Why is my boyfriend acting this way?

Run as fast as you can

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Go back.home sorry but if he’s starting now when he knows you have nothing and no one because you chose to go with him then he’s only gonna get worse. He’s at a stage now that you dropped everything for him that you can be under his control. Just pack what you can and go

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Honey you need to run and run as fast as you can. No man should ever treat you like that EVER! Can you call family for help back home?

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Move on from this looser. Go to the Mission in Fort Myers or even yet call them. Explain your situation…they can help you or tell you who can.

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You are in an abusive relationship. Move back home. Ask you family for help. You should not remain in an abusive relationship. There’s something about being told you are worthless that starts to take over your mind and really messes with your head. Please get out before you get so anxious and stressed out that you cannot function. Please write us and let us know you’ve moved out.

Sweet heart MOVE BACK HOME ASAP​:bangbang::bangbang: Tell your family and friends and get the hell outta DODGE!

Run and dont look back. He is a user, abuser, and an ass. LEAVE NOW!

GET OUT OF THERE! Go back home now!

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Sweetie, leave now and go back home. It’s only going to get worse. He is going to start to manipulate and control you and alienate you from your family and friends.

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yes please go back home he don’t deserve you

Goo back home love. He doesn’t want you. Hold your head high & walk away while you can.

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Wow. I’d call your former boss and ask for your old job back and be on the next flight home.

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GO HOME!! He’s a bum, and given a little time, he’ll either start hitting you or screwing around. Get out asap!

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Get out, call your momma

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It’s not going to get better …dont make sense to try …yes you love him to move there with him but he takes your for granted go back to your life

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Run & don’t look back

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It sounds like he trying to get you to end the relationship to make it easier on him! He’s a coward deff doesn’t deserve a girl that’s willing to relocate for him!

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Run!!! Go home :house_with_garden: you don’t need him in your life at all!!

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Okay. So now you know you can’t buy love. Expensive lesson but cut your losses and go back home. He is totally using you.

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Splitsville. Know your worth.

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Sounds like he’s trying to get you to break up with him so he can blame it on you and play the victim. Get your job, stash your money, & leave!

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Textbook Narcissist! Run!

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Go back home. He’s s putz

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Run all the way back home… fast. (Not literally run obviously) but find your way back, quickly. That behavior will get worse.

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He is such a jerk, take the first bus or whatever you can afford to travel on and get the heck out of there, he will only get worse, no one can help you but yourself, just leave…

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Go back home asap. He had you move so far away so he could isolate and control you. He is probably a narcissist.

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Go home life is to short to deal with that bullshit

Seriously? Get the hell back to where you came from as fast as you can?

Sounds like he used you to get what he needed to move and now he’s hoping you’ll get tired of his bs and leave so he won’t have to pay you back. If he really cared about you, he’d encourage you and let you get settled in. If I were you, I’d cut my losses and go back home. If you stay you let him see he can treat you like crap and you’ll take. That’s no way to live.

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Don’t even tell him you’re leaving. Move out and take a flight back while he’s at work. Or go to a womens shelter when he goes out. I believe you can call them to pick you up. Don’t have anymore contact with him after that. He is terribly abusive. Get out of there and take care of yourself.

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Run! And don’t look back! It will only get worse.

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Dump him. Go back to your family. You don’t need someone who belittles you, when the chips are down. You are better than that! He should be supportive, not negative! Count this as a lesson learned, and move on! Good luck.

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He’s using you and he’s a narrsasist. Run fast. It won’t end well.

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I really feel for you wish I could put you in my pocket protect you and your heart.

If he treats you like that now It will only get worse

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I pray you went home and left that loser

You got him to his new job, paid up a place to stay, so he doesn’t need you any more.

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Run back to wherever you came from!

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He liked your money well enough. Does he plan to pay you back?

Go home hunni
He wants what he wants
And now that he has it
He doesn’t care about how you feel

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I’m single. Turn around and go back home ASAP.

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He’s not a man. He needs his legs broke

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Get out now he is totally belittling you and dragging you down to be in full control of you he wants you to feel useless so he has it over you for always. that is not love!! My heart breaks for you please be strong and go! :pray::broken_heart:

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Sounds like he took you for a ride. You spent all that money on him and now he’s done with you.

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Go back home, and don’t look back. Now.

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GO!!! Run as fast as you can,he’s mentally abusing you next it will become physical abuse,you can do it,You are strong… Don’t think about what you’ve done in the past for him, that’s done and over just get out.You will be so much better without him.Good Luck and am Praying for you & that you find the strength!!

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Girl get out! That has :triangular_flag_on_post: written all over it! Get out now!

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Run far away. Go back home with family and friends who care about you💛

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Run as fast as u can

Kick him to the curb ASAP!! Do it before it gets physical and you get hurt. You should go now.

That’s abuse.

Fucking RUN

Why are you still there? Leave.

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I wished u had stayed put n kept ur job until u got one then relocated! If u didn’t have a job waiting for u y would u spend all of ur money on him n give him $1,000? He got what he wanted out of u now he feels he doesn’t need u anymore! He has u right where he wants u no job, no family, friends so he can belittle u n b abusive to u! He’s shown u his true colors n it’s only going to get worse!!! Make ur get away plans n don’t let him know anything u’re planning to do just do it n don’t look back or go back!!!

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Cut your losses and get away from him…he was just using you…

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He is abusive and you need to leave!

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Do you honestly NEED to ask? ASK your BF, he HAS your HONEST ANSWERS. DO NOT PLAY his game

Darlingg… get a job and leave him. its not noremal for a man its verbal abuse and believe me i,am 83 and speak from experience it wont change. over the jears, he might even gett physical abusive if he cant gett his way,

Go back home as soon as possible

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please listen to all the advice the other people on this side give jou.

I would move back where I come from and leave his ungrateful ass

Move back home!!! NOW

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It’s only going to get worse. Leave and go back home. Trust me when I say, you’ll be saving yourself from a bad future with this guy. It’s sounds like it’s all about him. Baby you are IMPORTANT TOO!!! You are not useless and anything else he has said. You are worth way more than he is treating you. You are PRICELESS. Let that clown go. Praying for you.

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Sell those tires and go back home. Call a relative. Don’t be embarrassed. We all have made mistakes. Hugs.

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Go home sweetheart you need not b there ok

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Time to go home, like now.

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Get the hell out of there asap. Thats going to eventually become physical abuse. Trust me im a man. They destroy your self esteem and self worth and once you feel like you’re not worthy of him he will become controlling and eventually he will start abusing you physically along with the mental abuse. You need to get out now.

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No that is not normal. He is just showing you he now controls you. You need to get out now! Do not let this behavior continue. It will only get worse.

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Isolation ladies? He got you away from all you know and love… “Abuser” was the first thing that came to my mind! Run. .

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Run run as fast as you can. Get a bus ticket and go back home. I’d get some of what’s left of the 1000.00 dollars u gave him

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Toxic. Nope, hun go back home. Contact your family have them help you. Those are some big red flags…

If you go to Home Depot and buy four cinder blocks you can jack that truck up and grab your tires and leave his truck on blocks on your way home. Sell the tires get some money back and he won’t have any way to drive and find you. Protect yourself before you’re the next nightly headliner in the news.

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Go back home now! Do not stay another day!

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He’s a control freak go home before it gets worst n not a very good thing so go back home asap

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Just leave and shame on him he just used you plz leave as fast as you can God bless you

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Time to move out n leave his ass :woman_shrugging:t2:

Maybe he’s a controller thats why he moved you away from your family so he can make you depend on him for everything. If it doesn’t stop then you should think about looking into getting away from the situation

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Run don’t walk back home

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Dump him and take what is yours. Don’t give him any warning. Just go.

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You should have never went with him. Leave him now.

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GO like now…things will get worse the longer you stay. .Blessings

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Oh, sweetie, go home. ((hugs))

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Go now only gonna get worse don’t say nothing just go

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LEAVE NOW…RUN! AND DO NOT STAY SILENT ! Tell everyone you know especially his family and yours how horrible he is. I left a marriage like this after only two years of that kind of treatment.

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Ask for your money back and leave

He is gas lighting you to keep you off balance and have you questioning your sanity so you will not challenge him to avoid a fight.this is just taste of what is to come .a good man will never make you fell this way.no your worth never give all of you to someone eles at the end of every day thats all you will have .

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I wouldn’t stay with the jerk.

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Is your name “DOORa Mat “? If you can see ALL these wrong, bad things and ways he’s doing to you, and you ask strangers what you should do? I think you already know! “Get the heck out of Dodge”! He’s a loser, show him that!!!

Peice of shit dump his ass

Run home.No Shame. He’s full of empty words. Hes a Shammer.

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Sweetheart you know what you should be doing. It will only get much worse. Go home. Do not stay and destroy yourself

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It’s hard to believe this will happen to you. I have lived it now over 40 years and it’s To late to run. Myself esteem is gone. Can’t live on my social security alone. I rely on God and faith each and every day.

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His childish azz need to grow up!! Dont give him NOTHING ELSE and Stop talking to him!when he ask what’s wrong tell him you just being lazy and all the names he’s called you
Oh and thank me later… Stay strong :muscle:!!

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move back and leave him

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You all ready know the answer dear…

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Run back home and never look back . Sounds like he just wanted you to move so he could control you. Don’t ever run back to that. Leave him now .

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Life is short don’t waste time on people who steal your joy. Love is lifting each other up. Helping each other be the best version of their self. Don’t waste another second get out while the getting is good! You will look back one day soon and know this was the right decision. Love yourself enough to high tail it out of there lady!

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Walk away! Go back home and forget this asshole!

That’s awful, I’m sorry but he is a real asshole and obviously just used you to get where he wanted to be, No real Man acts or treats someone they love like garbage, I would not stay with that mess of a Boy he is a second longer. Call your family and ask for some help, but this guy is bad news :100:

Yeah listen… you need to trust your intuition and get out like now!! Start figuring out how to get back over there and do it without saying a word! This is far than okay! Love yourself

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It sounds like he was just using you! Grab your suitcase and get the hell out of there. Place that call home immediately

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