Am I overreacting or just hormonal?

I think you are being overly dramatic.

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:face_with_raised_eyebrow: isn’t it normal for men to have a girl on girl kink??? Even if they are in a committed relationship

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Definitely hormones. I’m sure he was just joking. It’s just a song.

Lol well me and my baby dad went to a festival and some girl was on stage singing, he said “wow she has a gorgeous ass voice”. Smh so there’s that.
I’m also pregnant and hormonal but he could just keep that to himself ya know? Because if I said something like that about a guy, he’d flip. It would be a whole ass fight. I can’t stand when guys do shit they wouldn’t want you doing to them.

You’ve definitely taken this wayyyy to far … Just because he likes the song and even the idea doesn’t mean he wants a girl like that … It’s fantasy … Chill out girly and love your life

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It’s a song, and a good song actually - next time tell him to play wap

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This is more then just hormones girl… :joy::woman_facepalming:t4:

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She needs to chill, it’s just a fantasy, Im sure he doesn’t actually want her to be a lesbian. :expressionless::roll_eyes:

I’m 5 years happily married and I’ll still pump “she belongs to the game” because I love that song. Doesn’t mean I don’t want to be with my husband lol

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Hormones, you’ll laugh about it soon :heart:

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I’d be more concerned that your having a baby with a “boyfriend” yet you pick fights like middle schoolers.

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Take a breath love. It’s the hormones talking. Hugs

It’s a song you started something that wasn’t even there - he needs to run

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It’s just a song. Is he asking you to like girls? If no then it is hormones. I’ve been with the same man and he had a thing for girl on girl for a while. Everyone has that curiosity whether it be man or women in any combo. It is natural human curiosity. I’d let it go and stop stressing over it.

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That song is top 3 in most of the world. Time for a nap lol

Girl on girl is Every cis males dream.

Hormones, you’ll cry about even more stupid shit. I cried because I couldn’t get the lawnmower started :joy: I had a full on tantrum, sitting in the grass. We laugh about it now

Yes I think hormones for sure however…some if you heifers on here are just down right rude! :roll_eyes:

All good! The song is awesome and is not a reflection on your relationship. Congrats on your pregnancy!!

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It’s ok lol once when I was VERY pregnant I found some old pics of my husbands Gf from high school and told him to be with her if he still had that pic from fb​:joy::joy: I laugh now but dude I was crazy

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I thought all dudes like the idea of girls with girls! :rofl::woman_shrugging:t2: Doesn’t necessarily mean anything.

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Yeah it’s just a song it’s not that deep he’s basically saying he’s a guy why wouldn’t that be appealing he can still like all the same things he liked before you and still be a good partner and only want you it don’t mean he wants something different

Lol it’s not that deep girl. Definitely the hormones… hopefully… if not he needs to run :sweat_smile:

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That’s… Definitely hormones talking. You’re probably feeling vulnerable and insecure. It’s ok, just tell your husband to be extra careful with your feelings right now.

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Yup you win. This is officially the dumbest thing I’ve read on the internet today :roll_eyes::joy:

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Overreacting like crazy ! Insecurities running high. Read a book or something

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This is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever seen. Are you serious?

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Omfg. I personally find the song creepy af because it’s sexualising lesbian and bi women, which is just gross. But also… What on earth would make OP overeact like that? Like do you think your guys gonna leave you for a lesbian woman? She wouldn’t want him and I doubt any bi woman would either with that music taste :joy:

You’re extra hormonal, but he’s being a dick

Hes a male. They will be married fully devoted husband and still think of girls on girls. Your just hormonal and that’s ok too. I’m on my 5th pregnancy with hubby of 18ys, only 33 by the way and dam it’s just what it is. I like abit of that action too lol. It’s a fantasy. It’s fine

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Married 18 years and my husband would love to see that. Just a guy thing I think.

Grab a snickers and relax.

Pretty sure every guy would agree

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For all of you being rude, she is PREGNANT and dealing with HORMONES. Get off your high horses. She’s struggling. Even if it’s not something you see as a big deal, it’s a big deal to her in this moment. She’s not being insecure, she’s being hormonal. Have some compassion.

Not unreasonable, more like realistic. Don’t change for him. Hold your guns

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He’s a man. Don’t they all like girls who like girls. It’s your hormones. Chill out momma.

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Yeah, you’re being hormonal. Chill.

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I’m guessing early 20s? … lol

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Yeaaaah I get annoyed when my bf plays it too

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Your hormonal. It’s a song, sometimes yous won’t like the same ones. :joy::joy:

It sounds exhausting being in a relationship with you :frowning:

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You do know sometimes liking a song is ACTUALLY NOT about the lyrics…. It’s about the beat to a song??

Pretty sure you were jamming to and singing along to Katy Perry “I kissed a girl” song back in the day!!

Get over it, it’s just a song!!

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Do you guys just make these up? :face_with_monocle:

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Definitely just hormonal… Maybe a little paranoid

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Its just a song lol clam down and stop being petty.

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Omg it’s a SONG! You’re DEFINITELY overreacting… :rofl: being pregnant and hormonal has nothing to do with it.

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Calm down its just a song that he likes

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I feel like a girl on girl is a very common male fantasy. Also drake makes some weird music. His lyrics get me mad all the time when my husband sings his songs. Like excuse me, you are in love with 2 girls? :woman_facepalming:t3: (also pregnant here) but I do it lighthearted and I don’t take it serious because I like music too that’s about being single, wild and free lmao and I’m a mom to 2 kids, expecting, married, etc.

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I always hate to tell women that they’re overreacting when they’re pregnant because their feelings are still valid… But in this particular case I think it might be an overreaction. Honestly if I wasn’t with my boyfriend I’d have a girlfriend. But he’s with you, he chose you and he’s choosing to have a family with you. I know it’s not the same thing but this gives me “if he watches porn, that’s cheating” vibes.

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Yea… You’re overreacting lol. It’s a song… It’s fine

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Its not “just a song” the words/lyrics are to relate with people the ones who like it can relate your reading into a little more because your expecting and have leveled up maturity. I hope you can work this out momma :pray::two_hearts:

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You are overreacting. It’s just a song.

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Hormones hun cuz most men want to see 2 women going at it, doesn’t mean ur not his whole world…

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In my opinion, it’s a song I wouldn’t worry to much about it, 99% of guys think girl on girl is hot :woman_shrugging:t3: hormones are a pain in the arse and they get to the best of us. Try not to worry about it too much.
x

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Is this for real???!! Better turn off the radio…every single rapper sings about that, sex, drugs, stealing, and their Mercedes Benz. Also….99 percent of men probably want to be Drake and 99 percent of men probably like the idea of girls liking girls.
Get those hormones in check and calm down sis. Just music

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Definitely overreacting to be honest.

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Your feelings are valid, but I definitely think your surging hormones are playing a roll. I cried over dropping a donut on the floor. :laughing:

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Oh girl I have been there! Try not to let the hormones overtake you. It’s easier said than done but in this moment try to remember: he is his own person outside of your relationship. He is allowed to like things that you might not. Just don’t over think it mama. I know my personal overthinking leads me to be super unhappy and unsure. Lots of love and light sent to you :heart:

Hormones girly. When I was pregnant I seriously cried over Mac and Cheese.

I was also super sensitive to music and tv shows. Everything either seriously pissed me off or made me cry.

As a girl who likes girls… keep him… we dont want him :joy:

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My husband is solely in love with me and im bisexual hes told me I can get a gf as long as he can watch. His porn tastes are out there too. Its him, who he is and who I love. We have a family together and making a life for them just because he’s got some kinks doesn’t mean anything.

Play Marvin’s Room by Drake and tell him “now this is a good Drake song” :sob::joy: don’t forget to sing the chorus loudly. Lmao. Jk. I do think its the hormones. People are entitled to like music even if it doesn’t reflect their lifestyle. Don’t over think it. :yellow_heart:

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Sweetheart i definitely think your emotions are messing with your head. You are DEFINITELY good enough for him, you’re carrying his baby. Hes made an off the cuff comment and i think you’ve maybe taken it to heart because of all those extra hormones. Don’t be to hard on him or yourself x

You’re just over reacting. It’s a song men say dumb shit and if that’s all he did was say what u said he said you’re definitely reading way into it… Gotta bring it down a few notches before you start pushing him away or nonsense

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Extremely unreasonable. Your feelings are valid. But darling this is a bit ridiculous. He picked you because y’all are good together. And as much as men like the fantasy a man can’t get with a “girl who likes girls” if she’s a lesbian.

While your feelings are totally valid, I think hormones might be playing a large part in it. When I was pregnant I cried and fought with my boyfriend because he didn’t want to go get sonic​:joy::joy::joy:

Hormones! Most guys love the idea of girls who like girls. Its probably a fantasy for him, take a breath and chill out!

This is childish and petty trust me I’m the queen of it lmao don’t even stress about it tbh

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As a mother with grown sons, 5 infact, I would say hormones are a big part. One of my boys is a bit if a dick like that but having said that he loves his wife and we are both certain he says that stuff for a reaction. She now goes along with him.

There are far more issues to worry about in life than him liking a song. It’s just a song…

Hormonal and I’d say its a classic man’s fantasy xx

Ask him if he’s heard that new song boys who want boys

It’s those hormones gurl! Let it go :slightly_smiling_face::wink:

You are being insanely hormonal.

I’m not pregnant but I’ll be mad too…:rofl:

It’s a guy thing. Over 30 years with my husband. Never goes away. :joy::joy::joy:

Dudes always fantasize about woman with other woman. It’s no big deal really

Ur just being hormonal, just because he likes girls who like girls doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you and doesn’t want to be with you

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You’re just hormonal!

Idk, it could be totally innocent on your bf’s part, but Drake rubs me the wrong way too and you’re allowed to have opinions that differ from your partner’s. Just be careful to discern what’s an opinion and a presumption

I don’t understand why dudes wanna disappoint two girls at one time :joy:

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Sounds like a nut case

What the F did I just read?

Hormonal it’s just music …

All those telling a pregnant woman to “calm down” aren’t helping. You never tell a hormonal pregnant woman to calm down.

Your feelings are valid and yes it hurts to hear your spouse say he likes lesbian action when you’re not one and you’re pregnant. I’d tell him to try to be more sensitive especially after putting a baby in you. That said, guys are pigs and I doubt one would turn down “girl on girl” action… so take it with a grain of salt, and go take a bubble bath.

Introduce your husband to something more kinky than that. Honestly girl on girl/bi-sexual fantasy thing men have is so over rated and played out. Most men can barely handle 1 female, 2? Lmao.
(Side note i am Demi-sexual though so take my advice/opinion with a grain of salt LOL)

She asked for advice not to get attacked by randoms on social media. I mean really if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all! :joy:

Omg you must be a gem to be with :joy::joy:

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It’s hormones sis.
Is a song
he is guy

girl shut the hell up and pick ur battles u sound dumb as hell

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I think you are OVERREACTING! It’s just a song. :rofl::rofl::rofl:

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this seems homophobic

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It sounds like hormones boo. They can be rough. I can somewhat get it, he’s a man. Men are simple creatures lol but don’t let it tug on your heartstrings too much.

Don’t pretty much all straight men like that?

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Hormones! You are overacting. Men will be men.

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Yep. You’re overreacting.

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Yeah very overreacting

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