Narcissistic for sure
Read up on DARVO. And then DTMFA.
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I’d tell him to go to hell real fast!
This year is ending and a new one will soon begin how are you going to live it putting up with a dumbass narcissistic male or go onto new and better things this one’s a waste of time
Youre not being childish, your husband is sick
Sounds like he likes to be centre of attention and will degrade you to get it. Can I ask why you stick with someone that treats you like a door mat. His true colours really show when he’s around his family
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Offended or not he’s an ass. So is his family. All they care about is social status and public image. I know because I come from a family like this. I’m trying to break that cycle
Narcissist get out! I know most people just seen this Gabby P case that just happened. That dude did similar things. It’s definitely a red flag babe!
Pull him up if he continues tell him there’s the door don’t let it hit you on the way out
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Call him out, he’s a pig. He’s not even with the times. Nope I couldn’t live like that. My husband, tonight he cooked us dinner. He brings it to me, we give and take. Were an equal team.
That is probably how he grew up with dad doing the same to his mum it is mental abuse and you shouldn’t have to go through it tell to stop or get rid
Narcissist!!! Look up the definition I bet it describes him!
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I would not go with him, after a few times of him not being by his self, he will either stop or get worse . Then you will know your answer. It also sounds like his family is egging it on.
He is disrespectful as hell and he is gaslighting you by sayinh you’re too sensative or childish… I am a Domestic Abuse survivor… my children’s father treated me the same way, especially around his family… I’ve left family events crying many times because of terrible things he said… he always told me I was too sensative, or that I am childish… but the funny thing is, he was the ONLY person in my life, either back then or now, that could make me feel like that… I am NOT overly sensative, I can definitely take a joke and am a very easy going person… but hear him tell it, I am sensative and need to grow up… Gaslighting 101 baby girl… that’s straight up verbal abuse. For some reason he feels the need to show off in front of his family and he thinks by tearing you down in front of them, its going to make himself look better by comparison. I left my abuser of 8 years and never looked back. We’ve been split for 2.5 years and I am a MUCH happier person. I set up healthy boundaries and reclaimed my life. I have zero regrets.
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I would tell him to get fucked and refuse to go with him see his family without him if u must but thats no way to treat anyone let alone your wife
I’m sorry but if I was you I’d be giving him a fat slap
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Welp… That will never change. You need to decide what you want to do with your life; is this the life you want? Are you happy? Are you willing to fight for yourself and your happiness? It’s not easy and it’s uncomfortable and scary. There’s always a lot of ‘what ifs’ and fears of loneliness and not finding another partner. Don’t let yourself be defeated. You have to fight for you. You are capable and worthy to have the best life. Be your own super hero. Set the example of what a super woman should look like.
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narsasist fucking run bitch or this guy will make you feel this is how you deserve to be treated. You think it’s hard but fuck me I promise the feeling in a month’s time when U get to be your real self will fucking out weigh the bad
Stuff that… childish behaviour. Deserve better 
Hes being abusive. Leave him
Wow gaslighting narcissistic POS I would not stay in that relationship your happiness and your self esteem matter he doesn’t cater to both of those he sounds like a nasty piece of work!
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As others have said….narcissist gaslighting you was the first thing that came to mind
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Your partner is a looser . Leave him find someone who treats you better
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Narcissist jerk of a husband you have. Call him out on it and if he can’t take ownership for it then you got some red flags to deal with.
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Go to relationship counselling so a 3rd party can tell him professionaly he’s a Dick. I wouldn’t be attending any family events in this situation.
He needs to go to therapy. He most likely grew up watching the men in his family do that to their wives so he thinks it’s okay. If you truly and honestly love him and don’t want to end the relationship have a talk with him about his actions and how it makes you feel and tell him he needs to go to therapy and sort out the problems caused from the way he was raised. And if he reacts poorly and gaslights you then you should probably just leave him because most of the time, men won’t change.
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Poor thing. divorce him and his family and run, run as fast as you can…
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He is definitely gaslighting. He’s begging to start crap, all in the name of trying to make himself look all big and bad. Well, it’s making him look exactly as he is…a gigantic ASS. Girl, you deserve better than that. Kick his narcissistic ass to the curb and find you a real man that can make you happy and you can do the same for him. Life is way too short to go thru it being miserable and mistreated, especially by someone that you love and trust. Best of luck to you.
He is one hell of a COWARD!!!
LEAVE HIM! He has no respect for you at all!! You don’t truly live someone and treat them like that!!!
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He is Very disrespectful
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He’s a narcissist. You’re not the problem.
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Stand up to him in front of his family. Embarrass him for being a douche bag…calmly call him out for his emotional abuse. Don’t be petty like I was when I called him a D-bag (even though it’s true) Be honest and articulate that being disrespected in that manor is not ok and will not be tolerated. Drive yourself and if he starts and doesn’t want to listen and be respectful leave him with his family.
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I would be offended. Imagine what he says when you aren’t around. I would not be going to his family’s house with him anymore
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I don’t usually just come on here and comment “leave”, but seriously: leave. You don’t need somebody belittling you and fuelling their ego at your expense. That’s not love. That’s not partnership.
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First I would have stood up for myself tell that man he needs to shut the he’ll up and tell him he ever talks like that to you again u will really be embarrassing when u walk the fuck out taking his hot single guy family member out with you … but no you need to tell that little bitch to fuck off he is no man …
You need to leave his pissy ass
Your " husband" needs to be put in his place. If you don’t stand up for yourself it will only get worse. In all honesty, he doesn’t deserve the title of husband because he obviously doesn’t know what that means. He is a pathetic bully.
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Definitely a narcissists gas lighting u… run
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You need to leave him and until then stop going around them with him.
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No. Your husband is trying to gaslight you,as if your feelings don’t matter and only his does. Classic narcissist, he is showing his red flags, you have to choose to see them.
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File for divorce, dont tell him
Get a tshirt printed “just lost x kgs” x being hs weight
Go one last time with him to hs family…wear the above tshirt under something
Wait for when hs excited and talkin walk up to him
Say :
“Shut up and sign”
Leave in an uber book in a hotel or stay with a few friends and move on
Think of yourself, do you want this life forever? If not tell him it stops or you walk. And follow through, if he doesn’t stop you know you tried and he didn’t want too. While giving him t h e chance to act human be preparing to go so you can walk if he doesn’t change. Only give him the one chance to change if he makes no effort then you will be financially and physically ready to move out and on with your life.
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It sounds to me like you need to get out of that relationship. It’s not healthy for either of you. If he expects a woman to raise the old fashion way then he certainly doesn’t belong with you and if you’re married to him, it’s time for a divorce.
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Are you stupid get rid of him
This just means he’s saying worse behind your back!
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I’m not going around the in laws anymore. Of that’s a problem then I’m leaving the whole relationship
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Personally, I like to tell my husband to his face, as soon as he says stuff like that, not caring who is around, ‘why are you being rude?’ ‘don’t be rude to me in public’ ‘well that was an unnecessary comment’ or anything to that extent. I’ve learned that I can stand up for myself without being rude myself. So he looks like the rude person he is acting like. 
To sensitive…sounds to me like you’re the victim of a narcissist. That’s thier favorite line, you’re crazy, you’re to sensitive.
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One other thing…why would you stay with anyone who tries to downgrade you in such a disgusting way. Love uplifts not downgrades.
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Run while you still can have a clean break.
Your partner shouldn’t bring you down. You both are to help each other, support each other, you both know each other’s flaws but the thing is, why is he using them to put you down…. is he trying to make himself look good, does he like feeling superior to you, is this one of those “old fashion” trait he has picked up on that men are above women….
There are some red flags girl. Talk to him and if all he does is gas light your feelings and you feel like you need to apologize when in fact you are the one hurting and trying to resolve an issue before it causes resentment.
Best advice I ever got was if your daughter/son was in this issue what would you tell them to do.
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Nope and the fact his family don’t tell him stop being a ass is pretty shitty too
He’s abusive, take care of yourself. You don’t have to take his bs.
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Your husband is gaslighting you and this is a huge red flag for narcissistic behavior. Also his family sounds toxic and i would just say no to going around them anymore. Let him go and you stay home and enjoy a glass of wine with your dog, who sounds better than your husband or his family.
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Leave his butt NOW !!!
Nope. Get out. Now!!!
This is on him.
You’ve told him how it upset you and he keeps exhibiting the same behavior. Just happens more around his family.
He’s trying to gaslight you into believing it’s your fault instead of fixing the problem.
If he doesn’t care about embarrassing you, stop trying to do the polite thing. When he does things that hurt your feelings, call him out for it regardless of where he is. He’s obviously most comfortable putting you down in front of his family so you’ll probably have to correct him in front of them.
“I do not understand what point you are trying to make with this statement; and the way your saying it makes me feel hurt and disrespected.”
“I understand you may not agree, but it is how I feel.”
I feel statements are preferred. Helps not to feel like you are blaming but just explaining how those statements affect you.
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Leave. He is scapegoating you to score points with his family. This male lacks courage. He is acting narcissistic around his family. Don’t go to his family’s place, ever. This is all happening due to his role in his dysfunctional family. Have boundaries. Get a book on boundaries. Get a book on narcissistic abuse. Educate yourself to empower your decisions.
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I’d leave. Disrespect is disrespect and if anyone doesn’t treat me like their equal I remove myself from the equation. You handled the situation appropriately aside from staying with him. People don’t change. He treated you horribly and most likely will do it again when given the opportunity.
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Pack his bags! If he won’t go then leave him. Disgusting behaviour 
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Leave he has no respect and he will never defend you or start treating him like that even when your at home give him a taste of his own medicine make comments about his career or be rude an point out his hurt feelings then maybe he will change I doubt it but really it’s your only two choices as I don’t see talking to him like a mature adult will do any good since he sounds like he’s 5
Leave! That’s emotional and mental abuse.
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It’s verbal abuse. Run, don’t walk away.
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I would have told him to F— OFF in 4 different ways, if my husband EVER spoke to me like that, especially in front of his Family! Let me give you a REAL reason to be embarrassed! JERK.
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Yes he’s a dick!! Should always back your wife up against anyone!!
Do you have any children? If Not, I would find a place ( storage, friend or family) and slowly move my things out. Then I would get Divorce papers and give it to him in front of his family. And then walk out.
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Know your place lmao
You’re not wrong to feel embarrassed and hurt. You don’t deserve that sort of disrespect.
I would have been livid!!! I’m sorry but he’s a prick and you deserve better
I don’t know how long you have been with man but one more day is to long. You don’t deserve to be degraded by the guy. That’s abuse.
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Wow just wow. You never deserve someone like this. Sounds like he’s making an ass out of himself around his family. He’s embarrassed, what the heck about you. Is he that blind not to see what he’s doing to you. You should talk to him, then decide if you wanna stay,or leave. I have feeling it’s more than just his family. I wonder if he does this kind of thing at work with his buddies or anyone for that fact. This is just horrible thing to do. This makes me upset. I’m so sorry you have to go through this, especially it being around holidays 
What a prick! Seriously id pack my bags and leave his ass in the dust. How he call himself a man when hes treating you like this? Get out girl fr!
Why did you sit in the car? I would’ve gone home and left his clown ass there to figure out his own way home. Then the doors would’ve been locked.
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Fuckkk him. Blunt but wow. Run
How dare he treat his wife in such a way. He sounds like a jerk that needs to grow up. Sorry your married to him.
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Why have you let him talk to you like this!?! If that was my husband I would have stopped him in his tracks and in front of everyone I would have said… don’t you EVER talk to me like that again or I will see you in court!!!
You sound like a softie. I wish my husband would let me rip a hole in his ass, his ego and pride with that bullshit. Sis u need to answer him so what if he gets mad! He’ll know who he playing with in a second
F**k being treated like that. He’s not worth it.
He is not a very loving husband to treat you like that. What kind of husband would do that to his wife?? Sorry, but he is a HUGE JERK!!