Remember that person who once warned you about this guy.The person you despised and rubbished to stop shit!!.That was the voice of God speaking to you through him/her.Nevetheles, try taking to this dude about your concerns without mincing words, if he is hesitant, QUIT!!KWANI!!the earlier the better, lest he turn your promising life to debris or rather bring your life to abrupt end before your appointed time.Ive come to realize a good portion of ladies are bad choosers thereafter cry the loudest as they slide to singleness.Finally, I would like to give an ear to the other half before making informed decision that will breathe life to both of you.
That dude is a abuser . He spun his web and now he caught you . Leave now
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Sounds like he isolated you I would leave asap
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Drop the guy, you don’t deserve to be treated this way. I know for a fact he wouldn’t like it if he was being treated this way. Geez.
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You want a lifetime of that? Leave start over before to late!
Go back we’re u came from now. F him
Just went thru same thing. Run!!!
Go back home! So many red flags. You are alone and he knows that so he is taking advantage of that. Just leave before it’s worse.
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I couldn’t even finish reading this. You need to pack your things and go back to where you came from.
Why would you tolerate this behavior.
No person should ALLOW another person to treat them this way. I would be on the next plane or bus out of there. Send you stuff back ahead of you and I sure as hell would not even tell him I was leaving. He doesn’t deserve advance notice. You make damn sure you completely CANCELL ANY AND ALL UTILITIES THAT HAVE BEEN PUT INTO YOUR NAME!!!
AND IF HE KNOWS YOUR C.C. card numbers. Call get new one pass code EVERYTHING!!!
THIS TWERP WILL BE A VINDICTIVE LITTLE BITCH
Sounds like cohersive control please look it up and see if the description sounds like what your going through. Coercive control - Women’s Aid
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Go home to where you have family, friends and a life. He doesn’t deserve you.
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He’s a fking jerk. He’s mentally and emotionally abusive towards you. I would get out of the relationship as soon as an possible. I felt with someone like that. Then he changed after we broke up. I’m not going back. He’s crying in love you come back I’ll change. Nope. My prayers go out to you sweetie 
Run! As fast and as far as you can. Do not look back
Get rid of him. Move back to your family. X
Leave…it will never get better. Cut your losses and go, quickly.
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Tell him to fuck off!!!
It’ll never change. He’s already used to talking to you that way and eventually you’ll start treating him the same way and the cycle will just continue so my advice is to leave now before you have anything else “invested”.
True colors right there!!! This who he really is and he will not change for anyone but himself. Don’t allow yourself to be treated less than you deserve!
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Move back to family. He is mentally abusive. There is zero excuse.
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Go back where you came from
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Leave, he’s showing you his true colors and is using the fact that he has you away from everyone and everything you know so he can get away with it but you should leave trust me it only gets worse cuz he knows you have nothing there and no one to help you but find a way out a quick
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You’re in a abusive relationship… even if it’s not physical. You need to figure out how to get home and leave. 
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OMG! You need to go back home dear! He got what he wanted from you! Sorry to be blunt!
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Go home. He will never change
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It is time for a “come to Jesus meeting”. Be blunt with this pompous person – you gave up for him, now it is time for him to help you.
Get the feeling that he may not have expected you to actually follow him.
I would be packing my bags and heading back. You do not need his garbage attutude!
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I know from experience, it only gets worse. Get out before you’ve got a bunch of kids.
Go back home dump him
My ex did this as SOON as we moved across the country, away from my family. Leave.
Leave he’s a narcissist
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Run run as fast as you can …you definitely need to leave that man…,
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He doesn’t need you anymore
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Go back home! If it’s bad now it only gets worse trust me 11 years of same shit and I am finally free two kids later but it wasn’t easy but for my own mental health it needs to be that way
go home sweetie to your family and hopefully your old job
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Fly home little dove
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Plz get home to your family , run n don’t look back …u owe you ,not him !!
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4 days and you’re already miserable, run as far and fast as you can.
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Do whatever it takes and get out.
Run before it gets worse
Leave go back home where your friends and family are.
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Cut your losses and leave!!! because it’ll get a lot worse
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This is not going to change! He is a jerk! Get rid of him.
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Go back where u came from. You can do better.
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Yeah. Go back home.He has you at your weakest point.He moved you away from family and friends to put you down and control you.Been there before.Time to pack and leave.
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Go right back from where you left. No man, should ever talk to a woman that way. If you stay it will only get worse. He’s not worthy of your relationship!
Get the hell out of there, he will get physically abusive
Leave right now no one should be subjected to that he is abusing you what a low life. Run baby run
He’s got you removed from your family and friends and thinks he do and say whatever he wants to now. He’s manipulating you and trying to control you. Pack what you can and go back home now. Don’t worry about the money, I doubt you’ll ever get it back.
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Get away from that guy…
Go back home to your family . He is Controlling you , you deserve better .
Wow. Never give your money to anyone unless you are married and your name is on everything. Please leave NOW
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Sounds like he used you to make his move and now that you have no monetary value at this time, you are no longer needed. He’s a snake and you already know the answer is to go back home and start fresh. Don’t feel ashamed to ask family to help get you back. You can get through this!!! From someone whose been there…
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Uh oh, sounds like he’s feeling superior, disrespectful & ungrateful! Maybe you should reconsider your choice to be there. Why is he so angry?
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Go back home. He is the degenerate
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If he was acting horrible to you prior to moving as you stated, why did you move across the country with him? It’ll only worsen over time.
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You need to go back home now but him off completely before you become even more cut of from family and friends massive red flags here.
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Go back home and leave him now. He’s not worth it. U can find someone better.
Get out why you can before you hurts you or destroys you mentally
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Let your family and friends know and get the hell out of there!!!
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Get a job move out and grow girl cause he ain’t the one!! What a douche canoe
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He thinks he owns you now and it will get a lot worse if you marry him. Like everybody’s saying back up go home this is not a good place
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Do NOT get pregnant and get out as soon as you safely can. This is abuse. He got you isolated and dependent on him. It will just escalate from here.
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Red flags all over the place you need to pack up and go back home to were your family is like right away,
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Run!!! Go back home now.
Go back where you were and see if your Job will hire you back . He will not change and you deserve better .
You said he was treating you bad before you left. You should have never went with him. When he leaves for work pack your stuff, block his number and go home. It’s only going to be a matter of time before he meets people and puts you out. Take your power, self respect, and dignity back and leave him and his narcissistic butt.
Get out while the getting is good! Nobody deserves to be treated like that!!!
Get some money & move out
Narcissist. Now he has you on isolated from ur support network. Leave now!
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Run run really fast away from that one
Leave before you become a punching bag
He is an asshole. When someone degrades you that is not love. It’s called abuse
OMG!! Run!!! Don’t look back or get on Judge Judy and sue him. Yes you can sue him
Go home. Don’t even pack a bag… get a job, get your own place and make your own money. Also, idk how many ways there are to flush a toilet but, I’m fairly certain there’s no “proper way”…
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Go home my girl.
Nothing will be good enough for him
I went though the same situation & it doesnt get better!
I wish i knew at the time, im no quiter but i had to learn the hard way
The fact this guy is already treating you so badly, is definitely a red flag. Anyone who is controlling & puts you down like that, is a narcissist…& could possibly be something else. Either way… get out of there…this man is not good for you.
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Go home cut ypur loses he’s a user it’s not gonna get any better run
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Plenty of advise leave his ass go home!! Never let any man disrespect you like that!!! Don’t be a meal ticket for him while he uses you for a punching bag!!! Girl you need to move back across country without him!!!
Move back. Your losses are minimal considering what you will lose if you stay with him. Let it go and get out!
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Move back where you came from
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Slip out quietly and don’t come back. Go home.
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Run and run fast, girl!
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What state are you in?
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Leave him now and go back home. He is toxic and his true colors are just now showing that he has you isolated. I am being serious this is a total red flag leave NOW while you still can.
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Run as fast as you can!!! Move back home today!!! I see nothing but RED FLAGS sister!!!
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Get out don’t say a word wait till he is at work leave .don’t say a thing no note nothing go why stay he is a butt munch
Run as fast and you possibly can, please go back home and don’t tell him you are leaving.
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Do you have money to get back home? I would leave immediately. Change your phone number. Call the police and ask for how to get assistance to get out of there. They can help you find community resources. Or, go to a local church and ask if they can help guide you to a safer short term place to stay away from him till you can move.
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Take a Bus, Plane , Train or get a friend or family member to come and get you and get rid of that toxic controlling jerk ! You are way much better then him and you need to put this guy out of your Life and move home and find a guy that will Respect You and start a new chapter in your Life. There are many guys out there that would treat you well .
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What a loser he sounds like maybe u should send him what u just wrote and if he doesn’t stop n say sorry then screw it go home
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Move back home he knows you don’t have family and friends there so he’ll keep treating you bad. Pack go home
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Run you don’t need that asshole
You don’t deserve to be treated that way. Get your thousand back.
If you can go back home asap. This is toxic & you’re too far from your support system. You deserve better.
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Omg get away from him it sounds like the honey moon’s over he’s turning into a sisy girl if you hear that often that you’re worthless you will start believing it get back home and let him miss you can’t wait until he gets fired.carmas.a bitch and so is he ps. Please don’t get any animals .
Leave that creep you don’t have to put up with that I’m sure there’s places you could get help don’t put up with him not worth it
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I have been in that situation before. He was controlling and abusive and wouldn’t let me even see or talk to my family without him around. it just got worse and he was hitting me throwing me across the room and even held a gun to my head. You need to leave now.
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Get out while ya can.this guy has no respect for women what so ever get out now before this person commits murder or gbh.
Go back home! Asap! It will only get worse from here.
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This is not normal at all! He is an abuser. He is verbally and mentally abusing you. Please get out. Put things in place and quietly leave. Who knows what else he is capable of.
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