This bothered me, I was taught if you don’t have enough for all especially your spouse and child, and you are due, dont bother coming in with anything, My siblings are the same and their kids and also my children are very considered. All the best with bub on the way 
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You need to address it with him. That’s definitely not okay
Voice your concern and if that doesn’t work go and pick at his food! Bet that’ll work real fast😆
We have a rule in our house if u can’t buy for all then don’t bring it home to eat it. That simple
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How do you not even think of your spouse and child when doing so?! I triple check with my husband to make sure he hasn’t changed his mind after I asked the first 2 times
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Have you said anything to him about this ?
Hes an ass hole. Mine always brings us food.
That’s rude. I’d just say something
Be preemptive, make a list of fast food places with what you want him to order from each place, message it to him:+1:t3:
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Wow that is rude as hell you stop for a meal and dont think of your family he dont sound like a keeper in my book
Thatis rude if he just does it an dont ask you. Selfish
Shitt my knows preggo or not, if you don’t bring me my own I get half of his, it’s never usually an issue. But like stated above if you don’t tell him, he might not even realize what he’s doing
He’s rude. Make you and your son dinner one night and eat it in front of him and when he asks where his is be like hmmm maybe you should go order some! Sorry I’m petty I know that ain’t shit but that sucks he does that
Yes, this isn’t a nice thing to do
I’ve had this happen and no you’re not wrong….my current boyfriend always uses me as the reason to go get food, it’s on very rare occasions that he goes and doesn’t include me.
Thats rude to eat infront of someone else and not off them what you are having period.
My man literally wouldn’t even eat in the hospital when I had my epidural cause I couldn’t lol he felt too bad eating in front of me. So we both ate after baby was here.
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Honestly, men don’t even make these considerations most the time. Especially if they’ve been working and are tired - even less brain cells are functioning. Having a conversation with him would most likely clear this up. Especially if it is ticking you off this badly.
I’m also a little confused that if he works nights, he probs gets back too late to be providing dinner to everyone, so maybe that’s why he doesn’t consider it?
If he’s eating in front of you both. Then yes that is rude, he should offer. Or unless he doesn’t think you want anything. Have you asked or spoke to him about this?
the only option is murder
If it were me, I’d take his food from him and eat it myself 
. @36 w ik me, I’d make my kid something quick and had them fed and helped myself to his food 
I work nights as well. Eat on my 1st or even 2nd break later at 12:30pm but never eat before bed. Why the hell would he be so selfish? If I stop at the gas station I’ll buy a 6 peice of donuts and eat maybe 1 or none just for my kids cause I’m lazy and like to sleep and not be bothered lol.
Not right at all! Next time you cook a dinner, only cook for yourself & your child. See how he likes that!!!
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I’m sorry you feel that way but my advice is stop feling sad and tell him you would like for him to ask if you guys want some food too. He might be assuming you don’t want or need food. Now of After I tell him that he still doesn’t then I would be sad/mad. 
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Girl, he works nights. He’s probably thinking he would rather have home cooked food, but he’s tired from working and just wants to fill his stomach and crash. Maybe he doesn’t want to have to ask you to make him something.
Either way, instead of complaining on the internet, just tell him it bothers you. Men are not mind readers. They can’t fix an issue they don’t know exists.
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Oh hell no. You’re about to have a baby too? That is inconsiderate and selfish. Yes , you can ask. But YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE TO!
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I’d be pissed and let it be known im pissed. He would never do that again and if he chose to get it he’d eat it before coming home so as not to feel the wrath of a hungry pregnant woman again!!
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Well he could call you when it gets off work and ask if you and the son want something. Couldn’t be that hard to do.
Or you send him a text saying if you stop and get you something to eat, get me this and that.
nah thats rude if he NEVER asks…
Oh I’d Definitely be pissed, pregnant or not! 
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Girl snatch that food up and split it between you and you’re son simply look at him and say thanks honey for thinking of us bet that’ll teach him
My husband knows better & im not even pregnant lol. If he does get food & not me anything. (Usually while im at work) he doesnt tell me & def doesnt eat infront of me cause he knows ill get salty lol
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I’d be pissed as. If he is so inconsiderate now, what’s he going to be like when the baby is here? Men can be dumb but I doubt anyone is that dumb to not even think of his pregnant wife and child and just get food for himself. Mention it would be nice if he thought to ring you and see if you wanted anything. If it’s still the same i would be thinking real hard about why he’s being so selfish and inconsiderate.
Just tell him for he knows. He can’t read your mind hun.
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He sounds selfish. Doesn’t hurt to at least call you and ask if you want something 
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That’s very selfish of him. Next time you cook dinner just cook for you and your son and ask him how he likes it.
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Yeah, I would just go and take some of his food! Maybe if you eat half he will start remembering. Yeah that’s a dick move.
My boyfriend wouldn’t dare. My 4 year old would tell him something before I would even get it out of my mouth if he got some food and didn’t get her anything 
I think me any my boyfriend are kinda stuck up each others butts lol but no matter how the relationship is though I couldn’t imagine getting food to eat and bringing it into my home and not asking my significant other or child if they were hungry or wanted anything…Ide feel terribleeee… not to mention your growing a child and I know I’m constantly hungry while I’m pregnant
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It’s bad enough to overlook his spouse but who the hell eats in front of their child and doesn’t offer to bring them something
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He is being rude. He could definitely think about you and your son.
Tell him you’re hungry too and his food only intensifies it. Snax for you snd your son would be awesome- a treat for all of you. Modern family dinner.
Just tell him what to get you guys. Then write a note and text.
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My husband always asks me if I’m hungry, and even if I’m not he always brings me a snack anyway. I’d be so pissed if he didn’t at least offer to bring food.
Whether you both are hungry or not he needs to ask if you want anything… I always call and ask if I’m out & about never just come home with food for myself
Always ask when out of the house if your partner needs/wants anything
Dude tell Him if ur going thru the drive thru we want shit to end of story!! Esp prego food is hella important!
Effed up that he doesn’t at least ask you if you want something. My man would never get himself some thing without calling to see if I wanted anything, same goes for me when I pick something up.
It’s not the hormones girl, I’d be mad too💯
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I’d be mad too. That’s inconsiderate especially if he’s waiting till he’s home to eat it. Now if he ate on his way home, then that’s a diff story but he should at least offer. My husband knows if he stops somewhere to always ask if I want something 9/10 it’s yes lmao so I do the same if I stop.
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Ya thats rude and if I was prego I’d be made. My man worked nights during our second pregnancy and he always brought me home snacks or treats from his job.
I personally grew up with calling before coming home and seeing who all wants something to eat otherwise walking in the house with only for oneself is hella rude and if I were pregnant like you I would snatch whatever food out of his hand and take the biggest bite ever out of it then smack him in the face with it
Lord it would be his last meal…babe you order something for you and the boy
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Sounds like a complete asshole …don’t see this relationship lasting
My husband would never do that especially when I was pregnant. I would be hella pissed and probably throw his food in his face!!
I’m not even pregnant and would be pissed! Anaru Selwyn you’d be catching these hands 
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Nope straight up rude and disrespectful
Text him before he leaves work and tell him if hes picking up food could he bring some for all of you
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I’d let him know it was bothering you and if things don’t change after it was communicated than yes you have every right to be pissed off. If I was pregnant I’d be mad too though hormonal can be off the chain
its just inconsiderate, even when me and my kids dad broke up we still offer each other fast food ! and we always get for the babies. its not about being hormonal or you not expressing yourself its the principle of he isnt even thinking about you guys
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Oh that’s divorce type stuff right there. Food. No ma’am 
That’s cheating level
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Coming from a man, a man with no children, he is selfish. He grew up that way. Do not expect him to change for your son, or him to do much for u or ur son. Speaking the truth for u now so u are awake now. Not then. Be safe.
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That’s rude to not even ask
I would side eye the whole relationship and man.
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I’d be mad regardless of whether I was pregnant, that’s rude & thoughtless for him to just get food for himself and not think of the rest of his family. That’s so selfish. If I’m going out to eat I’m getting something for my hubby too! I’d never go out to eat without thinking of him and likewise, that’s just mutual respect. Does he just expect you guys to not eat at all, If he’s eating out that night? I’d feel so bad if I brought food home and excluded anyone!
Maybe message him and ask him to bring you something if you are craving something 
I do that all the time trust me his a Man and 9/10 times that’s the last thing on his mind!
I would never purchase food and bring it home in front of others. I would eat it prior to getting home or bring everyone sone
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It’s rude. I’m not pregnant and my man still brings me food
Pretty selfish on his part but think about it, he must have been raised to not be considerate of others. Sometimes you never really know people until you live with them. Explain to him, how selfish and hurtful and uncaring this is. He may not know. He may know and just face it, he probably won’t change.
I think it’s a guy thing honestly. Not all but I think they’re less likely to even think about it. Just tell him you’d appreciate it if he asked if you’d like anything when he’s stopping somewhere and he probably will.
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Lol maybe he just doesnt know to ask, or maybe he grew up with his dad doing that and mom never said anything. Definitely bring it up to him. It’s always rude to get food and not offer but some people just dunno.
Girl cook differ for u and you son and when he ask where his is just say oh I forgot like when u forget us in the mornings I’m petty
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It’s rude not to call and ask or offer, yes.
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Um, is this really a thing? This has to be a joke, right?
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Did you mention it? My man would never do that
sounds like he is a very self centered person . I pray he shows more compassion for you and your son .
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He be wearing his meal as a new fashion statement !!
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My ex-husband did that to me when I was pregnant with our first child and then our second. It only got worse from there. Hence the “ex” part. Sorry doll - it’s selfish and beyond hurtful.
Definitely tell him that’s so inconsiderate of him. You guys are his family he should be texting and asking if you guys ate or not yet before even thinking of ordering himself food. That’s just silly definitely red flag for me. Lol
He is only thinking of his self🤬
Speak up! Most men don’t have a clue.
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My husband does this all the time. And I hates it. lol. Just don’t worry about what he is eating and get your own. Doordash the shit out of it. lmao
If you do the laundry just do yours and your son’s and when he brings up why his isn’t being done, just tell him oh I thought we were just taking care of ourselves and if he asks what you mean you just tell him that’s how you feel when he brings food and doesn’t think about you guys.
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No girl. That is not okay. That’s just being selfish.
Wow is all I can say
RUDE at the least he should call or text you to see if you both want anything
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Have you tried telling him you would like him to bring food home for you also?? He is not a mind reader- you said he works nights maybe he thinks you already ate by the time he gets home
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Selfish self centered asshole. I was married to one of those. We’d be out and he’d literally stop to go in a store and come out with a drink / etc for only himself. I’d have to take the kids in to get something. And I learned not to ask him because you’d get cussed out . Fuck him and his short ass selfish bitch ass self. Long gone.
That’s Hella rude and I don’t think it’s a guy thing my husband asks if I want something no matter where be goes
Mine always asks if I want something , regardless of where he’s going lol . Liquor store, fast food restaurant, grocery store lol
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Throw that boi away!!!
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He’s rude and if I were you I’d say something to him!
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My hubby works thirds as well. Let him know how you’re feeling but try to remember at that point for him he’s just ready to eat and go to bed. His brain is ready for sleep so he may not have even thought of that, just bring it up & if it still continues then take it to a little more extent of being upset.
Rude. He eats, you eat. You eat, he eats.
Honestly thats rude… My husband always calls and asks if I want anything and vice versa! Its just common sense i guess to think of your significant other especially if you know they’re just sitting at home. Yes girl you deserve to be upset, say something to him! At least have a talk about it! I would definitely say something my husband
Send him a text before he gets off work with “Let me know if you stop by for food, (or get me something)…too tired to make dinner. Love you”
That’s rude as fuck!
My husband works nights. Gets food every single morning and ALWAYS brings home something for me and the kids. Never do I have to ask for him too.
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Naw, not hormones. That’s straight crap. He’s about HIM. If you can live with that
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did you or your son eat dinner earlier in the night?
That’s messed up and selfish
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He probably never thought of asking. Tell him next time to bring you and your son some too.
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