She wants a shower she can pay for it. Cheek
Ur mad if u agree to more drama from ur sister. Say NO!!!
Stick to it,â she already screwed you once.
Less drama! Fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me.
Umm people canât really Force people to throw them baby showers 
family or not thatâs a first
Nobody threw me any and I have 2 kids
No you donât have to unless you want to
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You donât have to do nothing your free and over 21
Tell her your sorry but you can not afford to do it.
Unless your sister plans on being pg many times, I would throw her a shower and celebrate the new addition to the family. You also are quite the drama queen. Look at it as a loving welcome to a baby.
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You are not obligated to throw her a baby shower as her sister. I have 2 sisters and none of us threw baby showers for each other. Thatâs usually a best friends job. I wouldnât throw her one anyone after the first time. Let her find someone else to do it. She sounds completely ungrateful
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You are not obligated
Your health is more important
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No âŚtell her to find another person to walk all over & talk about later ⌠
Less drama is much better!And didnât yourvsister have a Maid of Honor/Maids in wedding party!They should be the one to help her out.Just saying.
You are not obligated to do anything!
I wouldnt do it sounds ungrateful and intitled âŚ
Youâre not obligated. One of her friends could throw her a shower. It sound she and the person who wasnât invited previously are peas in a pod.
You donât have to do anything
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Donât put yourself last. The only beings you should put before yourself, is the one/s you created. Nobody else is worth jeopardizing your inner peace.
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Be the bigger person. Thereâs a baby involved and that baby will be your niece or nephew.
Nope I sure wouldnât after her acting ungrateful the first go round .
Heck no. I wouldnt do it. You dont owe anyone anything.
Hell no! After the first time why do that again for an ungrateful miserable whinger, tell her to do it hetself
I would tell her where to stick her self entitlement to a shower x x x
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be upfront and say that you cannot afford it and say that since she was unsatisfied with the first shower that she should find someone else
No, u r not obligated to throw her a shower; however, u should apologize to her because u did not invite the one person she wanted u to. That was not ur call to make and underhanded. U should have put ur big girl pants 
on.
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Your sister didnât appreciate the first effort you put in for the wedding shower. Donât waste your time, donât waste your time, save yourself from the drama. She can hire someone, are you getting paid for this stressful situation?
Just tell her you canât afford it now
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Being the âbigger personâ does not mean you need to allow yourself to to be taken advantage of and abused. We women, too often think that we need to please everyone else, to our own detriment. I used to believe that as well. I am nearly 61 yes old and it is only in the past year, that I have learned to put me first. I adore my children and grandchildren but I matter to. I have ended my relationships wit the toxic people in my life, including siblings. No guilt.
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Your not obligated to be dictated to
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No. You donât HAVE to.
I wouldnât in this situation anyway. How rude of her to ask you!
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If you do put ground rules down. Let her give you a guest list but you choose food, venue (home) , and decorations. It doesnât have to break the bank to be a fun baby /stress free shower!
No. Donât throw her one.
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Let her do it on her ownâŚ
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From what I have always been told - it is improper for a family member to host a shower. Tell her NO - ask a friend to host a shower for her (if she has any friends, that is).
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Sisters dont have to throw showers of any sort, if they donât want to. Dont be afraid to tell your sister NO.
You donât have to do.
Tell her no your not doing it. After last time sheâs got a hide expecting you to.
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Please stick to your guns there are any number of people who can throw her a shower but itâs definitely not youâŚ
I think you know the answer. Do what you know
If your heaIf your heart is not in it, it will be even more stressful for you. Doesnât she have a sister in law she can ask or her best female friend?
Stick to what you know will be less drama she did not appreciate the first one
If youâre not comfortable, youâre not obligated.
No the answer to your question is nope! Tell her to it herself and send a gift âŚ
Stick to what you know.
You are under no obligation to do so
No. You donât HAVE to do a damn thing.
Tell her No. Who does she think she is? The nerve of her. Her husbandâs side of the family should do the shower. Youâve already done the bridal shower. Tell her this is an expense you canât afford if you canât tell her no because youâre afraid of her. I hope you donât do it. Sheâs playing guilty mind games on you. Your sister is so selfish and ungrateful to you. NO
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Oh and you âdonât have toâ. She actually has to be a good sister to you.
Sister overwhelmed. You are not your sisters keeper.
Tell her to throw her own damn shower!
Speak up for yourself. Tell her NO and that ends that.
You have no obligation. Your sister is a spoiled brat.
You have the rihht to refuse. Added drama- no yjanks!
Tell her to go pound sand
Iâm sorry Iâd tell her to kiss both my butt cheeks and the hole! Cheeky mare
Sheâs shown how ungrateful she can get. You did her a favor by not inviting that one person, if they mostly cause drama. Iâd respectfully bow out of this one. However Iâd show if someone else hosts the shower. You are her sister.
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Let the Fathers family step up, She seems to taken up enough space in your head, evem though shes your heart your sister needs to get it right, let her know how you feel and hold on.
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Sorry but your spoilt little sister needs to grow up and throw her own baby shower they are not compulsory and itâs her baby not yours. Who is she to demand this??? Tell her to get on her bike and do it herself. And thanks but you donât need need invite as you donât need her negativity. And to feel free to plaster it all over fb like an attention seeking wench that she is. Just because your blood doesnât mean to say your her whipping girl and doormat. Family can be so cancerous.
You should never feel obligated it doesnât work that way. Just the fact that she was so ungrateful the last time you tried to do something for her why bother doing it again? Kind of setting yourself up to get hurt. Always love your sister but she donât got to put up with her bulshit! Like you said no drama lol good luck in whatever you decide
Sounds like she is controlling and abusive. Iâd just tell her she is going to have to have someone else do her biding for her. Possibly tell her that you would rather not to avoid past issues occuring again.
I go for less drama, she wasnât pleased with the first one, so why would she be pleased with the next one. If she wants it so badly do it herself !
After the gratitude that she showed you the first time, I would say absolutely not. You did your duty, and I donât believe that showers are required for the second baby, they were more done to help you out when you were getting started as a new mom. Maybe itâs different now, but thatâs the way it was in the 80âs; it would be different if you were closer and she was appreciative.
Donât expect anything youâll never be disappointed you do not owe anything to anybody sheâd be getting a clip up the ear if itâs was my sister talk about stepping over boundaries after what sheâs said to you how dare she.
Had 5 kids never had a baby shower once, itâs not necessary lol,I find a spoilt brat attitude when chicks say they need one but itâs for the baby 
Itâs not called a pregnant chick party!!!
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Tell her NO and tell her to ask the person she wasnât happy who you didnât invite, Or she can organize it her self like most people do, She is a ungrateful bitch who thinks its her right to tell you to organize a baby shower,
I organised and payed for my own baby shower. I didnât expect any one else to pay for it or organise it
Sometimes you have to know when to draw the line with family!
Sounds like an entitled girl, no, I would tell her the truth that you donât need any more drama, Iâm sure she has girlfriends who will gladly throw her the baby shower. Too bad but tough.
If you do it do what you want simple you putting it on
Your sister sounds to be self centered and a unappreciative individual. Say no!
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Throw her in the dump⌠youâre just being usedâŚ. IGNORE HERâŚâŚpretend you didânt know anythingâŚ.give her taste of her own medicineâŚ.even with sister or other member of the family⌠THERES A LIMIT FOR PATIENCE
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You dont âhaveâ to do anything at all!!!
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Nope, you are not obligated and Iâd tell her why you wonât/canât do it
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Yes,but just invite that one person you didnât invite before and nobody else.
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You most certainly do not have too. Tell her your finances are not good.
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You donât ever have to do anything you do not want to do. Period.
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If sheâs planning everything let her plan it.
Less drama, always. Get her friends to do it.
You are not obligated to do anything for her!
No way!! You did 1 shower. Itâs someone elseâs turn!
Donât be used by an ungrateful family again
Say no. Skip the stress and drama. Let her have her temper tantrum. Sheâll get over it.
I be the bigger person and tell her to PISS off and NO !!â
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Tell her to throw her own shower. What a bitch,
Stop being a people pleaser I donât care if your related if u donât wanna do donât
Donât do it! You will not be able to please he whatever you do!
Hell no. I wouldnât do anything for her. Especially with the fact sheâs slandering you on social media. Forget her and her shower
The answer is a big NO , your sister is a bully
Donât do. Tell her to get on the end of the far. Queue
I wouldnât bother hosting or going 
You have no obligation here. Decline and move on.
Her friends can do it
Um if youâre having a baby have the baby shower yourself.
Eh those are over rated
Do what makes u happy
Nope donât do shit for her ungrateful ass
Just say no
I dont feel obligated to do that.
Id tell her to do one!!!
You donât have to do sh*t for her