Like I know everybody is saying on here that men are clueless but they’re really not that clueless. If they can sit in yours and your kiddos face and eat knowing that y’all don’t have any that’s an a-hole move. A man’s first instinct as a husband and a father is to provide and not just financially but to bring food to the table.
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Have you told him to bring you something? Men are so thick sometimes and he probably thinks you have all ready ate and wouldn’t want any. I would be annoyed, maybe have a night where he brings everyone food as an option.
Mine works nights too but if he gets something he brings me and the kids what we like from there too…ask him to include you guys and tell him what you like. Ours is easy because only the neighborhood deli or dunkin donuts is open around here when he gets out…
Closed mouths don’t get fed.
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I think it’s rude! Of course being a mother you always think of your children first. Then the adults but I always order for everyone in my family. If I can’t afford it for everyone then it doesn’t happen.
Its rude, if he can’t offer to get his family something , he can fry an egg when he gets home
I see a bomb loading, he is sp selfish he doesn’t care about anyone.
That is really selfish.
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That would be his only meal in my house
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Oh, it’s definitely rude and inconsiderate. Hmmmm… my first thoughts are that he may want to appear “single” and not order extra food for two other people so whoever he may be flirting with thinks it’s just him at home? Maybe he’s being cheap? Maybe he doesn’t want to wait around for two extra orders being made? I would start calling him every day kid as he’s about to get off work? Check the receipt stapled to the bag to see the address if this is a usual fast food place he would normally pass on the way home and is there anything else he ordered that’s not making it home?!! 
You could follow him and meet him there when you see him ordering bust in the place with your big pregnant belly saying “oh honey I was wondering when you were coming home because me and the kids are starving!” 
On his way out the door say “hey, if you stop on the way home grab me something for these late night cravings…this baby wants some snacks.” If he doesn’t bring something then…Leave his ass a blanket and pillow on the couch. I’d put his laundry, unfolded on his side of the bed. 
I work 3rds and I am always bringing something to my family
To me it’s rude. I wouldnt go on front of anyone eating if I didn’t have enough or at least offer to buy something for them as well.
It’s a total selfish move especially with you being pregnant.
I’d be pissed asf pregnant or not that’s rude u don’t eat in front of people especially ur own family
Even not pregnant…id be pissed 
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How late is this food event taking place?
It’s a combination of emotional pregnancy syndrome and don’t feel bad maybe he think of you and your son it’s just late at night maybe he thinks you two are asleep and already eat ate eaten maybe you should ask him if you want some food too
Ummm here’s an idea: TELL HIM 
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Yeah thats some bs! Thats disrespectful period. I wouldn’t even buy food and go to a friend’s house and eat in front of them if I didn’t buy them anything.
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It’s rude to not offer
Tell him how you feel hun x
Mine used to do this also … he is now my ex
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Helllllll to the naw to the naw naw naw 
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Wow I’m so sorry. That is just inhumane in my opinion…even moreso because you’re pregnant! How dare!! 
No that’s inconsiderate and selfish
Ask him to call and see if you want anything. Or call him when you know he’s getting off work
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Ummm if anyone brings food here they feed me… house rules. No I don’t ask. It’s just polite. Why would you be like ooo loook at my food I bought I’m a ass hat.
Nah massive red flag
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WTF?? That’s F’d up! He don’t care. Truth.
That’s super rude. I’d be so mad and I’m not even pregnant. Where are his manners
Before you blow up or even repost it here, TALK TO HIM!!
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And he’s still alive ? 
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It’s rude. But like, have you told him, hey, when you stop and grab food could you get me some too?
I am dead. Seriously!?? Nope
Grab his favorite food or make it (just enough for you and the son) and eat it in front of him. You can’t possibly share because there’s just enough. If he doesn’t complain he just doesn’t think that way. If he does complain… he will understand how you’re feeling
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Yeah I’d be mad too. Lol
Being pregnant, I would totally poach his food. Oh, you gonna share today!!
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Not cool… but have you expressed it… shouldn’t have to I know! But men just don’t think like women… maybe try talking about it to see if it changes
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Boy I have a talk with him
That’s a bit crazy. My husband brings me food everyday…even when I say I dont want any. Hes being very inconsiderate.
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Omg pregnant or not I hate when someone can do that in front of kids an than especially your own kid like wtf who raised his ass!!! What a fucking jerk sorry but not sorry!!
I’m not pregnant and my husband brings me food after work or calls to see if I’m hungry (he works graveyard too.) Your husband is an ass. Next time take his food away. Pregnant mommy is priority.
Do you ask him too? How late does he work? Maybe hes tired.
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Talk to him about it. Infact ask him to bring this and That home from this fast food place. If you are not talking to him about this issue no point in being mad cause you are choosing not to communicated to him you would like food.
A husband don’t think like you do.
Do you have a hot meal ready for him when he gets home?
Cause he light just be ready to go at after working a shift especially after working ar nights
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Its incredibly rude if he knows it bothers you. If he doesn’t talk to him about it.
Yeah that’s a fucking issue
Geez… my husband never missed a doctors appointment, met me at the gas station to fill up my car so I didn’t have to be around fumes and always put me and our son first. Now and while I was pregnant. Reading some of these just make me sad. 
Oh hell no, I’d be so damn pissed but I would definitely make a smart ass remark! That’s just rude, we are hungry!
My man would NEVER even go to shop without bringing me home something he will ask me do I want something I’ll say no and he will still get me something… he is even more giving to our son (well his my son from a previous relationship but his rasing him not biological his) but my point is. If he gets food and don’t ask me he knows I’ll end up eating his
I’d personally start digging a hole in the back yard and when he asks what its for respond by saying oh this hole here it’s for you next time you bring home food without calling 1st for me and the child … either that or I’d completely stop doing absolutely anything for him washing his clothes anything you do for him stop it and when he says something just say oh well when you don’t help us out with food I hadn’t time to do you’re stuff I was busying making us food me and the child and you’re unborn baby. Ohhh hell no… I’m so angry with him right now…
Yes talk to your husband about it and nothing is solved between the conversation with u both I would make sure I go out of my way and do the same
I would be pissed, pregnant or not lol
Naah that is so not right. How dare he and he eats infront of a pregnant woman and a child? That’s being mean and nasty, thinks only of himself. Call him out on that.
He’s being extremely rude in my opinion. I use to work till about 1 or 2 am and I would always message my bf and ask if him or our son was awake and if they wanted any food if I was stopping for some. He should atleast call or text you and ask if you want something. I was raised that eating in front of someone without offering them anything is rude
Y’all are married. Instead of asking our opinions, take your 
in there and talk to him and ask him why he doesn’t think to bring y’all anything.
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He picks food up to eat at home but brings his family nothing? Tell him how you feel about it? My EX would do this to me also. I thought it was just teething stuff. By time our second son was born I was gone. We teach them how to treat us. Relationships should be about care and support, especially due to the fact that you are hapu.
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No, it’s rude af. Pregnant or not.
Make a beautiful meal for only you and your son to eat while he sits there with his McDonalds. And when he wants some just tell him you didn’t make enough for him.
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I’d walk up and take the damn cheeseburger and eat it…he sounds pretty selfish
Yes its rude … He should call to see if you want anything … His behavior is thoughtless
Totally rude he should bring you and kid something back like he knocked u up he better feed ya
You are definitely not extra! It’s rude!!!
Next time sit right next to him.and start eating it too.
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Sit down and eat all his food, then say thanks.
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Nope. That’s Hella rude. I’d be mad too.
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See ya buddy! Keep going!
Your first problem is you posted on here instead of talking to him.
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Why not tell him that? Just say “can you send me a text or phone call if you’re stopping to grab food so I have the option to get something”.
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He is rude. Pregnant or not , totally rude and I considerate
Ohh no mine would never he works nights and gets breakfast 2-3 times a week and always brings me something even if I’m dead asleep. Even when he goes to the gas station he always brings me something even if I say I don’t want anything
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Your husband is rude I wouldn’t even need to be pregnant to be mad at that. In his defence though, men 9 times out of 10, LOVE to provide for their woman, but you just have to ask, not hint.
What was his response when you asked him about it?
It’s very inconsiderate of him!
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Not trying to be rude but y don’t u ask him.” Why don’t u bring us food or ask if we want food on ur way home” guarantee he doesn’t because he figures u already ate and men don’t realize that Pregnant women will eat ALOT
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Mine does it sometimes too and it’s rude af but I told him
I think it’s so rude when people do that! I would never grab food and go home and eat in front of my hubby, kids or anyone for that matter without asking if they wanted something as well. However, I’m sure being pregnant is making you even more upset with your hormones and all but at the end of the day it’s rude!
He’s selfish. My nephew would do the same thing. Not even call and ask if I want something.
He is selfish I would say something
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Ah heck no! I get upset when my husband walks in with a fountain pop when he knows that’s my favorite. I would just eat off his plate and annoy him to death until he gets the hint he better buy you some lol
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Maybe he assumes that you and your son have already eaten at the house.
A little communication goes a long way.
Why not just tell him if you want him to pick you up something on the way home.
Pregnancy hormones can make us crazy and not think of logical solutions. 
Settle down Momma and tell the man when you want a large fry and a vanilla shake. Lol He’s not a mind reader.
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How rude of him! My partner always brings me snacks or whatever home he would never eat take away in front of me and not bring me anything I’d say something for sure !
I’d snatch the bag and be like ‘omg thank you how did you know?!’
He’ll call the next time
Yup, I have people that do things like that too and it bothers me cause I buy for everyone single one when they’re at my house and they don’t even bother to ask if I want them to bring me something or my kiddo. Smh. Rude asses.
Inconsiderate but also can’t read your mind if you are hungry just ask him to pick you up something on his way home. He is probably just tired and figures you have already eaten 
Tell him off and ask him to keep u in mind when he orders food cuz u get hungry at that at night too. He probably just doesn’t think lol not in a bad way but men need to be reminded to be thoughtful sometimes.
I get mad when my husband forgets the kids when he brings food home. But if I was pregnant it would be WW3 if ge forgot food for me as well. He can eat in the car before he gets home if he didn’t want to buy for everyone
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You gotta communicate.
That’s wrong!! My hubby will always bring food home for everyone if he is bringing something home to eat! You need to tell him if he ain’t brining anything for your kid and you he needs to eat it outside.
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Oh hell no its not you, its 100% him
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What if he thinks you already ate because you’re home?
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Ask him to bring you guys food
Rude! I’m not even pregnant and I’d fucking snap. Don’t make him any food next time you cook, and make sure it’s his favorite meal
I think you should talk to him about and let him know that it bothers you. Men don’t always think of things like that. And yes, hormones can make everything seem magnified. What you’re feeling is completely normal.
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My husband is the same you have to tell them they arnt like us mom who are nurturers at heart and think of others. They only think of themselves so don’t take it personal is what I’ve learned
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Hello your wife’s pregnant I think both spouses just need to sometimes treat each other Be considerate and Just being mindful of the other n other people and Offering and Sharing and giving it’s not that Difficult 
Lol hell yea you have that right. I’m not preggers just fat, but get big mad when mines doesn’t ask if we want something.
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He might be thinking he’s doing you a favor for not expecting you to have a meal for him ready.
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Umm no I’d be ready to fight
You have every right to be upset!!! That is so inconsiderate. My partner always asks even if he’s just making toast
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Tell him. Men are stupid!
Tomorrow order dinner for you and your son . Sit down at the table and enjoy it infront of him
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Thats rude, dont listen to no one saying it isnt