Go back home, you don’t need this abuse.
Girl, run back home while you still can. It’s only gonna get worse.
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Girllllll… move back home… asap! It’s just gonna get worse…
I was in a similar situation in college where I moved from California to Florida the summer before my senior year. It was a complete disaster. I went back home early. He ended up cheating on me and moving his new coworker in after 3 weeks… And they got engaged right after that… I was supposed to visit him a month later for his birthday and canceled my flights. F that. I was done. You deserve way better. I would do as I did (dump him and move back home).
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You got yourself trapped and controlled by a narcissist there is a way out you just have to be strong do what you got to do to get away from him.
Please consider leaving. It will only get worse. Go back home. I know from experience. Just leave.
soon hes gonna start beating you - or keeping you inside and not allowed to even go to the store
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Go home if his doing that now it will get worse don’t waste your life
You better go right back home!
Ur bf is d**k! If he was treating u poorly before you moved I don’t understand why u wld move with him thinking it wld get better. Honey get away from this guy! He’s only bringing u down!
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Pack your crap and move back home hes not going to change
You never should have moved with him. If he already treated you horribly, no he has you completely separated from anyone who cares for you. That is a scary situation. Move back home ASAP!
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Move back as soon as you can
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He is not your boyfriend
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Get out it will just get worse.
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Girl, call your momma and get yourself back home where you belong! This man is garbage!!!
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Leave him asap he will become abruse
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He wants someone to take his lack of out on you was better off w/o him go back sounds like you was doing great
Go back! It will only get worse!
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Honey, this is going to be hard. I am not going to tell you to leave him because that’s not my place….HOWEVER. This IS NOT NORAML
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He sounds controlling and abusive and I can tell you right now that you are doing too much for him.
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He is like the rest of them get rid of him he is no good!!!
Call parents/family and go home. It’s going to get worse.
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My advice would be to never move for a guy who isn’t committed to you…and before you say he is, go back and re-read what you wrote. Pack up.
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I would have never moved with him and you should never give them your money. He is a user.
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You need to leave and go back home where your family. It’ll only get worse and if too much time passes you’ll feel lost and alone and it’ll be harder for you to leave and go back home. You’ll feel stuck and trapped. Suck up your pride and tell your family you made a mistake and go home.
Leave his ass now! That behavior should be a red flag for you. Go back home. You don’t need his negative vibes.s it’s only going to get worse. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Kiick his ass to the crub and you run!!!
Sending prayers!
Get your job back and move home. This is the real him, he’s telling you about himself. Listen.
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Well he got you isolated from everyone. Move home now before things get worse.
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Leave and go back home before its to late. I agree he will start keeping you away from everyone and everything thats what narcissist do. Don’t become a statistic.
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I am not an advocate of people just up and walking out of relationships, normally I’ll be the first to give advice on how to fix it, but honey- RUN don’t walk away, from this man. I know you quit your job to be with him for his new job, but just go back home where you are safe. Please, just go back home to your family and your friends. You’ll find a new job, you’ll find a different relationship where you are treated with the mutual respect that you get. Cut the loss on everything you gave him and just go back home to your parents.
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Leave as soon as humanly possible. He’s got you isolated now and feels comfortable treating you how he’s really wanted to all along. The longer you stay, the more the abuse will escalate. Be careful when leaving and try your best not to alert him that that’s your intention. I know it may seem far-fetched and an overreaction if he hasn’t gotten physical yet, but leaving is the most dangerous time for us in situations like this. Plan to escape when you know he’ll be out of the house for awhile. Good luck.
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Because he’s a narcissist and is taking advantage of your isolation to let his true self show.
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He is a Narcissist and he played you BIG TIME! Now he has you Isolated and he knows that. He knows he can treat you however he wants, only give you crumbs of love bombing and it will be hard for you to leave.
YOU NEED TO GET THE HELL OUTTA THERE, CUT YOUR LOSSED AND GO BACK WHERE YOU HAVE SUPPORT TO GET ON YOUR FEET!!!
R U N N O W ! ! !
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He thinks he has you under his thumb. You are no longer near family and you are financially dependent on him. He no longer has to earn your love and his true self has shown. RUN
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Yes it’s normal for a man to do 
I would leave! It will only get worse and he could get physical and hurt you!
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Girl don’t kiss that man ass, get your shit together drive, bus, fly get back home. And flip that big girl bird as ye leave.
Honey he sounds like a narcissist. Run as fast as you can anywhere he isn’t.
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Leave him and move back
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Pack while he’s at work leave and change your number. This is who he really is. A monster
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Move back home and count your blessings that you got out
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Move back home. Ditch the zero get with a hero
He used you for the money. Get it back and get your own life.
run as fast as you can. you are better off alone.
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That’s a sign that he’s going to be abusive. He’s got you isolated and completely dependent on him at the moment. Now he’ll show you his true colors. Go home and move on with your life. You’ll be grateful you did
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it is normal because he is a monster and can’t tell you to leave…sooo he abuses you … go home
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Move back bc of he sees that your take that narcissistic abuse and don’t stick up for yourself then it’s going to continue to happen and get worse
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Oh girl he’s a user. Get out now!
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Go home, back to your family. This relationship seems doomed
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What work are you looking for
Run! This is only going to get worse
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Pack up and go home u had a lucky escape just glad you didn’t marry this loser
Take your things leave him he’s a creep
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Go home girl. Those are all red flags.
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Will not be easy. Move back to friends& family & get work there. Move on from this so called relationship. He will continue the use & abuse
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Girl you better go back home.
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Move back home because it’s just beginning. By the sounds of it he’s a narcissist and will do what he can to put you down and start to isolate you from everyone and everything.
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He’s a jerk and I hope u can see that and try to get past him.
Sounds like A narcissist isolated you to get what he wanted and now he’s treating you awful. You need to run and go back home. Don’t look back. You might think you’ve invested a lot now, don’t wait for years to pass. It will be much worse.
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No man has a right to treat a woman like that I would leave and never look back
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Go back home u picked a real loser and will become an abuser he already has started go as fast asu can…
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Please go back home before your to deep in! He is showing you exactly who he is now that you guys are fully alone together and you have no one else around.
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He’s taking you away from your family and friends so he CAN CONTROL YOU! GO BACK HOME!
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Go back home. This isn’t tough love. And you mentioned he was like this prior to moving, you should have let him move and just cut ties. I pray we all stop doing this… seeing the evidence that someone really doesn’t care about us prior to moving and things like getting married and then following through anyway. Nothing will change, it just gets worse. There are more gentlemen out there, don’t trauma bond yourself to the one that isn’t even loving you correctly
You need to go back home. It’s only going to get worse, he waited til you guys were across the country to begin acting like this for a reason.
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I’d go back asap … screw that. Don’t be that person that puts up with shit. Been there done that… IT DOES NOT GET BETTER IT GETS WORSE.
First off, I’m not a female, and NO!, it’s not normal for any man to treat a woman like that. In fact, he should be kissing your ass every night for all you have done and sacrificed to make all this possible for him. Cut your losses ang
Why the hell did you move with him in the first place of he was acting this way?
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Honey, you’re in an abusive relationship and it will get worse very fast now that he has you away from everyone. Move. Back. Home. NOW!
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Leave!!! You have no kids that’s a huge red flag leave and get out while you can!
Sounds like a fucking asshole get the fuck out of there he sounds like a Sociopath
Baby go home it won’t get better
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Get away from this loser
I get tired of reading these kind of post’s…Obviously you know it’s not okay for a man or anyone to treat you this way…If it’s validation you need or encouragement to leave you have it from me…Just leave get away from it why waste anymore time? Me personally I don’t deal with negative crappy people❤
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Just fucking leave Jesus Christ dude.
sounds like he has you right where he wants you, easy to abuse… leave him and go back home before its too late!
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Where is your pride, why would you allow anyone to treat and talk to you that way
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Quit being stupid and go back home
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Run as fast as you can and don’t look back. You deserve better.
Go back home before it’s too late
I was in a relationship that started like this and it lasted almost 6 years. Get out now don’t go back I went back 6 times
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Go back to your family. He will always put you down
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Get out while you can go back home
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Been married for over 30 years and my man has NEVER treated me like that! That is a sign of an abuser, he is mentally abusing you, I hope you leave him before he starts to physically abuse you! There is something wrong with him, leave him before it’s too late!
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if you don’t get out now, he will continue to isolate you from your family and friends and will continue to belittle you at every turn to break you down so you will stay and it usually doesn’t end well for the woman in these situations, so LEAVE NOW!!
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id leave!! That seems like mental n verbal abuse and seems like he is or was using you!
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Get out true personality coming threw
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Run. Run as fast as you can. Please.
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This is how physical abusive relationships start
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Oh hell nah, girl dump that loser and go home. That’s disrespectful and toxic. Do not put up with that mess. Leave
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Go home to your family you deserve better 
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Call your parents, best friend, siblings, let them know what’s up with his behavior. Remember Gabby Petito?
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My husband is doing the same thing. I was let go from my job and now he is mad all the time. I said your cash cow dried up so you wanna leave? As soon as I found another job he was fine. He said I can be poor all by myself. We have been married for almost 22 years and I know it is one of his many moods. He sees a doctor for depression since he is now medically disabled and can’t work due to a back injury and surgery. He also has anxiety. I have learned to deal with it. He takes meds for it. Just really rough sometimes when he is always putting me down
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Cut your losses and get away from this asshole.
Shit I’ll come get you myself. I’ve been in your shoes. It wont ever get better
Hes a narcissist. Get away as fast as you can.he will only get worse
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go back where you came from he is a Narcissistic and will do this more and more
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It’s been 4 days… no one is going to get their license and a job in that tiny time frame… He is clearly putting you down to make you feel small and exercise control over you. Take a stand now for yourself or simply move back to where you came from and cut your losses now. It’s only going to get worse.
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