Am I being paranoid or does my new friend want my husband?

Trust your gut. Every single time

Trust your instincts

Listen to your gut instincts.

Trust your gut it never lies :100:

JoHanna Grönroos guess you can’t leave him alone w anyone Bc maybe he likes men and/or women. Never know.

Follow ur Instincts n let ur Conscious be ur guide.

Always follow that gut. ALWAYS

Always trust your gut!!!

Trust your gut my dear…

Always trust your gut

Listen to your gut feeling. It never lies.

Trust your instincts.

Always trust your gut feelings…

Shooo, I’d become a private investigator real quick like! :face_with_monocle:

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Just ask/talk to your friend🤷‍♀️.
Tell your concerns to your husband too.
If you trust your husband then great, but most men are weak​:woman_shrugging::rofl:

Trust.
Your.
Gut.

Period.

Paige this you??? You the new friend?? :joy:

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Trust your gut, it’s always right

Talk to your husband??

Trust your gut and cut her out

Please PROTECT your hubby, tell him you feel she’s a snake, there’s plenty of them…
Google : UCMJ ARTICLE 134.

Always trust your gut feeling.

Follow your gut it never steers you wrong.

Trust your intuition.

Trust your instincts

My experience… they alwsyZ do…:cherry_blossom:

Trust your gut. I’d end the friendship.

Like stated trust your inner feeling

Trust your gut. Put it out there.

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Not every chick is evil or out to get your man. She sounds like an amazing friend and if anything were to happen between them then they’re both scumbags.

Always trust your gut !

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Id put a stop to that right away

Trust your gut sis. :metal:t2:

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Trust your intuition!!

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Your gut NEVER lies!

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Add her as your sister wife lol jk

Gotta trust your gut girl

Always always trust your gut

Always follow your gut.

Always trust your gut.

Trust and believe your gut!

I recently cut a friend I just met a couple months ago. She would make remarks about my husband in front of me. Although I know my husband has no interest in her, the fact that she would say these things in front me imagine what she would say behind my back to him. I would never want to put him in that position of rejecting her ass and then me beating her ass :slightly_smiling_face::upside_down_face:

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Trust your instincts.

Always trust your gut

ALWAYS trust your gut!!

If it makes you uncomfortable, it’s not okay. I wouldn’t appreciate that either like bitch you have the whole sky to look at don’t be peeping my mans :call_me_hand:t3:

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Amanda Lightner I promise I don’t want your husband but we’re still sister wives okay? :kissing_heart:

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Trust your gut always!

I’d definitely trust your gut girly

Trust your gut it’s NEVER WRONG.

Girl yes trust your gut

ALWAYS trust your gut.

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Trust your gut, reading this made my stomach turn!!

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Trust your intuition.

Trust your intuition

Always follow your gut

Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Am I being paranoid or does my new friend want my husband?

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Trust your gut! Set her straight! I wish I would have done that. When my gut told me to see it, I trusted my husband. I was wrong she got pregnant. Both marriages done. And the baby was aborted her choice. Good luck to you!

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Instinct. Seriously, go with your gut. Spend less time with her and more with just you and hubby. And of course keep eyes and ears peeled.

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Trust your gut 100%!! Maybe keep a guarded eye out, and limit her time around your hubby.

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You said that she helps you when you are depressed. Do you suffer from clinical depression? I know my depression makes me question things/over analyze because I am feeling low about myself. I AM NOT BLAMING YOU!!! That happens to ME and wanted to offer a different perspective. If she’s been a good friend, why not shift your times together to times when hubby isn’t home and see if either of them say anything? Don’t drop your gut feeling, but also don’t dig so hard that you become paranoid and it causes problems.

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Go with your gut if you think she’s after your husband she probably is

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I’m sure she’s a great person, but if your gut intuition is sending red flags, you’re probably right unfortunately. Maybe there’s some uncomfortable chemistry there.
I’d just ask. Xo

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Do some detective work, do you feel they talk a lot over text or maybe phone call? Does he randomly “need” to be somewhere or always have excuses to be away when he’s home? What about asking your friend to come over or you go over when your husband isn’t around and see what she says ? I just feel like is it worth loosing a friend and your husband if nothing is going on but at the same time you need to put your mind at ease and find out one way or another. If he’s playing away then you deserve better .

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Always trust your instincts. She might be wonderful but she sounds like a Trojan horse to me. My gut feeling has NEVER been wrong. The only mistake I’ve ever made when it comes to my intuition is not listening to it.

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I’m sorry but if your intuition is telling you this your already feeling uncomfortable about her. Don’t let all the nice gestures dim the RED FLAGS :triangular_flag_on_post:you’re not paranoid, you just know better. You already know what you have to do.

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Idk, you catch them staring at each other and you have a gut feeling…
ask your husband. He knows you get depressed so anxiety isn’t that far out the way, so he should understand and want to make you comfortable.
You’ll absolutely know by his response.

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My best friend my best best friend married my husband. Like wtf I’m still in shock 40 years later. How did I not know something was going on. Oh well their divorced an we’re not friends :joy:. He really never worked at a regular job an he gets half of her social security so guess who’s laughing now. Learned my lesson

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I would trust your gut. But also, if you just cut her off and don’t address the issue with your husband, there is nothing stopping him from doing the same thing with someone else while deployed. If you don’t trust him in your home with your friend while you are there, deployment will be very difficult for you.

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Former military wife, what I would do is catch his eye right after they make eyes and then politely ask her to leave maybe saying hey we have a few errands to run or a project to do. Then my husband and I would be having that conversation letting him know that’s not appropriate and how it makes you feel. I find that getting busted and then a talk things go smoother and you get a better gauge of things.

My husband always made sure every female that came over, especially before and after deployment, know were the boundaries were yes he laughed and joked with everyone but he always looked for me if someone started to get close to a boundary pulling me close with a head kiss. That was our sign that someone was getting out of line. It’s not always the mens fault and you should trust your gut. Push her away let her know you guys just need one on one time if she pushes the issue I would then address her.

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Gut feeling ,do not ignore.Have just family days away from her.be smarter than her, your a step ahead by noticing the look, look first, then a kiss and soon you will be babysitting both families …Wake Up./No such thing as a free dinner…

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I’m a veteran myself and I am telling you: DO NOT IGNORE YOUR GUT FEELING EVER!

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Sucks there’s so many pieces of shit out there that real women are too guarded to have friends. Ladies. I’d cook clean if u were depressed n needed help do play dates w the kids go get nails done etc girl time whatever it is real friends do these days. Ur husbands could try. Ud be the first to know after he got told all about himself made felt two feet tall

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Your instincts are probably right just casually bring it up and see what she says then go from there

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One thing I learned thoughtout my years, if something doesn’t feel right, something’s not right

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The only way I think you will get your feeling straight is if you talk to both. Let both know how you feel.

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Confide in him that she has an STD.

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Keep your eyes open cause sometimes that’s the reason their your friend snakes are out there these days

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Has he been unfaithful in the past? I feel like this is a big factor.

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From reading this, I think you’re being a little over the top…

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I’d let the husband go. Anything that makes me question is out. PERIOD. Not worth the headache.

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Unless you have solid proof they have a thing going then just stay cool.
Edits, if you trust your husband then nothing will eventuate .

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Some blessing are in a disguised.So go with your gut slowly cut ties &have a plan b.

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Hi you have No reason to to not trust your hubby , your more likely paranoid and possibly envy this woman :pray:

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Talk to your husband. Ask him how he feels about her too. Bring up your worries with him. You and your husband should be a team and open communication with him will go a long way.

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Trust yourself,and say goodbye to your new supposed friend

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Definitely trust your gut, it knows!

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I would leave him because if he’s flirting too he knows what he’s doing and wants her

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no, you are not. i can sense red flages. follow ur guts always

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Attraction is natural. Commitment is a choice. Threesomes are fun :star_struck:

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Hangout with her. But don’t have her over when your husband is home.

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As a previous military wife, trust your instincts, keep them apart!

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Its normal for ppl to find each other attractive :woman_shrugging:

Trust your gut. Maybe nothing now but you know. Your not crazy💛

Throw the whole girl away!

Snapchat I guarantee is where u want to look

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So you think you know her well enough to trust with your kids but not enough to trust with your husband?

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First things first, talk to your husband. Tell him how it makes you feel seeing them make eyes at each other etc. See if HE does anything different to make you more comfortable

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It’s always a problem when someone gets too close to your family and in your private life. I feel like you wouldn’t just have these feelings for no reason

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Wean yourself away from that much contact. If HE asks where she’s been, I’d have a good inkling my gut was correct.

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