Hi! Not exactly a mama question, but I would love opinions/ideas pls. I have been with my hubby for 32 years, married 28 have three grown kids. We got married at 18 and 21 our parents found out I was five mths pg. And had a quick courthouse wedding, no pics, nothing. This was really not what we wanted but at the time had no choice because of our parents. We wanted to get married but not this way. Would it be weird or crazy if our 30 year anniversary we have a wedding?? Does anyone have any advice?
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Do it! Itâs not weird at all. So many people have renewed their vows and had a bigger wedding later. Thatâs what my plan is. We got married at a lawyerâs office with very few people there. We wanted kids and I was getting older. Plus we didnât want to start our marriage in debt. We will do bigger wedding later in life
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Not weird at all. Everyone deserves to have a proper weddingâ:blush:
Definitely not weird . Do whatever makes you happy .
Thatâs sounds wonderful!! My parent never had a wedding until theyâre 25th
Go for it!!! I think itâs an incredible idea
A vow renewal is cool. Go for it!
Definitely not wierd itâs super cute 
go for it love
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Think that be lovely
Why not do it renew your vows and have the wedding you both want 30 years married is incredible in this day and age xxxx
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You should totally have a wedding, white dress and all! 
A 30 year wedding anniversary is pearlâŚ.just like 25 is silver & 50 is GoldâŚ.Do it!!!
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I believe it would be a wonderful way to celebrateâ:balloon:
Wouldnât even hesitate you do you! Xx
You guys SHOULD ABSOLUTELY HAVE A WEDDING 
Not weird at all! Someday Iâd love to have my wedding the way I want. Lol
Absolutely do it! Marriages donât seem to last these days! Celebrate your accomplishments! Congratulations to you both! We are approaching 39 years in OctđĽ°
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Why Not? I think it would be WONDERFUL! Just go for it!
Absolutely not! We did the same thing and once we get some extra money we will be having one!
Do it ⌠do it ⌠do it and take bunches of pictures
You go and do it your way as if you was planning on doing it
Vow renewal⌠Yesss!!!
Do like a vowel renewal or just have a reception type thing to celebrate!
That would be very nice,awesome idea
Definitely do that.
I believe it would be like a vow renewal wouldnât it?
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Yes do it! My husband and I plan on renewing our vows for our 10 year anniversaryâ¤ď¸
Make your hearts smile. Congratulations on ur up coming nuptials! Happy Wedding Day đŠââ¤âđ¨:ring:
If you want it. DO IT.
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Yes do it! 30 years together is definitely something to celebrate 
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Plan and have your beautiful wedding.
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D o the wedding. Have fun and enjoy the excitement of it all.
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Got for it. U deserve it
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go for it and confirm your vows most churches are willing
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Go for it my mum and step dad did after 34 years xx
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Not weird. But the way the last few years have been . I say DONâT do it. I know 3 couples together 10 plus years one for 21 years. They got married 2019 and 2020. All 3 are seperstedđ might be a jinx
anything goes nowadaysâI say go for it!!
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Not odd at all, renewals are definitely a thing!
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I think itâs a wonderful idea, you should do it.
It would actually be a vow renewal and itâs a wonderful idea!
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Shoot! You made it that long. Girl you do whatever you want!! Congratulations. Happy wedding day
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i think it would be lovely x
Have a Wonderful Wedding! Enjoy!
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Yes do the wedding of your dreams
Life too short! Do want you wAnt you what to do !
Your life, your decision! It should not matter what other people think!!!
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Not at all, have your wedding .
Do it,as a jeweler Iâve seen this a lot,especially if the couple is wealthier nowâŚthey do upgrade the rings and held another wedding ceremony only with close friends and family
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Not at all odd! 1 itâs something you guys wanna do and 2 honestly being married for 30 years is something to celebrate! Congratulations! I hope you have the best wedding!
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Why not? You could very much renew your vows! My parents have done it I think for one of their wedding anniversaries (I think their 20th, maybe??? I donât remember, I was younger when it happened.
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Not weird at all. Lots of ppl ârenewâ their vows at 20, 30, 40yrs of marriage.
Itâll be perfect
Congrats!!!
U should do it! Ur love has withstood the test of time, celebrate it 
congrats to u both x
Go for it!!! Donât worry about what other people think.
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Not wierd at all. I married my husband in the court house. We canceled our chruch wedding plans when we found out I was pregnant and decided to do a courhouse wedding. We married the night before I went into labor. We have talked about getting married in the church and having a reception in the future. 30 years together is definitely something to celebrate so go for it
Heck no! God for it!!!
Have the wedding youâve always wanted!!!
People do all the time!!! Have a great renewal Wedding/Anniversary!!!
Of course its never to late to have a wedding⌠its a renewal by then. Have your dream wedding yâall.
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Yes. Do a vow renewal. The way you want.
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I think it would be awesome. Have your day and enjoy.
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Renew your vows and have the wedding you always dreamed of. Thatâs not weird. I hope you do it.
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Do it! Itâll be your vow renewal! Do all the things you didnât get to have the first time!
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We just had our 50 th vowels redone, and had our grandchildren stood up with us. Life is to short. 30 years, you deserve it.
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Have the Wedding you allways wanted!!
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Go for it if thatâs what you both want.
Do it have the wedding youve always dreamed of!
NOT AT ALL! You celebrate your love!
Renew vowels with big white dress and all the trimmings x
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My parents got remarried for their 25th anniversary and it was beautiful. It was nice as their adult children could all be there to see it 
Thatâs a wonderful idea
Have your wedding! Donât lose your opportunity!
You will always regret it if you donât !
I would do an anniversary party!
I wouldnât have a wedding, Iâd have a vow renewal ceremony. You can still have your vows, cake,meal reception & dance, pictures taken.
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Absolutely! Plus youâre grown ass people and can celebrate what you want and how you want.
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Itâs 2021! Do a wedding and the way you want! Who cares what others think! Everyone loves weddings and if they are real family and friends they will come no matter how long you have been together
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Fantastic very memorable
I love that idea
Have the wedding of your dreams
I think vow renewals are beautiful. Iâd do it.
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I think it would be WONDERFUL!!
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I say go for it. Have whatever kind of wedding/vow renewal that you dream of!!
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100% you should do it! 
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If you still wanna get married after 30 years, ainât that the most beautiful thing!
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I think that would be fantastic. Many couples renew their vowels on their Wedding Anniversary. Have your full wedding day.
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I know of quite a few people who have done this and think itâs beautiful. I belive people call it ârenewing their vowsâ⌠Do it gurl!!! Will be another beautiful night to remember 
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I know a lot of people that have another ceremony on their anniversary.
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People renew Vows All The time for an Anniversary! You Two should have a Party And Enjoy!
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Do it. You can still have your dream wedding
Do your dream if you have the money an both of u want it, i woukd in a second if he hadnt taken my youth an then divorced me in my old age
We did a renewal of our vows for our 25. It was amazing.
I donât see anything wrong with it I plan on doing a vow renewal one day
Itâs never too late !! Go for it itâll
Be the best day ever
Simple: live your life to the fullest
It would be lovely 
Follow your heart itâs not crazy at all to celebrate your love and devotion to one another no matter how many years
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I knew a couple that had a renewal ceremony for their 50th. Itâs not uncommon.
I also want to do this, renew our vows.
Renew your wedding vows⌠and have a little ceremony. My parents did this on their 50th anniversary and it was so beautiful⌠They eloped and we did this for meâŚ
i love this idea, do it !
No way! Do
It! Do
You!