Yeah no bye boyfriend. Especially if hes hiding his phone
Leave him. Go live with your family, like your mom and dad or your grandparents, family members.
If you have to ask, you’re in relationship trouble!!!
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Don’t waste 12 of your good years in him and try to date when you’re in your late 30s—it’s ugly AF out there.
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You don’t trust him.
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Leave,been there,done that.
My man just left, 3 months pregnant… first sign was being sneaky with his phone.
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Better be asking those bitches for half his cell phone bill, rent. And just be cool with it. It’s hard out here sis, somebody’s gotta pay these bills. 
Peace out! Golden rule: if there’s nothing to hide, there is NOTHING to hide. He should have no problem handing over his phone. Period.
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Leave hear cheating that’s a big red flag
Leave him… you dont trust him for good reasons. People only hide their phone when they have something to hide…
Find someone who would willingly trade phones for a day without a sec. Warning. Then ya know he has nothing to hide. If you stay you are only going to put yourself through hell and get hurt.
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Get rid of him he’s probably cheating my dad does that to my mom and he is cheating
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Sneaky with the phone is a major red flag. Trust your gut and confront him. You’ll know immediately if you can work past it or not.
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You already know the answer
He’s gotta go to sleep at some point 
Do you know the code?
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Girl been there done that. Said they are bffs and have been since high school and she is like a sister to him. Cool, until she is texting him non-stop and he leaves you for her and tries to hide it for a year. Girl leave. Get out while you can. If he can’t be honest and the red flags are there no matter how you try to tell yourself they aren’t. Leave and have no contact with him.
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Sounds like he may be cheating
Does he give any other signs of cheating
Kick him to the curb like a bad habit. He has hidden secrets he doesn’t want you to see.
You already know…reds flags going up all over.
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Yeah he’s hiding shit.
He’s cheating.
LEAVE
I was thinking the same thing! This has to be a joke!! Lol
I use to wait till he was asleep and take his phone out of the room so the light didnt wake him up and if he woke up I’d just leave it on the kitchen counter and be like weird must have forgotten it there and not plugged it in. But I’m going to be the one girl that says maybe you are looking into it to much my fiance has female friends lots of them and he talks to women every day he takes his phone to the bathroom and has a password on it I almost never get to touch his phone and he sometimes gets defensive when I do… last time I got jealous and looked I ruined a proposal and I told him and he put off proposing for 2 years… maybe its harmless and he actually just has friends take a look when hes sleeping for peace of mind but dont do it every day if theres nothing to find theres nothing to find
Is that new behavior? I’d be suspicious af
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Omg are you dating my EX??!!! Get out girl!!
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Out with the old in with the new.
I’ve been where you are and there is a reason he doesn’t want you touching it has he got it on silent too… follow your gut my told me he was being unfaithful and I was on the money…
If his phone doesn’t have a lock wait til he’s asleep and look through it if you find anything wake him up and talk about it… if that doesn’t work then do what you have to do
Dump his lying butt and find a man who will respect you and your relationship with him.
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Been there done that. Phone was like a prized possession. Locked and never left around me and always on silent so I didnt hear messages come in. Wont deal with that crap again.
Clean out your closet
Cut ties with him! No room for secrets in a realationship. Move on!
My bf of 3 yrs and we have son together just started doing this put a passcode on his phone takes it to the bathroom every where he goes he wont even let it sit on the dresser if he has to go to the kitchen or vise versa and he refuses to give up the password…ummmm can you say cheater ??
If you can’t trust the person you’re with you don’t need to be with them.
Realize that you aren’t his only girlfriend.
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Retaliate do the same to him .
Don’t let him see your phone and make some guy friends. 
Time will give you your answer.Soon… Smile, watch and listen…
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Weather or not he is lying u don’t trust him you cant be in a relationship without trust so leave what’s the point of dragging out
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He’s hiding shit he don’t want you to see.
jesus… everyone is saying leave… fucking be an adult about it… talk, ask questions. everyone is so quick about leaving these days its pathetic
It’s an admission of guilt. Get a new boyfriend.
Trust your man and if you cant trust him leave him. There is no healthy reslationship without trust
Dump his ass. He obviously has something to hide
If you don’t trust him then leave. It’s his phone so you have no reason to touch it
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Here’s the thing, the fact that you are even feeling the need to look through his phone indicates there’s a problem.
I’m about to celebrate year 29 of being married to my husband. I can honestly say that I have never felt the need to check up on him (or his phone) and he says the same thing. I have never locked my phone, and I have never felt a need to touch his phone. We do go out with friends, and not necessarily always with each other.
I think there is something going on with your relationship that YOU need to fix. Is it that you’re insecure, or he’s given you reasons to not trust him? You should never have to wonder if a girl friend is a girlfriend.
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Would he tolerate that from you? If the answer is no, why are you supposed to be ok with it?
If he didn’t have something to hide, he wouldn’t be so secretive.
You have to decide what you are willing to put up with. He’s obviously going to do whatever you allow him.
My personal opinion? Life is hard enough. Find you someone who is going to treat you like you deserve to be treated. And If he doesn’t want the same thing (to be in a relationship with one person) move on!.
Love and Luck to you.
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Let him go live with those “friends”. Life too short for BS.
Is there a reason you don’t trust him? I mean I have guy friends, and I don’t really leave my phone anywhere. I take it to the bathroom etc. I can assure you I am not being unfaithful. So there is either a reason for you not to trust him, past infidelity, etc. Or you are seriously insecure.
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HE IS NOT YOUR “boyfriend “ Face facts
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If you’ve confronted him and the behavior hasn’t changed. Leave.
Ex was like this. Never changes.
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Everyone is saying “trust” him or leave…like its you that has the problem, but if your with him then you should know whats normal behavior and whats not. In my personal experience a man literally hiding his phone from you doesnt exactly scream that hes trust worthy.
My husband has never hid his phone from me, acted weird about his phone and even says “hey answer that call or text”. The one time I tried to answer it and he freaked I knew something was up. He didnt cheat thank god, but turnes out he shit talked me to his mama…and my gut was right.
He apologized and hasnt acted that way since, but basically trust your gut.
you do not have a boyfriend. You just think you do.
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He’s cheating in some type of way. Confront him about it. If u feel like he’s lying demand he show you, if he wont, you have your answer and it’s time to move on.
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I would be straight up with him and tell him how you feel. Personally I have been through a lot of relationships like this and I was always being cheated on. Or made to look like a fool.
Now my boyfriend lets me touch his phone and do stuff on it whenever I want. I even know the password and he never changes it. He can go through mine and I can do the same with his. But I trust my bf and don’t have to do things like that.
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I had a previous relationship that this exact same scenario happened and my dumbass kept listening to what he told me and not what the facts are if he seems to lie to you about the simplest things, you def need to start paying attention to his body language and just the way he acts in general about the situation. If you casual ask to see his phone or if you go to pick it up and he freaks out on you or even acts like he’s pissed off then you need to get away because he is hiding something major from you and doesn’t want you to find out… I had to go threw the same thing and ik you don’t want to believe it but neither did I and then few months later I finally had enough and I was my own little detective because we are all intelligent and can find out anything we want to know with a little looking around… keep your head up guys like that are just little boys and don’t know how to be an adult…
If they’re just his female friends, then why would he hide it and won’t let you touch it🤔. That’s the suspicious part. A lot of people take their phones to the bathroom these days so that may not be in indicator of anything…but ya never know when they have friends of the opposite sex. Go with your gut feelings. Some females just need to ease their worries or to see if they’re are being cheated on which I’m pretty sure are the reasons why you want to see his phone. Don’t let folks make you think that you don’t have the natural right to make sure your partner is being loyal to you since he has females friends. Your sharing your life/time/love/body with him. It’s normal for many people to wanna make sure that they’re not being cheated on especially if there are possible indicators, some rather not know, some don’t care, & others are probably cheaters themselves so they don’t worry about what their mates are doing. Like I said, go with your gutt feelings.
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Dump him he’s cheating and deep down you know it .Sorry I’ve been there you can only lie to yourself so long
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Leave. He’s cheating
What’s with all these young girls checking on their boyfriends phones. 2 daughter n laws and they do the same thing
Play his ass too. Try it on him see what he does. If he gets mad when you hide YOUR phone. You got your answer. Dont waste your TIME. Its precious
He cheating. My ex did the Same thing. If you can’t trust him don’t stay
Why are you asking us? Ask him FIRST!
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If you can’t trust him or by the sounds of it he is not trusting you to find out what he has done wrong fuck that ID still get his phone and if he has something to say then kick his ass out
Dump his unfaithful ass,excuse my language
Girl leave his sorry ass…
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That is what we call a fuck boy. Leave. A relationship without trust isn’t going anywhere.
Don’t go looking if your not ready for the answer.
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Choke his as out so he know you aint playin…taze that ass…
What should u do?? How u gonna ask a question like that when ur man is obviously playing u? U should crack him upside his head with a big ass candle, bust his phone and leave him
You already know the answer and he is showing it to you by not doing as you ask.
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Just dump his ass
OR GET YOU SOME MALE FRIENDS AND HIDE YOUR PHONE SEE IF HE LIKES THAT.
SOUNDS LIKE HE IS CHEATING 
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Tell him if he has nothing to hide put up or get out
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If you know his network and his pin. …call his phone, let it go to voicemail, enter his pin and listen to the messages. …you can forward that message to your phone and play it back. …watch his face!
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Get yourself another boyfriend
Are you sure he is up to something have you got proof or just very insecure, been with my man 23 years he has female friends always has, takes his phone to the bathroom does not mean he is cheating they do fb and stuff while sat on the shitter make sure you k ow for definatebefore you accuse him of anything
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Obviously he’s got something to hide only you, knows what to do
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In my experience it means he’s cheating
He’s cheating and you already know it. I doubt he’s capable of change either most aren’t. Just end the relationship unless you’re ok with being second best
He’s cheating it’s the most effective simple test there is for it , grab his phone if he grabs it back he’s hiding something if he anything like my oh it will be a girlfriend and a string of others before her all behind my back 
What about boyfriends looks at sex sites and hides phone
Leave. And not even because of him, because no one on here knows what is going on with him, but because you obviously dont trust him and can’t communicate with him about this situation so its already doomed why waste more time. 
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Run as far as you can. I have my guy of interests password to his phone and fb and he sill gives females his number on fb so they can text n I can’t see it n he makes sure to delete what’s gonna get him into trouble with me! It’s not worth it. Even if you have passwords where there’s a will there’s a way
Must b having loads of sex with other men
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Leave him!!!i been there,after 4 kids and 15 years ,I left😳it is not worth to wait longer…leave now
Drop him like a hot potatoe!
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Sorry but they are all red flags. Fuck that, I’d say if you wanna hide shit well its over then. Everyone deserves some privacy but if your not hiding anything then you wouldn’t have a problem letting ur partner have a look or know the pass word and if you say you want to meet them, he should be fine with that. Anyone doing this are up to no good. I wouldn’t even stick around to try be convinced with his lies
If he can’t leave his phone around you Ever then he is hiding a lot. If he gets aggressive or tries making you feel guilty of the situation he is guilty
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Trust him, guys can have girls as friends. And if you dont then leave
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He is cheating I’d call him out on his bs to
If u have to ask???
Act like you don’t care, dress nicely and go somewhere without telling him, even just sitting in your car around the block … and don’t give him any attention and just short and simple answers … I promise you if he loves you it’ll drive him nuts! But if it does’nt and he just carries on then you know what to do … and keep your phone close as well … If he wants to talk to you about the whole thing then ignore him! You’ll know when it’s time to give in! But don’t ever let someone beat you down like this!!! NO WOMAN DESERVES THIS!
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Just remember … you are the pro here! You’re the woman … just make sure he knows that!
Leave his ass get out now well you can
I think you know what to do…
Ask him to introduce you to his friends or have them over for dinner. His answer will let you know what’s up.
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He’s hiding shit from you 
drop him…you deserve better!!
Run as fast as you can this does not sound like a honest person
Relationships are difficult if there is no trust.
Follow your gut, you already sensed something wrong.
What does your gut tell u? Like u probably already know what’s up before u asked this question… Go with your instincts…