I think you should definitely ask a thousand strangers on Facebook rather than 2 or 3 trusted close friends or advisors. Good job.
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No you are not selfish !
You are being smart .
You worked for it and saved for it and he did not .
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Nope!! He hasnt done anything,to help get a new one !!
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You are not being selfish. You are being smart
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Real simple “no” he doesn’t deserve to have his name on the new house
Sounds like you need a divorce!
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No you are a smart lady keep protecting yourself you might have to show him the door
Put your money in the kids names, then divorce.
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I agree with u. You did ur part, no free rides. Stick to ur guns.
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Nope but you should get rid of him
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No since he has made no effort saved no money, he doesn’t deserve to have his name on it
Not at all. Protect yourself x
Not selfish I would have my name on it & my children on the deed so it would belong to them
Take care of yourself first. You’ve worked hard!
Get your legal advice from an attorney, not FB.
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Put it on the name of one of your child.
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Your a builder,he doesn`t care either way how he lives. No need for him to live there either.
Check with an attorney, but I would go with not putting his name on it.
Who cares if it’s seen as selfish. Protect yourself!
Make a trust n buy the new house in that. It will protect it from him
I think you are a wise woman. Another good idea would be to not let him set foot in your house.
Create a trust and Put the title in the name of a trust .
This does not sound like a very good marriage. Get out while you can
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No it’s a great idea go-ahead and put in your name and ur children .
It doesn’t matter if it’s selfish or not, or if he doesn’t put any money down for a payment. If you are married he has invested interest. Idk about a prenup but you can draw up a Will to give the kids the house and not your husband. But why would you marry a man like this. One of the top reasons for divorce is money problems. Walk, don’t run out of this relationship.
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No. But this does not sound like a marriage.
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Don’t think this marriage without trust is going to last long so just get divorce advice 
No! Protect yourself! U sure u want to be w someone that let’s u do all the work?!?!
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No not selfish at all!!!
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No, it is your hard earned money.
You are not selfish at all!! Good for you!!! 
His name would only be on divorce papers!
I think you are doing the right thing for yourself and your children…
I think you every right not to put his name on the new house
Not selfish. Savy and sensible. Your blood, sweat and tears! Protect it.
No it is not selfish.
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Absolutely not! Take care of yourself!
Very smart…protect your future.
No covering yourself. Nothing earned nothing gained!!!
Absolutely you are not selfish. You are deserving
Not selfish at all he didn’t help
Your not the selfish one your husband is !!!
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I think you know what you need to do. Just do it. His irresponsible actions arenot your problem…
Your smart kick him to the curb your worth more than he can give you
Definitely not selfish of you x you have earned it x you go girl x x
Not selfish, just willing to take care of yourself.
I don’t blame you , would not put his name on
save your house money and get a divorce. He won’t change.
The sooner is the better if you wanna divorce him.
No
In fact,
It’s time to kick him to the curb
Ie: divorce him before you buy the new house
I don’t think its selfish at all its peace of mind
Protect yourself and reach out to a lawyer in your state.
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Nope. A deal is a deal. Hold your ground lady - you only get what you’re willing to settle for!
Girl, boot him. He’s holding you back.
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Why do you need him ? Don’t get a house . Get a lawyer
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I would not put his name on it…
I’d get divorced, then buy a house in my name.
You’re not selfish You’re smart. Gotta take care of number 1. Never know about the future.
No not selfish at all. I would get a lawyer to validate the transactions
I agree. DON’T put his name on it. Sounds like he’s selfish. Cares only about his self.
Selfish? No way. I think it’s extremely wise of you.
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You should do what is best for you and your children
Don’t do it, you earn the money yourself, when you move, leave him there
No. That’s just protecting yourself and your children.
Absolutely not ! Do NOT put his name on anything.
Put house in your name he can put his toys in his name .
Lots of luck. Your married. What does YOU HUSBAND think.of your decision? His behavior will continue. Watch your step. Just.saying
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I think I’d be looking for a new partner.
50 50 when you are married
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Hell no it’s not selfish, sounds to me like you need to move on…ASAP.
Hit the road, and run fast!!
Divorce and buy your home
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Not selfish at all. Just bring wise.
Absolutely not! Take care of your needs! 
Put the deed in your children’s name. No its not selfish
Nope, right decision.
U right jusy your name on it he’s irresponsible he’s proved it in the last years
It should be just in your name…then again…why are you still with him… just a thought!!!
Shit. He should stay in his own and you should move on.
Keep your head up, Fan, and don’t let him get even 1/2 a step ahead of you on anything.
Nope! It is brilliant of you!
You are absolutely right, don’t put him on the house!!!
Absolutely not! He didn’t contribute
Not at all you’re a smart woman!
Do not put his name on your house
Smart woman.Are you in a Community Property State? See an Attorney.
He does not deserve his name on your house
No. Follow you gut instincts!
No it’s not selfish. Your money, your house!
Put it in trust for ur kids.asap
Depends on the law in area where you live
Not selfish at all!!!
I’m with her. I’d dump him and then buy the house.
Not only should you not put his name on it, you should dump his ass
Put the house in your children’s name
I would’ve never married him.
No, obviously he’s not responsible
Not at all I agree. Same with me
Anyway he will enjoy living in the house
Oh man did you marry my ex? Lol. Take care of yourself!