He is definitely a narcissist and he thinks by cracking g jokes about u is entertainment to his family get ur shit and get out
You’re a woman! Stand up and be a woman not some little girl that allows people to talk down to you. Leave that man now! Run don’t walk, he is an insensitive A hole!!
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Dam… leave him. That shit is about to escalate.
I would b leaving his butt
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING WITH THIS ASS? Honey he is abusing you, realize it or you will continue to be hurt by him. NO ONE Deserves this kind of treatment. Love has got nothing to do with it. He’s acting superior to you in front of his family. I’d tell the s o b stop it & stop it now or I’m not going with you to be embarassed by you. How does his family act when he says these hurtful things to you? No woman should be disrespected like this. Put your foot down or get out of this 1/2 assed marriage.
Narcissistic as*hole! Run! And don’t look back!
This is mental manipulation and it’s a form of domestic abuse…… you need to figure out if this is something you can continue with, if he will listen if you have this discussion with him or if this is something you need to leave x
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You’re not being childish. He’s a dick.
You know in your heart what you need to do, so do it. Life does go on after a separation, & if your trying to raise kids in this mess what are you teaching them. That it’s ok to be demeaning, hurtful, disrespectful, have no feelings of empathy towards the way he makes you feel, to be a bully is that ok? I’d would have been gone at first time he disrespected me especially in front of family. Does his Mom or sisters think this is ok? IT IS NOT!!
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After I slapped him silly then I’d tell him to get lost and not to let the door hit on the behind on his way out
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He sounds like a real dick that gets off on making you feel bad. It might be time to consider a divorce.
Divorce him what a muppet
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That is gas Lighting one of the many forms of abuse. Feelings happen, and feelings matter, and if he makes you feel like your feelings don’t matter than he is a jerk!
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He’s a narcissist!! U deserve so much more!!!
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Fuck him & his family! I said it!
Has he always done this? I’m just asking, because what you allow will continue and your feelings are valid. That’s extremely immature on his part and I would be hurt and angry if my husband deliberately tried to humiliate me.
This is him and he will not change, start saving and planning quietly…
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If this were your daughter saying this to you, what would be your advice to her??? Well that’s what you should do!
He trying to show out for his family & that isn’t right . You deserve to be with someone who’s family treats you like family & a man that doesn’t talk bad about you to anyone & a man should be proud of his women & want his women to get along with his family … it will not get any better tell you walk away & find better even tho I understand it isn’t easy to just leave but sometimes you gotta make hard choices if you want change…
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Gaslighting at its finest.
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He is being disrespectful as hell. Stand up to him
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Stand up to him when he starts talking like that… tell him not to interrupt you. Speak up!
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Leave. You deserve so much more.
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I would let him have it with my words keep it classy but speak up for yourself. Then instead of waiting in the car I would leave home in the car.
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What would you tell any young girl if they told you this was happening to them? You’d tell them to love themselves enough to leave. That’s exactly what you need to do. NOBODY has a right to verbally embarrass and abuse you.
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He does this around his family because that’s how they raised him. My ex mother in law would have knocked my ex upside his head. Get out now
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Start staying home and let him go by himself
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What an A**. Maybe counseling would help or maybe refuse to go to his family’s home anymore unless he can control his misogynistic comments and disgusting treatment of his wife to make himself look more manly. The only thing he’s proving is how petty and mean he can be. On a personal note, I would rather be alone than treated that way. I’m so sorry for you and even a dog deserves more respect than you’re receiving.
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He’s verbally abusing you. Get out now.
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He won’t change and the abuse will get worse
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Leave but when he does this speak back and talk shit and treat him back only way he’ll get embarrassed back. He won’t like a taste of his own medicine.
He puts you down to try make himself look better. First of all my husband would never talk to me like that. I would have got up and got in the car and drove home.
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There were warning bells going off louder and louder the more of your story you I read. He sounds like an abuser and nothing you ever do will be good enough and he will blame you for his fragile ego as long as you allow him to!!
Offer to see a therapist but don’t be surprised if he refuses or he is dishonest and manipulative to make you look bad to them!!
The abuse will escalate if you stay!!
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Get out now! Horrible and it will just get worse. Leave
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He is very disrespect and generally a bad person … If leaving him is an option you should get yourself a good lawyer and do it … He is emotionally abusing you … You deserve much better …
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Sounds like a jerk, trying to look important.
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What an as***** just don’t go and if he whines and gets angry just tell him you deserve respect and won’t accept his behaviour… he gets mad its not your problem and he can just deal with it until he forgets…
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I’d knee him in the nuts, watch him cower like a little punk and go oh look, here he goes crying. But I know my worth.
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Wow…maybe u should degrade him publicly and see how he likes it…
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What a douche bag 
you deserve better than that! I’d dump his sorry butt and move on with my life! Find you a real man!
Why do women stay with men like this? My first was a lot like this and I was afraid to leave, or ask for a divorce because of his temper. He met someone else and asked me for a divorce. I was so happy but had no idea how I would support a 4 year old and a 6 month old, but we figured it out.
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I would be offended. Bc he is being disrespectful you are offended. Don’t let him switch it around and make it your issue. Sounds narcissistic to me.
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Nope, he sounds like a dick that gets off on belittling you in front of his family to feel like “a man”. I wouldn’t put up with any of that… I damn sure wouldn’t go around his family if they’re going to make shitty remark’s about you. You married the man not the family! If you feel uncomfortable with the way they or he speaks towards you don’t go to these types of gatherings until they can grow up and be respectful. That whole “you embarrassed him” is him trying to manipulate you.
Don’t fall for it… Stand your ground!
You are SUPPOSED to be his Wife. He is SUPPOSED to treat you like a Queen!! SHAME ON HIM:-1:t4:
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I would say good bye.
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What an ass. To be honest I would get a divorce and move on. I’m sorry you shouldn’t get treated like this
He’s trying to look like the big man with his family. Maybe he’s insecure that they don’t see him as “The Man” in the house if the other guys have submissive wives? Obviously he knows he was an ass about it and feels bad enough to be defensive, but not bad enough to apologize. The time for this conversation if before you go around his family. Also, driving your own car over let’s you escape with the “I need to get home early” excuse.
Abuse! that’s not how you treat someone you are supposed to love
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It will only get worse
Very disrespectful and abusive behavior. You don’t deserve to be treated this way. Would he want his daughter, mother or sister to be treated like this? Run far !!
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He abused you. Disrespected you. Then gaslighted you. It sounded like his family said nothing so they approve of his abuse. Do you want to put up with this for the rest of your life?
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All I can say is he better be glad it’s you & not me… he’s learn REAL quick just how much I could embarrass him!!! If you are able to, I’d head for a divorce attorney!
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He will never change his ways… you need to decide if you want to continue to be his personal punching bag or if you want to be to treated with respect like you should be… if it were me I would leave and never look back… there are plenty of good men out there looking for a good woman… I would rather be alone than be with a man that treats me like that!
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Leave his ass…he’s publicly embarrassing you, belittling you and expects you to be “happy-go-lucky…here let me cater to you and gravel in your presence”?!
You’re worth so much more than this shit… you’re a Queen and should be treated as such. Know your worth and walk away from that negative bullshit girl.
You are married to an A hole
Leave this man. The way he treats you is absolutely disgusting and so unfair. You don’t deserve that. Nobody does! He should be proud of you and enjoy listening to you talk about your career and something you love to do. You can and will find that person but it is not him❤
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Sounds like he has no respect for you or maybe even women for that matter!
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Wow get rid of that piece of crap!
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Don’t get me started. If he wants to be an ass, as usual, mistreat you and talk bad about in front of his family and blame you for his dis-functional FAMILY, your dad did the same thing to me. Im just waiting for you to wake up like I did. You know you deserve better, it won’t get better so do you settle for what it is, how it is or do something about it. I did one of the hardest things I’ve ever done and did something about it.
DIVORCE HIM! Like yesterday.
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100% leave. If my husband did that, I’d embarrass the 
out of him right back and leave. NO ONE deserves that. That is abuse. Then he has the nerve to gaslight you on top of it! Sounds like he’s a narcissist and they never change.
There’s only 3 ways this ends…
- You leave now. You’re hurt for a while but you move on and live a better life without him in it.
- You stay with him, it continues until you can no longer stand it and then you move on and live a shorter, yet still happier life without him in it.
Or 3) You stay. You possibly have kids. You live the rest of your life miserable, your (hypothetical) daughter learns that it’s okay to be treated that way and your (hypothetical) son learns that’s how you treat women, continuing the cycle of abuse over and over again.
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When you left that night you should have kept going! You need to put him in his place in front of hissssssss family…Snap on him don’t let it go
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You need to communicate about wtf is going on. If he’s at all interested in making this insult/hurt/anger cycle stop, counseling may help. If he is unwilling to change, he’s not going to change.
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Why are you still there?
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Nope. Stop going to his family Gatherings. Tell them why !! Tell them that you feel disrespected and you’re not going to put up with it.
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He is abusing you and you know it ,it’s time to go
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NARCISSISM 100%. I’d know. 
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You can only be walked on if you lay down like a rug. You need to decide if you can accept being disrespected on a regular basis or if you want to spend your life being respected, valued and loved. He won’t change, so the decision is totally yours.
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No woman should be made the butt end of a joke. A man doing this sort of thing is so insecure himself. It makes him feel like a big he man. You are better than that. You don’t have to put up with this sort of abuse…
Wow, I what a butthole! You are not wrong in any of your feelings.
Hm. I’m gonna ask if youre normally a pretty passive person? You sound like you try really hard to avoid a fight and girl, I get that. Completely. Who wants to deal with all that hurt and mean words? I’m telling you though, I’ve been involved with my daughters dad for almost 9 years and he used to do this to me all the time. Just about anywhere. Until one day for some reason instead of hurt and sad I went into more of a rage mode. I screamed at him and told him how he treats me is worse than a dog. Told him to get out if that’s what he needed to do but he was done talk to me like that. It went on for awhile but I was so angry I didn’t back down. I think I can count on one hand how many times he’s done that to me since. It’s been years.
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He wouldn’t be my husband for long…
He does not love you, & you seriously should consider moving on to real happiness. Hopefully before things get physical.
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I can’t even finish reading this!! The problem is you allow it… You don’t ever deserve to be talked down to like that and mocked in front of his family. I’d NEVER tolerate that. Get out and file for divorce.
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I would have said loud enough for everyone to hear. He may think I’m the stupid one, but I didn’t ask him to marry me. Lmao
This page is about spreading misery and I’m done.
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He’s a D***!! Tell him to kick rocks! You deserve better.
I would of thrown my phone at his head lol
Holy fuck. I’d leave my husband if he treated me this way. Know your worth honey. Walk away from him if he continues to disrespect you! Your supposed to be a team not enemies, stop allowing this.
You need to get out of that relationship. Big red lights.
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Get in the car and go home . Then call a good divorce lawyer. No woman should be treated this way.
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Your guy is an insensitive son of a … and you are experiencing abuse ! Leave his sorry ass or stand up and say I’ll call the cops and file a report ! Stop going anywhere near his family with him and find things to do by yourself ! Am sorry you are a keeper and he needs to be born like 10000000 times again to learn how to treat a woman! Don’t feel bad, work to increase your self esteem ! You world will not end if you leave him, only the world as you know it and by hearing how he treats you, YOUR WORLD WILL BE F … amazing without this asshole in it !
He bad talks you with family and feels comfortable doing so while with them especially since he knows no one will be on your side. What are u waiting for and stop apologizing he’s conditioning you to be exactly what he wants. The disrespect needs not go any further.
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He sounds like an inconsiderate a**hole
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I would be done and gone
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This is just emotional abuse. It’s not okay. I’d be leaving at this point. I wouldn’t stand to be treated that way in front of others… And for a spouse to bring you down in front of your family members is pretty messed up. It’s awkward and not tasteful. You are not being childish or sensitive. You are whom you are, and if your feelings are hurt, and he can’t get his head out of his ass and realize that. Then it is time to go. Find someone else, or find yourself single and build your life back up. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life… Put it this way, would you want your own child living the way you are right now?
Wait, her husband is saying the crappy things about her?
Tell him to fuck off what kind of dick is he
He just simply has no respect for you , you don’t degrade some one if they care about you that’s not old fashion that’s just dam rude kick him to the curve and run he won’t change and it’s hard for you to hear but if you stay your life will never be a happy one
That’s a narcissist…run
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Roast them back. Start calling out their flaws and see how they like it.
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If this only started recently he may be having an affair. Another woman in his life will give him the confidence to push his luck with you!
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How supportive of him
Oh no. I’d be OUTTTT. 
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Just let him know that if this continues, your going to start calling out his flaws. Or, you can get up and leave and he can find his own way home.
I would be Done disrespectful to you n Infront of everybody no respect for you
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Narcissistic prick with a small dick.
Disrespectful horrible man. Sies
He sounds like a narcissist to me. I’d get out of that relationship ASAP. It may be the hardest thing you’ll do in your life, but you gotta leave and cut him off. Don’t let him sweet talk his way back in down the line, cuz he’ll do that eventually. He’s not sorry. And he won’t change. It’s never gonna get better, only worse. I know that from personal experience.
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Don’t you dare take that kind of treatment from him or anyone else.
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Why are you still there?
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