Send him a text before he leaves work asking if he stops to get himself some food will he get some for you and your son too. If he doesn’t, selfish and inconsiderate. But he also can’t read your mind. So if you make it known you’re hungry too and he still only gets for himself, go crazy pregnant lady on him. I’d take my husband’s food if he tried that with me 
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What an asshole thing to do.
That’s being selfish if he’s about to buy food all it takes is a simple phone call to ask if you want any 
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That’s wrong!! My husband always made/makes sure to bring me food if he is stopping. But tell your husband how you feel.
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He needs to learn if mama ain’t happy nobody is happy!!
Better not come home without checking on y’all first,pregnant or not.I mean Damn!!!
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Selfish! My Husband did this once, Only once!
My husband brings me food even when I tell him not to! Your husband main priority that his wife and unborn child are cared for. He is selfish!
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Why don’t you just ask him to see if you want anything next time??
hes an asshole…i bring my dog something if i get me something…hes going to eat half anyway
Baby I cried once when my boyfriend didn’t bring me chicken nuggets when I was pregnant and he got them on his break at 3 am 
I only knew because he didn’t clean his garbage out of the car. You’re totally justified in feeling the way you’re feeling
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Plain rude not ok, should ask or at least grab you two a dessert treat of some sort…
Text him to bring you food and what you want. He probably doesn’t know that it’s bothering you if you haven’t said anything to him
He sounds very selfish and rude!
Damn! Naahh. He should at least ask. Like… any decent human knows you and the baby have feelings and hunger just like anyone else. I never take food into anywhere unless i have enough for everyone or have called ahead of time and asked. I feel like its a unwritten law lol. ESPECIALLY with kids.
Thats literally NOT OK. Even if you’re not pregnant. Thats so inconsiderate.
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The fact that people are even defending him. Hes not an idiot.
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What really, no that’s not cool. I’d be pisssedd
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That’s not okay! My hubby would never do this, even if I said I didn’t want anything he’d still get me something.
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My husband ALWAYS brings me and my kids food no matter what time it is. He always feels guilty eating without us. Especially if I was pregnant he would always ask me what I am craving when he would get late night food runs. You aren’t over reacting. He is being inconsiderate.
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It’s inconsiderate. He should offer for you and your son. Otherwise don’t bring it inside. 
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If he works nights is he coming home with this food at meal time? I assume it’s not at dinner time. If it is he should think of you. It’s weird to me your not making a meal and all eating at the same time. I feel like we don’t know the whole story.
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prego or NOT that’s rude and selfish
Women are never happy. If he’d be getting off from work and going home demanding you to cook him dinner or to have dinner ready for him you’d be complaining, if he goes home and don’t bother you at all and takes care of his own dinner you are complaining, if he goes to have dinner somewhere else you’d be complaining.
Instead why don’t you have dinner ready for him?
I’ve been pregnant before with a 9 pound baby, and I was still pretty capable of cooking and working. So… 
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My mom said she always knew when dad ordered food on his lunch break bc he would come home with food for the family after work. My dad when I went to live with him if we got burgers we took my mom and 2 other sisters burgers too this being a decade or more after their divorce. He was a heck of a man so basing my attitude about it in my daddy I’d say it’s sad he can eat in front of yall and not feel a thing wrong with it bc my dad couldn’t even eat out on his lunch without going back and ordering after work for the family. If he didn’t have it in his pocket for everyone he declined entirely even when they’d never know it he would…thats integrity and love how I know it.
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When mine does this which he does often. We will all go out together and I will only buy me and my 3 boys food. Not him! It’s usually when he doesn’t have money to get his own food too. Just to prove a point.
If you’ve already told him that it bothers you and that from now on you want him to bring you and your son something, and he STILL doesn’t then he’s an asshole.
If you haven’t voiced this to him, he’s still kind of an asshole for not even thinking of asking you guys, but you should atleast tell him it’s bothering you.
My hubby would satisfy my cravings when I was pregnant
ITS A MUST !!!
WHAT A DICK
I asked my husband how I would react if he did this and his response you would kill me lol. I think it’s insanely rude to bring food around people who you know would want some. I can eat a cheeseburger in 2 min on the drive home it’s what moms do if he doesn’t want to spend money on you he can too and you go get your own. I would honestly cry food is my love language and It makes me so sad when someone doesn’t get any. I also get real mean hungry.
Rude as all hell…maybe when you cook at home when your all home make something for you and the kids, and leave nothing for him. Maybe then he’ll get the hint.
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What if he’s ordering because you’re not cooking 
my husband always prefers home cooking over take out 
I don’t know maybe he thinks you ate, ask him, communicate.
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house rule growing up… bring enough for everybody OR eat it all where you bought it (no evidence )
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That is the most selfish shit I’ve ever heard. Your husband sounds like an a$$
Did u ever asked him?If u did he is a…hol!
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Super inconsiderate since you are pregnant smh
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I would think it was rude. I always ask if anyone wants anything before I come home whether I got myself food or not. And that means I’ll go to the store, restaurants, wherever. It is common courtesy.
I’d be pissed, that’s inconsiderate, how would he feel if you did that, that’s just rude
Ask him to bring you and your son something. Easy to solve.
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He is being rude. He should offer to bring you guys home something as well.
Have you talked to him about it? Or asked him to bring you some food as well? If you haven’t, then I don’t think you can be upset. He’s not a kind reader. If you have done both of those things, then yes I’d be upset.
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It seems like since you are home and he works nights, he’s under the assumption you’ve already eaten. I’m sure if you asked him to bring you food he would. Closed mouths don’t get fed.
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That would bother me too because any time I’m heading home I call and ask if my so wants anything. I feel like that’s unthoughtful on his part to say the least
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Nah that’s a bit inconsiderate and rude.
Does he know it bothers you? Unfortunately guys can’t read minds & they don’t always think about what you would like 24/7. Just ask him to grab you something every time or to ask you.
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See, the first time he would have done that the next night I would call him when I knew he was off and tell him my order.
It’s selfish of him. To buy only for himself and eat in front of you and a child. I would be mad to! I’m in no way making an excuse for him but do you cook? Does he buy groceries? If he’s coming home with it I assume it’s dinner. You should cook for your family. But your husband should be thoughtful and considerate of you also. Time to call him out.
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Tell him next to order for 3
Hell no! His ass should call home and see if anyone else in the household would like something. That’s quite rude of him!!
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Hell no, so ignorant.
Communicate. Do you do it?
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My pregnant butt would make him go back and get me a little something (kids too).
How does he know to bring you food if you don’t tell him? He probably just sees it as “you’ve been home you’ve probably already eaten”
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Oh heck no! He should definitely ask
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I could not imagine my husband not bringing me food. He is the whole reason I am 50 lbs overweight! Lol but you said he works nights… when does he get home? 6 am? Probably doesn’t think about it. Men tend to be very simple creatures and just don’t think about that stuff. You must say something. Granted if you have already said something numerous times and he does not get the point. Then Uber eats or grub hub. Get your own food. We are strong and independent get your own food and f him! Good luck!
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Man that’s a little rude in my opinion lol but it might be because if I order food for myself I like to eat it before I get home. If I’m planning on sitting down at home and eating it I’m probably going to at least get something I know my family members like, if not call and ask.
Basically it said at the house all day with your son to where you could make something to eat he’s probably tired and wants to come home and go to bed probably same thing as if you was out do you bring him back food you should not be getting upset or mad about that because I know of a bunch of people that would do that there’s no sense in getting mad because he brings something to eat and he eats it in front of you if you’re hungry you should have done got up and fixed it for you and your son that’s just wrong
Maybe he doesn’t know it bothers you, I’d talk to him about it.
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I’d be a little upset, too. It’s inconsiderate of him, but I was raised to never eat in front of anyone without feeding them, as well. If my husband gets something for him, he buys for me and the kids.
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I still say the same thing he said there and worked all night does that make him have a responsibility to have to worry about whether he’s got to get her food when he brings it home when she’s sitting there with the food and could have done ate somebody works all night they’re ready to go home and go to sleep so he more likely grab something to eat so that he can get get home eat and go to bed and I’ll have to worry about cooking it or nothing I’m sure she can go out times and she probably won’t bring him back nothing and if it’s cuz she’s pregnant that’s not an excuse she could steal have the food made and eat
The food be all over the floor😂nobody’s eating
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Lol was he not raised right or something? #1 it’s rude to eat in front of others that aren’t. #2 its also rude asf to not ask you if you’d like anything
Straight up needs his ass slapped for that shit lol fuck that
He probably not thinking cause men are simple minded. Bring it up that you may want something from time to time and if you have already talked about it with him the he is just rude.
So maybe it is a bit extra to be offended but you know what solves that? Telling him. Simple concept, but it does work.
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Working nights takes its toll. My husband used to work nights. I was just grateful for his sacrifice to our family. Men are not mind readers. Tell him you would like him to grab something for you on his way home. Communication is everything!
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When I was home all day I fed myself. It was no big deal if hubby brought food home working late and over night. But then again, I always had something made that he just needed to reheat before bed too just in case.
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My SON is 19 years old and would never even do this . I’m a single mom and if he ever stops for food , even at his age always brings me some !
So for a husband to
Eat in front of you and his kid is sad asf !
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Dude you have every right to be mad. My man knows damn well not to come home with food for him and not me and my daughter even if we told him we don’t want anything
No excuses, he should make the call and ask if you or his son want something to eat!
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That is just rude and selfish.
Have you ever told him that???
I don’t get this “eating in front of you” stuff. Big deal. You’re an adult. If you want him to get food for you too, say so. If it’s a problem while he’s eating, leave the room.
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Yeah that’s some bullshit, definitely rude of him
I’d just start by communicating to him; lightly tell him that after work when he gets food (if he does), to get some for you and your son, as well. He’s probably not intentionally not getting you guys food. He just got off work and is hungry.
I’ve done it before where I’ve grabbed something for myself and then realized I didn’t ask or think about my husband. And then offered to go get him something or just remembered for next time. He’s done that as well.
ur being extra. chill out
No you never have to ask a man to bring you food and sits and eats in front of you and his child.
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My husband always gets me food when he does and if he doesn’t then he eats in his car so I don’t know. That would hurt my feelings too
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No that’s not hormones. That’s just him being shitty
Yeah thats fucked up. My husband did that ONCE because he thought my heavily pregnant and tired ass was going to cook a full meal for myself because we didn’t have any fast options. He never did it again after I chewed his ass lol.
I agree he should ask, but maybe he’s not aware that you feel this way. Communicate that to him and see what happens.
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Um I’d be irritated too lol.
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First there is information missing here…
You said on his home from night shift so what time is that 11pm, 12am, 2am or 6am?
Is it at a time that one would assume you guys should have eaten?
Does he not call incase you are sleeping and doesnt want to wake you?
Maybe talk to him about it before a group of strangers???
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The biggest fight I’ve ever gotten into with my husband was when he went to get food and didn’t bring me or my son any. To me, that’s so disrespectful. In my house we all eat or no one eats.
I would say you should talk to him about it and make sure he knows how you feel.
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Yes, he should offer but did you even communicate that to him? Men don’t think the same way women do and see things like this as harmless. He figured he comes home at the time he does and expects you guys to have eaten. I understand you’re pregnant and all but seriously, communication. If you know he always buying something pick up the phone, text and say hey babe if you bringing food mind picking me up something?
Its rude in my book
Ask him about it
Nah you’re not being overly sensitive in my opinion. That’s just selfish and rude not to think of his family and you shouldn’t have to ask him to please include you. He should just do it. My man works late at night and if he ever stops to get tacos (because that’s what we love late at night lol) he ALWAYS NO MATTER WHAT asks me if I wants some. I would be very upset if he didn’t ask me. And I would do the same for him!
Not considerate about u guys. I’ll be upset too
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I would be very upset if I made dinner and he brought food home instead of eating what I made. If it’s late I probably already fed myself and kids so it wouldn’t bother me. If i wanted something I would call or text him earlier and tell him what to get for me and kids
I think that is very thoughtless and mean!
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He should call and ask… It’s respext
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I’d be ripped. And angry cleaning and slamming EVERYTHING until he asks what’s wrong (mine has learned to give me 45 minutes to cool down during this) and then blow up about his being an inconsiderate buttwad and then start crying(if pregnant).
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Same boat 
23 weeks. I just cook some steak while he eats his crap lol.
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That’s fucked up. I’d be pissed- pregnant or not. 
I’d be irritated even not pregnant. I bet he wouldn’t be getting a plate when I cook.
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Maybe tell him to let you know if he is gonna stop somewhere. Sometimes my hubby grabs food after work and rarely asks if I want something. But then again while he is at work I get food without him too. Communication my dear. Some men are just oblivious
Have you ever asked or talked to him about it??
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Ooh no id be hangry too. My man knows to bring food as an offering before talking😅 jk but still rude of him.
I’m not married nor have kids. But every time my boyfriend is on his way home from work he calls me and asks what I want, I do the same as well. We care for each other’s Heath, but I guess not all men are the same when it comes to feeding their S/O some care, some say get your own. Talk to him and ask him why he does that, if it hurts your feelings, let him know. 
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I think there is a lot of missing details to give credible input. But if you’re a stay at home mom and aren’t making him food to take to work or taking him any food then I’d say you’re being kind of selfish because if you’re home then you should be making food for all of you. However, if you both work then that’s different, you should be providing for each other in that aspect
Very rude! rude rude rude
I think it’s thoughtless but you may just need to tell him to call and offer
to pick up food for
Everyone.
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I will be upset too but perhaps since you are at home and he works night, he might be under the assumption you have already eaten. Talk to him about it.