Would you be okay with your 9-year-old daughter sharing a bedroom with your exes new girlfriend (of one month) 10-year-old son?
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No I definitely wouldnât be ok with that.
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Illegal in some states
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No, nope, absolutely not
Hell no, I donât care who he belongs to 
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Not in this lifetime!!
I know in NZ there are laws around it so it might pay to check what your ones are
Not a chance in hell
Hell to the NO. As a matter of fact in some states itâs not allowed
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Hell no and itâs illegal in a few states!!
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Ii donât no where your from, but in WI, at the age of 5 by law they have to be separated.
Iâm curious why itâs illegal in some states. Do they consider all male children sexual predators? Or is there a different reason?
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Nope. Also, if cps found out, they would put an end to it.
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No!
And in most states itâs illegal. Better hope CPS doesnât catch wind of it.
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Not a chance in a frozen hell.
I think you have your answer, put a stop to it before the law does.
Yes as long as I know the boy
Thats illegal in Indiana so I would deff look into your state/local laws
GF of a MONTH? And theyâre already living together. High standards he has there. 
Itâs illegal here to do that
No way not appropriate at all. Illegal in some states.
If my daughter was visiting for the night or weekend I would have her sleep on the sofa instead.
No and I believe its illegal
Not long term no. Maybe a sleep over, not in the same bed.
No 
. Just out of curiosity how old is the daughter older younger? Not appropriate either way.
I donât know where about a you live but Iâm in the uk 
and from the age of 10 opposite sex siblings canât share a room. Even if they could I dont think itâs right.
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No and actually thatâs illegal, if your daughter have to spend weekends with his dad and his girlfriend they have to provide privacy and safety to her. She needs her own room, if they canât afford a extra room she can visit during day time
At 10 different genders have to have separate rooms! If he was 9 it wouldnt be an issue 
Thatâs a NO from me. 
Umm no when theyâre 7 if theyâre the opposite sexe they should have their own room
Nope, that would be a hard stop for me.
Look up the residency laws in your state, some specify even biological children stop sharing at a certain age.
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No fucking way.
Not even for one night!
No they are not allowed by law
In most states you can only legally allow children of the opposite sex to a certain age, I believe itâs under the 5.
So no, Iâd call the cops or not let my child go!
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Oh hell no! If they canât accommodate separate bedrooms, they shouldnât be living together
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No big time no. And check state laws it may not be legal because they are not siblings and of the opposite sex
If anyone says yes, theyâre disgusting. No.
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Hell no. My kid wouldnât be going unless they could provide her her own space!
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Highly inappropriate no matter how long he has been with new girlfriend. But a month is too soon to even meet
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No. At certain ages hormones kick in and both need privacy. Most states have laws stating the age at which children of different genders should have their own rooms
No, girls are going through a lot of changes at this age. They need their privacy.
Hell to the no!! I donât even know why u ask seriously
Nope. Tell him to give them both a room each and get a sofa bed for them⌠priorities come first.
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No no no no no. Thatâs just trouble waiting to happen. My daughter wouldnât go. Period.
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I donât like the my son 4 this week told me when he was 3.5 that he was sharing a room at his dadâs house with his grandmothers boyfriends daughter who is about a year or so older. I was not okay with that even at young age.
No. My daughter is 7 and my son is 2 months. For now they share a room but as soon as my daughter starts going through changes my son is getting moved
Where I live, siblings of different genders are required to have seperate sleeping spaces by that age.
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I know in some states opposite sex siblings canât share a room after a certain age. Id personally say noâŚ
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Nope. As her dad he should be as upset about it too.
Nope and it can actually get the dad in trouble if he allows it depending the state
Hell no
My ex moved in with a girl he had been dating a month and my daughter slept on a mattress on the floor and bet your ass I threw a big fit about it.
They should NOT even be living together yet. They shouldnât have to share rooms either. He is too old and they arenât related. It would be different if they were, but they arenât.
One month is way to soon for sleep overs in the first place. Or to even meet them. People need to work out if the relationship will last before introducing kids to other partners or kids. It only hurts the child if they bond and the parents break up
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If they grew up together and only see each other as siblings and itâs always been a thing and they just donât have enough rooms Iâd say no big deal but in this case no dad doesnât even know gf or her kid well enough to be trying to make his daughter share a room with him especially at this age
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Hell naw!!!
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NOOOOOO⌠i am not even ok with my step sons mom making him sleep with his sisters or on floor. Kids NEED their own room and own bed. ESP at that age.
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No & depending on where you live it might be illegal. In Michigan opposite gender room sharing is until 5.
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Nope. By those ages different genders should be sleeping in different rooms.
Not related. Not happening.
My son is 7 and daughter is nearly 4. As soon as my son starts showing signs of âthe changeâ, they will have separate rooms.
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Nope. Im sure she wouldnt be comfortable with it either.
No to curious at that age
God no⌠his ass can sleep on couch. No way.
No my kids are 2 and 5 they have different rooms . Due to they ainât allowed to share a room due to the law here .
Nope!! Not happening⌠my kids have their cousins stay the night and even then one is a boy and he sleeps in a separate room. Not ok at all!!
Some states even require kids to be in separate bedrooms if they are not full of half siblings after the age of 5.
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In Florida itâs illegal after a certain age.
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Nope and you should check local law about it
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Nope.
Theyâre getting to those ages where it shouldnât be allowed.
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Iâd be more concerned with why after only a month are they living together? Look in to having it added to your court order that kids cannot be around a significant other unless they have been together for a minimum of 6 months. Just be prepared that youâd have to follow that same rule.
As for sharing a room. Yes. Some states have a law against it. Where I am from they do not. The only law is that each kid has to have a bed or something to sleep on. Doesnât even have to be in a bedroom. It could be a couch. But kids of opposite sex can share a room as long as they have separate beds.
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No I let my daughter stay the night with my best friend and her two boys cause theyâre like best friends but my daughter always sleeps in different beds and bedroom
This exact question was posted in another mom group? Iâm wondering if the person is looking for different answers or what?
Forgot to add my daughter is 6 and her boys are 5 and 8
Absolutely not! Thatâs around the age kids start to really get curious. If they were toddlers maybe but not at this age.
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Nope! Why put either child in that situation
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No not at all thatâs how DCFS gets involved
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No . Same
Sex yes oppersite sex hell no
Not in my house or my daughter
Absolutely not! Your ex barely knows his new gf yet alone her son!
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Nope! Not fair to either of them!
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Not that old no. My son just turned 4 and my daughter is 2. They share a room right now because we live with family (I sleep in the what was family room converted to a make shift bedroom) but by next year Iâm praying we have the means to get into our own place to get them their own room because even now Iâm not okay with it but thatâs just me.
Absofuckinglutely not and you can get dhs involved
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Omg this totally happened to me and I was totally disgusted
That would be a hell no from me.
No⌠absolutely not.
I read online at the age of 10 they need to be in separate rooms
No way! They arenât even siblings. Would be different if they grew up all their lives together and see each other as annoying, pain in the butt siblings.
Nope. Plain and simple. Absolutely not.
Pretty sure that isnât even legalâŚcheck your state laws.
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No no no no no and no!
Iâm pretty sure itâs not legal in most states. But as a personal choice no
Hell no I would not be ok with that. In my state im pretty sure its illegal. Boy and girls need there own space.
Fuck no some places have laws against it
I would probably be more concerned about my child spending time with a woman that he has only been withfor a month than a child being put in the same situation as my child. They clearly are not thinking of the children at all! These kids are both put in awkward situation and probably just trying to make the best of it.
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No, i find that weird/odd. When we were kids my mom took in one of my sisters friends, who was also a girl, and children and youth freaked the hell out just because my sister and friend liked sharing a room. (She had her own) They made a huge deal about them sharing a room even though they were the same sex & age, so im not even sure if its legal of the opposite sex. Id talk to it with your ex about how you feel.
I wouldnât have even asked this question! Obviously you knew what everyone was going to say⌠Do not drop the issue. Fight momma. Absolutely not okay!!!
Theyre way too old to share a room.
Id be careful. My sister was about 3 when she had step siblings living with her and the boy who was about 13 was forcing her to âtouchâ him⌠hopefully you know what I mean. He ended up going to juvy, but you just never know. No one found out until he was caught in the act. Smh.
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Iâd be concerned with why they are shacking up after a month. I sure as hell wouldnât be okay with my 9yo sleeping in a room with a 10 yo boy unless they were both boys.
Absolutely not. At that age theres probably a lot of curiosity and anything could happen
Absolutely not, theyâre both too old to share a bedroom!