Do people not directly address situations anymore? Talk to your husband.
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I wouldn’t trust either of them.
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I was this friend a couple of years ago 
I lost the first friend I had in 10 years because she thought I was after her Husband. We hung out literally every day. I couldn’t have cared less about her husband, I was friendly because they were a package deal. I would tell all of my family about her, go on about how much we did together, we even had a song. She was my best friend 
I haven’t tried to make a friend since
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Trust your gut, those vibes are real.
trust your gut. 9 times out of 10, im usually correct when my instinct is kicking in.
Don’t ruin a good friendship over paranoia.
Trust is earned… . I maybe a little to old skool. I’d say trust your gutt… you can tell if a women is the type to not mess with your man. We usually make it very well known.of course I’m 43 years old to lol.
It’s called being jealous of ur husband getting along with ur friend. But if u don’t like it than sure cut her off with no reason as most of society does that anyways lmao
Straight up ask her. If you’ve noticed something, say something. Lay out the facts and just ask her to be real with you
sounds like what happened to a friend of mine. Long story short he was fucking the chick behind her back. They got divorced and now her ex best friend is married to her now ex husband.
Cameras n let it happen then u know true colors of both
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Trust your gut.
You might trust your husband.
Doesn’t mean you need to trust her.
Distance yourselves from her.
Your husband if he is trustworthy will be understanding of your feeling.
Do not let her be around your husband if it makes you uncomfortable period. But if you can’t trust your husband than that’s a whole different situation.
Nah… they’ll be sweet and boom, right under ya nose…
Always trust the gut 
I’d have an open honest talk with her if I cared about a friendship, because it could just be she’s friendly to keep the peace and respect for you. Or like everyone else says trust your gut and cut her off. Ghost style 
Just leave it alone you need a friend especially with husbands in the military, just watch their body language and keep an eye on what kind of an eye contacts are making ,Do you know a flirty eye contact when you see it and if you see that both of them together then it’s no good tell her to kick rocks
She’s a Jody lol tell her bye 
You should trust your mans. I would ask him if he thinks about her in any type of way. Be upfront. And if he fucks up, that’s on him.
Intuition usually never lies!
I would say something wen shes staring at ur husband and see how she reacts youll soon know
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I don’t think your being paranoid if your gut is telling u something is up then 9 times out of 10 there’s something up.! Do some Investigating 
Trust your instincts… We have them for a reason.
Um. Trust your gut. Same thg happened in my first marriage. Cut it off w her.
Just come right out and ask her if she thinks your hubby is attractive cuz you think ya saw her staring at him. Life’s too short to beat around the bush
NEVER trust another woman with your person!
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Trust your gut she may be tryna be a sister wife type thing. I learned the hard way.
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Talk to your husband first maybe?
Check phone records. 
Don’t “hunch”- ask!!
Sounds like she might be using your friendship to get to your husband.
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Our gut feeling is never wrong! From my personal experience.
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Trust your intuition. God gave it to us for a reason.
Emi Tremblay 
oublie saa c sur qua le vx
We have intuition for a reason.
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Loose the friend.
Preventative is the best approach.
Follow your gut instinct, that’s why you have it
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Always trust your gut… Call her out on it and go from there
Don’t ignore your gut feeling. It’s your built in warning sign!
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I’d ask your husband what’s up with all that and see what he says
Be wise… get that girl OUT of your life!
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Tell hubs how you feel mama 
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Your husband does not need a female friend…
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Lots of insecure women in these comments
I would ask her. 
Then I’d let her know that I would beat dat a$$ off:grin:
If they aren’t physical right now they will be eventually
Nope. Cut the Jodie out
I had a neighbor friend who did the same thing and he slept at her house supposedly putting in a kitchen floor and fell sleep. My son told me they were in the bathroom together changing. And she was really cool with our kids, too, they played with her son same age. You always know what’s up. I say cut her out.
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First being attracted sometimes can’t be helped second if she don’t act on it don’t worry you know your man good luck I will say having friends get along with your s/o is great
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I really would love a follow up on this because god honest the minute I would have caught my husband locking eyes with anyone like that it’s on right there…
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Cut her out shes a freind for 6months and she want to be staring no man she cant be so close to you so quick unless there something else she wants. Might not be your husband maybe just she
I mean. Most people would tell you its all in your head blah blah “let it go” but me? Girl bye. Address the issue because the statistic is real. Overly insecure women do what they can to be like you, and this includes being with your man. Is her marriage broken? Is she a single mom with a shit ex? Does she come from a broken home? If yes to any of these than this is definitely a gut feeling you should look into. You owe yourself that space.
Trust your husband,put him first and no matter what she tries, he will know you are his queen and he will let you know.
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First off!!!
You need to check his ass. His eyes shouldn’t be wondering or lusting over anyone that isn’t YOU. 2nd you gotta handle that ratchet bitch. If you got a feeling about it you’re most likely right. Follow your gut. If you’re right then you lay that bitch out. Period.
Is this girl married? If you trust your husband , then he should tell you if this girl makes a pass at him. Does she dress provocative? Does she make a point to touch him? Text him? Or genuinely hang out with the both of you? I love my best friends husband just as much as her and I would hang out with him if it was just him too and not even think twice.
I am the confrontational type though and would just make a joke about her having a thing for my husband and get a feel for what she has to say in response. 
I’m all about reading subtle hints in people
Though too
My man said who have u known longer your husband or your gut ??? Which is a very valid question for next time I have a gut feeling lol
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If there both stareing at 1 another something is probally going on or about to🤔if she doesn’t have a man then she wants yours! wake up before its too late
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Unpopular opinion: talk to her and talk to him seperatly and see how the respond. Don’t accuse but be honest with how you feel. Use your gut feelings based off of their answers and go from there
I’d say something.
Honestly is always the best policy.
I’d talk with my husband first.
And then I’d talk to her if needed.
if that conversation went weird
I’d get rid of her.
Always trust your gut.
Maybe they’re just friends and vibe well because you guys also vibe well.
Maybe she wants in on your husband and your family and you gotta get her outta there shrug
Honestly my first thought was you could both have her, right? Because she sounds perfect.
That’s just my poly & pansexual mind 
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Does she joke and look at you the same way though? I’d just straight up ask him and or her respectfully so “do you think my husband is hot?, Do you think she’s hot?” (But do it in person). Just because they may have a physical attraction doesn’t mean they will do anything to betray you. Because if they both truly love you they won’t do that to you. And if they would you do that to you, you don’t need either one of them.
Trust your gut…but take it slow. Be careful… Watch, listen, observe.
I think you should DEFINITELY be on your guard, maybe not jump to cutting her out completely just yet. If she’s as good a friend as you say she deserves a chance I feel. something may be miscommunicated or misunderstood but definitely pay more and vigilant attention to them/her. You don’t feel something for nothing… But it may not be what it seems at first…
If the feeling persists, if you just can’t shake it either cut her out or Just ask her straight up. Tell her you have this feeling, how she responds will be very telling.
I flirt with my best friends hubby. But he loves my friend and I would never do anything beyond flirting. Btw, I flirt with both sexes. It’s my personality. I look at the menu but I don’t order. I’m very loyal to my hubby & friends.
Trust your gut and ask her outright ! Do NOT answer any questions she may come back at you with . Get answers from HER . Make sure she understands where your boundaries are . Some bitches are looking for another bitch who shares . He is worth it if you love him. I would expect nothing less from my husband if this was his concern. NOTHING SHAMEFULL ABOUT THIS !! 
It may be insecurities. Why push a good friend away. She seems to really like you. I’ve always been that friend. And it sucks.
Haha I’ve seen this so many times. Military anything-if you think it’s happening-it’s 1000% happening.
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Hangout with her when your husband isn’t around.
Stop hanging out for a moment…or even say so I know whats going on but I want you to be a grown women and tell me. Sometimes that alone makes them fess up.
Or
She could just be like me, always gets along with both wife and husband always cracking jokes, making weird faces but I am not doing anything with any of them. Now days you never know.
You’re the wife you have every dang right to ask.
People laugh. But when you have a gut feeling, follow it. You know “that” state when you see it. That would make me feel super uncomfortable. I’d just keep her at an arms length.
Oh no baby. If there is something going on between them it’s going to happen regardless if you cut her off. Keep her close boo
Wel, I’m 54 years old now. Your relationship is only as sold as your man. What do I mean by that? Your man. Asked you to mary him. Now in my opinion men aren’t as bright as they think they are lol. But he asked you to marry him. He made a promise to you. The wedding is the contract. He made a promise to you. There are threats our tgere all day long there’s always a woman trying to eyeball your man. So what it boiles down to, is he going to maintain hw promise, his contract to you. Blaming her really doesn’t help anything she has no real promise or contract to love and cherish.
Go with your gut feeling. Use your third eye it will never let you down.
If your gut is telling you something it may be true, it may be insecurity. I rather just set some boundaries and distance myself. I’ve been there before
Does your husband not know how to control himself?
Always trust your woman’s intuition!
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Always trust your gut instinct. It’s never wrong
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Listen to your gut!!! I can not say that loud enough, listen to what your gut is saying!!!
Listen to your gut. That’s Jesus talking to ya.
If they’re staring then they’re thinking about it or already done it. Look through the phones and phone records, Sis.
I think you should always trust your gut
Trust your gut. Always trust your gut! Every single time!
Always trust your gut instincts
Wow just ask her. People can’t put their failed relationships on to yours it might be nothing. Shit if you husband is fine girl he’s fine. If your this scared of stares you gonna have to lock him up Pooh
She isn’t there for you sis
She’s there for him
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Trust your instincts…been there…i was right all along.
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Trust your instincts! Tell her her to kick rocks!
follow your guts…if you felt it thatway better act right away
Cut her off asap. Been there done that.
Trust your gut…keep an eye out.
If you trust your spouse, doesn’t matter if she has thing for him or not
Always trust your intuition
Trust your intuition… Cut the biaaaatch out before u really do it:rofl:
Ask your husband he knows when a woman is flirting with him
Trust your gut. You are not feeling that way for nothing!
It’s hard I want to say follow your gut if you feel something is off , their could be something.
Go with ur gut period it’s ur second brain
Friend? Husband? Staring? Hell no.
Always trust your gut.
U gotta Trust your Gut always:ok_hand:t4:
Trust Your Gut
Thank me later
Trust your gut instincts
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