Why is my boyfriend acting this way?

Go back home sweet heart only going to get worse for you :heavy_heart_exclamation:

Run away and don’t look back!!

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See if you can get your job back, it’s not going to get better.

Get out he’s using you not a boyfriend who belittles you…not worth it. It’s hard finding a job in a new place, he’s a big AH.

Uhh sounds like you never should have moved with someone who talks to you or treats you like that! I’d be trying to get ahold of family wherever you came from and hope they will help you out of this bad situation before it gets HORRIBLE; and it sounds like it’s well on its way. You deserve better than that, he’ll anyway does.

Get the fuck out now!!! You moved for him and now he’s got control, or so he thinks. You need to take control and get away from him. Or stay and be miserable and continue asking for advice on what to do. It’s never gonna change.

Go back home. Now. Just GO.

Not normal and not okay!

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Pack your bags and go back to where you come from…Not Kidding !!!

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Leave as soon as possible. Do not let yourself get pregnant by this controlling loser! Get out, while you still can. With this idiot, there is a reason he was single, when you found him. ~He is no prize!

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Go back home!
Try to get ur job back!

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Leave him before he gets to much of a hold on you. You don’t deserve to be treated like that by anyone let him stew the chauvinistic bleep bleep

Give me his name and address and I can give him a taste of his own medicine…men like this piss me off

Get rid of him. He doesn’t appreciate you

My advice is to move back, he sounds horrible and you don’t need a man like that!!

Men are supposed to love and protect you. Not treat you like you are worthless. Take it from me, leave NOW before he starts hitting you and calling it tough love. You don’t want to have kids with him either cause those kids are going to grow up watching mommy get a beat down…. So you want that for future kids??? Please just leave asap

I’d be moving right back out to a friend’s wherever you can find or move in with family. I wouldn’t be giving him another penny.

Run Honey Run don’t ask stupid questions just run

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Get out now! It does not change

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Leave go back to ur old job his not ur husband or husband material run will not get any better :triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post::triangular_flag_on_post:

Men normally starts acting that way… When there’s someone else on the scene.

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He is abusive, leave as it will only get worse!

Pack up, and LEAVE. NOW. It will only get worse the more comfortable he gets and the more isolated you are.

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Go home. He will only get worse more controlling etc.

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Find the cheapest plane ticket and fly back home…

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GO HOME! Take it from someone who dealt with it, he WILL NOT CHANGE. He got what he wanted, to get you away from friends and family so he can make you his puppet

This is only the beginning of an abusive relationship.
Get out now. Trust me

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Say bye. Don’t let anyone treat you that way. :heart:

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He was treating you like crap before you moved… you thought it would get better when you got there…?

DO you want to live the rest of your life like this RUN NOW

Oh honey😢 People like them see the beauty in people & want to diminish it. Run & don’t let him see it coming

Move back home YOU WILL NOT BE HAPPY RUUUNNNN

Get away while you can.

Dump his ass! How do you say narcissistic? You deserve better and need to repeat that to yourself every day :two_hearts:

Go back home… you’ll find someone better

Stupid bully he is :rage:

go back… he did it to break you… go home & break up with him… hes showing you how he actually feels about you… believe it

I’d be heading back home

Girl RUN! He doesn’t love you he WANTS to control you

Leave! Get away! This behavior just gets worse. It’ll turn physical and possibly deadly.
RUN AND DON’T LOOK BACK & DON’T GIVE HIM A HEADS UP, JUST GO!
PRAYERS FOR YOU TO BE SAFE AND SOUND​:pray::pray:

He is user and not a good person. Eat your losses and go back home, You will be better off.

Get the hell out of there NOW He’s the one that is worthless by treating you like that. Run

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Absolutely. Do what it takes to get away from him. A long way. And don’t let him know where you are.

You need a job and a better man I’ll help you out with that skip that dude and if he threatens to hunt you down no worries we got that all under control

At first they start with the degrading then move on to physical abuse, get out now and fast.

He sounds like a narcissist.

When a person shows you their true colors…

Believe them the first time you see it.

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Why are you still there, go back home

Start planning your exit…do not let him know. Just leave and he can figure it out later.
Do not look back!

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Get out while you can!!

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Sounds like my ex from several years ago. He Would always tear me apart, and I put a $2500.00 down deposit on “our” truck he got us, even though he had a good paying job, but i payed 100% with my own money. Only to find out he was cheating shortly after and he even threatened me when I found out.

Hunny, you don’t deserve this. No one does, please find the strength to leave. I know its easier said than done, but you will feel so much better once you do❤

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Run. Don’t walk. Get the hell out of there and don’t look back.

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Maybe your old job will take you back the worst they can say is no

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Ask yourself if you could ever imagine calling your mother useless, your best friend, your child if you had one. I would venture to guess you wouldn’t dare, because that’s hurtful and you don’t want to hurt them. Even unintentionally or by accident would I ever tell my mother she was useless.

Ask yourself how he is able to say it so carelessly and seemingly without remorse, not to mention repeatedly to you?

Coming from someone who just left an extremely mentally abusive relationship of 14 years, you’re not going to get bigger, bolder and more profound red flags than the ones you’re getting now.

You’re gut is telling you something isn’t right, otherwise you wouldn’t have sought comfort in strangers advice.

Please do yourself a favor and trust that intuition, the FIRST time. Never accepting cruel behavior is standing up for yourself. You’re not useless, and you matter. You’re not stupid, you’re brave for taking risks and moving across country. I wouldn’t want anyone going thru the life long trauma if this were to continue. Just really listen to what you are telling you. We tend to ignore things in hopes they improve but 99% of the time we’re just simply ignoring what we’ve known all along.

If it feels wrong or icky, it is. And you deserve much more than what this insecure boy is offering you. Ending it might be hard, but trust me when I say this, staying for a longer duration and trying to get out is even harder.

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Go back home now and leave his sorry butt there

Run love. Before it’s to late go home to your family. He has isolated you and now your alone he will just get worse he will continue to break you down piece by piece till he controls every aspect of your life and mind. Run my sweet while you still know this is not normal while you still have the strength xx

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He’s a control freak he took you away from your family on purpose so he can have complete control over you get out get out now or you will be sorry

Narcissist and it’s bad. Happened ti myself 6 years finally left

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Time for you to move on, no one needs this type of treatment!

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Go back where you are appreciated, never allow anyone to put you down especially if your helping out. Couples should respect one other if that not there and you are being called negative words thats verbal abuse

Grab a suitcase pack and leave. It’s NOT worth it.

Or be what he says.

Go back home. Beg your boss for your job back. Close this chapter with a slammed, bolted door. Your BF shows all the red flags of being an abuser.

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If you don’t have a car,call your family. Someone I’m sure will help you get home. Don’t put up with that you deserve better girl

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Go back ot won’t get better. He just let you know who he really is. Not worth it. Right off what you gave him and g r the out.

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Narcissist. He will
Suck the life out of you. Your worth so much more. Go back!

Leave his sorry a-- Immediately!!!

Just leave. That behaviour might get worse or just continue like that and make you unhappy for no reason. Please save yourself.

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Pack your bags and go back to where you came from… back to family and friends and supporters…
You don’t need him and he won’t change… in fact it will gets worse

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If possible, move tf back home. Reach out to your old job first & see if they are willing to take you back. It will only get worse. If he doesn’t value or respect you enough, that’s it.

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Leave girl. Why u here asking us anything??

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Yes go back where you came from ! If this is happening only 4 days I. It will only get worse! Get lout before you have children with him and feel like you are stuck! Cut your losses

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Run as fast as you can!!!

Alot of times abusive men will isolate you like move you away from friends and family and then get more and more abusive and controlling. It’s one of their tactics. Try to have a serious conversation with him letting him know you are not going to take this and if it doesn’t immediately change, you need to run. Go back home. I’m so sorry he is doing this. I pray for the best for you :pray:

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Prob been his plan all along to get you away from friends n family so go back to what you know as he doesn’t deserve you

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Narcissists behave this way… my advice… run away… run far run fast and don’t look back… go no contact immediately… go before he does anymore damage… cut your losses and don’t worry about getting paid back cause you won’t… it’s only going to get worse

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Please get back home asap. It only gets worse. He had you where he wanted you and right now you have nothing to offer him and you are seeing his real feelings about you. Please listen to someone with experience. He has mental issues that you can’t help him with. If I were you, I would run with no explanation. Get back home. Call family and friends and let them know what you are going thru. Do not tell your boyfriend. If he thinks you will run what do you think he might do to you. Please leave on a greyhound bus now

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Move back even if it’s rooming with a stranger on their couch. That dude is bad news and won’t get better!

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Get away from him !! Been their done that !! He’s not your guy :ok_hand:t2: it will only get worse

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As soon as he goes to work. Get your thing’s & leave. Go back home. Trust me it only get’s worse.

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Get a job and get out

I didn’t even finish reading this. Go home! GO HOME!!!

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Run home!!! Hes an abuser and it will get worse.

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Run and don’t look back.

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If he doesn’t treat you with respect now it won’t get any better in the future. Don’t sell your self short. Get out now.

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He wants you to leave, that’s why he’s picking on you

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He don’t value you go home he toxic

You don’t give money to any man.
That was your first mistake.
You don’t move across country for a jerk like that.
Count your loses and go back home, it will only get worse. That’s a fact

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He’s toxic, go home! No question.

Go back home it will only get worse now that he has you isolated

Move back and cut your losses. This is only the beginning.

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Leave him, that’s abuse and will only get worse.

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Go home and never look back.

Go home girl…only gets worse

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Go Home, you should not be allowing him to talk to you like that. Run Girl Run!

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Please go back home and don’t take him back when he talks sweet. TRUST ME.

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Call your previous employer to see if you can get your job back and get a bus ticket and head home.

Move back home, it’s only gonna get worse if you stay

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His actions say it all. His words helped lure you in and leech off of you before he discards you after taking everything from you. He will get worse and worse until you’re forced to leave and go back home or find yourself another place to live. Please don’t hold onto the person he was before. That was all a mask and now he doesn’t have to wear it anymore. You will only waste your time, whatever money you have left, and your happiness if you continue to stay. Someone who truly loves you will never treat you this way. Especially knowing they asked you to sacrifice everything you had to move and be with them. Just pack your things and leave- he will beg for you to stay because people like him can’t be alone. Then the cycle repeats itself… I did this before- now that I’m older- the one thing I regret was wasting my time. You can’t ever get that back.

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You are acting like his mother.

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Leave and don’t look back! U don’t deserve the abuse and it will prob get worse. He used u for tires, rent and cash and then is nasty to u.

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