Why stay with him!? I would go back,and look for another job, or ask if you can have your job back,if is still available,and if you were happy with it before.
Wow he so toxic girl its all about what can you do for me you need to rethink about your relationship.
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Move back home, lesson learnedโฆ
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Run!
He has shown you who he really is โฆ
BELIEVE HIM THE FIRST TIME!!
Itโs not going to get better.
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Sweetie, pack up and go home. And never regret it! You are worth more than thisโฆ person will ever see!
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Leave him and go back where you came from. He truly only moved you away from family and friends so that he could be a controlling bully so please leave before the verbal abuse turns physical.
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Move back - yesterday !! Fk that dude & his horrible ways !! Run donโt walk & donโt look back !! 
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Sounds like a narcissist that successfully isolated you and is now beginning the gaslighting process. Get the fuck out
The way ppl treat you is the way they feel about you. Bottom line.
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Go homeโฆ however you can. You have no support there.
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First word of advice. Donโt ever quit anything for a man you arenโt married to. Second. Those men donโt change.
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When you move and they know your in a vulnerable position especially with no immediate family around and they start treating you like crap Iโm sorry to tell you this but they are Narcissistic and a liar and control freak so leave before he starts beating up on you or worse
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You need to go back home! Get away from him.
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He is an Abuser, took advantage of you. Go Home, get out of his influence. You are strong, go be you with someone you can respect and who doesnโt make you confused and used. Donโt waste time. You never get it back! Be Happy!!!
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Welcome to living with a narcassist 101. Heโs got you away from all you know and love and now the emotional and mental abuse will start.
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He is seeing someone else
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Move back to whence you cameโฆand without him
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He owes you,speak up and move on.
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Sounds like you need to pack up and move back 
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He should reimburse all ur traveling & moving costs but if not either way run fast. It only gets worse
Im sorry just speaking truth. Just take your losses & move on before you commit any further time or resources on this fool
Cut your losses and go back home. Too many red flags
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Heโs using you and abusing you.
Iโd recommend that you leave as soon as possible.
Wow what a damn jerk ! I say pack up when heโs at work & get a plane ticket home to where you have family. Maybe your old job will understand & take you back ?
He knows just what heโs doing. If you can run as fast and far as you can. Iโm sorry you are going through this.
Iโm sorry heโs doing this to u, but everyoneโs right leave and go home
I am sorry to say but I would be leaving hin and going back home where you are safe and maybe you will get your old job back and seeing someone knew.
He sounds like a narcissist. The put downs are steps towards the discard. Hes gaslighting you by trying to ingrain in your head that you are useless. Hereโs a link to check out and you can Google narcissim. Leave asap
My opinion is that it will get worse and possibly lead to abuse I say leave and donโt fall for but Iโm sorry I would never hurt you B.S heโs already showing his way of treating women and it sucks
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No that not normal. Thats abusive and so toxic. I bet he didnt call you useless when you paid the rent, bought him tires, and gave him a thousand bucks just to have. Hereโs the thing. Now he has to support you for awhile because you had to quit your job to move there with him for his job, and he doesnโt like that. He sounds like one of those selfish guys that thinks whatโs his is his and whatโs yours is his. He doesnโt have the what mine is ours mentality. Now he got you away from your friends and family, away from your independence and he thinks he has you in spot where he can start to show his ture colors and treat you in this abusive manner because itโs probably how he really is. Abusive. Donโt let anyone treat you like that. You donโt deserve it.
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I had a bf like this. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me and then he got physical with me. I thought I was gonna die one day, when he put his hands around my throat. It will only get worse! Please run and never look back!!
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Consider leaving & going back home. So many red flags
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Tell him to go to hell.Because your all ready living it.And come back home.Just saying.Ill pray that you do wants right for you,not him.
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I agree 100%. Leave go home. Not a good situation at all. It will only get worse. Cut your losses and leave ASAP. KEEP YOU SND YOUR KIDDIES SAFE.
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He doesnโt have any respect for you. Takes your money. Callโs you lazy. So far you have paid both of your ways. He is lazy, self centered. Call your family and get back home. Do not stay. If you must take the car. He will report it stolen. But explain if you get stopped to the police what happened. But no matter what, get away from him. DONโT TELL HIM ANYTHING. GET AWAY
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Why would you put up with this BS?!? Cut your losses and leave now.
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So now that you are far away from family and friends heโs showing you his true colors!!! Heโs emotionally abusing you and god forbid heโll throw in a slap just because he feels he can!!! LEAVE NOW itโs only going to get worse
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Leave. Seriously, just go. Heโs volatile and will destroy you emotionally.
Girl, run! Get the hell out of there anyway you can.
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You arent married - go back home - youโll be better off.
Run donโt walk heโs never gonna change.
Better run back home
Time to move back where you have people that care about you, or at the very least, just move out of there and away from him! Things are bound to get worse! I lived with a guy like that and ended up in a shelter for domestic violence!
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I hope this is a joke post because you need to run back home not walk run and pray your job takes u back! No itโs not normal to be verbally abusive as a excuse for โmotivationโ. Heโs a jerk and it only gets worse
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Before you leave, remove the tyres from that truck and take $1000 worth from the apartment.
And make sure to live out that first monthโs rent.
Then leave.
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Try to network with friends and family and find a way to get to them (bus, etc) - wherever they are.
Heโs acting like this cuz heโs an ass. He took advantage of your generosity and will continue to do so. Narcissistic behavior never changes. Leave him and go home.
Lori, youโre funny, but honest
Go back home now . Actually RUN back home !!! You will thank me later
I DO BELIEVE HE USED YOU TO GET THERE AND NOW HE DOESNT NEED YOU ANYMORE
I dont think you have been together a long time but it doesnt matterโฆyou paid alot of money out to someone who is now starting to be verbally abusiveโฆbut you also mentioned it was prior to you moving yet you stilll decided to move with himโฆhe got what he needed from you now he us showing you his true feelingsโฆstay till you save up money to go back home then leave because your situation isnt going to get any betterโฆunless you like being called nasty names and treated like the crud from the bottom of his shoeโฆ
Dont pay for anything else and say you paid for all these things so its his turn to pay
When you have have saved enough money you can rent a vehicle if possible or take a bus or train and leave while he is at workโฆblock his number and goโฆ
Leave with whatever you brought
Dont to s.l.a.s.h those tires the night before you leave because hey you paid for those โฆlol
Run, run as fast as you can โฆ donโt even look backโฆpray a lotโฆ ONLY Jesus can help youโ:pray:
You need to run life is too short for that crap
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Move back. He got you away from your friends and family to treat you like crap. His true self is showing.
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Leave his A$$ now!!! YOU ARE BEING USED
Contact your family and friends and move back home. This is the start of abuse that wonโt get better and he just alienated you from people who love you. You can also contact a domestic abuse program near you. Domestic abuse is not always physical abuseโฆ
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Call it a loss and go back home. Cut all ties
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Just get back home ASAP and safe. Reach out to your family, let them know whatโs going on, and have them help you get back. Take what you brought, block his number, and move on. Itโll only get worse.
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Go now he is not going to change. Learn a lesson and move forward.
Cut your losses and go home -
Before you go, give him fair warning and let him know that youโre not happy with his tough love crap and youโre not going to be ok being treated that way - advise him in a civil adult manner that you will go back home and start over without him if heโs going to continue being this unsupportive-
At least Allow him a chance to see what heโs doing wrong before leaving (he may not think itโs affecting you as badly as it is) if he doesnโt fix it within 7 days tops goooooo - he wonโt change for you or anyone else.
You packed up and moved far away with him so there has to be some love there on your part - one last chance is all you owe yourself- at the very least you know you gave him a solid chance to fix the problem and if he doesnโt then you can move on a little easier without wondering if you did all you could to make it work.
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Run take what ever you can I had a bf like that almost broke my back throwing me downstairs plus I was pregnant. I WILL be praying for you but my best advice is run for your life.
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Get your butt back home ASAP. This relationship is full of huge red flags
Run as fast as you can!
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Sorry to say sounds like you have been gaslit by a narcissist that has you where he wants you with no support. My advice is go back home and cut your losses!!!
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Iโm sorry, but why would you move with a boyfriend unless you were pregnant?? And you said PRIOR to moving, he also treated you wrong. Who cares if there are bills there. Take your name off, because youโre leaving. Move back in with family if you can or call around for DV places that can assist you in getting out of there. My ex (also my firstbornโs father) did those exact things to me but with sexual abuse thrown into it. Instead of not having a car, he just took mine constantly, because he didnโt have his own. When I wanted to leave, he damaged it so I couldnโt repair it again. I still got out obviously, but donโt even feel bad. I never took his apology to heart when he even cheated on me with the landlord of a home we were rooming together in. Itโs narcissistic behavior, and theyโll only sweet talk you to get you back in their grip.
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Sit down with him, get to know his history, ages 2, 4, 6, etc. find out what his childhood was like, how he was treated as a child, etc. something is triggering him, itโs Not You! Possibly get into counseling. I will pray for you.
Love you!
Bike ride
Walks
Bubble baths
Read, but you must find peace for yourself!
He used you and moved you away from family and friends.Made you dependent on him and now hes showing his true colors.
Pack everything back up and go home.
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Time to MOVE ONโฆ and FAST
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Tough love?? You are an adult not a teenager being stubborn. He would not be there if you hadnโt helped him out. Cut your losses and go. Life is too short to not be happy
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Pack your stuff and leave, trust me honey that stuff never gets better.
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Cut your losses buy a ticket back home. Stay here only Iโd you want to be miserable the rest of your life
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Find a way to get out! Saying prayers for you
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Girl, no itโs not normal for him to talk to you like that. Especially if you paid for his stuff and gave him money. Not like you are mooching off himโฆ
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Leave get away from him now if heโs like that now itโll get worse much worse. Get away now
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Red flags. Leave now.
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get away now and save yourself years of therapy later !!!
Itโll only get worse & youโll start to believe the words coming out of his mouth !
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Move back home. He knows that youโre vulnerable right now so heโs going try to get away with treating you like crap. This should open your eyes. Get away from him before you become pregnant or in deeper debt to him
That is NOT normal. You need to move back home ASAP. Oh Look Itโs a Bunch of Red Flags Sewn into the Shape of a Person
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Go back home. Not going to get any better.
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Stop drinking that dbj and get your ass tf back home! You donโt need that sociopathโฆ why do women think they have to deal with this shit? Just to say they have a man? Lol!! Gtfo
If he was treating you mean before why? would you move with him? Leaving everything??Job, family, friends and giving him all that money?? Best advice to you is to grow up, face the facts heโs a user, verbal abuser and and doesnโt give a hoot about you except using you!! So get your stuff and head back home! Hopefully you have learned a important lesson from this and think before you leap into another situation like this again! 
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Cut your losses and learn from this! Heโs milked you dry and now that you have nothing else to give him, heโs making it very clear that he has no more use for you. Go home!
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Leave him immediately. That is not normal that is ABUSE
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Run away Go home He is an abuser. He got all your money you paid the rent. What does he want fro the you? It takes time to get a job. How dare he call you lazy! What an Asshole
Leave with no explanation when is out. Change your phone # to a private #.No forwarding address and tell family an friends to NOT give him any Information!
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Leave his ass and go back to where you came from
Dump him and go home
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Run for the hills as fast as you can hunny.
Next time you move out with a man make sure you are married to somebody
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Please reach out to your family or close friends like, NOW back home and leave this situation before you become a statistic!! Do not stay, please!! No human should be spoken to like that, your partner is supposed to build you up, encourage you and lend you some of their strength when you are needing it vice versa. I wish you all the best for a happier future 
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Sounds like my ex. I would get out while now. He isnโt worth your time.
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Go back to where you came from and leave loser behind.
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Get out. This will not get better.
Leave now!
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You help him to get wath he need even with your money I think it was you who got the idea to go with him, take care of your safety
He was using you at that time, he was just riding along. Now he can take care of himself he will mistreat you. Go back home.
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I would just pack my stuff and go back home
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Get out of there fast as you can
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Run. He has you right where he wants you. Run.
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He is an absolute scumbag and you need to get out of there now. 4 days in, and hes abusing you. Dont wait around for the slap.
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