A lot of women take off their bra at home after wearing them all day at work. Is that suspicious? She probably doesn’t want to show panty lines depending on her attire and occupation I can see why that could be an issue. I hate thongs so I would find every panty that doesn’t show panty lines that doesn’t go up my butt than wear those. But your wife is different than I. Not a red flag my friend.
I go commando at home, regular at work and thong if I’m going out.
Soon as I’m home, I take the thong off
So I wouldn’t worry about her doing anything
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Probably the same reason she wears a bra, heals and make up to work and not at home. Because dress codes and professionalism in the work place matters.
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Probably cuz she doesn’t want to have panty lines when she’s at work
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Home is where we’re comfortable…thongs aren’t comfortable
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She wants to be comfortable at home and at home she doesn’t have to hear judgemental ignorant people all day. Some People will pick on the smallest thing on others just to be ding dongs
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Sso she doesnt show a panty line at work.
Shes moving around at home and that thong is slicing her in half.
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You worrying about her underwear and thinking it means she’s doing something is definitely part of the problem I would say… we put ourselves through hell and back mentally and physically to be accepted in today’s world and to add something petty let’s make the woman stress of what she wears under her clothes… thongs or granny panties hell even commando… she shouldn’t have to worry about being ridiculed from her husband about it… she’s home and wants to be comfortable not tasting fruit of the looms through her ass cheeks
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Bc….you have nothing to be concerned about. Have a beer and slap her ass
This is a joke right
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she wants to be comfortable at home the second i get home my bra comes off ect and i get in comfy clothes also…your over thinking it
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There are other types of sexi panties out there , go but her some , if you want to see her I something sexy, take the initiative
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I personally hate thongs , having a string in the crack of my butt. 
and they make underwear that doesn’t show panty lines because I wear them and no lines.
But to this I feel you have nothing to worry about!
Things are what she is used too so no panty lines so that what she chooses to wear.
As others have said ASK HER!
Simply as hey honey I noticed you wear thongs to work, but when you’re home you wear a different kind of underwear. Why’s that?
She probably wants to be comfortable at home.
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It’s very sweet that you even noticed such a difference and shows that you care about your marriage. But on the other hand your questions does raise some red flags about you. I think that you should go to her one on one for questions like these. It seems like to you’re feeling insecure in your relationship if you insinuate that she may be doing something she shouldn’t be at work because of the undergarments she chooses. Maybe talk to her about marriage counseling specifically to grab better communication. You should be 100% ok with talking to your partner about things you’ve noticed that concern you. Counseling isn’t a bad thing it’s actually amazing when done preemptively. My guess is as good as the others it’s probably about panty lines.
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This is a joke right
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Ummm answer is in the question. After 8 hours most want them off. Are we serious lol.
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My husband says similar things like " Omg you wear sexy things and wear make up to work but with me" . Seriously. I wear the same shit when I go out with him he just don’t notice. Lol. I just don’t dress up at home. He smoking crack if he thinks I’m gonna do dress red carpet event to chill at home
You see thongs as sexy, we see them as a tool. Sometimes we have to wear them depending on the pants we wear. You’re way overthinking this
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Try wearing one …see how that goes!
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Omg. She can do what she likes. I expect she is wearing thongs to work because she doesn’t want a panty line in her skirt. That is why she then takes off said thong when she gets home.
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The same reason she probably wears a bra to work but slingshots that thing across the room when she’s home. Let her live. 
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Probably has no clean underwear to wear to work. Start washing the clothes and see how much she wears them. Then ask her why???
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The best feeling after a long day is taking off your bra!! There is nothing in it.
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Just let the lady be!
it may just make her feel sexy. Lol. She probably just wants to be extra comfortable at home! Jeez! 
Panty lines my friend. Depending on what she’s wearing she probably doesn’t want panty lines.
At home a woman usually wants to be comfortable and if you want her to be sexy or have some time in something sexy take the initiative and buy her something and plan a romantic night in.
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You said “sometimes” so it sounds like it depends on what she is wearing. Sometimes panty lines are obvious and women try to cover that up. Home is for comfort and a big ole pair of granny panties are just that. Calm down….and if you don’t trust her you don’t have a marriage anyway. Stop worrying about her panties unless she comes home without them 
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Does she wear slacks or a dress too work? If so shes probably hiding a panty line
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Do u leave your jeans on when u get home?? Good lord let her be comfortable in her home 
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What I’m hearing is that this man is trying to understand because he didn’t know that the purpose of thongs is to avoid panty lines, not just to look sexy. So instead of bashing him, educate him. Just be nice people, it’s literally free.
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In my opinion, she doesn’t have to wear thongs at work either if they are uncomfortable. But I’m an odd girl, I would rather be comfortable than impress people. I don’t feel thongs are needed though to impress people at work. I would second guess that too but every person is different. I at least give you props for reaching out and asking other people before just accusing her automatically.
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Panty lines showing can be embarrassing and make the outfit look unbecoming if she’s trying to look professional and put together. Nothing to worry about.
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What pants is she wearing. If they’re jeans/tighter pants it’s more comfortable. If it’s loose pants it feels like you got a wedgie lol. Presumably she’s wearing more comfortable clothes at home.
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She may be just mostly sitting at work. At home she has to cook, clean, bend, twist, turn, lift and needs no restrictions!
Its just undewear. I do the same thing… take them off soon as i get home. R u rly being like this over her clothing comfortablility?
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She probably hates panty lines, as most women do.
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This HAS TO BE a troll
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Thongs dont have a pantyline like regular ones do, bro chill
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She’s probably putting up with the thong at work, for preferred reasons like overthinking panty lines. At home she doesn’t have to overthink about things like that. I’d suggest a sexy gown or robe and some cute slippers as a gift. Communication is key. And that includes “dumb” questions everyone 
. In my relationship there are no dumb questions unless we’re playing around. If there’s a concern, we address. If my husband were to ask me how can I tolerate an 8 hr wear at work and not home, id just answer. Love gets lost often and things get misunderstood, big and small.
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Panty lines! I do this sometimes, depending on the type of pants I wear. Lighter colored pants make it easier to see panty lines & the print on them! And of course she wears regular panties at home because they are comfortable & she’s in the comfort of y’all’s home!
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Same reason most women take their bras off as soon as they get home. It’s uncomfortable!!!
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I thought most of us do that
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I can see your concern. Although there are couple reason. Talk to her 
communicate
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It’s like taking your bra off, leave her alone…u try them
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Panty lines. Some women deal with the discomfort, just so everyone can’t see the line from their underwear. Many women also remove bras when they get home because they are so uncomfortable.
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It’s probably her slacks or whatever, they show lines really bad. There are non thong underwear that are very pretty and lacy, get her some and a pretty robe 
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Most of us women do that. Don’t stress. If anything, just tell her to take it ALL off—that’s most comfortable
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Seriously…. It’s this really a concern:woman_facepalming:t2:
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Why don’t you try wearing one for eight hours and see how comfortable you are?
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Worry about your undergarments and not hers
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Maybe because when we are at home we like to be comfortable and at work we usually are uncomfortable all day because it’s business
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Panty lines ! I mean I’ll wear a thong for that reason and a bra to keep my mom of 3 boobs perky . () but as soon I get home and done for the day , my underwear and bra come off immediately .
My girl works at twin peaks but don’t wear the lingerie for me only on occasions.
It’s kinda like a bra. We wanna feel like we look our best at work but at home we want to be comfortable. You’re looking way to into it😅
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Good one Michelle…lol
Chill out people. This was written by a man. He doesn’t understand things like panty lines & being uncomfortable to avoid embarrassment. He’s asking a legit question.
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I’m the same way. I think every girl is lmao. It’s like a constant wedgie. We wanna be comfy at home. It also may be because her outfits need no panty line and she has to wear a thing to achieve that. It’s not a issue lol
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Thongs are uncomfortable but needed for the no pantie line look which looks more professional
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Definitely ain’t something to worry about. At home she’s comfortable. Just about every female is that way.
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Now our underwear are also being controlled 
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Them things are so uncomfortable! I’ve worn them to work and not at home. Not a big deal!
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this is normal. nothing to worry about.
Buy her some “at home thongs” that you would like to see her in.
She wears a.thong to work because she doesn’t want her panty line showing through her clothes at work. At home it doesn’t matter. No need to worry, MOST women do this.
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Listen - at work I am a professional. At home - I am a swamp creature. Let us be at home how we desire.
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Is this a serious question home is a place to be comfortable 
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It’s just the panty line. Don’t worry. I know a girl who went out to a concert with nothing on underneath cause her skirt had side slits and she didn’t even want a thong string showing. It’s about appearance not about you.
Now if there are other things concerning you as well maybe that would change out answers. But if it’s just things. Don’t worry
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I think he should be worried, it’s a RED flag!
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I don’t get why everyone is trashing the dude… I think it’s a valid question as long as there are other factors that contributed to his concerns… I don’t like wearing thongs… they really aren’t comfortable for me, I prefer boyshorts. I’ll wear a thong to look sexy for my boyfriend, but I’m not going to wear them around the house just because… and I’m definitely not going to wear them out anywhere unless I really have to prevent panty lines. Depending on how she dresses for work she may have to wear a thong so that her panty line doesn’t show. Is it a concern on it’s own? No… but if there are other red flags to go along with it then I don’t think you’re crazy for thinking it’s a little odd.
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Dude, ugh!!! 
I had a boss actually tell me to either choose different clothes or different underwear so I had no visible panty lines. Thongs SUCK. They are uncomfortable AF and they are responsible for tons of infections. They wick e.coli from the back right to the front. Let her wear her cotton panties in peace. Put on some thongs yourself and live in them or stfu.
Love is love, if your husband never complains on anything you do, leave him and find a complainer, no problem
Because butt floss is very uncomfortable.she probably has to wear them to work so her panties don’t show through her clothing and once she gets home it’s like snapping that bra off. get that shit from between the butt cheeks and be free. women don’t have time to look like supermodels 24/7 to please everyone else. I want to be comfortable in my home
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First world problems 
Check her phone once a week, let her check yours as well, that’s all telling not thongs. Now if she is trimming the bushes nice and neat to go to work and not at home. WORRY or like me say Bye and peace out
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No need to worry. Women get stared at constantly especially at work. The last thing we need is people commenting on our underwear. They see every line.
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We will suffer in public, but prefer comfort in private. You worry too much.
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Because she wants to be comfortable at home. My hubs is always begging me to wear thongs but at home I just want to relax. They were ok for everyday wear in my 20s but the older we get the more comfort we are looking for.
Why don’t you men wear thongs for us? Even exchange might encourage her to wear them more often 
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He should worry if she don’t wear any panties at all for work
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Maybe she’s taking them off at work too 
seriously though when at home I live in pjs but don’t see me going to work in them. Home is for comfort when out you just go with it and makes the comfort when home even more lush
Let me ask this question, do you enjoy the feeling of something stuck in your butt crack all day? Neither does she.
At home is comfortable time, work is when you have to worry about things like panty lines.
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Don’t worry she is comfortable at home and isn’t worried about her pantyline showing at home.
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Maybe, she doesn’t want people seeing her panty line?
I work as a server and my husband will literally tell me “you should wear a thong to work, prob make better tips” then gladly take me to pound town in my granny panties. Maybe she wore all her comfy panties and now on to her “not my fav panties but I have to wear them” ones. All women have their favs
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If you wear a thong why wear any underwear at all they dont make any sence to me at all!
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Because much like our bras after work hours they automatically know their time is up
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Probably nothing just a panty line thing… Work people are constantly staring at you. Being comfortable at home is a good thing she would rather be comfy and happy with you rather than having something ride up her ass and making her grumpy. Sounds strange but it’s a woman thing.
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Cuz if you wear em at home, the man always wants ya to take em off! 
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It’s like wearing a girdle… it makes your clothes look nicer on, but is uncomfortable
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That is very strange. I completely understand why you’re concerned by this because it makes absolutely no sense. You would think that it would be the opposite because most people want to be more comfortable at work for 8 hours. I would definitely discuss this with her and see what she has to say. I wear thongs 99% of the time, so I don’t understand her saying that they are too uncomfortable to wear at home.
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That’s like her getting mad that you don’t wear a tie at home. Only at work.
Why would you wear it at home? You want to be comfortable at home
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I think you wear those for so you don’t show your panty line when you wear skirts if that helps
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She might be self conscious of having a panty line showing. Only thing I can think of
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Maybe she doesn’t feel comfortable as in, she feels like it’s not appropriate atone the kids. She might have a “mommy mode” and a professional or adult mode. Sure might be more modest or casual looking around the home and the kids to feel more motherly. And she might suffer through a work day as most females do with heels and hair and make up, etc. Thongs don’t always equal trying to be sexy. To me that’s all media and advertising. But it can also be because she doesn’t want pantry lines or panties riding up at inconvenient times.
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Most women wear thongs to prevent panty lines showing through their pants.
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this is really weird to me… why would you change your underwear 2x a day:woman_shrugging: I’ve always wore thongs and they are comfortable why don’t you just ask her
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Pantie lines we don’t like them but at home be natural
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They’re uncomfortable dude. It’s to avoid panty lines. Sorry. You sound like my ex.
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To the women on here saying it’s uncomfortable for all women, don’t speak for all.
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