Why does my wife wear things to work but not at home?

She doesn’t want a panty line at work. She’s most comfortable at home, so of course she changes. I will look cute at work and come home and throw on sweats, hair goes up and makeup off. :woman_facepalming:t3:

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Just tell her you think its hot when she wears them at home .
I get why she wears them to work even if she doesn’t like them. Unfortunately there needed while wearing certain pants . But like others have said . She’s wants to be comfortable at home. Maybe if you tell her you like them she’ll wear them more. But you also have to see it from her point of view if she says she’d rather wear different panties . I mean you don’t have to wear floss up your but :face_with_raised_eyebrow: so if she says she’d rather not wear them at home respect that.

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She probably doesn’t want to wear them at all.
She doesn’t want her panty line showing.
It’s fun to wear audacious underwear to work.
You should talk to her

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Hides panty lines, and when she’s homes she’s in her comfort zone so takes them off. Those things ain’t comfy!

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I suggest you put on a thong and try sitting on the couch at home for hours and tell me how comfortable it is? I’m assuming (because I’m a woman and I wear thongs) that your wife is wearing a thong to work because it’s more appropriate for the outfit she has to wear as opposed to a thicker panty underneath her pants when she can be more comfortable at home. You sound ridiculous And insecure. Stop embarrassing yourself.

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Those things are awful! I’d rather go without than wear a thong. I feel the same about heels, too. Even if I wanted to torture myself and wear them to work (like I do with my bra), they would be off the second I walked in the door after getting home (JUST LIKE MY BRA)!

Thankfully, my husband doesn’t take this personally. Also, he gets to see me naked. So :person_shrugging:

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Why would anyone ever wear one?

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Most women wear certain things to work( bra’s, thong’s, make up) that immediately come off when they come home. Why you ask? Because they want to be comfy and at home is where you get comfy so off come all the things that made us uncomfortable throughout the day

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Maybe she doesn’t want her panty line showing at work… wow

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Thongs cause yeast infections and other infections…I don’t see how or why anyone would want to wear one anyways.

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Clearly her choice of comfort at work regarding under garments that are comfortable with her work attire must mean she is cheating :rofl::rofl::rofl: a lot of woman do this. I do it too.

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What a weird thing to be worried about. Sounds like you need to talk to someone about your own issues.

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My advice… get yourself a new hobby as it clearly sounds like you’ve got too much down time to be overthinking. Women prefer to look professional in their workplaces and no one thinks it’s cute seeing granny pantie lines and all outfits look better without visual signs of their undergarments. I have pants I don’t wear any underwear with and it has nothing to do with sexual nature but everything to do with my presentation.

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Whit why would you care about what type off pants she has on. Choose yer battles pal

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She is home and deserves to be comfortable. How do you expect her to change it at work?

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I wear leggings to work every day and I do not wear underwear with them at all. I’m also a fan of not having pants on at home so I switch into comfy panties and a big sweater most of the time. Nothing really to worry about in my opinion :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Maybe it’s more.comfortable to wear thin clothes at work…I know I do…maybe a thong so it.dont show a panty line? Maybe not…good luck

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She is looking for something from someone that is not you. I only wear those for my spouse. If I left with one on for work yeah he’d wonder why. Especially since they are uncomfortable.

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I HATE thongs but leggings and work pants need them so… it doesn’t mean she’s cheating

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I wear things out that aren’t as comfortable and when I get home change to something else. She should be able to be comfortable at home and not have to feel like she is dressing up for work.

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Thongs are not just for being sexy. They prevent you from having a panty line. She probably doesn’t want her panty line showing for work. At home she wants to be comfortable!

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Take a step back. Look at what she wears to work, if there is any inkling of a panty line because sometimes even the seamless panties show. It does not look professional especially if she is in a higher position it does not look at on her part. Now if you want her to wear a thong around the house when you’re being intimate then say some. Don’t turn to online and say should I be concerned, the answer is no. If you’ve been married to her for 20 years and you love your kids and her you should not be questioning it. If she wants to be comfortable while at home I’ll tell her you don’t even have to wear underwear she might even thank you more.

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This is the most pathetic shit I’ve ever heard insecurity at it’s finest

2 words… Panty line.

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I personally wear only thongs to work as well, you can’t feel them much and ( no panty lines). As much as woman shouldn’t be shamed for them or feel bad about them, we are. I would talk to her.

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To be fair, panty lines in dress pants (or in any pants) make me feel self conscious. Like someone will be staring at the lines or wrinkles. I do whatever I can to keep as much attention off myself as I can. :sweat_smile: At least then, if someone’s staring at my ass, its for good cause and not because I dress like a nitwit!

It’s not that she’s worn it for an hour and it’s uncomfortable it’s that’s she’s worn it for 9+ hours and it’s uncomfortable, there’s some clothes that just look better without the regular panty line and that’s a big reason women wear thongs

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I do the same. It’s very uncomfortable wearing work/school clothes with normal underwear and not thongs because they roll up and it’s annoying having to fix it constantly and as soon as I get home I put the comfy stuff on.

Oh honey! Home is our comfy place….where regular or even no panties are acceptable. Women tend to wear their undies based off their clothing. Things are generally so panty lines aren’t showing. So my question would be what’s the work attire? Don’t think you need to be worried though honestly

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I do this all the time. Totally normal

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I see women on here all day everyday super suspicious about seemingly menial things the men in their life are doing and hundreds of women jump on here and immediately holler “girl he’s cheating” or “you deserve better” … :woman_shrugging:t3: js. If some woman got on here and said “should I be worried, my SO only wears his nice underwear to work but when he’s home he always wears his raggedy old underwear” there would be an outpouring of very different responses.

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What would you say if she one day decided she wasn’t gonna wear underwear at all? I mean she’s home. She should be comfortable. It’s just like men getting mad that their woman doesn’t wear makeup on her days off but puts it on for work.

Don’t be so dramatic.

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Thongs don’t leave panty lines for everyone to see while at work. They are very uncomfortable. I don’t blame her for taking them off once at home. I personally don’t think you have anything to worry.

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yikes on several fucking bikes are you serious? Like her UNDERWEAR are a big Ole “Come and get it boys!” Flag :rofl::expressionless: stfu

So im guessing its probably more to do with a particular outfit or something along those lines if she sometimes wears them to work. Or maybe she doesn’t want to wear them for you because your turning it into an issue? Not saying you are but sounds possible. They do take some getting used to but for the most part theyre very comfortable, and you cant even feel them. But certain pantyhose and work outfits are nore comfortable with them, and you wont see such large panty lines through clothing. But why don’t you just ask your wife??

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U try wearing a shoestring up ur cracked for 8 hrs and tell me how you feel

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It depends on the pants she’s wearing. Sometimes thongs are required with some pants (unfortunately :roll_eyes:). Don’t make assumptions, ask her, & go from there. I hate thongs but there are some pants where regular panties just aren’t an option. And when I’m home, that’s my comfortable place & I dress accordingly.

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You need a Hobby…seriously!!!

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Panty line :person_shrugging: good fucking lord.

*than…

Um… They ARE uncomfortable… It’s like having a wedgie alllllllll day. Heaven forbid she be comfortable and not dress for YOUR pleasure.

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She wears a thong to work so her panty lines don’t show.

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What’s the purpose of a thong?

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They ARE uncomfortable. But as many have mentioned, those pantylines on some outfits may require her to switch it up. Just ask her. And if it’s too hard for words to come out right about it, shoot her a message, only don’t word it like a Richard. It’s okay to be a little vulnerable to your woman. We actually love when our men show us that side of them.

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Thongs r quite uncomfortable. I don’t like them for the fact I hate feeling a constant wedgie. Plus they’re unsanitary. It is advised not to use thongs for very long.

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This conversation reminds me of breastfeeding issues. As if thongs only exist to please a man.

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Sound just a tad bit insecure I think

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Well I guess Moose Sleepers and Fuzzy PJ’S are Out … LoL that is what my man see’s when I get home :rofl:

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It’s like a bra… It is more comfy without. But she needs the bra to look professional. She needs the thong to prevent panty lines and look professional.

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OMG How about you put one on Hubby, wear it for 8 hours, come home, and wear it to bed and sleep in it. She likely wears to it to work for the no panty lines reason. Maybe she needs to start going commando at work and wearing a thong for your petty a**

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Because she’s home and wants to be comfortable.

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It’s a comfort thing at home but if your at work or outside the home and get in an accident you don’t want to be seen in granny panties. Not to worry it’s a girl thing

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She wears the thong because her work clothes probably show her panty lines and no female likes panty lines. Honestly thongs are bad for your health you might as well go commando end up getting infections from wearing them too much. And they are uncomfortable as hell.

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Mabie he should try a thong and see how comfortable they are after awhile.

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Oh Lord. Honey… At work or out in public panty lines are a no no. That aside, the SECOND we get home off those hounds from hell come lol

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My guess is she doesn’t want the panty lines or something and just tolerates it at work, whereas at home she has the option of not tolerating it, so she doesn’t.

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For everyone who is giving him a hard time “because they are uncomfortable” yes that they are… But he legit sounds s bit concerned that she is willing to go through that for work but not him which also sounds like a bit of an insecurity but he could have a reason for it. As many have done by explaining without sounding rude. Yes they are uncomfortable and unsanitary and yes she probably is wearing them so it looks better under her clothes for work but maybe just touch base about this with her, see how she reacts. Stay calm, don’t accuse but you should be able to have this discussion

Definitely a comfort thing. I promise.

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Because she’s home and that’s where she can be comfortable :unamused:

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I think you have way bigger problems than your wife’s thong. Get a life.

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Let me just say this, I’m married and my husband sees me in granny panties more than anything . It’s comfortable. :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Just able to be more comfy at home I know I will wear them some days all day and some day not long at all

Stfu :woman_facepalming: stop being paranoid

She wants to be comfortable at home.

She probably wears them when regular panties show pantylines through her clothes.

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I used to wear thongs 24 7 but after having a baby they rub my ass the wrong way and I hate then now I only wear them when I can’t make my granny panties work in an outfit

Lmfaoooo !!! It’s a comfort thing, pull that thong out of your ass.

Why don’t you try wearing a thong for eight hours and then keep it on, on your days off it’s not the most comfortable thing

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She probably wears them to work so she doesn’t have a panty line showing and when she’s home she just wants to be comfortable

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Y’all aren’t understanding the wife is saying they aren’t comfortable to wear for long periods of times but will wear all day at work

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When women are outside obviously we want to look our best and when we at home,we wear pjs,no bra and our granny or not so sexy underwear,u know why…coz its the time we relax at our best and feel free to wear what we want… just like ur balls hang the why they want when u at home…mxm

Maybe she wears them for work cuz she doesn’t want a visible panty line. That’s not saying she’s not uncomfortable while wearing them for 8 hours :woman_shrugging:

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Makes ME wonder, too!

I wear a bra in public but not at home… home is where a person is supposed to feel safe enough to be themselves and be comfortable.

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Panty lines are not a self esteem helper but u and only u know your wife and if u have anything to worry about. Does she act secretly with her phone or does she give u hints that she’s not interested in u. Everybody and every relationship is different so nobody here can really tell u if u should be worried.

She has worn them 8 hours. And she wants to be comfortable at home don’t worry about her wearing regular panties at home. Worry about something other than underwear

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I’m sure she’s only wearing them because regular underwear gives panty lines in a lot of work clothes. Nobody wants to sit in sweats wearing a thong.

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Emily Horn you better respond to this one. :joy:

ummm, i wear granny panties and boy short panties when i get home or get out of the shower …
i dont want my panty lines showing while inwalk around all day and i dont want to be pulling weggies out my ass every few sit downs either.

I’d say for no visible lines. As I’ve gotten older I can’t seems to wear them unless I wear jeans anything else it’s nothing. Bra off at home as well

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Depending on type pants she wear to work. Don’t want to show pantie lines. She probably thinks they uncomfortable then too but to busy to worry about it

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I do the same thing and I’m 100% loyal and dedicated to my husband. The bra comes off when I got home also. I just want to be comfortable when I’m home. Now if I’m putting on something sexy for hubby I might bring out a thong, but that doesn’t stay on long then either :laughing:.

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I can understand not wanting to sleep with a thong on. Wat about goin comando

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There’s cute lacey thongs for hubby at home for an hour then there’s work cotton thong. We hate them both lol

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Maybe like myself I like to color corinate. So it literally is just about colors. Some thongs are also more comfortable than others

She’s definitely cheating🤦‍♀️

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If you mean she gets naked for you, don’t worry!

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Why don’t you try wearing a thong for eight hours and then you can answer your question.

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Does he wear thongs around the house??? It’s probably because she needs to with certain pants :rofl: Tell him to spice himself up too then if he wants her to… But her lingerie or something you think would look great on her

Bro. Thongs were designed to eliminate underwear lines, not for your viewing pleasure. No one wants to see granny panty lines through khakis.

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A lot of women worry about panty lines showing through their clothing. Personally I think that’s silly because we all wear underwear. Plus thongs are unhygienic, they can cause UTIs. Don’t understand why anyone thinks they’re sexy either.

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Panty lines. Home is where you are comfortable why should she have to tournament herself at home too…

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Panty lines most likely. Certain outfits require different undergarments

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It’s all about those panty lines.

It says so much about our society when people are concerned about panty lines like it is a social make or break

  • you should all ponder your value. If what your judged on is pantry lines you are around the wrong people and have the wrong focus. Go feed some starving people, adopt a puppy, clean up a beach. Put your thoughts and time to authentic worthwhile pursuits and stop being a slave to media and abnormal stereotypes.
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She probably wears the thongs because whatever outfit she has one would show the panty lines with regular Panties. Thongs were not designed with man in mind they are to make your clothes look better.

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It’s like wearing a bra. We can wear them all day and then want it off!

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Depends on the work uniform…some uniforms can feel very masculine if that makes sense? So if that’s the case she may want something to make her feel feminine …

She probably wears thongs to work because she doesn’t want panty lines showing through her work clothes if she wears full panties.

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I do the same. I wear legging type pants at work and thongs so there’s no lines and come right home and put on boy shorts or whatever is more comfortable. Bra off to…

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Very strange I’d say :thinking:I wear undies always ’