Ok ladies what should i do?? My boyfriend has girls that are his friends so he says. He hides his phone from me wont even let mw touch it!! Takes it to the bathroom with him. What should i do??
He’s hiding something. Do what you think you should do
You either trust each other or you don’t. Do not play games with him, tell him that.
You already know what you should do… U can keep telling yourself whatever you want but if he’s hiding his phone that hardcore he has something he doesn’t want you to see
Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier
Seriously, get rid of his lying ass quickly. U can always do better
run run run away !!!
Break up with him. Even if it turns out he wasn’t hiding anything you clearly don’t trust him and that’s not good for either of you.
You are worth so much more please just let him go
It’s possible that he’s just a very private person. The greater likelihood is they aren’t just friends
Has he given you a reason not to trust him? If not then TRUST HIM. If he has given you reason not to trust him and you’re still with him then you are part of the problem.
If there is no shame in his game there’s nothing to hide. But he’s hiding
Smash his phone thats what i did
Uh. You’re asking so you already know. Lol
What Jade Elizabeth said.
Tell him how you feel. How he reacts will show you. He should be willing to not have it hidden. But you shouldn’t need to pry either. No trust. No relationship:(
Leave and don’t look back
Ask him to invite them over . If they are just Friends he shouldnt have a problem…
Leave his ass in the dust
If they really were just friends and their friendship is harmless then there’d be no need to hide the phone.
… I have friends that are guys. I take my phone to the bathroom my husband doesn’t touch my phone I don’t touch his… does that mean I am cheating?? No.
You obviously don’t trust him so leave
Leave his ass!! He is lying. I know all my man’s passwords and he knows mine…sometimes if he is busy and gets a message he has me read it to him. No secrets here. And I have guy friends and he has female buddy’s. No jealousy no lies. We have nothing to hide. 100% trust…
Bitch. Is cheating RUN
Rip it &run 2 a room that can lock &start investigating na boot it 2 the curb ur just prolonging your own heart break
Having friends of the opposite sex shouldn’t be an issue… him being secretive definitely is though
Run the opposite direction… never look back! He’s keeping secrets that WILL break you!!!
Grab his phone when you can, get in your car and drive far away lol that way you can go through it in peace also you may have to run out the door really fast if he catches you
Drop him like a rock. And get tested for STD’s.
Trust your gut, 9x out 10 its right
Better call dueces and move on. Get away from his cheating ass
Leave… I wouldn’t stay.
Call John Jay and Rich for “war of the roses”
He’s definitely cheating. My ex did the same thing.
Ask him! And you have no trust so Leave
He is cheating drop him
password n bring to washrm is cheated coz dat we r divorced😔
Cheating…been there, done that!
Leeeeave LoL ain’t nobody got time for that shit.
You don’t want to accept the truth.
If you guys can’t switch phones for the day, then I would say goodbye.
That’s what my ex did girl. He was cheating on me with 7 different women that were his “friends”. Leave
Definitely talking to other women! Been there!
Say byyyyyyyyeeee! Anyone that won’t let you see their phone it bar none up to something !!! Secrecy equals guilt
Have trust and if u dont have none leave
When they can leave home and also leave their phone with no worries, that is the BEST! They aren’t hiding anything
Someone that has nothing to hide doesn’t hide their phone. Ever. Don’t be naive.
I dont touch my husband phone I trust. Him
Wait until he’s asleep, get his phone, unlock it with his fingerprint and start looking.
My boyfriend has to have a password/pin on his phone but I have it…
If he has de his phone and won’t let you see it he cheating
ID LEAVE BUT IVE NEVER PUT UP WITH DUMB SHIT LIKE THAT GIRL so dont listen to me I’ve never been their!!!
Wow, that’s really hurtful. I would be asking: why are you with someone that treats you that way??
Smarten up and show him his way to the door.
Leave you deserve better. Trust is key.
Trust him or leave life’s too short to worry about dumb shit
hes has another women in his life trust me
He’s hiding something
Color yourself gone, because you don’t own him. He has already left.
He’s clearly cheating on you
yes dump him as fast as you can
Idk maybe I’m weird but if mine was lurking…I’d let him. Ain’t no way I’m begging A SOUL to fuck with me, period. #bye
Do the EXACT same thing he does…I’m do everything he does with phone, do with yours in front of him and watch his facial expressions…play his game. Dont fuss, fight, or argue…mimic his actions, then when he trips, you can GO OFF!
You already know the answer, so why are you asking? Don’t torture yourself with the answers you already have!
Throw out the whole boyfriend and start over.
What is the obsession with seeing your significant other’s phone? I have never felt the need to go to my husbands phone to see who is talking to or texting. If you don’t trust these people get rid of them.
I don’t agree with going through people’s phones but if he’s going through that much trouble to hide it from you, that’s a red flag
He’s clearly cheating. If he is that anal about his phone then he’s hiding. My man and I have the same password for our phones, And there’s only a password because of our children lol.
He’s not being true and he shouldn’t have separate female friends from you.thats just not right
Leave him bcuz you obviously dont have the ability to trust him.
He up to no good. Start to do the same and watch how he reacts
Honestly. Dumb question. You already know what the fuck is up.
I’m just gonna play devils advocate here since it’s clear everyone is going to say he’s cheating lmao
One… do you know these girls he’s “friends” with. You’re both allowed to have friends of the opposite sex… if it’s someone you’ve never heard of or met and you KNOW they aren’t friends that chill on a regular basis then that’s probably some sketchy shit going on.
Two. He doesn’t HAVE to let you touch his phone. People have a right to privacy and it’s childish to think you have a right to go through his stuff.
That being said… if you really feel in your gut like something is going on then I guess go snoop lol
Three. My husband and I BOTH take our phones to the bathroom with us… idk about y’all but I like to have something to do while I poo lmao
I take my phone with me to the bathroom but that’s because I’m in there looking at Facebook or playing candy crush. I also don’t have an issue with my man seeing my phone or using my phone. Same with my man. He takes his phone with him to the bathroom but that don’t mean he’s doing anything and he doesn’t hide his phone or anything like that. About your man. If he’s hiding his phone from you and being offensive with you about looking at his phone, those girls are not just his friends. I would have to leave him because he isn’t being exactly faithful.
I would never go through their phone and I am just as protective of mine. My privacy is important to me.
Same thing with my ex husband… found out hes been with a homeless non educated chick since 2016… hint the reason we divorced. But same thing. He would never let me touch his but he was allowed to touch mine tho… oh plus found out he had a sex ad on craigslist as well
Time for a new one girl. He isn’t hidding it for nothing…
Nah…hell nah…follow your gut!!
He is a Lair ! If it was just his friends why would he not want you to see the text ? He is doing more than just being friends ! If he loves you he would let you go with him to talk to them !!!
My ex hid his phone and he couldn’t be trusted, my man now doesn’t even have a lock on his and doesn’t care if I go through it or not so him I trust with other females.
Get a new boyfriend…
He’s talking/cheating/flirting, doing something he should be doing. Set him straight, if he’s young enough you can persuade him, if he is too set in his ways, he’ll be the same shit forever!
First, it’s an invasion of someone’s privacy to snoop through private conversations. You obviously have a trust issue quit wasting your time. You wouldn’t feel that way if he was an honest guy. Quit lieing to yourself for love. No trust=Toxic relationship
Lmfao is this a serious post…
Last time that happened to me I was being lied to and cheated on
Throw the whole man away
Get you some male friends all see how he likes that
You know the answer already. You could stay and feel like you do now and let this relationship grow even deeper or you could leave and start over You have to weigh your pros and cons.
Is there any other reason not to trust him? Men and women can be friends and talk. If there’s nothing else but the phone, this seems like just jealousy. Everyone takes their phone to the bathroom with them. How else are you gonna play candy crush while you poop?
I think.you know the answer
You deserve more!!! Lots of good fish in the sea!!! Go for the good fish…
If you can’t trust him move on
You already know the answer, women’s intuition is always right. Don’t even look thru the phone if you get the chance, just go. It will hurt even more
Leave he’s not loyal trustin keep it real stay real always.find better for you
You need to ask! Do it, out of here,
Friends = women he used to have sex with but no commitment. Keeps them as back up now that he’s in a relationship. Also, if they’re friends, why don’t you know them? It’s shady af. Byeeeee fuckboy!
that’s not YOUR boyfriend then sis. he’s all y’alls boyfriend. leave
Trust issues. Do you let him go through your phone.
If he cant be honest and open, leave.
Leave his lying cheating ass!! Thats What happened with my ex & his “best friend” he left his phone om the table one time bt accident and i looked at his texts (had my suspiciouns) sure enough everytime they went on a road trip they were fckn around. She was my feiend to mind you. So ya id def leave his lying cheating ass
Leave! It’s a no brainer!