I think you should have told him in the beginning, it’s the only way to know where he stands.
It should’ve been mentioned when you started chatting
My husband told me within the first hour that he had two daughters. I’d want to know up front. No meeting or photos etc of course but a simple this is me, what I like oh btw I have a daughter should be done the first conversation if you’re actually looking for a relationship. If you’re just wanting to hook up then it’s different lol
Hi my name is _________. I love long walks on the beach. Tacos! I have ___ child(ren). My favorite color is ______.
He probably knows ! Just waiting for you when you’re good and ready 
I put it as the very first thing on my dating profile
My opinion…shoulda been done already.
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I would have put it on my dating profile
Just be honest up front.let him or her decide if the want the relationship with you knowing that.
It’s best to tell him that you have left your daughter with your mum or so to come to lunch with him. He will know because if you leave it to late you could get really hurt. However it could best way good luck your life your choice
Honestly, the fact that you have a kid should be in your dating profile. It allows people who are not interested in that to not start something and waste their time.
You should tell him right away.
It’s the first thing I ever talk about …cos if he don’t like it, he can leave … I’m not busy wasting my time tryna find out 
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As a single woman attempting to join the dating world again I would like to know the very first time we chatted. I do not have kids, not sure if I even want any let alone him having kids. That’s my choice though. It has happened to me before when I was getting to know this guy but he simply said it wasn’t any of my business.
Next.
It should’ve been mentioned immediately, like in your dating profile
You should of already told him.
Before you go on the date
You’re already too late…
Sorry but that’s something you mention straight from the get go. Any guy I started talking to immediately knew I have two kids. Im kind of mind blown how it’s been a few weeks and that still hasnt come up yet.
You should put it on the dating app
That should be in your profile
As a newly single father, I see it that she owes it to her daughter first, not their potential relationship. Relationships can come and go, but they will always be mother and daughter, that’s the key relationship. So tell them before you meet, honesty all the way cos how will you feel if you leave it for the third or fourth and they say, oh no kids thanks. Or worse, “can’t you get a sitter for your kid so you can see me more” ??
You just tell him you are a mom truth won’t hurt lies do
Before you go out on a date
I mention it in my profile… No sense in hiding it. They will just run if you don’t be upfront about it before you match!!
No time like the present
Just tell him. Better sooner than later if it’s a deal breaker.
You have eachother on social media, but yet you’re kiddo isn’t on there anywhere? You haven’t talked about your kid at all…odd
You should tell them during the first date. If he cares about you he will care about your kids also.
If not then he won’t be back.
The fact you didn’t disclose this means you were more interested in a relationship or ass than your child. Who would want to start any relationship with a person starting with an omission lie?
He’s probably trying to figure when to tell you about his wife and kids too
uhhhh. mention in the first 10 mins I have a kid they are more important then a date
You should have already told him…
During the time of courtship
Never put a man in front of your child. Tell him!
How about, “hey, I have a fucking kid,” works.
Why haven’t you told him
He would already know that about me if we’ve talked multiple times and have met in person with intent to go on a date. I’m not for wasting my or anyone else’s time so let me know straight away if that’s an issue
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Since I don’t date anyone with children, Its pretty muchy first message to someone when we first match if it’s not obvious in the profile. That being said I think you should bring it up before you go out for a date so that no one’s time is wasted
Um, you should’ve said it right away. That’s so messed up of you to hide a kids from him. It should be ON your profile that you have a kid. Weirdoooooooooooooo
this is beyond weird, you obviously made an effort to not tell him you’re a mother and even your social media doesn’t have anything related to your kids? disturbing really
When I was dating and on apps I had that I had kids in my profiles. Why would you keep that from someone for any length of time?
Always mention it first, but don’t introduce for awhile
I’m trying to figure out how you have days and days of conversations and your child NEVER comes up. HUGE red flag for the guy. I’d think u were nuts or a narcissistic mom.
It’s a first date. Relax
I’d tell him on the very first date.
Uhm. Immediately. tf
You should tell right away. There should be NO question that who you date is ok with kids. Oh…out of town? Don’t even start it unless you want to be used for sex or manipulated because you are thirsty.
THAT little nugget of info should be on your dating profile ~
Should have already told him. Sounds like by hiding it you are ashamed of the fact you have a kid.