Can you go home? Also given it’s only been a few days maybe the job you left back home is not yet filled
Go home and get your job back. Tell him good luck and good bye.
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Get rid of him. You deserve better.
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Go home he’s abusing you he’s isolated you and it will escalate run
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Run like hell go back home you gave him money now you haven’t found a job so he mad he wants your money he gonna get worse get out of there
You need to go back home. Do not give him anymore money. He’s using you
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Get out of it pack your s*** and go home I was in the same spot as you are I moved from Florida to Pennsylvania that’s how the physical abuse starts and my ex broke my arm in two places to get the hell out of it why you still can
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Go home. Seriously, these are huge red flags. Do you really want to be with someone who treats you this way?
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Go Home and don’t say but I love him, all of us in thus comment sections saying GO HOME !
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It is no other way for him to tell you that he doesn’t love you. If you stay you are disrespecting yourself. You deserve better . Good luck.
Run don’t walk …… then take him to small claims court to pay back all the money he took from you. Why do you allow him to talk to you that way? Tell him you weren’t lazy or useless when he was taking your money!!!
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Narcissist… Run. Home will gladly welcome you back. Don’t try to ask for reimbursement for what you’ve put out. Warning, he’ll probably try love bombing you once again when he finds out your leaving. Don’t allow it, just go and cut ties.
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Get out of the relationship as soon as possible.
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Go get your job back, let him figure out why he is acting how he is alone. You don’t deserve that!
leave while you can asap
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Run! Before you are too stuck. It doesn’t get better. In my experience, he’s either cheating or a narcissist. It’s his way of controlling you and diverting fault. It also doesn’t matter if you get a job soon. Every time you call him out on something, he will bring this up. That’s what narcissist do.
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Run, girl. It won’t get better. He got you away from everyone and will eventually not let you have any contact with your family back home. Just run.
Please leave. I went through something similar and ended up leaving 2 years later because I felt alone and unappreciated. Don’t waste your precious life. Seriously.
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Go back home. Ditch him in a hurry. There’s a word to describe him. He’s a narcissist. Sounds like he just needed a travel partner and no longer has use for you.
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He’s a jerk !!! Go back home, he won’t change.
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Id get a plane ticket and go the hell back home. If hes treating you this way now…it wont get any better most generally.
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It’s just going to get worse leave soon don’t look back he waited to isolate you to treat you like crap
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Ladies, stop living with these men, if they aren’t willing to get married, they don’t deserve you. Marriage does make a difference. I know it’s not perfect.
Leave why would you move with a person who treated you like that before…
desperate…
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Sounds like Narcissistic traits. Run.
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Yes, leave. It will get worse and you have no family and friends to go to.
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NEVER 
QUIT YOUR JOB FOR NOBODY Because nobody gone have your back but you when it really gets real. You see how he doing you now ? He will keep doing it. He will treat the relationship like a competition and throw you down even more making it seem like he’s the bread winner and you will need him. He know you don’t have family and he will use that against you. Go get your job back. If long distance works for y’all great if not, don’t become the warehouse supply for the narcissist. When people head get too big like that it’s time to step your game up and don’t give them any room to stunt on you. His head bigger than caillou and Oswald’s together because he got a raise and able to cross country. Imagine he lose all of it and then blames you for it smh. FRIEND we want you safe not sorry. Don’t become his foot stool
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He’s trying to dump you. Move now.
Why would you stay? It doesn’t get better it’s only going to get worse. He’s getting away with it so why would he stop? He’s gonna continue and it’ll start to escalate.
What would you say to a friend or family member if they told you they were being treated like this?
Time to move back home and there’s nothing wrong with that
Love yourself first
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Major red flag. Run. He brought you across country to be isolated away from friends and family and started treating you like shit as soon as you didn’t have a support system. This was his plan from the beginning and there’s no intention there to improve. Run
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Go back home, get your job back and leave him far behind. There is no excuse for a man to treat a woman that he supposedly loves this way
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I’d like to hear his side. With the amount of lies and lack of accountability amongst today’s women at all time highs…can’t trust nothing negative said about a man
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Go back to where you came from , and don’t look back . Keep moving until you get away from him . You should not allow him to talk to and treat you like that …You are better than that …Don’t give him any more free money …You will need that yourself…
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I’m sorry, I only read the first half… why are you letting a man treat you like this? Run!!! It’s disgusting and you don’t need it. You will never get anything better out of him. You deserve better!
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He’s a narcissist, run like hell back home, it’ll only get worse
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I spent 6 years being love-bombed, gaslighted, isolated, then belittled and controlled. Rinse and repeat. Tried to leave at least once a year and kept getting sucked back in by future-faking. DO NOT settle! What dude is doing makes me cry for you. Go home. As soon and as fast as you can. Call from a shelter if you have to. Pack up and run. Your person is out there, but this one isn’t them.
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Tell him to calm the fuck down and treat me like an equal or I’m out.
How awful he treated you nice at first to get you to follow him now his true colours are showing and it is inky going to get worse you need to move back home xx
Run run run! It will get worst
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Go back home babe , that’s not being an equal.
I’m sorry babe
Go home!!Narcissist !!!
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Men do this all the time. They are good until they think they have you and that you can’t or won’t leave. Leave now. It’ll only get worse
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Run, as fast as you can. Go back home
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I’m in the same boat! I’m so ready to leave and head back to Ohio!
While he’s at work one day, please leave and go back home. How he’s treating you is only going to get worse, scary worse. Cut your losses, block him on everything. RUN while you still can.
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Go back home!!! Controlling you is his goal. Next, it’ll get physical
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Go back home. You deserve so much better. Now that he has you isolated it will only get worse
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Omg!! This absolutely NOT NORMAL!! PLEASE!Get outta there ASAP!! He’s abusing you!! He’s isolating you and controlling you!! Would you want your daughter, mom , friend in this situation? PLEASE go back home!! It’s not love at all!! Believe me you’ll get over it!!
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Sounds like he is objectifying you, don’t stand for that
Yet out and get out now you don’t need that shit!!!
Yeah get a new boyfriend, run go back home and cut your losses
Go home. Back to your family, that guy sounds terrible.
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Get away from him he is not worth your love if he is doing this to you
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Leave and go back to wherever you moved from. It will just get worse, no matter what you do. And now he’s moved you away from your home and where your from and have support. Run. Now.
he sounds like one big A - hole …go back home sounds like he using you , no one deserves that .
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STARTING OVER IN ANEW PLACE IS SOMETIMES HARD, WE HAVE MOVED A FEW TIMES, BUT NEVER THOSE PROBLEMS.\give it a couple more months, and if no improvement, take your losses and fly away.
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I’m going to say this… abusive people tend to lead their partners away from family to control them…They treat you well around family but as soon as they aren’t around they become abusive. What he is doing is not tough love…it is not treating you as an equal. He is quite literally belittling you, isolating you and treating you as less than. Do not stand for that…If your partner does not treat you like the goddess you are and continually takes advantage of you…he is not worthy of you. That goes for anyone…If your partner does not treat you like the best thing that ever happened to them…they’re not worthy of your love. You all are way too beautiful, way too strong and way too good to allow these little boys and girls to step on you and break your spirits. Fix your crown queen. Focus, reset, save up and do what’s best for you. Remember when one can’t, another will! Much love. 
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This is just the start of an abusive relationship. Find a job and move out ASAP. This is definitely not normal. Otherwise, you can always go back home and stay with a friend while you sort your life out.
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I dated a man like this once. Abusive narcissistic asshole (dated 3 of these types) … but this guy treated me like GOLD while trying to get me to say yes to being his girlfriend… the second I said yes he turned into a completely different person sadly. At that point. We were already roommates so I couldn’t leave… I’m sorry hun but it won’t get any better and he’s going to get worse! Please figure out a way to move back home where your from if possible. I’m really sorry
Sounds like a narcissistic abuser… I lived with one for 8 years and still 3 years later, I still have PTSD from what he put me through… leave before you have kids with him and you’re linked to him for life.
Make plans immediately when he is at work, call your prior employer and say you made a mistake to see if you can get your job back, if you have a joint account get money out, don’t say a word to him, pack up and fly home.
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I’m so sorry this is your situation, and I’m sure it hurts to read everyone say “go home” after all you’ve put into the relationship but for many of us we’ve been in this red flag situation and it’s crystal clear that this will only get worse. No matter where you go, please just get out of that situation asap!
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If you have no kids there is no reason to stay in a situation where you don’t feel comfortable.
Hes shown you his true colors… pay attention
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Sounds like a suuuuuper dumb decision to move across country with this dude. If BEFORE you moved he said he wasn’t explaining why he needed $1000 of your money lol
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Sounds like he doesn’t want to be your boyfriend and I have to wonder why do you want him? Time to leave.
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That’s certainly normal for a prick. Girl, pack ur 
and move back where you were. You think it’s bad now just wait another year. He doesn’t see you as his equal and never will. If you want to be miserable stay. If you want someone that encourages, respects and guides you then he’s not it and you’ll find it…
Run 
. It’s Abusing
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Go back home. It’s not gonna get better
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Talk to him first if he cant admit what he did and still doing the same thing leave him. You deserve someone better…a couple encourages each other, not pulling down.
Leave him and go home if it continues
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Sorry, but this is a part of an abusive relationship and will continue to get worse! For your sake and safety, GO BACK HOME
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Move back to where you came from. Sounds like a horrible abusive person. Run before it’s too late
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Red flags waiving. Get out.
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Move back home. 
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Leave him & sue him for the money he owes you
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Just go back home or endure abuse because sadly it only gets worse… good luck
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Mental and verbal abuse!!
It’s the start of an abusive relationship it’ll be next him lifting his hand. My advice is to get out now while you can clearly he’s got something better and doesn’t want you around. By the sounds of it he’s just gonna make your life a misery if you don’t do something about it. I’d say get the money up or ask him for you 1000 dollars back and get a boat/flight back home where clearly your gonna be more welcome x
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I don’t even had to read all this to say get the fuck outta there lol
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That’s the real him it’s not normal the last dude that did that to me started domestically assaulting me almost daily for no reason. He’s not mentally well so get tf out before it’s too late
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Move back to where you came from. Eff that
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You really need to learn to this comments. He’s got you away from your family and friends. So you cant leave. Someone said he is narcissist. Thats what i think too. He Will belittle you. Control you. And you will never do anything right. wait till he goes to work and get a ride to the airport. Dont tell him your leaving. He will gaslight you. Please go back home asap.
Good luck.
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Hes acting that way because he is abusive and has you in a vulnerable position.
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An equal? If he wants equality give him a taste of his own treatment. Call him a lazy b-stard that does nothing to help around the house. Tell him you want the 1k back or he’s a useless pos. Id treat him worse, or fleece him of everything I can then get out of there asap before children get mixed up in this mess. Sounds like hes took all you have, family, job, friends, stability, familiarity and has took you away with nothing and reliant on him so he can treat you like dirt. Get what you deserve and get out.
Move back home immediately!
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Get away as soon as possible. Never go back.
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He’s a narcissist that manipulated you out of money to move. Now that his way is paid, he’s trying to drive you off. Soon he will make it unbearable or just kick you out. I’ve seen women do this to me numerous times. They wait til the man pays their bills all up, start a fight, and throw him out of his own house. And if he’s unlucky enough to have children with the woman, she uses them as a way to keep extorting money from the man.
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That’s abuse and you need to leave ! He’s narcissistic and that’s not tough love
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Pack your stuff and leave
I think u missed a few hundred red flags since u began dating him. Surprise him, be moved out at back home with ur family during the day before he gets home from work n leave a note for him. Letting him know he’s an asshole and good luck finding a woman to put up with that. If ur not working right now ok fine u can do the cooking and cleaning it’s a give a take effort here I’d leave n go back to my family tail between my legs but some dig it reserved becuase st least I didn’t stay
Go back to your family. He will only get worse
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It’s understandable that you love him but the solution is very simple. Move back home. This is his “turf” and will continue to act this way and worse. Do not try to make sense of it,don’t try to fix the situation…walk away. In a year you will either be over him and happier or wishing you had left , which one do you prefer?
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I’d move back to where you were. He’s controlling and mentally abusive, could advance to worse in the future, and he’s using you. If he’s calling you names and gladly takes a bunch of money from you. He’s useless. where the fuck is his money for new tires? And he let you pay the rent but you just got there? Girlll, get out now. Go back to where you were living. If you lost your place, can you move In With family or friends??? I’m sorry girl:( it won’t get better
Yes MOVE BACK. HE SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER
Run!!! This is not a good healthy relationship for you!!! Leave now
Run, FAR away and get back to family
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Did you both move there together? Or were you doing a long distance relationship and you moved here to be with him? Either way. He’s showing you his true colors now. Listen. And leave while you still can.
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Get out of there as quick as you can and go back home. If ya stay with him it aint gonna get better.
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Go home!!! End of discussion.
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