your gifts and happy birthday for tomorrow
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I’ve been with my partner almost 7 years and he’s only just learnt my birthday. I remind him every year. Be thankful he was only a day out and not a month. Have a laugh and just say my birthdays tomorrow darling but thank you. You’d be more pissed if he forgot completely.
Awwww I think it’s sweet, he may be a bit of a keen bean and unfortunately got it wrong but the love and thought was there 
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My husband and I have been together 8 years and he still gets mine wrong. I just think its comical. You have to find the humor and also be grateful he was close. 
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My hubby after 45 years doesn’t know my birthday or our anniversary! Nothing but another day to him. So 10 years ago I stopped getting him birthday present, Christmas presents, 
Say, awe thanks its so sweet you wanted to be the first to wish me a happy birthday a day early! I love it!
That’s what u say. He won’t forget again and yall can avoid any awkwardness.
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I am horrible with dates! I really try to remember but never get it right. Be happy he remembers. One day off is nothing.
Enjoy birthday treats today and before you goto bed tonight, just say you’ve enjoyed your pre birthday celebrations and can’t wait for the proper ones on your actual birthday tomorrow 
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So you have a birthday week not day enjoy being spoilt many times
Grow up. He made an effort you are a spoilt brat.
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Hurt and confused over that? You have to ask yourself why that would hurt and confuse you so much. He missed it by one day. My late husband used to tell me that a birthday is “just another day”. That attitude helped me through a lot. Just be glad he remembered at all.
Off by one day then that’s amazing a lot of men don’t know full stop
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My husband didn’t know my birthday until our third year together. Atleast yours remembered you have one lol
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One day?? I’d be thankful that he remembered at all actually! Lighten up and enjoy today……… and tomorrow!! Win win 
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Mine wouldn’t have a choice because I’m always like on my birthday , when it’s my birthday , 2 more sleeps ect … but 1 day is pretty good could be worse
My partners bday sunday he wouldnt have a clue that it was if it wasnt for me saying it other day haha 2 years ago my dad forgot date and didnt realise it was my birthday until the day and my sister mentioned it
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1 day off… I would give him the benefit of the doubt and gently remind his it’s tomorrow. Better one day off that not to remember at all
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Everyone makes mistakes, at least he remembered you actually have a birthday lol
Maybe he knows you’re not looking forward to it so wished u happy birthday today so hot to ruin ur actual birthday lol
Birthday week… he did well … early celebrations
I never know what day of the week it is… he was only off by one day. As soon as my Birthday month rolls around I start celebrating, just enjoy
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At least it was the day before not the day after!
My fella thought my birthday was the 31st of November
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If he got it wrong, celebrate twice! 
At least it was early and not late.
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I have close friends who after all these years still dont know when my birthday is… One fried in particular is always a week or 2 out its been a. Standing joke between us and every year we laugh together coz its really funny. I take no offence at all
For many years my husband thought i was the 5th June instead of 4th. I would joke that that must have been his ex’s birthday
Haha my ex husband did the same on our anniversary i said at least you didn’t forget and it’s not like it’s random it’s one day off
We’ve been together just under 5 years and my partner only recently learned my birthday because I was quite annoyed with him thinking it was another date in conversation. He knows the month because it’s the same as his sister but otherwise he’s really got to think. My daughters birthday he learned within the year but mine he couldn’t remember for the life of him. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you he’s just shit with birthdays. (To be fair he also forgot his mother’s this year 
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We’ve been together 10 years and he still can’t get it right
No big deal at all. At least he remembered your bd within a day. Thats good for a guy. So get over your hurt and give the man some credit.
30?? Pssss…youre still a pup!!
He may be trying to prank you… like acting doesn’t know…not give you much etc then tomorrow really surprise you xxx
It happens especially as you haven’t been together that long, he’s a man it’s what happenes, but I would enjoy the moment of treats and then mention how is he going to top it tomorrow for your real b’day hahaha
I had an ex who would never forget my b’day cause it was the same as his
Not sure why you aren’t looking forward to it, but trust me when I say your 30s are better than your 20s!
Might be blagging you and have stuff arranged for your 30th fingera crossed… Im alreasy planning for my other halfs 50th i doubt i will get much 
Use his mistake to get a whole bday week!
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One day off I wouldn’t be mad.
My partner got my birthday and his ex wifes birthdays mixed up so could be worse
Get over it be happy he said something
Grow up! Ideally he should remember your birthday and I’m sure you are upset and he’s probably upset that you’re upset, but there are so many other things that could be wrong in your relationship. I’m assuming and I might be wrong, that most of the major things are going well, if not then you need to address those issues and not cry about him forgetting your birthday. Do yourself a favor, start dropping hints prior to your birthday next year, like marking a big a$$ calendar with a “bullseye” 
That’s what I had to do for a couple of years and then he started marking the calendar himself
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At least he remembered your birthday at all! You are not a ten year old, so stop acting like it.
Really? Off by one day? And you complaining about it. Jeez. Maybe say thanks babe but it’s actually tomorrow. For freak sake. It’s only your second bday with him. Ffs
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My husband and I are going to have 4 kids together and it took him many years to remember our children’s birthdays. He even would get the day and sometimes the year wrong. Give your boyfriend a break for right now, men aren’t built the same as us oh let me edit to also add one year he forgot his own birthday 
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Try being with someone for like 7-8 years and them asking you who’s Janelle? That’s my middle name lol 
I’d say at least it was before and not after!! Might have just got days mixed up!
I would laugh it off
Genuine mistake? I honestly wouldn’t look too much into it. Atleast He remembered at all! 
Hurt are you serious? It’s one day off
Omg SHUT THE FUCK UP
Get over yourself won’t you feel like a fool if he’s having a surprise party. Worse things happen in life this doesn’t come close
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This generation is just a bunch of entitled cry babies god help us
You’d be dead Richard Morris
oh well least he nearly got it right. You have to drum it into his brain for 2 weeks building up to it.
Some of these questions can’t be real 
Least it was a day early…more upsetting if it was a day late!
You could inject him with the corona virus OR simply forgive him? I’m sure if he’s still with you next year he wouldn’t dare get it wrong 
If this is the only thing he does that hurts and confuses you, consider yourself lucky! Pick your battles! It’s not the worst thing he could do to hurt you! Trust me!
Took my other half about 5 yrs to get it right, always thought it was the day before it is.
Think it just could be a man thing
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This hasn’t gone the way you hoped has it babe 
Well he was somewhere near, give him a break
Go drink a beer about it… sheesh
Don’t worry about it. Seriously it’s fine.
Could it not be a wind up?
Girl please… your lucky he even knew it was your birthday week:grin:. Happy birthday tho
Might be doing it on purpose making you think this. …he might have something special planned tomorrow as a surprise xx
Your 30s are the dirty years. Do crazy stuff. You’ve made it to a point of being past the chaotic 20s.
I’d say my age as dirty, dirty-one, etc. I probably took this too literally, as I did some hanging out in bdsm dungeons, but you do you.
I would have just went with it and been like what you got for me, it’s my birthday darling… And if he says oh no I didn’t plan anything I’ll just be like “it’s okay money will do hehe”
Deal breaker!! 
Just kidding!! Geez give the guy a break. 
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Why is this such a big deal? At least he remembered your birthday. Calm down before you go into cardiac arrest over something small.
I gave birth to my daughter and I still have to stop and think about what day her b-day is. I dont know how old I am either. At least he got the general time
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