He would no longer be my spouse .
Iād leave the female alone first. But your man is lying and Iād kick his lying butt out and divorce him.
this gotta be bait 
I would tell him to go blow smoke up someone elseās ass cause I aināt buying it!
I wouldnāt have a boyfriend/husband anymoreā¦.simple as that.
Heās a damn liar! Run far far away!
His shit would be on the curb, door locks changed, and divorce papers filed! She could have him because no man is worth my self respect and sanity!
Obviously heās cheating. How is this even a question???
He would be straight out the door with all his belongings too 
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Oh nonono!!! Wake up!!
If he wants to have relationship experiences with herā¦
Then he can have a relationship with her 
Iām not gonna fight for someone who canāt respect me or our relationship
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Thatās a " go ahead but take all your shit with you , cause ya aināt coming back!"
Oh come one girlā¦ its right in your face!!
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Do him like Wanda and Maryanne did Earl 
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Shoot get his connect tha homies gotta hit too if that girl likes that.
Tell him to Pack his 
and dont look back. He is lying to you. NO husband/ boyfriend spends the night,or hangs out OR texts a other girl/ woman. If they are in a relationship.
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What would I do? I canāt say on here 
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Youāre an idiot if you think he isnāt messing.
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Well I donāt know what kind of relationship you have with him or what boundaries you set right away so without that info I would save all the proof- if your married or have children keep that proof and try to remain calm. Get him out and move on. Heal. Cheating makes my blood boil. Me personally, I let my partners know before we even start dating if they play me or betray me thereās a chance they could get hurt. Honesty goes along way with me. You wanna bring another person in, ok letās talk about it like adults. You play me and cheat on me- Iām sorry but the adult part of me will clock out and the Psycho in me is coming out. So with that being said if it was me Iād be kicking that dudes a$$ and moving on. Iām sorry your going through this- I know you probably just want to believe him but honey heās lying to you. Straight up. You deserve better. 
Peace out as in you get your stuff and get out .
This canāt be a real question
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Fine yourself a friend too!!
I donāt understand why you even have to ask this question 
Why are you still calling him your spouse?
Plsā¦ I know ur smarter then this sweetyā¦ 
How is this even a question?! F that sh!t x 100ā¦
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How about you find a guy friend and spend nights at his place and see what your SO thinks about thatā¦
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Yeah regardless f that, leave him
Are you dumb? Or just dumber?
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Girl leave! There is no questioning it you can tell exactly what heās doing through his actions that boy isnāt worth the heartache
If youāre asking, then you already know the answer. Question is, are you talking to your husband about your feelings? At what point do you say that enough is enough
Leave him. Itās bullshit.
You got a sister wife.
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Nope just absolutely NOT!
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I mean while heās out, pack his stuff and leave it on the front lawn. Donāt say anything and get the locks changed
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Why are you even questioning this? LEAVE!
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Do you really need answers to this question?
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Ummmm be headed to prison on a 1st degreeā:skull:
Is this even a question
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Heās cheating. Ditch the loser.
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Your seriously questioning this? Dump all his stuff on the front lawn and change the locks, bye!
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I would throw his ass out and get a divorce asap
She the side piece and he tells her heās leaving you for her. Throw the whole dude away.
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Oh, honey. You know damn well that man is cheating on you lol. Please respect yourself and leave. Youāre a fool if you stay. No man on this planet is worth that drama.
Dumb question. You know the answer. You want ammunition to fight. Stop fighting for fuck boys.
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Ima roll up and fuck em both up
Did you really have to even ask that?
Know your worth woman !!
If a man/woman loves you they will be home every night!!(unless they work days in and out) like a oil field worker
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And you actually believe him???
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He wouldnāt be my problem he would officially be hers, its obvious and disrespectful whatās going on.
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Be sure and save all this proof of adultery for the divorce attorney
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What would I do?
Iād tell him ādonāt let the door hit you on the way outā.
No one deserves to be treated like that.
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Is this really a question 
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Lol you allow this? Weird
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Get rid of him fast before you catch something. Heās a ass
Dump him and his girlfriend. Cheaters wonāt change so donāt bother.
Slap myself in the face for calling him bf lolā¦
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Why are you with this loser ā¦. They are both making you look dumb dumb for staying
Is this even a real question??
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Why is he still talking to her if sheās talking shit to u??? No way they arenāt hooking up. Even if sheās doin it to get u 2 to break up. Ur man has no respect for u or heād end the friendship the second she overstepped
WTF!!??!?!??!??! And you are still with this guy??? Your choice, your decision & yours alone.
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Pack his stuff and leave it in her yard!
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Baby girl, your holding the deck. Play the hand or drop your cards and walk away. Your a Queen. Remember that.
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Whata heck. Girl, heās fooling you big time! Leave asap!
I wouldnāt have a boyfriend/husband anymore.
Why is this even a question?
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Some of these questions are so stupid
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Why is this even a question 
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Thatās a whole other relationship.
Let them go be great & tell boy bye.
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She can have the Cheater
Wellā¦ Time to be single.
This canāt be for real?.. Heās obviously cheating and if you think heās not youāre a bonehead. Sorry. My opinion.
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Thatās where heād be staying, permanently.
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Well I surely wouldnāt believe him if he said nothing has ever happened. Thereās got to be a reason sheās spending $$$ on him. Iād kick him out. Be done with it. Tell her she can have him.
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LEAVE no questions asked, thatās fucked up
Not sure how you didnāt notice but heās cheating and I would take all his shit and leave it on her porch. Thatās a big ole nope. My man has a female friend and he knows where to draw the line. He gives her relationship advice, chats here and there (her bf is his best friend). Never has he ever pulled this. . . Heād be gone.
Punch that b in the boob. I mean both of them.
Wellā¦first Iād get the 12 gaugeā¦load up the horsesā¦dig a hole 6 feet deep out in the middle of no whereā¦ What in the hell are you still doing with this waste of sperm and egg? Iām sorry youāre going through this donāt get me wrong but you gotta let that waste go.
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The first time he went to her house his things wouldāve been dropped off in her front yard
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Why is this even a question? Leave his lying cheating ass. O
Time to pack his things and forward his mail to her address! Bc I wouldnāt want him or his damn bills
Out on his own for ever. Hee would be the biggest bastardās that ever walked.
Sounds like thatās her man now!
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Girlā¦are you really this naive?? You really need strangers to confirm for you the obvious? Be smarter than that and leave his ass! Youāre better than this!
out mother fucker!!
he got a suga momma hes telling u straight up u just not listening my friend
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Time to face him out with it and tell him itās not acceptable anymore
Yep heās cheating the only one who should be that close to him would be you
Well that wouldnāt be my boyfriend or spouse anymore. You know damn well something is going on between them 2.
DIVORCEā¦itās that simpleš
Yea not just friends. I would be freaking pissed
Yeah, heās definitely cheating. Iāve actually had this happen once and he never admitted it, but Iām not stupid. So I asked his kid because he said if I ever wanted to know anything to ask the childā:rofl:
Bet he didnāt expect me to ask about that night thoughā:rofl:
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Iād probably lose my shit and hurt them both but in all honesty theyāre not worth it. You have to LOVE YOU more than you think you love him. Thats a huge no. It doesnāt matter what he says. That became irrelevant the moment he allowed that situation to get that far. He is responsible for his part in being loyal. You cannot make him. He crossed the line when he started speaking to another female. Having PRIOR friends in a relationship is different and thereās definitely different circumstances to that but thereās also boundaries and he BEEEEN crossed those. Fuck em both.
Leave now, before you stay to long and get hurt.
Remember this song: Hit road Jack, never come nack, no more, no more , no moreā¦Id be singing it to that MFā¦ You deserve so much moreā¦
He really said āyou my side piece nowā
Heās cheating. Kick him out.
Unless one of them is gay they are not just friends
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Keep all the proof & file divorce with him at fault for cheating. You keep the house & let him move in with his bitch 
Leave him now thatās totally disrespectful to you, you deserve better, why isnāt he spending that time with you and not with her
Leave cause heās cheatingā¦
His is definitely cheating
Why would u stay with him? Aināt no woman gonna be buying expensive things for a man unless thereās a relationship there. Please donāt be naive.
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