Go back home! That’s verbal abuse!!! Understand that! Go home!
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Go home. He doesn’t deserve you. It starts with verbal and then it may just turn physical. He isn’t giving tough love He is verbally abusing you and you shouldn’t accept it.
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Leave, ask your family for help if u need it to go back home, they will understand and help you! Wish the best for you girl!! 
Run and run fast. He’s using you and now it’s turning to abuse.
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Move back home, get your old job back or a new one and say fuck him…
Go back home. Will only get worse
Move back now before it’s too late
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Leave as quickly as possible!
Leave. He is going to get worse and worse and end up physically abusing you. Please, go home to your family. I promise it’s not worth it. I’ll even help you get a ticket and I’m sure other mamas would too.
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Leave and go home! This is not love and he isn’t truly that into you. No one treats someone they love like this! Tough love isn’t name calling and degrading.
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Move on,it will only get worse.
No it’s not normal. It’s abuse
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Leave immediately it will only get worse speaking from experience don’t wait just walk away better yet run
Oh no this is inexcusable and beyond wrong 
I’m sorry to say this but he sounds a bit narcissistic and nd it’s only going to get worse please call your family soon and see if they can get yo home soon you need to leave because this type of mental and verbal abuse is not a easy fix my daughter is still recovering from it and she left 6 months ago then there’s the ptsd from it as well I wish you luck and will keep you in my prayers pm me if you need to I will be your friend no matter what
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Go now this is just the beginning
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He is following the classic abuser pattern. Act nice until they isolate you from your support network and have you financially dependant and vulnerable, then you start to see who they really are. It only gets worse the more tied to them you get (marriage, kids.) Leave and go back home now before his bullshit chips away and your self esteem and you start to believe it… then it will get even harder to leave.
Simple! Pack your bags and go home.
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Agree with Cindy Vanderhoff run
Move back home. No man should treat you like that. He will only get worse
No get back home now away from him
He’s not worth it.
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Get the heck out of there. He’s a loser!
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Not n8rmal. Cut your losses and go back home you deserve better
Will only get worse… cut your losses and move on. Sending love
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Get out of that relationship. He’s treating you like shit now because he thinks he has you trapped. It’ll only get worst from here. Even if you get a job.
No that’s not normal for the person you love to treat you that way. By no means is that normal. Sounds like he’s on a power trip. Pack your stuff and move back to where you came from. If he is acting like that just over getting a good job. It’s only going to get worse.
He’s an Ass. Time to move on. Never let someone make you feel less than you are. He is doing it because he thinks he can. Let him no he can’t
Get rid of him there some prince charming waiting for u
Run. He’s isolated you and now it sounds like abuse is beginning. Please go back home as quickly as you can.
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Leave him and move home. Not even worth it.
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This is exactly how 7 years of abuse and hell started for me. It’s not normal and you shouldn’t accept it as such
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Get out. Call your parents, a domestic violence shelter, anything and get home. Cut your losses. Block him!
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Girl leave him. I’d never have moved with him. He sounds awful honestly.
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I remember when I first dated my toxic narcissist ex. He was giving his stepdad shit and I told him he that’s not very nice of him (in a joking way). He got really mad at me and told me he didn’t even want to drive me home or look at me. That right there, at age 21 should’ve been my red flag. I spent the next 5 years being degraded and called worthless. He would push me around and once he straddled me on the couch and was yelling so close to my face, I could feel his spit on my skin. He would threaten to kill himself if I left him.
I’m 32 now and definitely feel like my early and mid twenties were wasted. So please, follow your gut and listen to these red flags. GO BACK HOME!
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$1500 a month??? I make more than that on unemployment!! 
That’s abuse…get the hell away from him cuz trust me from past experience it will get worse…next he will put hands on u …he is using u all around…u deserve better and u will find someone that will treat u right…
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Now that he has you away from your family he thinks he is free to treat you however he wants to. It does get worse over time so I would get out and go home now
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Run before you feel stuck
Move back home he isnt treating you well at all. Dont give him anything else either.
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LEAVE. He is an abusive ASSHOLE & will only get worse!!
Go back home and stay there. Your not a door mat
Baby, he switched up.
He got what he wanted and then took off his mask.
I’m so incredibly sorry.
Certainly stress, it can trigger shitty behaviour, but it sounds like you’re dealing with a narcissist.
You best be running in the opposite direction.
Not normal. Get your stuff and go back home. He’s being mentally abusing and sounds like a total jerk. If it’s this way now it’s just going to get worse since you’re now isolated away from your family.
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Do not put up with this jerk another minute! Living under a tree would be better way to live!
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You need to dump that idiot befie he snaps. Men should always show respect her and treat her like his queen. Do not marry him the Red flag is waving in your face
Run fast run far before he has time to do worse. It’s time to GTFO!!!
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Get on the bus and head back!
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You should go back home and that’s it for him.
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Go back where you were. Dump his sorry ass.
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All of what you described is abuse. Go back home.
I moved away from everyone once with a guy and then everything changed too. Go back home
Get the heck out of there- this is NOT normal! Call friends, family whatever in order to get you home! Do not wait - sounds like it’s not far from escalating to violence. Run!
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Exactly Francine Krotzer! This guy obviously resents having someone liveing with him. He doesn’t like sharing or the added responsibility. He got what he wanted and now she needs to get up enough money to get out!
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No matter how hard it is, leave don’t walk RUN .Best wishes, save yourself
How old are both of you??? He’s Not treating u like an equal-unless your his business partner and even then he shouldn’t b verbally n emotionally abusive. Plz plz do Not let yourself get pregnant by him it would only get worse!!! I would pack my things up n move back home while he’s at work!!! Don’t leave him a note!!! I would also take him to small claims court to get your thousand dollars back in whatever county u bought the tires from. I’m so sorry this happened to you!!! Good luck to u.
If you don’t get out of there and go back home. Get away from him NOW! It will not get better only worse. RUN!!
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That’s the classic narcissistic move. They get you away from your family, your friends, anyone you know and without a way of going. Once they get you there, the mental abuse starts to where your emotions, your self esteem, your anxiety levels are everywhere to the point you start questioning yourself (prime example: what you’re doing). Knowing that you’re so lost that you’re questioning and away from everyone, you can be treated however and whenever by them that there’s nothing you can do… Classic case turned to DV. It is only going to get worse. That “tough love” that he’s talking about is going to be tough love alright, from words to physical. Now, we can’t tell you what to do and not everyone’s situation is the exact same but those signs are so unique that we recognize them when you’ve been through it. Run! Run like hell! Call your family, your friends… something and cut your losses. Save yourself before something beyond imaginable happens to you! Stay safe and good luck 
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Go back home! Go get your job back! Don’t settle
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Leave him now or as soon as you are able
Go back home. He is a narcissist and an abuser. He’s using u as an opportunity and as a psychological punching bag. U dont need to put up w BS like tht. Go back home. That’s not love. My exhusband also used the word “tough love” ik all about it… LEAVE! GO BACK HOME WHERE U ARE SAFE
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Call your job and tell them “happy April fools” go back ASAP and block that guy. His behavior is unacceptable. They DON’T change but get worse.
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Yeah don’t settle just leave now while you can… he’s obviously using you
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Go home honey, it’s not going to get better. Go back to the people who love you
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Swift kick in the gonads to get his attention then talk to him
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yes, leave this douche bag and go home. he’s NOT WORTH IT.
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Go back home and try to get your job back
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Thats some emotion verbal abuse your getting from him. Leave now. Make him pay you back. Look you need to put yourself first. Love you. He doesn’t love you!!! Love never hurts. Tough love is not abusive. Is this the kind of guy you want a future with and bring kids into the world with? He’s going to abuse your kids physically and call it tough love. You need to look at what the future looks like. Go to unemployment office, and they can help you look for work. If you have to apply for general assistance and food stamps, do it and don’t tell him. Save enough money and get out of there. There are domestic violence shelter that let you live for free. You just need to google them. Run now before its too late
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Go back to your home town
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I didn’t even read but a few lines of your post sis, and noticed all the red flags. Runnn
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He wants to push you away. It sounds like he was using you and now there is nothing left to take.
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Please listen to everyone saying go back home. You deserve so much better then this.
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Time to call up any family and friends and get them to fund you a one-way ticket home.
He’s a malignant abuser. And you need to run before he escalates.
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Leave he’s the one with a major problem do not let noone put you down it will just get worse !!!
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Go home babygirl. It isn’t even worth it. You’ll always feel like you’re not doing enough if he’s around and when you do get on your feet, if your excelling past him, you’ll get put down even more. LEAVE. That’s it, that’s all. Just LEAVE.
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Leave….and leave now! Go back girl! This road you’re on with him doesn’t lead to anything good! He’s showing you now! That’s not tough love
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Sounds to me like you’ve been taking care of him. Go home and get on with your life you’ll be much happier. You don’t need to be used.
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Leave. Go back and don’t look back.
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Leave now. This is abuse. He has you isolated away from everyone you know and knows it. It will get worse, it will turn violent. Please leave
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My advice is get on the first plane back home and never look back. 
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Move back home. This is not going to end well for you.
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l get paid over $137 per hour working from home. l never thought I’d be able to do it but my buddy makes over $19190 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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Move back home and forget him
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Get out of that situation as soon as you possibly can because he is abusive and it might be only verbal and mental now but that can and most likely turn physical with time. Please leave him, go to a shelter or back with family. Anywhere else but continuing to endure that with him.
Go home, honey. It will just get worse. The line of disrespect towards you have been crossed. Cut your losses now. Write him off like bad debt. Go home and go heal your spirit, your soul.
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Walk away. It won’t change.
He’s a narcissist. Get out!!!
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Leave it’s not worth it if he is being like this while you have know one around he is going to start hitting you so you better step up and leave quick
Run home as fast as you can and don’t look back! Red flags all over that situation!
Wish we had updates on these advice columns.
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move back, leave. you made a mistake especially if he was acting like this before you even moved.
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If he like this after u have only been there 4 days can u imagine how much worse it is going to get. When he goes to work pack your bags and leave while u can, this isnt love its control so run while u can
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You stated he has acted like this now and prior? The prior means your 1st mistake was moving with him. Those actions were your precursor to the here and now. He knows you are now at his mercy and it will only get worse. Do whatever you can to get back home and change your numbers!
Don’t walk away run!!!
So many red flags. He’s abusive and abuse isn’t always physical. The mental and emotional abuse is still abuse. He’s used you for what he could get and now he’s done and he’s showing you now what he is. It’s just gonna get worse! Run!
RUN back home…it’s just the beginning!!!
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Sounds like he is one of those men who think women are suppose to work and pay their share of the bills. I call them a 50/50 Idiot. Better if he is t in your life.
He purposely took you there, so you feel trapped… Move while you can!
He is doing this because he thinks “she’s stuck, she has nowhere to go, I got her now, she won’t leave now” and he’s a manipulative narcissist in need of controlling you and degrading you and beating you down to make himself feel better. You need to leave. You do. If you don’t, 10 years from now you’ll be so beat down you won’t even recognize the tiny sad shell of a woman you’ve become and you’ll wonder how you got here and start blaming yourself because that’s now your learned behavior from your boyfriend.
No guy is worth losing your own worth. KNOW your worth. And settle for no less.
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