You have every right he didn’t just marry u
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Next time his kids make a mess or he needs to go somewhere. Don’t clean it up and don’t watch his kids. Throw it back in his face and say " your kids are not my responsibility" and re- evaluate your marriage.
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Keep a diary…when you’ve had a guys full and you have all the evidence ditch the buggar n file for custody…
That’s wrong on many levels. If you stay at home your son is his responsibility. Plain and simple
Wow!!! I am speechless … your son is his (step)son! I don’t know what to say because it is so mean and hurtful 
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If you marry someone with kids, they’re your responsibility. Both ways. Run.
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I don’t blame you at all for being upset when you get married they all become both parents responsibility
He needs to understand that he married you knowing all this. If he cant accept your son then stop doing for his kids and make him do it. Then leave his pathetic ass.
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U come as a package with ur kids and not withouts
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You’re 4yrs in and he’s STILL acting like this? That would be a wrap for me 
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Wow. Yes, you have EVERY right to be upset.
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I am a child who was treated differently and I can tell you that your kids will have self esteem and a whole host of issues in their adult life stemming from this treatment. Get out. Get a job and sue for your fair share of child support. Make him pay. But he will never change.
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If he can’t treat them equally, he’s a garbage father.
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Defenitly his responsibility he didn’t just Mary you but your children as well !
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I would be telling him to find a daycare for his then cuz they aren’t your responsibility
He would be an ex husband super fast. My husband isn’t my oldest daughters bio dad but her bio dad isn’t around. He claims her and raises her. He has since he moved in with us. Youre not married to a man. Divorce him and find better.
Your son deserves much better than that.
That’s just BS. All the kids are to be treated the same. He is a Dad to your kids now too.
I got into the say situation!! Get your kids and get the hell OUT
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I’d feel hurt. That’s not cool.
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Girl. He IS his responsibility. Oh I won’t even get started.
You are right to be hurt! I would be, too!
Sis you need a job so you can take care of your kids.
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He’d be packing his bags
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sounds like aliar o he is go on all about him and his even his x es good by wont get better.good luck
Yes you should be mad.He should treat him like he is his own.
Yall are married. His money is your money.
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If that’s what he’s saying to you, I can imagine what he says to your son, or how he treats him. Get out now
Um…no ma’am that is unacceptable. If my man cannot treat my kid as his own then I’m walking!
I suspect you already know how ridiculous this sounds, you are a wife not a servant
He knew you had kids before he married you. Love me love my kids
There’s a reason the other baby mamas aren’t with him
Man does NOT marry JUST women. Man marries EVERYTHING that comes with women. Do not forget your worth.
Oh no when he married you he took the package deal. You and child or children.
That’s a hard hell no! I’d be out if he said that to me…
U have EVERY RIGHT to be upset
Fair is fair !
I’d be irate to say the least
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Girl I would kick his ass he is wrong so wrong
Uh… he wouldn’t be my husband anymore! Like girl time to say bye boi!
Oh no, I’d be super beyond pissed.
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I would tell him two words and its not Merry Christmas
You deserve a true partner, this ain’t for you🚮
Get up and get a job, I foresee things going worse from here sis 
Definitely time for a divorce!
Take your kids and move to Alaska. Problem solved. Think long, think wrong!
He needs to step up or step out for good
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Your asking because you already know the answer.
I’d be mad. Should be the both of yalls
I am a stay at home mom and my husband brings in the income. It is not his money, it’s our money. I work for it at home the same as he does at his job. If any of our kids were from a previous relationship, I would expect him to treat all of our children the same. He seems very emotionally manipulative.
Bible says “Do unto others as you want done to you”
Tell your husband that
Um id literally be filing for a divorce. NOBODY would be treating my baby like that
You have every right I would have knocked his teeth out, you took me and there fore my kids just like I took you kids, my husband and I to have lots of kids, his mine and ours lol, my ex don’t pay a cent towards his kids out of pure spite, I’m a stay at home mom with my kids and our twin babies, my husband work very hard and when money comes we buy for the kids eat they want or need, even though this year was a little taff he never once said it’s not his responsibility
I’d be calling a divorce lawyer
What a jerk …did he not know you had kids when he married you? Sorry but that is horrible 
You marry someone with children they become your children too
Ouch. My heart goes to you. Work I had some advice.
If you marry someone who had kids before you got with them you are taking on the role of the other parent for that child you can’t just decide that kid doesn’t exist. If he didn’t want the role of dad/step dad what have you then he shouldn’t have married you. I’d set him straight tell him if he is not going to take care of your son like he does his kids then you’ll have to get a job which means he’ll have to find someone else to watch his kids when his ex can’t take them cause your son needs to be taken care of and if he’s not man enough to do it then you’ll have to grow the pair he doesn’t have.
You are all your kid has you have to protect him stand your ground
I would tell him to kiss my ass and I would leave his ass. That’s all kinds of wrong.
Girl you gotta put him to kickin’ rocks! Hard and fast!!!
Throw the whole ass man away.
You know what the right answer is.
Get out and run!!! This will never change.
Yes don’t be mad get pissed forget his ass find a man !
If he cant be fair with all of them then leave his a$$
You have every right to be upset.
Hell yeah you should be mad. He would be gone and paying for more kids.
Time to throw out the whole man
I’d be pissed. Then I’d go get a job at night and make him watch all of the kids to see what it’s like. You’ll no longer be a stay at home mom, you’ll be an equal and therefore his responsibility would be equal to yours.
He sounds like an arse.
Kick his lying, no good self to the door
Your and mine equal OURS!!
Get out of there. There’s nothing to think about.
Been there. I feel sorry for you.
run don’t walk this man is a piece of work…
I’m sorry you’re married but have to ask to buy the kids in the home things??? I don’t see that. I see it more as you’re a maid and nanny. I’d file and leave his ass
Re-read your post and think through your answer options
Run now and be done with his ass!!!
Wow time for an exit plan
You stupid knowing all you know now you need to dump him , cause things aren’t gonna change .
He’s a loser. Walk away . Put your kids first
Time to get a divorce and ask for child support!! Why continue to make your children feel less than just for the sake of a man?? Let him and the ex get back together being he’s supporting her and lying to you about it!! I highly doubt this is the 1st time he has pushed you 2 older kids aside. Wake up and put your kids 1st before any damn man!!
That last comment would have been the final straw for me. I’d start working, save my money, leave and hold out for someone better.
WTF… Sounds like you better get a job to take care of your son… F*** what he say!! It had to have really hurt your son’s feelings, that is almost like mental abuse… What a sorry mofo.
Sounds like you’re the free maid & whatever else he wants. F*** that
Girl time for a divorce
Yes every rite to be upset,send the lier packing,
When you get into a relationship with a person who has a child, and make a commitment to that person, you also make a commitment to that child, whether they are biologically yours or not. You have a right to be upset, and you should express this to him, and express how you feel, and explain to him that if he can’t treat your son the same way you treat his children, then you can’t be in a relationship. It’s all or nothing. He knew what he was taking on even before he married you. Period.
I want to add that I would watch how your son is when your husband is around. Only saying because there is a possibility of psychological, emotional and/or physical abuse that could happen if he doesn’t treat your child as his. I’m not saying this to freak you out, only to make you aware of possibilities that could happen or are already happening. Please be aware, and also let your son know that you value his life and protection over anything, and if anything is happening, he needs to tell you immediately. If this does happen, leave immediately.
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Leave him, choose your child!
Omg that sounds terrible. If i were in his position id be more than happy to buy your son clothes. And the fact that hes giving his ex money willingly is so weird. I wouldnt stand for that. Unless its court ordered…
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If you have to come to a facebook group for marriage advice, I’d say you have bigger problems then a shitty husband…
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Sob he could go far away for that! You don’t take it out on kids
Open your eyes honey.
Wow. You’re married. All the kids are both of yours. This is a SERIOUS issue, IMO.
Leave his ass and make him pay u support get u a job and tell him to kiss us ass. Nobody would treat my child like that. Period.
Sounds like your husband is a total jackass. There is a term for a husband who doesnt want to ‘share’ his $ with his stay at home wife. It is called financial abuse. I’d be disgusted. Unacceptable.
I would diff be upset. I have a son from a previous relationship and my husband and I have one together. My husband knew when we met that it was a package deal with me. He accepted my son as his own. To this day we have been together 20 years and you would never know my son was not his biological child. My son has a daughter our granddaughter and my husband does not think of her any other way other then that’s his granddaughter because my son is his son. In our house it does not matter what DNA runs through our veins we are a family and noone thinks different. We have friends who my husband has known for almost 20 years and they were shocked to find out my son was not his biological child. So with all that being said. If he does not think of your children as his own or love and treat your children like his own then you need to get walking. A real man love a child for the child not their DNA
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spousal support & child support.
see you later 
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I have a different point of view. Now I have 3 kids same dad from my previous relationship. I never felt it is my fiance’s responsibility to take care of them ( specially financially) now I get child support an ok amount I am a stay at home mom …my fiance pay the bills. We are discussing have our baby. And I I do expect him to treat his baby a different… He says he won’t and he’s not the kind to lie… But to feel the baby’s kicks the sonograms his blood n bone… I understand she is mad… But maybe its my view ppl…
Ugh, nope… your kids are his and his kids are yours… they should all be treated the same. My husband has always treated mine like his own and sees them just as much his responsibility.
I’d be handing him divorce papers asap. I don’t have any time for that bs in my life. My husband has 3 kids (2 with one woman, 1 with another) i have a son from a previous relationshit. My husband treats mine the same as his. My sons father is a sperm donor pos. My husband is my sons father. If he were to lie to me about money, and treat my son different, he would be gettig divorce papers immediately. If he made the comment that my son isn’t his responsibility, his ass would be gone before I could even hand him the papers.
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Your husband married all of you… hes a turd
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