Why is my boyfriend acting this way?

Go home babe, he’s only going to get worse.

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Call your family and have them come get you tell that a$$ to get f*#@ed.

Go home. A million red flags here. Get out while you can!!

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Go back to wherever you came from

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that’s mental abuse. he took you away from everything you knew so you would have nothing/anyone to fall back on… sorry you’re going thru this but it’s best to leave as soon as you can

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I would reach out to family or friends from where you came from. Borrow money from them and get in the fist flight back and don’t tell him or he will promise you the world. It’s a cycle abusers to to their victims. He used you to get himself moved. That’s abuse and it will only get worse. He knows you now have no one with no car and he will continue to abuse you and control you. Abusers thrive on isolating you in order to abuse. Chalk it up to a lesson learned. You will be happier in the long run. Best of luck.

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Get the price of the bus or train,and get out and go home.
Giving him this and that before you both moved, then mouning all the time😡
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He’s not a nice guy. Get the hell out now before you waste any more of your time or energy on him.

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Leave & go home to your family. He’s got you right where he wants you, jobless, rideless & helpless.

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his abusing you .
now you know this information and have openly wrote it it’s on you how you move forward .
it’s time to leave.

u don’t deserve to be isolated , then gas lighted.
put down and abused when life is way to short .
leave now !!
pack your stuff. get home and move on with life !

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Move back home he is not worth it.

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He won’t change, run far away and if you have too, see if you can get a domestic violence grant because that’s domestic violence even if he’s not hitting you, this is mental, emotional and verbal abuse!! You gave him $1,000.00?? That’s crazy and you paid the first month’s rent, he should be grateful!! I’d call your family to come get you because he probably moved that far away so he could abuse you and he knows you don’t have anyone. Your in my prayers.

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“Tough love” is a part of parenting not a relationship!
If you’re in the position to leave you should definitely do that. Get your ducks, go home and put them in a row. Just for you

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Sounds like he got you right where he wanted, alienated from your family , alone in another place with no resources but him and whatever money you did have when you moved. Call home and get a flight outta there

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Get out ASAP! He’s conquered you and he’s done with you. He’s making up reasons. None of it makes sense but I’ve seen this before and normal people cannot understand these type of people, but nonetheless, what I’ve told you is true!

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Call your family and go home where you are loved not abused

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Tough love? BS. Run.

Go back to your mama if you can love. TONIGHT

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Get the heck away, next it won’t be verbal abuse, it may be physical. LEAVE.

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I don’t feel it’s going to get better. Even if you get a job, he’s going to dun you for your money so he can do as he pleases with his. What a jam to be in. If you can hit reverse I would. It’s not right and it’s not fair. I wonder how he would feel if the shoe were on the other foot.

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The Boyfriend isn’t worthy of you. Leave him as fast as you can. Go back to family who love you!!!

Leave and go back home. U don’t deserve to be treated like that.

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He is not treating you right and I would not waste my life on him. You can find a man out there that will give you true love and emotional support. This guy will not belp you in any way.

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That ungrateful POS…he used you knowing you were a nice person …needed YOUR company to reassure his dumb a$$ for the ride and all your goodness until he got situated…hate that…hes such a massigil…or summers eve…( fb will banned some words)Go home…come stay at my home til you can find a place for you…give me his number…for real…Im so sorry but go no explanation…make sur its a day he needs you…if not within a week but go…F…Him…you are worth so much more…His clothes and my scissors would be loving each other…just saying…needed to as you some laughter Lmaooo.Wishing you the best and pray so God can help you quicker.Leave without a trace.You dont know him anymore!He is who he is!

Go back home honey !

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Leave!! Fast, don’t look back!!

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Was he like this before you moved with him? If not, more than likely he was trying to charm you. Now that you’re away from family and friends he’s got you trapped. Right now it’s name calling, next will be more physical. Get out NOW! Don’t wait!

Leave . Although it doesn’t feel right at the moment , that’s the best thing I ever did .

Have a :heart: to :heart: talk and if that don’t work tell him to f off and move back home with family and people who love and appreciate you. No brainer.

Go home he’s using youHe shouldn’t be calling you names or anything else if he cares anything about you he will be helping you don’t stay with somebody that’s useless

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He got you away from your family and his true colors are coming out. He basically groomed you. Call your family, figure out a way to leave and get home. Do all of this WHILE HE’S AT WORK! DO NOT TELL HIM YOU’RE LEAVING

No, it’s not you. It’s 100% him.
No, it won’t get better.
No, he won’t change.

P.S. You can leave a note saying, “Who’s the stupid one now?” :rofl: but that’s just my petty ass :woman_shrugging:t3:

Run as fast as you can!! I’m sure your family will help you move back home. No one deserves to be treated that way.

He used you plan and simple

run as fast as possible that’s not a man that’s a disgrace

Leave before you end up a tragic news story💜you already know its not right listen to your instincts that led you to right this post…please love your self more and run. good luck

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Cut your losses an move back where you have friends and family, because he doesn’t have the right to speak to you anyway he wants if he is treating you like this now then it will get worse, praying for you to make the best decision for you not him.

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4days?u moved across the country been there 4days and he is treating u like this? Tough love my a**. GO HOME GO HOME NOW

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Holy shitballs. RUN LIKE YOU NEVER RAN BEFORE. He’s treating you like this coz he is toxic, toxic af and you will eventually lose yourself completely… if I wasn’t clear before, let me be clear now. RUUUUUUN!!!

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Leave this is day 4 its only the tip of the ice berg

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Send me a pic I have an opening

I’m no one to judge but… Run

An abusers most dangerous weapon is isolation. Their goal is to get the woman away from family and friends who would help her and support her. Now that he has accomplished that, he’s free to abuse you (yes, what he’s doing is abuse!) all he wants bc you have no job, no money, no family or friends to talk to or run to. Have your family wire you money and get on the next bus home. Do not even tell him you’re leaving, just do it. As a woman who has been abused, and as a mother who finally convinced her abused daughter to get out, believe me, that door is always open. You can ALWAYS go home.

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Move back home!!!

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Find some kind of job and ditch him as quick as possible. He is an abuser.

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Seriously, leave. Go back home. Nobody deserves to be treated that way

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He is acting like this because your boyfriend is an abusive narcissist. My ex did the exact same thing to me including moving me across the country. He thought without a support system I would be stuck and he could hand out worse abuse. He did. He began making me bleed. Then I created a new support system out there and he forced me to move again. I had him removed by the police. Run. Now. Don’t look back.

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Go back home girl. That’s his true colors and whatever you don’t not have hus baby

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I would see if family can help you move back and see if your old job will take you back. He isn’t treating you like an equal at all. And if he does it again I would throw something he did wrong or does wrong back at him in the moment and when he says something about it say hey I’m just treating you as an equal and it’s tough love. And then get out of there as soon as you can. It will just get worse if he’s doing it now when you just got there. He’s showing his true colors and they arnt nice colors at all.

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He moved you out there so you’d be isolated and controlled. Plain and simple. Move back home.

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Go to a women’s shelter if you have one. They will help you get back home to your family.

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Get out of the relationship now, before it turns to physical abuse! Do not let him degrade you and continue to do what’s he’s doing if you dont address it and lay down the law he’s gonna think you’ll stay and put up with that shit forever and he’ll keep doing it and you shouldn’t have to deal with that. If he doesn’t stop leave immediately. Abusers like to separate you from your family to isolate you, get help from your family.

One thing to consider is the way he is behaving now is the way he will be behaving forever and nobody deserves to be treated like garbage for an entire lifetime.
Pack your things and leave. He has taken a lot from you already (money/ freedom/ family/friends) and he will continue to do so. We always try to see the good in people and get told “but I’ll change! I’ll never hurt you again!” but it’s a trap, a trap to keep you staying holding onto the hope that things will improve.

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Go back home, it’ll only get worse! He knows you don’t have a support system now (family)!! Run don’t walk!!

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Run away from there ASAP! No man who makes you feel less than is worth it AT ALL.

kick him to the curb he’s an mental abuser there is better fish in the sea move home get a job gl

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Remember Emotional/Verbal Abuse is abuse. You would qualify for Domestic Violence services. That alone should speak volumes. Unfortunately these situations tend to get worse not better over time. Please do what it takes to be emotionally and physically safe you deserve that. It sounds like you’ve already invested more than enough in him.

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Don’t let him disrespect you in that way. He don’t love you and you better get out of there while you can… Get back home and stay there. Good luck!!!

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Run, go back; he is an abuser! 1st months rent, tires for his truck, $1,000.00; you are being used; being called useless, stupid, degenerate proves he is only using you. There are decent men out there, he isn’t one of them!! He’s right about tough love I guess because he’s sure being tough on you!

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He’s already saying abusive things and you’ve only been there for a few days. You need to leave.

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Girl run move back home

He is using you ,leave sister !

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GO HOME. WHY are you moving and living with TRASH. THAT AINT LOVE!

See if your old job will take you back & get outta theeeeere

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It’s called abuse. He has cut you off from your friends, family and job (money). The net stage is making you think you are useless and then he has full control of you. Get out now.

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You need to get out of there ASAP, and don’t go back to him under any circumstances. He sounds like a controlling bully. Better a gentleman who really loves and respects you
.

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I hope she is listening.

Run as fast as you can don’t look back

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That’s not the way anyone should treat another person. Sorry he needs to go out with the garbage.

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Go back home sweetheart or to friends that will love and support you at this time I don’t think he’s the one for you just make sure you can leave safely wishing you well and happier time’s ahead xxx

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Why did you move with someone who doesn’t respect you? Hopefully it’s not too late for you to go home. He is making you lose faith in yourself with his constant criticism. You need to get the money to leave before he destroys you.

He’s been acting horrible since you got the AND PRIOR
WHY DID YOU GO?

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He’s a jerk and now he has you isolated from everyone.

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Move back home. Cut your losses.

That is tough love or any kind of love. Leave his loser ass right there alone!

You’ve been used. Go back and try to get your old job back and remember a lesson learned!

Classic abuse he took you from your friends and family to start acting that way… get out while you can

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Run don’t look back.

Move. He moved you across country to abuse you. It took 4 days. Leave now

Go home now, not tomorrow, or next week…right now.

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Make him pay you back then move back home. He will only get worse and you deserve better.

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Girl run now!!! This is the beginning he now has you isolated from everyone and it will only get worse trust me

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Sou ds like you f up

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Go home. Ditch his ass!! He is a loser

Good God girl and your putting up with that shit. Do you think so little of yourself to let him do this to you? Where did you move from? Is your name on the lease. And he probably won’t let you get a car either. That is a very heavy load to carry.
All men are not that way just the narcistic ones. Good luck with that looser.
I will pray for you girl. And don’t expect him to change.

He a Narcissist love. It’s all about him. You need to go. It’s only gonna get worse

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He’s telling you he doesn’t want you anymore. He’s doing this to push you away. Take the hint.

Honestly it sounds like he did this on purpose. To isolate you and manipulate you into doing whatever he wants. Now I don’t know the whole story, just what you have placed here but he sounds like an abuser. I know it would be hard but I think you need to put yourself first and get out before things get worse.

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Leave before its to late

Move back immediately.

He moved you to isolate you so he could get away with treating you badly. Will only get worse

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You have been used dump him start fresh for yourself hes a pig what do you expect from a pig but a grunt

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go back home while he is at work.

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I would be saying" see you later"

Sound like a biiihhh to me & it won’t get any better trust me… and why is he calling you names n putting you down when it sounds like you’ve paid more than your share n sacrificed a lot… sorry to hear… I’d leave.

I’m sorry but if he was behaving like this prior to you move, then you ignored the huge red flag in your face and moved anyway. Lesson learned I guess, tho it’s def an expensive and hard lesson.

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The signs of abuse are there & unfortunately it may lead to physical abuse so take caution.

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