Why does my wife wear things to work but not at home?

Wouldn’t be concerned.
Home is her comfort

7 Likes

So here it is……I wear a bra to work, but not at home.
I wear underwear to work, but not at home.
Speaking for myself….women want to be comfortable. When we leave the house we need to make sure we aren’t putting ourselves out there. I wouldn’t wear a bra that was visually distracting to others. It would make me uncomfortable to have people staring at me.
Same with my underwear lines.
So we ladies (me) wear what we need to be presentable and modest in the workplace. (Speaking for myself)

I think you should just come out and ask her.
Communication is EVERYTHING! Don’t be scared or afraid to ask her either. After 20 years, you’re doing something right. Just ask her.
Good luck.

8 Likes

We cant have underwear lines through our work clothes. Some of us only granny panty at home and we should be able to be comfortable at home no matter what. I do the same thing your wife does :woman_shrugging:t2:

4 Likes

Sometimes women don’t want knicker lines

3 Likes

Maybe she had her reasons … have you tried asking or talking to her about it?

I used to do this just because I hate how work pants are always tight and show all the pants lines

to funny, you biggest concrn is undies, you need a hobby.

4 Likes

She doesn’t want panty lines at work.

9 Likes

It may only be because of panty lines in her dress clothes

1 Like

Omg this is the craziest post I have ever seen… Thongs are not for men’s enjoyment. They are UNCOMFORTABLE!!! Women wear them so there are not pantie lines. At home a woman wants to be comfortable for god sakes…

19 Likes

It’s like when us ladies have to take it off
They do get uncomfortable after a while

Imagine if your undies out from between your but cheeks constantly

I’m the same way as your wife except I’ll take my undies off altogether bc I can’t stand them after all day in them. I only wear them for out in public bc I don’t want to be caught without i dont know why that’s just how I am. When home I want to be comfortable as much as possible so that means I don’t want anything up my butt any more since I’ve had the panties on all day already. A lot of the time I put on pj pants or shorts once I’m home. Leisure is key to a happy woman.

:thinking::joy: Probably like how we where bras all day then wanna take them off at home bc they’re uncomfortable. Home is where we are allowed to be our most comfortable so if she wants to leave the house feeling good and be comfortable at home just let it be. Nothing at all to be concerned about.

10 Likes

So these are the crisis issues the internet are having today? I didnt know women had to explain and justify their daily underwear choices. :thinking:

4 Likes

Women wear thongs and bras to work to look ‘presentable’. We don’t like lines showing our underwear on some outfits… therefore the thong… but when we are at home… well for me… on come the granny panties and off comes the bra lol. Home is where we should be comfortable:) Get out of your head… you have nothing to worry about whatsoever

15 Likes

They are uncomfortable

1 Like

Thongs look better with pants and most dresses. There’s no ugly panty lines.

Probably because she doesn’t want noticeable underwear lines at work and at home she wants to be comfortable and couldn’t give two shits like you shouldn’t either lol

Me personally I just started showing up to work with my underwear lines. Don’t like it don’t look :rofl:comfort for the win!

5 Likes

Home is comfort. Her comfy safe place.

2 Likes

No just don’t want panty lines doesn’t mean more than that

4 Likes

Put a thong on and see why once your wife is home she’s done! Home is her comfort time.

10 Likes

I wear them to work and change at home. At home I am not worried about panties line. I want to be comfortable and chill out.

7 Likes

I don’t do panty lines…but I do like comfort at home. That’s it. No in between. My man is lucky to see me in anything but stretch pants and a tank top when we are in our house. Outside the house is a different story lol.

12 Likes

Personally I find thongs more comfortable than normal panties when I’m standing up/walking around/working etc., but if I’m sitting down and trying to relax on the couch or whatever I need to throw on something else. Otherwise it feels like something is cutting into me.

10 Likes

I’m very excited earning a lot of money from home through cryptocurrency investment, my life has been a blessing knowing such genius and reliable account manager who guide me through bitcoin trading investment. I start with little capital investment with Mrs Lisa jennifer,she is the right person you need when it comes to trading with full login access to monitor your profit, thank you mam for your trust throughout my investment I’m full with joy. Click on the name below message her and start earning.
:point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down::point_down:

I love them. Wear them all the time everyday

Are you serious
Ask her

2 Likes

nothing to worry about she’s comfortable at home! If you want more thongs, maybe be more playful when you notice she is wearing them…

2 Likes

Am I the only one who thinks all panties/things etc are uncomfortable period?

2 Likes

I hate thongs, I’d rather have lines under my clothes :confounded:

2 Likes

Regular panties are definitely way more comfier but they leave panty lines on our pants/dresses/skirts/shorts. So we wear them so you can’t see those lines, but they are very uncomfortable, just like our bras, which is why we we wanna take them off when we get home! 

10 Likes

I’m so much happy for subscribing to this crypto/forex trading #Bot, this trading has been earning me profits for my little investments. I’m now debt free… I have no experience of trading, but I’m making withdrawals of 85% returns every trade with Lisa Jennifer the strategy manager with her sincere heart, she’s always available to respond messages.
You can contact her below.
:point_down:

Lmao just showed my mans and he said he 'has a point and should hand it to him"
Hahag

I wear thongs when I don’t want panty lines with certain clothes that would show them - which are considered inappropriate/embarrassing by society depending on the clothing you are wearing. I wear my big ol comfy undies at home bc I don’t have to care about such things in the comfort of my own home.

Hope that helps you understand.

7 Likes

Like, honestly, just ask her.

4 Likes

In my experience with women, they don’t like panty lines in public.

5 Likes

I wear a bra all day until I get home :woman_shrugging:t3:

9 Likes

It’s probably just comfort. When I’m up doing stuff my underwear/bra doesn’t bother me to much but when I’m relaxing in my chair I’m not going to wear them. It’s like a guy might wear a tie to work all day or jeans/shoes whatever but when you chilling at home you’re not going to wear the same

6 Likes

Lol have you ever worn a thong? I wear them when I go out in public, but the second I get home it’s no underwear or boyshorts. I hate the way anything other then a thong bunches up when I put jeans or leggings on, but they’re not super comfortable.

3 Likes

Panty lines in public are embarrassing and at home where you are comfortable is the best time to be in something like “granny panties”.

8 Likes

You say you love her more than ever hiw can that be if you don’t trust her

Interesting question

1 Like

Don’t want panty lines to show in certain outfits or if u bend over I would rather my thong hangout than my grandma panties lol

4 Likes

Home is a comfort zone we can be FREE and LET LOOSE

Now for me with work - (Office or desk related work) I always feel that if I LOOK AND FEEL Good then I will deliver top notch workload a d responsibilities and duties. Sometimes it’s a work requirement to be presentable and I get that thongs cannot be seen from the outside but it’s the WHOLE IMAGE if u know what I mean

5 Likes

Same goes for my husband…well not same but similar…

When he goes to work he is well presented. But as soon as he is home ALL comes off and he Is walking around in just undies sometimes or loose as shorts and nothing else…

3 Likes

I put a​:joy:because it is so typical & laughable. It’s a repost of a “man fan” question right? I’m about to get real ladies!!!, off the top of my head with thoughts and observations I have gathered for 30+ years. This may be the possibly perfect platform to test human thought processes. on my theory. I hope it is the actual man that made this post that will see this comment here. And, it is, in fact, the actual man that has HIS panties in a wad up the crack of HIS ass over his wife’s choice of when to wear certain underwear and for how long to wear it! Underwear. fu@$!ng UNDERWEAR that you want your wife of 20 years, that works ALL DAMN DAY, to come home & parade around in front of you in afterwards for another undetermined amount of time that you want to dictate over an hour and a half? You are letting UNDERWEAR worry you to death DUDE? Are you feeling the stupidity in that yet? :roll_eyes: If not. hold on. I’ll put it in a language that women have been conditioned to accept from men to “give them sex”. Grown, (my ass,) men, whining over their willies and pouting cruelly “if I don’t get it from you, I’ll get it somewhere else” & the old “if she ain’t giving “it” to me, she’s giving “it” away to someone else” and the pity party " if you don’t “want” me, tell me the truth, you ‘re not attracted to me anymore" waa waa waa is so old. I, as a woman, have tired of sex and am absolutely not being the holder of a mans happy place to play on HIS whims and urges that he cannot control with his weak mind… I have procreated AS I worked outside & AT home simultaneously. “Served” the man (head) of the households want’s & needs because HE worked outside of the home. All the while, I did 85-95% of the cleaning & cooking for him & myself AND two other small humans! I raised my children and I am fu@%!ng tired. I don’t need to be chastised & manipulated THEN be treated with kindness because I “gave in” and had sex that, even though it feels like a form of legal physical and mental rape, it is expected I do it just because my partner wants “IT” for 5 minutes just to “get off” or I am “alienating” HIM of “affection”.,“it”. (“it” as they call it… don’t that piss you off?). Some/most cannot use the higher form of a brain we are evolving to & be an affectionate, loyal partner without sex. (Women included but I’m betting the scale tips to the male side). Being with someone because they reward you with sex to be a “good” partner/spouse is not what it takes for two people to live in a civil, intelligent relationship harmoniously. If this was elementary to you then congratulations! Your bloodline will more than likely evolve to a higher form of a thinking society in the future I do believe. Why not reap the benefits of a stress free life now? One that sex does not control your emotions or your life after the reproduction years? If this panty worried (fan) Man can’t wrap his mind around any of this or “don’t want to hear it”, I guess the poor ba​:star:ard will continue to be an uptight, grumpy cavemen. And now, I’m M​:eyes:vin’ on with my life​:dancer: You’re welcome​:wink:

I wouldn’t worry. It depends on what she’s doing and wearing to work. Sometimes thongs help cover panty lines if you’re dressed a certain way. If she’s sitting for long periods no big deal. Working around the house could be uncomfortable. If you have no other concerns, no biggie.

If you haven’t made your move In a hour , I guess she gives up

7 Likes

I say just go commando

3 Likes

You are allowed to be comfortable at home… geez I live in my PJs at home

1 Like

Hell what I like to do is take it all off…panties and bra…it’s all uncomfortable frankly

5 Likes

Panty lines with slacks could be reason

6 Likes

Thongs don’t have panty lines. They’re uncomfortabl, like bras. Both come off at home because home should be comfort.

5 Likes

She probably doesn’t want lines showing from the underwear with the outfits and therefore wears thongs :woman_shrugging:t3:

1 Like

We know what you are thinking… lmao you think someone else is eating that bacon while you get the steak at home lol. But tbh thongs are something you wear in some office type clothing like as said up above if anything if you wanna be creepy you should probably maybe search for excess discharge ? Or stuff on them to figure that out. But also just ask.

1 Like

My poor hubby has had to deal with my Nanna Knickers since I had my 2yo, I can’t stand to wear anything but my them anymore. Consider yourself lucky she still wears the damn things :rofl::rofl:

3 Likes

Same reason women wear bras to work but take them off at home :woman_facepalming:t2: and women wear thongs 90% of the time to avoid panty lines in clingy pants like dress pants.

7 Likes

I used to do that because I hate underwear lines
Now I don’t wear any

2 Likes

She doesn’t want panty lines, 8 hours of it, she’s over it, just let the woman come home and relax🤔

4 Likes

Gees I read that all wrong I’m here thinking thongs :thong_sandal:

10 Likes

I’ve been with my wife over 12 years. We have 3 kids together, she’s 8 months along with our 4th and still wears thongs all day, every day…she doesn’t even own any regular panties… so I guess my question is should I be worried if she starts wearing briefs? I doubt that will ever happen tho lol she says they feel weird.

8 Likes

I don’t wear them at home. I’m bending/crouching down looking after and picking up after the kids. It’s uncomfortable. But ill wear them if I’m leaving the house. Skirts, jeans, doesn’t matter I don’t want underwear lines or bulges. Reading this post, I assuming it’s along those same or similar lines.

5 Likes

After wearing a thong for 8 hours at work, I would TOTALLY want to change once I got home :rofl:

1 Like

Visible panty line, I would rather discomfort in a public setting :joy:

1 Like

So it’s okay for a woman to vent, but not a man?? Double standards much? If the roles were reversed, I’m sure yalls comments would be a lot different.

It sounds suspicious, does she act a certain way, when she gets home?

4 Likes

I wear a bra all day, but not at home. Im guessing she just doesn’t want her panty line to show in public…

9 Likes

Because her home is supposed to be her place of peace and comfort.it’s the same reason why she takes her heels off when she gets home

5 Likes

Whooooooo tf wanna wear a thong at home??? No one lounges in business attire at home. Let her relax in her own home. :joy::woozy_face:

10 Likes

She wearing thongs to not have underwear lines while at work lol not to impress anyone. And yes they are uncomfortable as heck. So once home and changing is a must. Bra off too :joy:

11 Likes

All I wear is thongs at work, Lol I don’t even wear panties at home. I’m in Nikes or leggings. No need for panties… same for a bra. She just wants to be comfortable at home.

4 Likes

I don’t wear them at home either. I wear them while I’m out if I’m wearing certain pants/leggings/shorts… their just annoying. I take mine off as soon as I walk in my room.

1 Like

She can’t exactly slingshot those suckers out the office window like she really wants to do. They are meant to give a “no-line” smooth look to her derrière when wearing skin tight or shape fitting clothing, NOT for comfort.

8 Likes

Maybe because your mind can only focus on sex. And to get anything done at home she has to avoid turning you on. It is not all about sex. Chill. Women have more to do at home than roll around in the bed.

I wear a thong if I’m going out but at home, those uncomfortable buggers are coming off (along with the bra) work/going out you put up with uncomfortable items of underwear so you have no VPL but at home, different story!

1 Like

Uhhhh. Too much to unpack here

2 Likes

She’s trying to impress the boss

2 Likes

I avoided pantie lines. Briefs solves both. No pantie lines and comfortable.

1 Like

No panty lines with thong

Ummm bc she wants to be comfy at home & probably most of her underwear are thongs! Instead of asking on here, why don’t you ask your wife this question

4 Likes

As a male, i don’t get it. It seems like an attempt to impress others for what reason? Clearly, nearly all women in this thread disagree with me, but i don’t understand how it’s for anything other than attention (even if not attention from a romantic interest).

I wear thongs because they fit better than regular underwear with pants. I don’t wear them with dresses though. It has to do with the way underwear can bunch up in dress pants or tight fighting pants. I’m sure she’s not running around work and mooning people in her thong

5 Likes

Walk around with a piece of string up your butt for 8+ hours and ask again. As for why wearing them at work, depending on what she does, no panty lines in dressy clothes.

2 Likes

I’m sure she just wants to be comfortable at home.

1 Like

Honestly thongs are worn only for the fact of no seams! Can’t be seen through pants and don’t cut into our bums when we sit like some normal underwear do. She’s not trying to impress anyone, it’s the same as wearing little socks so they can’t be seen through open top shoes. It’s for her feel good… we don’t wear thongs to please a male that’s what lingerie is for lol. Go and buy her some new lingerie maybe some chocolate and surprise her with it on the bed if it’s what you want :blush:

12 Likes

Women also wear bras to work… but as soon as I come home that bitch comes off. You and your wife’s home is her comfort space and you have made her feel comfortable enough to feel like she doesn’t need sexy underwear around you. If you would like her to keep it on then that’s a discussion y’all need to have, but I’d say you may be feeling insecure for unnecessary reasons

Nothing better than coming in from the office and letting everything all hang loose :rofl: womens underwear may look ice but they u comfortable as feck :see_no_evil: