Where I live- you get one baby shower- you are on your own after that
No I donât think you should give her a shower. Youâve been victimized once - twice is unacceptable . Stick to saying no! Blood should treat each other better and if they donât - itâs not worth it!
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Honestly you should only get one baby shower and thatâs it in my opinion
Her best friend or mother in law should host the shower. You are not obligated to host her shower
If you host sheâll be upset if you donât do it the way she wants. If you donât host sheâll be upset about that. She sounds like a spoiled brat to me. Do whatever will cause you the least amount of aggravation in the long term. Better yet, let her husband take care of it.
Afford? Umm her party, she pay. And no donât throw her the party⌠but if she wants a party sheâll pay for her own stuff
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I wouldnât throw her a party, say you ruined the last shower you threw so why would I do another one
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Being your sister does not entitle her to treat you like s$&t. Stick to what you know and donât allow her to dictate your life.
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Tell her to do it her bloody self! And that you donât want a repeat of last time thankyou very much
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Why doesnât her friends throw her a baby shower?! Or her mother in law?!
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No, doesnât she have a close girl friend? Once burned why stick your hands back in the fire. Sheâs trying to guilt trip you. Smile and walk away, sister or not, sheâs using you
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For my Sister absolutely but I would want to talk about boundaries & cost. I wouldnât have excluded her friend without talking about it first.
First time, shame on her, second time shame on me. Do not give in, as it will never stop.
Donât do it. She obviously doesnât appreciate what you have done before!
As her sister you are not obligated. A close friend should actually do it! You are off the hook!
Oh Hell NO! Where does it say youâve got to provide an ungrateful and unapologetic sister a baby shower ?? Sheâs been taking crap on social media for 3 year?? That should tell you something. NO! NO! AND AGAIN, NO!
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Sounds like she has a serious entitlement problem and in my honest opinion you should start putting your foot down asap, though it will be difficult and drama filled it will benefit you in the long run.
I wouldnât tell her to find somebody else or hire someone l donât think itâs worth the Stress to you and tell her so look at what you have gone Through look at the thanks you got for that one l would just tell her Nope Im out of Bussiness Sorry Find Someone Else
No youâre not obligated. You throw her a shower if you want to and thats it
Just because your her sister doesnât mean you have to throw the shower if you feel strongly about sticking to the reason why the. Do it there are other people that can throw one
No! She was ungrateful and bitched for â3 years!â about the last party you threw for her.
No! Who does she think that you are? Surely not her party planner. If you wanted to, she wouldnât have to ask. Donât let her guilt trip you into it either.
She didnât appreciate the first one.
Are you mad to even consider it after what she did to you. Just tell her no.
Seems like a dammed if you do, dammed if you dont. So if you really just dont want to, donât have the money, or dont want the stress then Iâd say dont.
Arenât baby showers just for the 1st baby??
Tell her to go an jump tell her to do it herself or get someone else to do it you did the first one you donât need the stress of it
You are immediate family and it is considered bad manners to throw a shower, wedding, house warming , whatever. Her friends should be doing these gatherings and NOT you ! The financial pressure on you isnât even fair. When friends host these events, drama could be eliminated because they get to select the guests. Your sister had her nerve to demand this of you in the first place ! This is not your job ! Just say NO.
Clear boundaries is beneficial to your mental health. So hell no!
You have a personal boundary that you donât want to throw the shower. So donât let anyone cross your boundary. Stick to it. You told your sister no, so its her job to figure it out 
How on godâs green earth are you obligated to do something for a grown unappreciative woman âŚ
Do what you want to do And can afford to do then tell your sister to ask one of her friends to give her a shower And remind her that people do not go around asking them to give Her a shower. P people will do it if they Want otherwise accept what happens no matter whatâŚ
What the heck is a household shower? It sounds very grabby!
Omg I just told my hubby about thisâŚhis response was stick a cork up her f$$$y und keep the baby in there until she can afford the shower herself
No, if she didnât appreciate it before she would not do it this time either, plus you mentioned the you canât afford it , you are not obligated,
That would be a no from me. She sounds toxic
Certainly say NO! She was a dork, a spoiled, ungrateful turkey, so she does not deserve your efforts.
Tell her to run onâŚ. Donât do it. She sounds entitled and toxic.
say âIâd love to but I canâtâŚIâm incredibly busy doing______â prepare to answer her whiny questions and just you cant do both.
Where I live, it would be considered inappropriate for oneâs sister to host her shower. Doesnât she have any friends, possibly some who owe her a favor?
Donât do it. You canât please people like that. They are waiting to pick you apart no matter what you do. You canât win so donât play.
Tell her to get fucked and sort it herself. Still be drama but itâll cost you a whole lot less and whatâs three more years of social media aggro?
Why do people need a baby shower?
No way should youâŚit is ok to say NO I think your sister bullies you
Do what is best for you? Its not mandatory for you to host
Say you wonât do it. Help out but just be a guest.
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior
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No. She should ask soneone else YOU are NOT OBLIGATED TO DO ANYTHING.
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If you ruined something why would they trust you not to ruin it again. Right.
Wouldnât be me.
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I would say no way, look what happened the last time I did something for you. Definitely no.
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Hell no I wouldnât. And you donât even need to justify not wanting to. If you donât want to you have every right to say no
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Nope you aint obligated to do anything for a sibling or anyone itâs your choice
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You are under absolutely no obligation to do anything.
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My gosh! What are you thinking? My answer would be a definate NO
My friends had all my showers, bridal and baby⌠never familyâŚ
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You donât have to do anything you donât want to do
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Iâd get some mini baby dolls and throw them at her , and tell her, thereâs your baby shower.
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Tell her to throw her own shower 
No family drama then is there
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No remind her of her actions an just show up for baby shower
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Say NO! She feels entitled. Tell her straight out that you will not give her a baby shower. Let someone else throw her one.
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Stick to your finances. Maybe her Maid of honor and girls can give her a showerâ¤ď¸
You need to fix the bigger problem⌠her bullying you. Stand up for yourself and say no. Donât let other people make you do things you donât want to. 
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Umm no! Doesnât she gave friends?
Boundaries. No is a complete sentence.
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Absolutely no!! Sheâll never learn if you keep giving in to her.
Tell her shes a big girl do it herself n get on with ur life⌠she doesnt like it too bad⌠stop being her doormat
You do not have to throw her a shower. She should have one of her friends do it.
Family is not supposed to give showers.
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Baby showers for every baby us greedy! You donât need the drama!
She sounds like an ungrateful spoiled brat to me . I wouldnât do it .
Iâd just tell her, i was afraid Iâd do something she wouldnât approve of
No you dont have to. Let her best friend do it.
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After she got so mad. Let someone else in the family or a friend of hers have the shower
Maybe her friend can host it for her.
She sounds like a bully, a spoilt brat.
If she wants a baby shower tell her go ahead and do it herself.
Tell your sister to kick rocks, and throw her on baby shower.
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You donât have to. Your sisters a bully. Tell her to bugger off.
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Itâs not your place to throw her a shower Iâd say NO
Hah! You are not obligated to throw her ungrateful ass a shower just because sheâs pregnant. Thatâs hilarious.
You are not responsible for her happiness. Walk away.
She can throw her own babyshower like everyone else does.
No⌠donât she wonât be happy. Let one of her friends step up to the plate
Tell her no you cant but if she had a shower you will attend with a gift.
Hell no dont throw her fucking shower. Tell to have the drama person throw her a fucking shower.
Tell her no, tell her you just cannot do it.
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No do not do itâŚshe does not appreciate itâŚstop
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No way!!
Ungrateful human being to youâŚ
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No no no!!! Didnât you learn the first time aroundâŚ
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You dont have to do anything you dont want to
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You donât HAVE to do anything you donât want to do for family or otherwise. Tell her to find someone else.
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You are not obligated to do this⌠politely decline.
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You donât need to through anyone a shower.
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No way you owe her nothing!
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Not your responsibility 
if you want to help pay for something for the shower, sure, but itâs not an obligation.
Forget that! Youâll never please her anyway!
She sounds ungrateful⌠No obligation to throw ANYONE a shower. I wouldnât. Let her be pissed.
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She sounds like an ungrateful spoilt brat
In my opinion, you donât owe her a damn thing!!
No u donât have to do anything u donât feel comfortable doing
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No sort of showers are obligatory!