Mental mentality. Lots of people get divorced.
it seems your mum should have swallowed 
just saying 
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Marriage is an outdated and unnecessary institution.
Many people just donât see the need for the âapprovalâ of the church or state.
Get over it.
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Omg are you telling me there are people out there having sex outside of marriageâŚ!!! 
wth are they thinking!!! 
Been with mine 13 years were not married and have a daughter together we are happy just the way we are. Some people donât need a wedding or are simply just happy as isđ¤ˇđťââď¸
You said yourself that ââ A baby doesnât save or continue a relationshipââ so what does it matter if sheâs married or not?
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Does it really matter? You were married when you had your kid(s). With how you feel about it, thatâs all that should matter to you. You have no say or control over anybody elseâs choices or life and their reasons are really none of your business. Being married really doesnât have that much effect on whether the family will stay together. If the situation isnât right, they will eventually get a divorce anyway or stay together and be miserable which isnât usually the best situation either. Iâd rather a kid be in a loving house with unmarried parents than a stressful, unhappy house because the parents feel stuck by marriage and kids.
Umm because I dont want to be married. Marriage is an outdated and unnecessary concept. If itâs something you want then great but I donât. I have a beautiful family and an amazing relationship with the same man for 10 years which is stronger and happier than 99% of the marriages around us (assuming they last)
I have no desire to get a peice of paper to solidify my commitment to my spouse. He proposed many years ago but I decided marriage wasnât something I needed or cared about all that much. We are happy.
Not sure why that seems to be offensive to you though
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I personally think that children need both a man and a woman for healthy growth. I can all ready see that a lot of woman disagree with me. Itâs my personal opinion but I have watched many examples in my life
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There are no courts for unmarried. You have no legal rights to anything unless itâs in your name. Same thing if one of you passes away. You have no legal rights to anything. Medical decisions canât be made. Other family can come in & make the decisions without your say.
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Marriage is nothing more than a piece of paper, and it is VERY expensive to undo if things go south. Whereas if youâre just living together, youâre still just as committed as if youâre married but if things go south all you have to do is pack up and leave and be done with it. As far as kids go as long as their home is happy and stable why should it matter if mom and dad are married or not?
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Maybe get off your high horse and mind your business if you donât want any backlash
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Because marriage is a social construct that serves no other purpose than to âclaimâ another human as only yourâs and you as only theirâs. It is mostly a religious ritual or a legal contract to have access to certain rights (i.e. health insurance). Not all relationships need this type of branding. People donât need a ring or a sheet of paper to prove their love and devotion to each other. Not to mention the male/female monogamous relationship is not the ONLY type of relationship model out there. My husband and I chose to get married to ensure the easy ability for our kids to have his last name. Thatâs just what we decided was best for us. We didnât plan on getting married until legal issues (like name, health insurance, property ownership) became an issue. That piece of paper changed nothing in our actual relationship. Our kids are still loved the same, our love for each other is the same, our commitment is still the same. You need to open your eyes and realize your beliefs and feelings are only that. Yourâs. The world is a big place with so many varied and wide beliefs. So many interesting and different people. People should choose the paths that make them happy and fulfilled, not feel forced down a path constructed by otherâs beliefs. There is no lack of self-respect, as you seem to think, in choosing your own happiness outside of traditional beliefs. Just like there is no lack of self-respect to choose traditional marriage before pregnancy. Self-respect is centered around yourself, your needs and your boundaries. It seems the lack of respect here is coming from you, not the women who choose to remain unmarried.
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So your saying I should not of had children because my kids dad didnât want to marry me?? If Iâd waited till someone married me Iâd have no kids and still be looking Iâm 34 I donât think anyone wants to marry me which means Iâd never have children.
Marriage is just a piece of paper, I
Yes Iâd love to get married, Itâs one of my most wanted things, but it may never happen so Iâm not about to give up on kids.
And all dads have parental responsibility now if on birth certificate, and if not they can get a DNA test through the Court.
I would not change the fact Iâm a single mum just to be married, yes I struggle with no matinence and no companionship, but kids are lucky enough to have two loving parents (yes we donât get on great but we still co-parent), & one loving step-parent (hopefully 2 loving step-parents one day) xxx
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just because a woman isnât married doesnât mean she doesnât deserve the right to be a mother nor does it make her a terrible mother. A person doesnât need to be married because society says so, this is 2022
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Lol marriage? He will leave you no matter what married engagement pregnant one night stand booty call friends with benefits dating boyfriend/girlfriend 1 month together 10 years together if he wants to leave you pregnant he will
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A woman does not need a man to survive in this world. Women have evolved past the man and the shackles of necessary marriage (aka, we escaped slavery) 
Sorry not sorry.
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My step grandparents disowned me at 17 for being pregnant, because I wasnât marrying the father. The same grandparents that made a 30 week pregnant women sit on the floor, rather then move to the side of the couch so I could have a comfy place to sit. Iâm assuming your not the type of person to get up on public transport, or my example âin your own houseâ to make room for a pregnant woman to sit. I know which type of person I would rather be anyday.
To wonder such a thing is a reflection on you my dear, how happy are you in your marriage I wonder? You must be so proud to Shame other women coz you fit what? Text book?
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What in the hell does signing a piece of paper to bring the government into your relationship have to do with being in love? In my opinion, people get married for attention. There is no need whatsoever to get married.
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Wow! Very well said! What does it matter? Well, impoverished, on welfare(tax payer)programs, medicalâŚthe stress of single motherhood is significant. I was one thru divorce. So I know what Iâm talking about. The stress leads to child neglect and abuse to bring up a few things. Think about itâŚ
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Easy answer. Mind your own business. Not your body.
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Wow.
The misogyny in this is overwhelming.
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Tho i respect ppls opinions personally i am unmarried bt do have a partner both of us agreeing we dnt want 2 b married i was a solo mother 4 13yrs with my 4 children and i gt through everyday some days were tuff n sum werent i also worked off n on as well, i have never believed in marriage and tho its nt always this way bt i have seen wat marriage has done 2 ppl in my family and friends
The reason most donât get married is so boyfriend can have a good job. But baby momma doesnât and they get took care of by the government foodstamps,housing,government insurance ect⌠in my opinion if u canât afford kids on your own without government assistance then u donât need to have them.
I agree with poster⌠whoever wants to backlash and defend urls decisionâŚsave it plz cos im not interested.
Marriage is more of a commitment factor, if he marries you, you know hes serious and maybe somewhat mature and most probably wants children. Lets teach our girls to respect themselves and not just sleep with any Tom, Dick and HarryâŚand have a child with each man they sleep (and then expect the next one that comes along to look after the child you had in previousrelationships) with cos at the time âheâs the oneâ ⌠look for deeper commitment, and integrityâŚhave some dignity.
My Opinion, i will not read any comments⌠regarding my opinion, will simply delete and move on
Wow. Marriage doesnât make them be responsible either. If ur self worth is tied to marriage u have issues. Even in our grandparents and great grandparents times there was kids before marriage. Who cares. I was told I could never have kids after a brutal rape when I was 16. I found me a man at 18 that didnât care if he had kids or not. So we got married after about 15 months. We got along great. And so why not. Well he started beating the shit out of me. I was worthless I was garbage I was a slut that asked for the assault when I was 16 an so on. And since I couldnt have kids I stayed and kept putting up with it cause who else would want someone who couldnât give them a familyâŚplus this kept another woman from his abuseâŚa few weeks laterâŚa sign from whoeverâŚI WA PREGNANTâŚand he tried straightening it around. He got better he didâŚour son Was bornâŚhe was a bit controlking about itâŚbut mamageableâŚwhen our son was 9 months old he came at me ans beat me out of the blueâŚI was gone the next day and filed divorce. Visitation an everything was tried and he couldnât handle it an eventually took off who knows where. Fast forward 7 yearsâŚI meet a good guy that can play football with my son and totally connected an everything. I would consider kids againâŚbut never marriage. Marriage doesnt make someone mature or responsible. U just told every woman who has kids without marriage sheâs needs a scarlet letter on her chest. What makes u all high and mighty⌠When I got divorced j marched into court and told that court I didnt want a goddamn penny from the Bastard. Court asked if I was sure and j said yes. I was given custody an placement an he was given supervised visits an anger management an he didnât do either.
Grow up
Mind your own business
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You said all that, with a follow up of be civil.You must be crazy.Carry on.
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Sorry? Literally just shut up. This statement is arrogant. We arenât living in the olden days Karen its 2022, we donât shame people who arenât married but have children.
Also birth control has so many harsh effects on womenâs body and can even cause infertility.
Next time you think writing this statement and thinking itâs a good idea do us all a favour and DONT.
What I do with my body and what others choose to do with theirs is literally not yours or anyone elseâs business 
I know I am choosing not to get married. I donât want to be and thats MY choice.
Honestly, its no ones buisness if they are married or not. Marriage is just a piece of paper and a way for gov to keep track of us. Real devotion comes from the heart. Married, unmarried, none of it matters, its what we each want out of our lives that dictates what we do.
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huh, didnât know marriage magically made people stop being 
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this is the dumbest 
iâve ever heard
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Putting the misogyny and obvious religious bias aside, why wouldnât a woman be able to raise a kid by herself?
What does a marriage certificate do to make a random guy a good dad?
Do you honestly think that women ALLOW men have no responsibility? That they chose that road or could have predicted it?
Also take into consideration that many women are pro-choice, so that baby they CHOSE to have on their own could have been aborted.
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Wow. Very bold. So someone who isnât married doesnât deserve kids. Marriage only exists because of its back dated bull shit. You sound like youâre stuck back in those days too. I sure hope young women donât turn to you for advice. Just toxic.
And I donât even know why you chose this place to casually insult single moms but WRONG GROUP.
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Why are you making assumptions about why a mother is single. No woman owes you her story to spare herself from your gd judgement. Go pray about it, Bc your Jesus said thatâs not ok. What about the survivors of domestic violence? The patriarchy has convinced you that women are evil and your only saving grace is to serve a man and have his babies? Gross.
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What in the actual f??? I canât be civil on this one, sorry. How is this even permitted? So judgemental!. The worse part is that if you bother to open your eyes one day you will find lots and lots of fathers, married ones that fail to their wives and children every single day!!!. The freaking paper does not make any difference. I am married, but my husband would be the best father even if we were to separate. Itâs a about each individual, if someone is garbage it will be garbage married or not!!. Mind your own business and find a group dedicated to Karenâs please. I hope your life gets a little more interesting one day. Have a nice day.
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Because a piece of paper binding myself to someone legally is just thatâŚdoes it mean we love each other less because were not married , no. What is sacred to me is the meeting of two souls, two bodies, two hearts interconnected as oneâŚI have three children to my partner and one day I would like to marry himâŚbut the fact were not means nothingâŚI choose who I share my body withâŚI choose how I finance myselfâŚI donât need a husband to get what I want.we get it together married or not
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I married the father of my children, it didnât make him a good father or a decent human being. We have been divorced for 10 years now and Iâve never received 1 child support payment. We donât even know where he lives. Marriage does not make a man a good person, father or partner.
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A marriage doesnt save or continue a relationship either if the relationship is over then its over.
Honestly why do you even care ? Itâs not your life none of your business itâs theirs⌠their baby. Especially if how they live their life doesnât effect youâŚtheyâre are way better things to worry aboutâŚ
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Marriage means nothing. I married the father of my children and he still ended up being a deadbeat whom abandoned his 3 children. Then I had a little girl out of wedlock and her father (whom I no longer am with) takes care of her and is a great dad.
Your post is shameful and to ask people to be civil after the judgment you just threw out there is laughable. Stay in your own lane and worry about your damn self.
Oh look at you, youâre married so youâre so much better than all the women that are not and still have kids. Girl stfu and let people do what they think is best for them. Not every woman can use birth control and not every couple chooses to get married. Why canât every do what works for their relationship? You think marriage proves to a couple that they deserve a baby? Girl shut yo ass up. Ainât no one gonna be civil to you with your judging ass. Gtfoh
Marriage doesnât mean heâs going to take care of his kid nor does it mean heâs going to stay. There are married women on this form that say they are married and feel as though they are a single parent because their spouse does not contribute when it comes to their children also I know several ppl who were married for 5-18yrs with multiple children and guess what they are now divorced. Just like a baby doesnât keep a man neither does a marriage. Worry about your own family and not what another woman does with her body. Do I agree you shouldnât keep having a baby by a man he does nothing yes but thatâs not my place to speak on it nor do I know why she stays but thatâs not for me to figure out. Your post annoyed me and no I donât have multiple kids and Iâm not feeling guilty just annoyed by you
I missed the part where you get to have an opinion on this. Other than the obvious religious bias, which btw doesnât look good on you, who do you actually think you are to say that. Do some soul searching, cuz a piece of paper doesnât change anything
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Marriage was only created so a man could show he had property. Show me Adam and eveâs marriage certificate 
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Because Satan wonât accept us into his kingdom if we get married.
Because this isnât the 1700âs anymore Karen, and people live their lives differently now.
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She or him just ask a question in this is how the world is becoming mean
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I canât even believe this was posted , smh
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Personally I donât think it your business and we not in the 19th century anymore.
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Because most women now a day donât respect them selfâŚItâs a saying â If I could get the MILK free why buy the cowâ
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Because being married literally changes nothing in our relationship. It doesnât make them lovey ou more, it doesnât ensure comittment, nothing. We own a house, two businesses and about to have our second child. Literally donât care about a wedding or marriage or being owned by anyone. It changes absolutely nothing. And not one single person outside of my relationship gets to have an opinion.
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I was with my first fiancĂŠ for two years and wasnât supposed to be able to have kids so when I became pregnant it was amazing. When my baby was 4 months old him and I separated since he had cheated on me. My second child was born seven years after my first and her dad and I were together for eight years. I left that relationship to to him being an alcoholic and a narcissist. We never did marry because he didnât believe in marriage. Honestly having children has nothing to do with marriage. You can have kids and get divorced all the same.
You insult almost all the women in this group and have the nerve and audacity to request for us to be âcivilâ??? Kick rocks Karenđđž
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My manager has been with her man for 10 years and she gets more money from the state being a single mother of 3 then she would married. Her and her man love each other and live together, but itâs saves them time and money.
Unmarried, been with my partner just short of 15 years. 4 children. Dont plan to get married anytime soon as we are both happy as we are. We donât need a piece of paper and his surname to know we love each other 
why fix something that isnât broken? Just because you get married does not mean itâll last longer/be better than those that donât. You seriously need to get your head out of the sand
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I agree âa baby doesnât save or continue a relationship.â However I also agree a piece of paper submitted to our government doesnât save or continue a relationship.
Yes I am a married woman. One who used to not believe in divorce. I now donât believe in marriage. It is nothing more than a document making your relationship official with the government. Then in order to end said relationship you need to pay the government money and jump threw their hoops.
No thanks. Never again.
A ring on your finger and a signed document doesnât equal any emotional responsibility.
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All of motherhood is extremely challenging and this 1920âs mentality is absolutely detrimental and judgemental.
Whether you are a married mother or single mother itâs easily the hardest job youâll ever have!
A man does not make you more secure or capable of being a mom- in some instances I think quite the opposite.
Before you judge anyone else I suggest you do some personal work. What sounds like a woman of god- leave it up to his heavenly gates to do the judgement.
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I think itâs become obvious that a man who doesnât want to be kept, wonât be kept.
Married or not.
Sooooo have a baby however you want to have a baby. This isnât the 1800âs and women no longer have to worry about their reputations and not being able to land a husband
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I was 16 when I got pregnant and the dad didnât stick around but Iâm a mom of 5 kids and a grandma of 7 and I wouldnât change a thing
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Wow. Such ignorance. I didnât plan on getting pregnant but i did. I was lucky enough to have left my ex before I found out as it was extremely toxic. My son is better off without a man who never wanted him.
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How do you feel about unmarried men choosing to be sexually active ? I have been with my partner 15 year and we have two kids weâre not married and dont plan to be.
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Being married means nothing now days. If youâre content in your relationship without a piece of paper saying youâre legal bound to another person, then thatâs how you live. Having kids doesnt mean you need marriage⌠divorce still happens when there are kids and that just makes it more messy. Why does it matter to you ir anybody how someone else chooses to live if it doesnt affect you⌠?
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I was a single mother of 3 got married had my 4th with my husband but before that if you with the wrong guy he controls what you take where you go so ending up pregnant is not always what you want just what happens when I was 16 got a my oldest bio and he locked me in his parents basement cause I wanted to leave him and ended up pregnant with my oldest then when I was 18 got into a relationship with an old friend thought he would be perfect for me since we had always got along after one year together he got controlling and controlled who I talked to what I ate drank medicine everything and when I finally got the courage to leave him his mother and him kidnapped my second daughter and I was pregnant but after 7 years I have all my kids and he is out of our lives happily married pregnancy is not alway a choice but I would never have an abortion cause Iâm not up for murdering an innocent child and adoption is not for everyone cause they may fall in love with the baby after and things will be hard but single mothers and single fathers find away always sometimes that means asking for help and advice and they are the strongest of us all who are single parents raising children
To give someone like you a topic to not only talk about but legit post on social media and sit behind the comfort of a keyboard⌠i mean duh why else??
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It takes 2 people to make a baby.
Why do men continually get women pregnant then bail and have nothing to do with the child?
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Marriage is old school. You are the same type of person who would question why there are so many divorces. The year is 2022. Women can do as they please. Just because marriage worked out for you doesnât mean it works for everyone. You could have been in the same boat, although it happened to work out for you. Please do not judge the single mamas as they are strong in their own way. Marriage is not the cure. Not to many people want to dedicate themselves to another person and put the work in that a marriage requires, therefore it would end up with the same result, just having to go through the divorce process as well. Open your eyes to others experiences on life, they may not be yours, although they truly form lives for others.
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Wow. Marriage doesnât equate commitment. How many men and women cheat on their spouses? I was married 7 years with one child, it was very unhappy and ended badly. Iâve been with my current partner 3 years, we have a little boy and we are happy and unmarried. 
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Hi, unmarried mom of two here. Some women actually canât use birth control methods, like me, due to having really weird body chemical makeup and allergies to almost every contraceptive.
Please keep these women in mind. Thanks.
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Lol we only have the option to bare children if we are married 
this is a joke and has to be asked to get interaction with the page or something
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Unmarried and single mom of 1! Both my parents are still happily married but i made the choice to become a single mom and ive never been happier! I was on the pill and still got pregnant. I also hated condoms because they hurt so bad to use even with lube. Iâm almost 21 and shes almost 2 and honestly I dont regret it and never will! Personally I donât know if I will ever want to be married because if you divorce with kids its really really messy. Why would I want that??
Yes, itâs only the womanâs responsibility. Completely shame and invalidate any woman who ends up pregnant out of wedlock because there are so many forms of birth control that she should have been responsible enough to use 
because you know, the woman is the only person involved in the process. Jeeezuzzz please tell me that this post wasnât written by a woman.
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Iâve never been married and have 4 kids with 3 different dads. So what youâre saying is I shouldnât have had any kids because I donât want to be married? Seems a bit judgmental if you ask me.
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Why do you need a piece of paper to have a child with someone? Why does a woman have to âlegallyâ bind herself to a person to have a child that she will live unconditionally? I have 2 children from the same father that I was with for 17 years and we weee never married. Whatâs the point of the piece of paper?
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Some people want a child regardless of if they have a man in their life. And thatâs okay. Some of the best parents are single parents, mother or father.
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Get off your high horse & quit trying to shame others. This page is called âMamas Uncutâ not âmarried self righteous people who need to question other peoples lives just because they make a post.â
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So I donât see a lot of people coming to her defense and I think the point she was trying to make is not that you have to be married, more to the fact of why are you having sex with assholes who donât make you feel worth while and donât want to be in your life and the life of the being you created. Now Iâm not saying you have to be married for that to happen because yes divorce is very prevalent but if I had to guess I would guess she means why are you with someone who isnât going to be there for you and the child. And just saying for those who canât use birth control it is possible to track when youâre ovulating so you donât get pregnant. Just throwing that out there.
How bout focus on yourself n mind ur business
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Do you not think some women prefer to be both mothers and single? And isnt it their choice if thats how they want things to be?
I think the real question is why donât you mind your business? Are we living in 1922 or 2022? Because people do have premarital sex & sometimes birth control fails, sometimes people love eachother & are happy for a baby and things end up not working out. Why are you so concerned about what other women are doing with their bodies, and go so far as to make a post about itâ:woozy_face:
Just because you are married doesnât mean there isnât room for divorce, shit happens
Unmarried mom of a 16mo and TTC for 10 cycles. Iâve been with my boyfriend for 7 years in July. There are some women who canât use birth control due to allergies or other medical problems. I donât see why you need to be married to have a child. Being married and having a child does not mean your outcome is necessarily going to be better than someone unmarried. Hell⌠there are some amazing women out there that CHOOSE not to have a man - thatâs totally fine! Because my boyfriend and I have a child together but are unmarried does not mean I value myself any less.
Besides thatâŚ. A baby doesnât save or continue your marriage either 
But what if you just donât believe in the idea of marriage? I did a cultural marriage for his sake but things didnât work and Iâve been with my new partner happily for 12 years now.
In this day and age marriage you donât need to be married and Iâm 70 and I say whatâs the point Iâve been married along time but now donât think u need that piece of paper anymore just cause you want children
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Sheâs not saying you need to be married to have a child. Sheâs asking why choose to have multiple, planned, or underplanned kids with someone who doesnât value you enough to legally give you half of themselves. Just FYI, statistics show that if people are married and share children together, they are considerably more likely to stay together than couples who are not. Why is that?
There are also great and important legal benefits to being married, especially if you share kids. People drop dead unexpectedly EVERYDAY, regardless of how long you exlect to live. You have NOOOO idea how horrible that can be for an unmarried couple. Bad enough for the married ones.
People here are butthurt right now, but I see a million responses to women on their 3rd kid with someone who wonât marry them, asking about their right to property, or money, or trying to ask for help with parenting a partnerâs exâs child-- and ALL the replies are âYou just the gf, stfu.â âYou not married, so thatâs what you get.â Itâs like yâall always got something to say, donât ya? Must be a lot of hypocrites around here or something. IdkâŚ
Well said. Their loss! SAD! Not fair to the child.
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I shanât be civil. This is the stupidest post I have seen. Marriage doesnât equate to commitment, responsibility, a good relationship, or anything else. Itâs not on women to do a damn thing. Itâs on the adults to take whatever measures they deem fit for themselves. You really thought you did something by shaming and bashing women you know nothing about. This post is trash
Marriage is just a piece of paper, do you really think that a piece of paper will make a guy stay either?? No they just cheat and walk on their wife. You dont have to be married to be a family either. I have been with my fiance for 6 years and we just got engaged a year ago. But we have been trying for a baby way before that but honestly I already have the whole ring on and so does he so why do we need a piece of paper!!!
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Not all women can use birth control. Some of donât believe in allowing men ownership of us. Marriage is a piece of paper. It gives the man more rights to you. For example if youâre legally married even if youâre separated he gets to medical decisions to for you. Not someone you trust to do what you would want. He has more rights to your body & child than if you were unmarried. He also has control over your money. If you die your adult children get nothing. He gets everything. If he dies you have to pay off his bills even those created before you were married. A single person can choose who makes decisions for them, who inherits from them & doesnât leave anyone in debt. Soo much that people donât even think about. So while youâre looking down on me thinking youâre better than me I stand tall knowing that I didnât give up my rights to a man like you did.
Been with my man since we were 19. Got pregnant at 25 decided to legally bind for health insurance mostly but also the perks of tax cuts and it was important to me that we all had the same last name by the time I delivered that baby. I agree that being âlegally marriedâ doesnât mean s***. I choose to love and stay in my relationship every single day. No matter the âtitleâ relationships are work! And there definitely is no happily ever afterâŚ.despite what Disney might teach us while growing up I think every woman and man deserves to be a parents if they want to be, and I think that everyone makes it work the best they can. I know some families who are what I would call âdysfunctionalâ but they are married and all live in the same house. I also have friends who have a great home full or love and co parent beautifully with parents that live in separate places. Itâs no oneâs place to judge. Kids are beautiful and wonderful in every way and at the end of the day married, single, divorced WHATEVER we are all just doing our best or at least trying 
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Iâm a single mom. My ex, we was not married, has equal rights.
Why are you so judgemental?
OK miss âfound my prince, I am perfect!â
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Now days you donât need to be married to be in a marriage like relationship. If you live with your partner, live together and then have children you are practically married. Men still have the responsibility to look after the child whether your married or not. They are put on the birth certificate whether there is marriage or not, the child carries their DNA whether your married or not. I understand there are still ppl out there who want to be married before having children but itâs not for everyone and you can still live in a loving healthy relationship/family without being married. So for you to question other ppls lives, I do believe thatâs where is comes under its none of your business.
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Or you could just mind your business and donât judge these woman.
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Just wow!! Not everyone WANTS to get married ⌠You can be comitted without being married! So judgmental,smh
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Maybe you really wanted kids and the guy couldnât commit after. Not my case but just because you arenât married or the guy doesnât want to get married and you really really wanted kids- or both of you did ? There is no guarantee relationships will always work. Married or not married.
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Choosing to have a baby on my own was the absolute greatest decision Iâve ever made. So you can turn your judgmental ass around and GTFO of here.
Stop projecting your weird insecurities.
I donât see why people canât just mind their own business âŚjust a thought.
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