no sounds only fair to me.
I think that I would leave him off!
Nope, not selfish. Very practical
This should have been clearly discussed and agreed on beforehand.
No, you can’t trust his spending behavior.
No, I did the same thing!!!
Your money, your house, you aren’t selfish at all. Go for it!!
No absolutely don’t put his name on your house. He sounds irresponsible.
Don’t put his name on your house, just on the divorce papers.
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I say dump him and get your nice house!
No. Not selfish at all. Sounds like you are a wise woman.
Think you should divorce b4 you buy or you may lose half
Not selfish but you should seek an attorneys advice, protect yourself legally. With all due respect, why are you with him? He seems not to care or put forth any effort. Wishing you the best.
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So why marry him???
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At least he gets a shave…
NOT ONE BIT. I wouldn’t put his name on anything and dump him
Don’t put his name on anything
Hell No!!! I think you are brilliant, don’t settle, to me this is a deal breaker.
Forget a new house; get a new husband.
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No, you are not selfish…you have protected your self, smart move.
No ! Congratulations on your new home!
No that’s not selfish you’re smart not to put his name on it
I wouldn’t put his name on it
Great idea!! Don’t back down
Go seek legal advice and be quick about it!!
Not selfish on your part!
Nope. Your doing the right thing.
Keep his name off the deed and kick him to the curb.
Don’t be predictible.
Sounds like there are other issues that need dealt with.
Do not put your husband’s name in anything even toilet paper. That is serious!
This isn’t even an issue. You already thought about it so you already know
No. He’s been selfish this whole time.
No you are fine doing what your doing!
No your not I know just how you feel
Just get a divorce. Because that is where this is headed.
Not selfish at all, he proved himself.
Nope…buy the house and let him stay in his dump
No you’re not,it may be a blessing later on!!!
First of all sis, divorce him. Then get you a nice ass house.
No protect your self and family
Nope!!! Not selfish. Your husband, on the other hand…
Dump him and buy a new house
Not selfish at all. Your house.
So why did you settle for less than you deserve.
Dump the little boy and be with a man.
Obviously you can’t fix him.
Fix yourself
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Heck no
You have to take care of yourself
Sounds like u need a new husband!!!
Counseling n separation for a time out.
NO…you need to think of yourself!!
You are 100 
0/0 RIGHT. You need to look out for you and the kids
No just your name. Best look at your relationship
Not at all selfish…
Dont put his name on it …
Get legal advice, things can turn ugly real quick!
Absolutely not take care of yourself girl
You should have agreed to all of this before you got married.
no smart move on your part ’
Tbh you should’ve never married him than! That’s my opinion…
I would leave his name off
I agree you are not selfish look out for yourself
Talk to a lawyer
Have seen women get screwed over many times because of this 
Only a fool would stay.
Should have never married him.
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Not at all sounds like a loser!!
I think you should do whatever your heart is telling you to do.
no you have to look out for yourself
Put it in your name only! And let him continue to live in the house he’s in now!
Nope! Keep his lazy butt off the title! He didn’t help earn it!
no, sometimes you just need to take a stand…
The answer is no that’s your house
Absolutely not. Your money, your house.
Heck no. He sounds like a loser.
Do what you need to do. Protect you.
I would run like the wind!
Sounds like you are foolish if you do
No you are not selfish !
You are doing the right thing!
Nope he gets nothing don’t deserve nothing. Y r u still with him?
It is WISE, not selfish.
Not his name not his body. Leave the moocher!
You are correct don’t put his name on it
Not even a little bit… don’t do it
No…I think it’s smart of you.
Not selfish at all, very smart, I think.
Hell no!! Not selfish at all!!!
No mam it will be a smart move.
I’m with you. He didn’t earn it, you did. You go girl.
When you break it down to hers and his, you shouldn’t be an US! Sounds as if you have been divided from the start and shouldn’t have gotten married. Marriage is a partnership, both giving 100% and you two definitely don’t sound like partners.
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Why are you still even married 
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Hell no your money your house!
Put your house in you moms name. Divorce him you will never have anything
No stick to your guns
Its your business no one elses business - don’t worry about others opinions🌷
if you are married and you purchase the home during the marriage regardless of if his name is on it or not, he will own half due to it being marital property. (this is the law in most states-you will have to check law in your state). If he is the deadbeat manchild gambler that you don’t want a combined life with that you are describing, you should just divorce him and get out with your hard earned money in tact. Do not purchase the house until the divorce is final. Good luck.
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Absolutely not. Itd your house
Do it! With NO regret!!
I hope you did not put the money from your house in a joint account
Get a divorce, live together, buy your own house!
It sounds like you need a divorce
No. Needs to be a two way road.
Nope- the writing is on the wall🎼