My hubby and I usually go together to the strip club lol. 
sometimes he goes alone but not often. I donāt mind either way. As long as heās not touching them, which he doesnt.
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If u donāt know how to feel about it or donāt know how to feel then u got issues 
It would be totally OK with me but thatās me and the trust we have in our marriage now if YOu donāt feel comfortable about this let him know. This is about you and how you feel about it not how each of us feels or would do.
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No. He can go, but I am no longer his wife. Dead serious, itās a deal breaker for my marriage. Iām out, and the kids go with me. So he dicides not to go.
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Iād be fine with it, in the end I know he loves me and is coming home to me, I trust my man
Tell him if he brings any diseases that you get the house
Sure whatās the big deal?! Itās called trust. I would probably ask to go cause why not.
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As long as he doesnāt do anything stupid (example- he can look, but not get all touchy-feely with every single woman there), I donāt care if he would go. 
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Absolutely not 
Iāve made it clear from the beginning of our relationship that strip clubs are something I am absolutely not okay with and itās nonnegotiable. If he disagreed and felt the need to go, he could leave and it would be fine; but by staying with me he is accepting my boundaries on this. I just donāt see the need to go and waste money on half naked women and have them touching on you when you have a partner. Itās hella disrespectful in my opinion. If youāre not in a relationship, by all means go (as a bi woman I probably would myself too) but in a relationship itās a no from me. Youāre allowed to be uncomfortable and set boundaries. Your feelings are valid no matter what anybody else may try and tell you
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I think him asking says a lot. He wasnāt trying to hide it from you. I have no issues with strip clubs and I have gone myself. We have gone together. Unless there is a reason not to trust him, he should go.
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wow - some of yall ladies on here are RIDICULOUS
its just some titties and ass man haha - like hes coming back home to you - grow up
Let him go. If you donāt trust him, why are you even married?
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Wouldnāt bother me at all but I would be asking if we can just get a babysitter so I can come too. I love going to see women strip.
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Ok so hear me out. Iāve never been to a strip club. And heās asked me this question before (just joking) I responded with heck yeah when we going Iāve got dollars. Iām 29 and just this year went to a bar for the first time. To say Iāve not done A LOT is an understatement so Iām all for new stuff. Also to add weāve been together going on 8 years and weāve never been 
No, and Iām punching him for even askingš
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If you trust him then who cares
I personally donāt care cuz Iāll go to with or without him!
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Do you trust him? If youāre answer is yes then let him. If itās no then let him know you donāt think itās a good idea. Itās all about how much trust you have in each other.
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Yes maāam. Long as he eats at home itās cool. 
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Married men should never go to strip clubs.It opens a whole world of hurt for the future.and it becomes an addiction.There is already too much temptation out there without making room for more.
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Absolutely! I had one single rule. No getting freaky with me when he gets home. It was never a problem for us.
Look at it this way ,
1.he was honest with you .you should be greatfull about that .
2 .heāll go with them lol really freak him out .(or at least say you wanna go wink wink )
3 .I would have mixed feelings about it too .but my ex husband came and asked me if he could go one time and I didnāt even know what they were like so he took me to see the show just him and I and a couple close friends .but I was ok as long as it wasnāt a every month thing just once in a blue moon
I wouldnāt even date someone that went to strip clubsā¦not the type of man I would find respectable.
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Can I come too.
Yes, I would. The girls are just working and earning an income. Itās for guys and girls. Go with him every now and then. As long as he looks and not touch or doesnāt ask for their number than itās fine.
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Personally no and itās the simple fact he wouldnāt like if I were to go get him to see it from yoir point of view but I guess itās upto your relationship. If your uncomfortable then tell him that and maybe he can reassure you while heās out but otherwise itās a very personal thing and only you can decide if itās right or not.
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Wouldnāt bother me.
Especially because he was nice enough to be honest before hand 
All the comments about ātemptationā to you guys not trust your partners?
Nopeā¦ Nope. Nope. Just no.
I wouldnāt care unless it was an everyday kinda thing and thatās mostly just cause were broke
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Ask if you can go to the male version, and plan it when he says yes. Whatās good for one. 
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Yup I sure would. If he wants to go I would support it. He being honest and I am not jealous.
Itās jus another place of work. They do it for the money , not for your husband.
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Say heck no if you go take your clothes and donāt come back. Married men have no business going to strip clubs. They have a woman at home and donāt need to be going to see others
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Me personally you canāt stop a man from looking Iām just not okay with him spending the money that could be going towards bills or necessities just to look at another woman. If yāall are married that is yāallās money that heās spending on another woman
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If you show him some of that stuff at home he wouldnāt have to go to the bar and spend your money there to look at other women might even help your marriage out someļæ¼
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No. He is a married man and doesnt need another woman getting him sexually aroused. Many a man has eventially cheated with strippers
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At least he asked! Are you comfortable within your relationship? Do you trust him? If it becomes a habit, then Iād worry!
Yes, if possible then go be the DD.
Go for it. Heāll get hot and horny and come home to you. But still say something like sure as long and me andy friends can hit up ,______. Relationships Are give and take baby
I have no problem with it. 
. But Iāll be right there enjoying myself too 
Nope, if my man wants to watch a strip tease or get a lap dance that can be done at homeš
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Why not? You donāt own him. Heās a grown man, right? Maybe he just wants to go because thatās what the guys are doing. Men have seen other tattas before yours and probably look at it on their devices. What difference does it make?
Or tell him if itās okay if you go to a male strip club with ur home girl 
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Mine would never go to one because he thinks itās trashy lol he wonāt even go to a regular bar or sports bar. But if he wanted to, I wouldnāt be jealous for sure. I agree with him the ones around here are trashy for sure lol we live in a small rural areaā¦everybody knows everybody
I wouldnāt be okay with it.
I would let him go. My man let me go to the male stripper show with friends. I got aroused and my man got the benefit of because I came home and had s*x with himš¤·š¾āāļø
My husband would rather go to a sports bar to eat wings and shoot pool or bowling. Thatās exactly what he did for his bachelor party 11.5 years ago. Weāve been together 12.5 and are each otherās first marriage. My bachelorette party was going to a bar/drag show, I would have rather done what hubby did. Neither of us are into the strip club scene. His buddies from work do bowling nights every so often and he goes to that. It seems like strip clubs are played out in lots of areas now, or it feels like that because itās not our thing. All you can do it talk to him about it and how youāre feeling about the situation. I donāt think any allow touching of any kind but I am not 100% on that. Is he the type of guy to check in just for peace of mind on his part qnd showing you he cares about your feelings?
At least he asked. Let him go. Itās not gonna hurt anything if he goes once.
I went to the strip club with my husband. We got a few lap dances. Iād let my husband go. I trust him. If you really trust him you should let him go.
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Thatās a big nope from me
I donāt know how I would feel about it. I would want to be ok with it, but I feel like I would be jealous. Luckily he has no interest.