Instead of asking for advices on here ,why don’t you try to seat with him and talk about it , and how do you know is doing at work !? how’s is your relationship goes !? Maybe yous don’t spend much time along together ,it can be many reasons for that !? Most of the guys have it on phone and still doesn’t mean is watching all the time , or mean that is going cheat on you, my point is seat and talk with each other if nothing gets sort it ,then make the best decision for you !
If you arent fully invested in the relationship at this point leave. Its not worth working through and hurting yourself for his issues.
Think yourself lucky you found out before marriage or kids.
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Porn isn’t really a big deal. It is concerning though that he’s being hypocritical and doesn’t want you to watch it. This page has gone down hill. The comments used to be helpful but now everyone just suggests breaking up or resort to criticizing or insulting the original poster. Sad
Watch it with him or at least act like you want to watch it with him
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Pray for him and ask Him to seek spiritual help. Encourage him.
And then decide later.
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Send him nudes at work . If he’s looking at pictures of you he shouldn’t need to look at porn. Personally I feel like it’s disrespectful to have that shit on your phone when your in a relationship… your supposed to look at eachother naked and not other people. & as far as a 3some like some have said I would not be asking bout that either because then he will just start doing that behind your back with other women instead of watching porn all the time.
It definitely is an issue when he doesn’t want you having it on your phone either !!!
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If he thinks it’s ok to watch it but not ok for you to watch it sounds controlling to me. I’d be confronting him about that and see what he says. If you don’t like what he’s doing then end it and move on
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Lol I will just watch it too and let him find out 
I told him I guess this is just what we are doing now 
He was pi$$$$$ed
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Good thing you haven’t married him yet. Ditch Mr Double Standard. Fast! You don’t need someone like him!
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Sounds like he has control issues and addiction. Probably best to go your separate ways.
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Guys will be guys at work, especially construction. Why are you going through his phone anyway?
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It’s not worth the BS. Leave. It will never change. Trust me.
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Leave him, okay for him to do it but not you? seems possessive.
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Um wtf bye dude you’re weird as fuck
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You both sound controlling. Accept him for how he is or leave.
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You need to leave one your checking his phone so you don’t trust him and why you saying he’s bad for having it yet you have it also so u may make him feel bad aswell
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It’s to show his workers
They all have porn
I wouldn’t worry too much about it
Leave him and get someone who doesn’t make you feel like crap.
My first thought was because he hates his job and wants to be fired? Your company is always watching your online activity.
Just do the same. He will cut his s.
If he’s watching porn at work he’s got a serious problem. Makes me wonder what else he does. Watch that one. 🤷
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That’s the construction business 
I love porn don’t see an issue
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Same reason they do at home.
Sure occasionally I tug one out at the work place but seems excessive
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Is it weirder to beat off by yourself in the woods or in a porta potty? Asking for a friend
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I’ve never had or needed porn on my phone.
Men are sick bastards. But we don’t need to beat off every time we look at porn.
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That’s just weird to me, I wouldn’t be able to trust him. especially if he gets mad when you look at it, but he thinks it’s okay that he can. Makes no sense, I’d leave
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Why are people telling g her to leave because he watches porn bloody hell could be worse he could be doing the actual porn himself with another woman. Do people in relationships not talk anymore?
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It sounds as though neither of you are with someone who respects or responds to the expectations and boundaries you want in the relationship. You need to work on this or it will become such a problem that it could cause you both harm and may result in the end of the relationship. I think you need to reflect on whether this relationship will work for you and of you think you both have capacity to change.
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This is a sticky situation. Haha get it?
But for real if he gets mad at u for it his reasons for looking must be very questionable. He cant give you a reason. It’s the frequency that has me concerned. If you feel this why ask yourself why you stay
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Is this why construction takes so long to get done?
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We watch porn together hell my old man sent me a porn video at work the other day he was home I watched it at lunch but that is just us
These comments though 
sheeeesh
Chick’s that are bothered by this stuff need to go find men that are virgins or something
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honey men will look at porn in the confessional
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Does he want to get fired ? How does he even have time for that ?
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When did porn become so widely accepted? I remember people would ashamed if other people knew that they where looking at vile images .is it that we have just lost SOMETHING that will NEVER come back…
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Nothing wrong with porn but something is wrong with him if he has to beat off at work …
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Each to there own tbh …in most relationships women tend to be controlling…hows about dont look at other ppls phones…use your own and keep coming on agony Aunt columns and posting crap! Because you dont have a life yer !
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More to the point why are you going through his phone in order to know how much he’s watching??? 
and vise versa like that shit ain’t healthy
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ITS A RED FLAG 
WALK AWAY NOW. 
IF HE NEEDS IT THAT BAD. 
RUN!
Cause, he’s not bringing it home to YOU.
I think the problem here is not so much he has porn on his phone but he has different standards for you I would have an honest conversation saying porn no issue ( clearly he has seen it on your phone) but if it’s ok for him it’s ok for you
I wouldn’t worry about the porn as much as the double standard. Serious red flag for me!
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I think the fact you feel the needto check each others phone is the real issue 
My partners like that very sex addicted watches porn multiple tines a day i hate it even caught him jerking off to it n it has pushed me away from him iv tried telling him how i feel but he cant seem to stop so when i say no to sex he switches up on me and says im thinking of other guys and stuff like that im not inlove with him etc. now we in a shitty situation right now because he tried asking me for sone at 4:30 this morning before he went to work n i said no and it lead to him accussing me of liking n thinking about other guys n things like that i want to move out with our babies we have together i just cant seem to do so. Idk what to do hes begging ne for another chance but in stuck idk how much more i can take
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I’m not against porn as a hard and fast rule but there’s a time and place for it and on the clock at work is not f*cking it.
Don’t accept a double standard- what’s good for the goose is good for the gander. Find a new man
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The double standard there is enough to end things I’d say.
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The fact it’s at work is disturbing
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If he’s allowed then why aren’t you? That’s not how a relationship works. My husband works construction so there shouldn’t be much time to watch porn if he’s doing his job.
First of all it’s porn. Whoopdeedoo. Everyone watches it.
Secondly he can but you can’t. Ew boy Byeee
One how do you know he looking at all the time at work
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It used to bother me too. Im older and i kinda like it too now. I like strip clubs too. Idk im little different i guess. To each there own
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if he can watch porn you can
cant be one rule for one and not the other
however how has he even got the time to be watching it and doing whatever well working!! hmmm xx
It’s time to dump this guy if he’s not giving you any affection, helping you out as a partner, taking his responsibilities with you and your children
It’s a great stress relief BUT my concern is he doesn’t want you watching it
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Stop going through his phone and you’ll never know
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Just start leaving adult pages open on your phone even if you aren’t watching and, when he confronts you tell him if it’s ok for him then it is for you as well, if he doesn’t like it tell him he can stop or gtfo 
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Why is porn such a bad thing in everyone’s eyes?
Men are men. My boyfriend looks at porn. I really don’t care. I look at porn and he teases me. We have a good laugh. Really porn not a big deal. Shit we even look at porn together.
Try doin it together. Evey body happy.
Is he actually “using” the porn at work? I know a lot of guys that show other guys stuff, like “hey bruh, check this shit out…” type of thing.
Honestly, marriage is a tough rite of passage. Imagine being committed to one partner for a life time, i have an experience here where by the wife gets too comfortable and doesn’t excite his husband sexually. When it comes to sex you just turn let him get down on you. In short no romance at all. It gets boring for sure. Just rekindle the romance you had while starting out at first, thank me later. All we need is romance, attention the way we give you if you are lucky you found a caring loving husband, we need pampering, after all we are all human and every one needs a hug sometime always, everyday.
Why do we let our insecurities try to ruin relationships?? We all look at porn… ues men more so… but let it go… its not a big enough deal to cause problems between yall
Obviously there was already some kind of insecurity or trust issue before this for you to be going through his phone. Sometimes the red flags are thrown before the actual final red flag
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He’s never going to change so either accept it and live with it or get the hell out now.
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He needs counseling for his sec addiction
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Worked at many of construction sites, with men, A lot of times they share pictures back-and-forth, they take more breaks than what she would think, do you know in the mornings when they take so Long in the bathroom looking,
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I mean why you checking his phone? 
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The red flag is the double standard
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The fact that he’s doing it at work sounds like an addiction. Also, if he gets angry at you for looking at porn but he can do it, there are far worse underlying issues with this man.
Just keep looking at porn on your phone.
Maybe its naked pictures of you he looks at all day. I don’t know. He may be addicted to porn and sex. Not like hes a serial killer…oh wait…hes not a serial killer his he. Run and do it now.
I would rather have a man looking at porn than being in bed with another woman. At the same time, I get more upset that my man orgasmed without me! I married you and those are mine now!
The double standard is more concerning to me than him having porn on his phone. If it’s not a big deal, you should also be able to have it on your phone.
This post reminded me of a sign i saw posted on fb. I think your man is why signs like this one exist. While definitely hilarious… it’s also really gross. He needs to seek help for his sex addiction. You should probably leave him alone too… not many people have loving healthy relationships with people who are sex addicts… 
My other half has always worked construction…he has always had porn on his phone, it used to really bother me (previous insecurities) … we’ve been together 17yrs and he has a whatsapp group where they share videos/photos, he is a site agent so still in construction, ALL the guys show/share photos. It doesn’t mean he is bashing one out in the porta loos (trust me on this one) … it isn’t about ‘wanking’ over the girls in the videos either, it’s the thought of whatever is being done, being done to them.
Doesn’t bother me so much now, that department for us is solid - maybe offer to watch it with him? Or send him some saucy photos of you … he would definitely appreciate those more than some porn. 
I left that infatuation in my 20’s. You start having kids, more responsibilities, supervise others at work, and the allure of it isn’t there anymore. However, in the military and single it was like trading baseball cards. They actually have signs at most male dominated workplaces with graphics with a big red circle & slash mark about not doing that in the men’s room and port a johns😂
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He’s obviously got a huge problem with it. May be time for some threapy.
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Atleast its porn. Better than a real woman that u will hate seeing him with and having porn of. Men have more estrogen. I use to watch porn at work also on my breaks . Porn doesn’t mean shit to me now lol
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander.
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My husband loves porn anytime, I have no problem with it. I love porn as well, and even toys. What’s wrong with men wanting to do it on their own sometimes, like damn, thanks for the break🤷♀️
Being cautious and aware doesn’t make someone insecure, just smart. Trust is not a lollipop to give all around. He actually has to prove himself and gain trust what a crazy world we live in, where women are afraid to confront reality and prefer to pretend they don’t see anything wrong happening. I find it pretty desperate. 
And then there are all this women crying “I never saw it coming 
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He is probably addicted to porn and it’s bad. Very disrespectful as well. I’d give him a choice me or porn.
He is degrading you as a woman!!
Porn only feeds his mind to cheat!!
I wouldn’t be worried unless it’s gay porn sometimes when a woman on her cycle they watch porn or after their woman have given birth they watch porn r sometimes that person just not around
Sounds like addiction my partner is in construction he doesn’t have time for porn hes working non stop same for most on the site. If its daily its an issue. If it was every once while or someone sent it to him i wouldn’t care
To each their own, but there shouldn’t be a double standard here.
I think it’s weird to be doing this at work. I don’t get that either.
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That’s an invasion of privacy, that’s weird that you are so concerned about how often or where he does it, if I were him that would be a total deal breaker for me.
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Wrong guy for you
Please don’t hitch your star to that
That will never be happy life
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Leave that man alone or suck his dick a little more
Better question: why are you two checking each others’ phones? You two are adults who should be allowed to do things without the other knowing about it. I don’t need to know every time my significant other jerks it, nor he I. Maybe worry less about the porn and more about the codependency.
Y would he jerk off at work. Indecent much!! And in a filthy portA potty… looking at pics with workers is fine.
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Probably does it when he’s away from you so he doesn’t have to hear about it. I would imagine shit hits the fan when you do it if you’re digging through his browser history and complaining about how many times you’ve found it.
I’d be worried if he can do it and you can’t , and fucking aye go through his phone listen too your gut ain’t no invasion of privacy especially if he does it too you , relationships should be 50/50 ,
Men think about sex wayyy more than us women do.
Im a guy and I work in construction and all I gotta say is if he jerking it in the porta hub with all that shit and piss dudes got issues lol I goto work and work don’t got time for all that
I was parked in the Walmart parking lot yesterday and saw a guy in a construction work truck staring at his phone for like 20 minutes (I was killing time with my kids in my car). It looked like he was killing time before having to go in for the day. There can be a lot of down time for construction workers depending on the job so I’m guessing that’s how he does it. Porn addiction sucks tho, sorry you’re going through that. Also he might not be jerking off just looking because it’s an addiction for some. Sadly there isnt much help for it unless HE wants to change but chances are it ain’t goin anywhere
Make your own and send it to him
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Sounds like maybe an addiction.
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