Sit him down & talk to him about it & tell if it happens again he is out the 
If standing up for not only yourself but your children then by all means be an “asshole” dont take anything like that from anyone. You and your kids deserve better let along sleep.
Not the asshole at all! What the hell is wrong with your husband?
Who cares if you’re TA or not tbh. Inconsiderate people don’t deserve courtesy anyway
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i would have scooped those kids up put them in the car, headed for the nearest hotel, and have mr. hubb’s pay for it. when he desides to wise up let you know he’s is inviting strange people over,apologize for the crayzyness.you will come back with the kids. you deserve peace.
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You’re in for more of the same. Sorry
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,I agree with Lyndsay.
no ur not but i got feeling u r in for more of that
He’s a disrespectful 
bringing a house load of people back late at night when you have young kids:woman_facepalming: no more to say really. They could have partied somewhere else.
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The fact that you are even questioning whether you are the asshole in this situation, speaks volumes about what you have put up with till now, and how much of an asshole he obviously is!!
I would have the cops escort everyone out
He sounds like the Peter Griffin of Family Guy 
smh he’s immature. Tell him to not bring home friends again and that guest coming over should be discussed prior to arrival.
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I would have ran everyone out of my house.
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I wouldn’t put my children through that if I were you, I wouldn’t even be upset over myself losing the sleep if my kids were for sure being disturbed, not to mention you knew no one he brought over, what if one of them was a predator? This is disgusting behavior in my opinion and I think you and your kids would be alot safer without someone that self centered and careless with his childrens peace and safety
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You have to ask? He is majorly inconsiderate…if does this often leave . If this is the first time dont think it will be the last… good luck with that one
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No you are not try talking to him about it and tell him how you feel
No def not. My husband wouldn’t even bring family over without calling and giving me a heads up
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The husband should be leaving with the unwanted guests
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I would like to know why you feel the need to ask this question? What is going on that you need to now if you were in the wrong? I don’t know one person, men included, that would say you are in the wrong! He was completely in the wrong, and kept making it worse. You say when he drinks if you yell back it ends in tears, how often does this happen? I am sorry that this happened, it never should have happened.
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A fan can block out sound for next time help keep them sleeping your not the A he should have told you beforehand
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Wait until the next day when he’s sober and you set his a** straight. Yes he might be a hard working man but he’s also a father and husband. He must remember to respect his home and family first!
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I’d be so pissed! Like you don’t even know them and they’re in the same house as ur kids! I’d have kicked his ass out and locked the doors
No you are definitely not!
I’d leave n get a hotel room
you are 100% right in what youi did
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He has a family he has to think about. You don’t throw after parties when you have a family. That’s rude AF. He isn’t thinking of his family at all and I hope this doesn’t become a regular thing. No you’re not the A H.
Once a year behavior like this might pass…but only once.
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Oh hell no there’s no way, sometimes it pays to be the bitchy wife then they know where tf you stand
Nope. He is out of line.
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Throw them all out husband included
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No. He’s the asshole. What a horribly selfish thing tk do knowing there are young kids in the house send that you have work early in the morning
You’re a saint if you ask me!
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No, he is . You have young children and to bring a party of strangers into your home is not right.
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Fix him breakfast. I recommend hot grits. Then a game of grit ball. IYKYK.
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I would have packed his shit and thrown them all out…that is strait up disrespectful
His respect for you and the kids clearly isn’t there.If he respected you or the kids he would have talked to you ahead of time and if he’s acting like that when he’s drinking he clearly shouldn’t be drinking expecially with the kids home…If it was me I would have took my kids to a motel then I would have a serious sit down with him.Theres a difference between having fun and being a complete As$.If you want to party like that he needs to plan it out with you so you can make arrangements for the kiddos and clean up your house if you want and he could do this any time not on days you gotta work that morning…If he wants that type of life style then that’s what he needs to do but Idk how old you all are but with kids it’s time to grow up.
He needs to stop drinking and be a husband and father first and always. It is apparent that he can not have just one with the guy’s. 
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Rude and selfish childish behavior.
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Complete disrespect on his part. I doubt you’d do that to him. Maybe this is just one time he screwed up. He’s not a single man that can be irresponsible like when he was younger. Hopefully he’ll realize this was a stupid decision. Good luck.
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Hell no…I’d be flipping sh÷t!!! It’s your kids home not his party pad.
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Ooh if that was me… Id be kicking him and his friends out! With the help of the police🥴 Aint nobody disrespecting my kids safe place and if the father wants to be a bitch! Throw his ass out till he calms TF down! Geez MANCHILD!
He’s making himself look like the arsehole by screaming at his wife and mother of his children, no one can fault you for wanting to sleep.
He is being a disrespectful asshole!
No you’re not wrong he is
No do not feel bad he’s in the wrong
Had these types of interactions with my kids father until they 100% stopped drinking. Sober for a few years now.
Hell nah. I’d be givin him one chance nice and calm to get the crew out of the house then my crazy would shine bright like a diamond. I’m not gonna be disrespected and neither are my children. He’s a damn fool. 
He can sleep outside!
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It’s the alcohol. You need to record how.he acts and then show it to him. That is a game changer right there.
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He sounds like a big baby lol kick out for a few weeks.
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Not the ah. I would legitimately call yhe police if they wouldn’t leave. I probably am an ah, but that’s unacceptable.
They needed to take that party to someone else’s house that does not have children.
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Not fair to you or your children .
No, you’re not but why argue with a drunk person. Take you and the kids to a hotel if you can afford it or to a friend for the night. I know it would be frustrating to do that but just to avoid a scene and get your rest.
Holy shit wow. I’d like to see my husband attempt to do this 
he would be divorced so quick
No tell him hell no! You have the kids to take care of and HE NEEDS to GROW up and stop pushing drunks on your family, if he doesn’t like it go live in the BAR
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Nta. Call the cops and let him sober up in jail
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Nope
I’d throw all of them out husband aswell tell him to come back sober
Say me and the kids will now be going to bed
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Or ask all to leave but you husband and put him down stairs on the sofa and then lock doors and head to bed
Nope it’s not ok but I’m still wondering about his shoe collection 
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I would have packed my kids and myself up and left for the night and turned my phone off
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Sounds like he’s an inconsiderate asshole🤷♀️
Definitely not your fault mama
He’s the inconsiderate a**hole.
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Kick em all out. Then as you’re lying there peacefully in your bed, post his shoe collection here.
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Am I the only one who finds it extremely weird that he brought someone in his bedroom to see his shoe collection 
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He’s definitely got a problem. I would dump him!!!
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No. I would have kicked them all out. Including him.
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Hey Babe. Find a man who truly loves and respects you. And puts you as No. # 1 in his life. I don’t think that guy deserves you. 
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May he be forever cursed with squeaky shoes
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Wow. Your feelings are very valid.
He was being selfish.
No your not. He’s an ASS
Ma’am … this shit is weird!!! He’s a flipping weirdo!!! I’m sorry but this is the weirdest thing I’ve hear coming from a married couple. First he blows off his previous made plans, then he parties with coworkers, then brings the party back home to his wife and young kids ( which safety wise is already dicey) then gets plastered drunk and brings someone in your room to look at stupid ass shoes!!! What the fuxk!!! No … he is never going to change. He has zero respect for you, zero respect for the health and safety of his children, zero respect for himself. It’s just going to get worse.
Ummm is your husband 14? He needs to drink some coffee or sleep it off and respect that it’s your house as much as it is his, and you both have ADULT responsibilities, and it’s not fair of him to bring home a whole bunch of people when he knows you have babies and a work schedule. Super inconsiderate and disrespectful. And screaming at you? Nope. That would be a whole other issue. Not acceptable.
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You’re never wrong when he is drunk.
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There is verbal abuse in that scenario so best to try and leave now in my opinion… but only you can decide yours and your children’s fate.
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He should’ve had enough respect for you to know that you had to work and to know the nightly family routine so that he knows dang well that he shouldn’t interrupted. Don’t let him put that on you. Demand your respect 
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At that point I’d completely lose my shit
No but if this is a reg thing you need to be strong and leave you and your son deserve better. You ever heard of stranger danger that could put your son at risk or yourself. It’s 2022 be smarter then a drunk
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No , He doesn’t respect you! Have a serious talk with him, he is acting like a child! Good luck.
Did the thought ever enter his mind that you have two babies to think about? No. He put all the responsibility on you to have a drunken party at your house. I’d be pissed, and no your not an asshole. I went through this with my first husband, pretty much the same situation, except they were all stoners and they would drop in all the time, and every night I would come home form work, with them all in my dining room playing card and getting high. Dishes piled up in the sink, Nothing done. Had to worry if the kids even got fed… It was horrible. Your not the bad guy in this. He is a thoughtless human being, that is showing you absolutely no respect.
Noyournot the ass hole
Hell no he is a disrespectful ass
My husband acted out of character when he drank and we would later fight about it… so he stopped drinking all together. Sounds like he needs to grow up a bit.
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Not in the wrong but I have to say your husband is weird
Just Throw the whole man in the trash and start again™
You’re not. But I’m guessing this is your life. I understand it. You’re not wrong. But u also just have to more or less not say anything to keep the peace. It’s sad. But it’s the way of life for some. Hugs momma 
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No STAND YOUR GROUND!! YOUR KIDS COME FIRST!! AND HE SHOULD RESPECT YOU GO TO WORK!! IF HE DRINKS OFTEN…MAKE HIM STOP NOW OR DIVORCE HIM. HE WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!
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He wasn’t very considerate but if it don’t hardly ever happen then not so bad.
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He is ABSOLUTELY THE AH! Who the fuck does this? wow.
Not at all. I hope you kicked them all out & told him when he sobered up if he disrespected you, your kids & your home again he’d be finding a new place to live.
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That is absolutely not okay. I’m so sorry
Nope, he is definitely the Asshole…
Unacceptable behavior from a grown man with a wife and family. You’re not wrong at all. I commend you for keeping your cool!
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Pack up them Rugrats and go to a hotel
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He lost the right too throw house parties when he started a family ! The fuck he’s not Ateen anymore
No he’s being inconsiderate imo. I have one of those myself
Just wait until your boyfriend/husband brings two blonds to your door. One on each arm, and they say " you know us, remember".
Nope not an asshole one bit! Even if your best friend did like u more than a friend unless he has trier to hit on you an from what your saying he hasnt then your boyfriend point is invalid. You did the right thing sis! Those type of best friends truly care. Bf definitely dont deserve u one bit. An that best friend of yours knows that.